larryking540:


I once left a lady Bec she told me she wasn't interested in having sex with me ,when she came to my apartment , but guess what ,I never kept on persuading her that very moment,when she got home ,she wrote on her status,it's only a foolish man that toys with lady feeling ...

I had to reinvite her again ,this time I kw I must not give up ,I must see the pants down ,and I had it eventually ,na every day I day hear ,are u at home? am coming


so my question is was I foolish or cool to still have my way into her panties or I would have let her go , acting like a mumu man ?

different strokes for different folks.. That's the lady's pattern..
As for me.. If i wan do.. I no dey form.. If i talk say i no do.. I no do. If u force ur way.. U don buy market..and u go pay full price without discount.

Powerfly:


If i want to have sew with a guy.. I won't show up on my period.
Now.. Even if i'm not on my period.. I'm always vocal about my desires.. Say i like u..no mean say i wan Bleep. If u do anyhow..u go collect.

why u go first go hux on your period?
I will be frank with u most did I say most many nigeria ,I will be very specific ,are not vocal about their desires ,I have seen ,heard and completely given up on that ,una like make we day drag ,
even other Africa nationality men have told me before and I couldn't say it's a lie , Bec u and I kw say na Tru .

if a guy tells u I like you ,u suppose kw say he wants to extend relationship with u na ,abi u want make he day use am sing song?

Sundrus:
Bcuz na wetin many girls don experience for 9ja. Most 9ja guys too dey mumu when e comes to sex. Them dey always behave as if their lives depend on the towtow. No self control, no self respect, no integrity, no principle, no nothing....just zombies with everlasting erections.

Why you just daga me and a lot of Naija guys like this??
Oga, but make we leave long talk wetin Oluwa create put for t0t0 eh ,no be here!!

Powerfly:


different strokes for different folks.. That's the lady's pattern..
As for me.. If i wan do.. I no dey form.. If i talk say i no do.. I no do. If u force ur way.. U don buy market..and u go pay full price without discount.

u no day form ,,,
I have learnt it the hard way with nigeria ladies ,never be too straight forward,else u will not get anything,
i don't kw you but as far say u be nigeira girl ,I day run from una ,

larryking540:


why u go first go hux on your period?
I will be frank with u most did I say most many nigeria ,I will be very specific ,are not vocal about their desires ,I have seen ,heard and completely given up on that ,una like make we day drag ,
even other Africa nationality men have told me before and I couldn't say it's a lie , Bec u and I kw say na Tru .

if a guy tells u I like you ,u suppose kw say he wants to extend relationship with u na ,abi u want make he day use am sing song?

Nah.. The reason why most ladies aren't vocal about their desires is all because of the level of hypocrisy that runs in a typical Nigerian guy's blood.
Alot of ya'll wants and expects a lady to be open-minded but the truth is.. An average naija guy can't handle an open minded lady.
In foreign countries.. 'Come to my house' means 'come and know my place.
They know how to court a lady.
But here in Naija, they care less about chemistry and knowing the lady better. Na to f*ck.

Dreyton36:


U get sense bro

larryking540:


u no day form ,,,
I have learnt it the hard way with nigeria ladies ,never be too straight forward,else u will not get anything,
i don't kw you but as far say u be nigeira girl ,I day run from una ,

u must have been with a whole lot of women to arrive at this point.
Well! Wahala for straight girls wey dey send una. I care less about una anyway.

Honestly I hate seeing guys disrespecting women
Any man who's got love for their mother at heart won't take women as cheap sex object
I can imagine how some guys find fun in sleeping with girls that are not their girlfriends ,just in the name of being Hot
I'm not tryna say I'm a saint tho , but I don't think it's sane for a man to sleep with a lady he's not sexually attracted to just because you rendered her a helping hand or because she visited you
Girls are humans too with blood flowing through them

Some girls just wanna have fun , there are girls who just prefer hanging out with guys more than females
If a lady asks you for money why not just be bold enough to tell her I don't have, I'm sure she won't kill you

There is nothing like golddigger my brothers , if a lady requests money from you and you think what she needs it for is important why not just help her like helping a fellow human without expecting nothing in return , but NO automatically you're now owing them sex

I know of a girl who always hangs around us every night , she grew up in that area , when we're chilling at a barber shop where we drink and weed she'll be with us , if we're going out to the club she'll go with us and we'll protect her, that doesn't make us simps , it's called SELF RESPECT
And no single guy in our midst has ever made advances towards her , she's busty , tall , beautiful , and she's got a very big ass , to crown it up she's super sexy tbh
And if any guy on our circle likes any babe around and the babe is playing hard to get ,. That babe in our midst will handle her case , she'll befriend the girl as ensure the guy gets her , but that's only when she's sure that he truly love her
That's how it's supposed to be
Knock that thought of pvssy all the time and respect ur name

Pls guy need to learn to respect women , women have to feel more safe around guys , I know some will insult me as usual , asking me if I don't have sex , yes I do , but with my partner ,
My partner is my bitch , my treaure , my wife , and my everything

Pvssy is overrated don't let it ruin you , not all pvssy have grace , there are some pvssy u will bleep you won't know you've just killed ur glory that isn't even big before

Just my opinion for those who choose to listen tho

Durentt:
if you think so. But me I am saying that me asking a woman or anyone for that matter to come visit me doesnt mean I want sex with them please.

And I know it is the same mentality of casual visit for many ladies coming to visit in Nigeria or anywhere in the world. Unless I made it stark clear from the start that I wanted sex

Hello bro, i felt i needed to do a quick reminder 4 u, jxt to let u knw u are gay nd u got no biz with topics like dz.

saasala:
Because that is how it is and that is how it should be.

90% of the time, the guy had previously taken the girl out, spent some money on her and/or rendered some sort of financial assistance to her. Since she is not related to him by blood, nigga needs some sort of compensation so as not to feel like a fool.

90% of the time a guy asks a girl to visit him, he wants sex. 9 out of ten times a lady visits a guy, she has been offered the D.

And isn't just that the norm? Isn't that the way it should be? If I am not taking you out to the restaurant or bar or something and I tell you to come to my house (especially after asking for an urgent 2k, taken you out and spent some money on/for you), should you not know that I want to fvck you?

Na Naija girls dey do shakara na. Oyinbo girl knows that inviting me to your house means we might have sex, she might even be the one to make a move. South Africa and Ghana babes no get chill. If they come to your house and you dont F them they won't pick your calls again.

But trust this Naija babes with their "Its my first visit" Mantra. If you leave them on the first visit, they come with "Its just my second visit", but will keep asking you for money. She will bring her family problems for you to solve as if you be father Christmas.

If you are not my sister and you ask me to solve your financial problems when I was the first to approach you with "Let's date or let's fvck", once I render that help to you, you have instantly been obliged to pay me back with your pussay or you get the fvck out.

I can help ladies randomly without asking for sex in return but not the ones I toasted myself. I toast you, you no gree, you won come turn me to ATM. God punish your entire family and generation.

God bless you bro. I repeat, God bless you a thousand times. This is the most wise comment � on nairaland.com

You just spoke the bitter truth

A lot of ladies and students just love to siphon guys and yet they don't want to make luv.
It's absurd. May God punish all women gold diggers

larryking540:


I once left a lady Bec she told me she wasn't interested in having sex with me ,when she came to my apartment , but guess what ,I never kept on persuading her that very moment,when she got home ,she wrote on her status,it's only a foolish man that toys with lady feeling ...

I had to reinvite her again ,this time I kw I must not give up ,I must see the pants down ,and I had it eventually ,na every day I day hear ,are u at home? am coming


so my question is was I foolish or cool to still have my way into her panties or I would have let her go , acting like a mumu man ?

As the saying goes, “until you try to get sex, that is when you will actually get sex”.
That is the way it works but the way people go about sex this day is really alarming. For God sake how would you not having sex make you a mumu man?
I can’t understand how when people get sex they feel they have been compensated. Sex is just a five minute pleasure and I see some of my guys doing all sort of big stuff for girls.
When they finally have sex, they feel compensated.

To be it is utter stupidity. Gods knows I will never see sex as a compensation for anything I intend to do for a girl, if so, I would go to ashawo joint.

Dreyton36:
Honestly I hate seeing guys disrespecting women
Any man who's got love for their mother at heart won't take women as cheap sex object
I can imagine how some guys find fun in sleeping with girls that are not their girlfriends ,just in the name of being Hot
I'm not tryna say I'm a saint tho , but I don't think it's sane for a man to sleep with a lady he's not sexually attracted to just because you rendered her a helping hand or because she visited you
Girls are humans too with blood flowing through them

Some girls just wanna have fun , there are girls who just prefer hanging out with guys more than females
If a lady asks you for money why not just be bold enough to tell her I don't have, I'm sure she won't kill you

There is nothing like golddigger my brothers , if a lady requests money from you and you think what she needs it for is important why not just help her like helping a fellow human without expecting nothing in return , but NO automatically you're now owing them sex

I know of a girl who always hangs around us every night , she grew up in that area , when we're chilling at a barber shop where we drink and weed she'll be with us , if we're going out to the club she'll go with us and we'll protect her, that doesn't make us simps , it's called SELF RESPECT
And no single guy in our midst has ever made advances towards her , she's busty , tall , beautiful , and she's got a very big ass , to crown it up she's super sexy tbh
And if any guy on our circle likes any babe around and the babe is playing hard to get ,. That babe in our midst will handle her case , she'll befriend the girl as ensure the guy gets her , but that's only when she's sure that he truly love her
That's how it's supposed to be
Knock that thought of pvssy all the time and respect ur name

Pls guy need to learn to respect women , women have to feel more safe around guys , I know some will insult me as usual , asking me if I don't have sex , yes I do , but with my partner ,
My partner is my bitch , my treaure , my wife , and my everything

Pvssy is overrated don't let it ruin you , not all pvssy have grace , there are some pvssy u will bleep you won't know you've just killed ur glory that isn't even big before

Just my opinion for those who choose to listen tho

Bro. You are talking out of context and encouraging all these gold diggers. Why ask a man repeatedly for money if you don't want to have sex.
Although I support the area of sexual purity but why ask a man repeatedly for money if you don't want to have sex.
Seems u never jam all these modern day university students

AND SEND ME YOUR ACCOUNT NUMBER SOUNDS LIKE HEALING TO THEM!

adetayoonas:



Bro. You are talking out of context and encouraging all these gold diggers. Why ask a man repeatedly for money if you don't want to have sex.
Although I support the area of sexual purity but why ask a man repeatedly for money if you don't want to have sex.
Seems u never jam all these modern day university students

Bro remember she's human and girls love money , who doesn't love money, don't you ?

Just tell her you don't have it's that simple , if you give her money then that's ur decision bro
And if u don't give her she'll stop asking you for money cuz she knows you'll never give her

Don't expect a lady to offer you sex , that automatically makes u cheap as a man
Or don't u know women woo guys nowadays and guys still turn them down ?

Powerfly:


I rarely visit too.. But if i know u really want sex.. And you're trying to play smart.. Omoh i go i.v with my period.. Try and rape me.. The both of us will goan greet baba god.

When u say guy, do u mean a girl that behaves guyish, cus i really am nt understanding ur write up, except u're bi

Powerfly:


If u insist on having sex.. I'll tell u it disgust me.. If you force your way.. What happend in 2009 will repeat itself.

Ok... Its easy to threaten till you fall a victim.

Just dont go visiting men you are not sure of. I don talk my own.

laoludavid:

I cannot agree less with you. You don't only hit the nail on the head with a sledge hammer but you spoke nothing but absolute truth. Sense will not kill you

That guy is brilliant and makes good comments.
He just said the bitter truth.
God punish all simps

Silentgroper:
When u say guy, do u mean a girl that behaves guyish, cus i really am nt understanding ur write up, except u're bi

Ya.. I'm bi. 99% into women and 1% into men.

luminouz:


Ok... Its easy to threaten till you fall a victim.

Just dont go visiting men you are not sure of. I don talk my own.

Well.. I wish the guy who's hand i am to fall victim well. Because heaven knows.. I make no empty threats.
Nigerian men can never be trusted.. Who i wan trust laidis?
U guys are like the devil.. White today but black tomorrow.

Powerfly:


Ya.. I'm bi. 99% into women and 1% into men.

Cool.

[quote author=Dreyton36 post=96089469]Honestly I hate seeing guys disrespecting women
Any man who's got love for their mother at heart won't take women as cheap sex object
I can imagine how some guys find fun in sleeping with girls that are not their girlfriends ,just in the name of being Hot
I'm not tryna say I'm a saint tho , but I don't think it's sane for a man to sleep with a lady he's not sexually attracted to just because you rendered her a helping hand or because she visited you
Girls are humans too with blood flowing through them

Some girls just wanna have fun , there are girls who just prefer hanging out with guys more than females
If a lady asks you for money why not just be bold enough to tell her I don't have, I'm sure she won't kill you

There is nothing like golddigger my brothers , if a lady requests money from you and you think what she needs it for is important why not just help her like helping a fellow human without expecting nothing in return , but NO automatically you're

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Visit you say you dey hospital bed abi you born baby.
As a girl, if a guy ever says" VISIT ME" block and delete his number. It's another way of say, I want to Bleep your brains out.
If you are not in the mood to Bleep, just tell him you are not interested. Even ordinary discussion, he won't want cos even before you get there, he would already be up and kicking and ready for wild sex.

I dey respond to ur post as e be say u sound sensible- a rare virtue amongst our ladies nowadays!
If nor be say life don spoil trowey ni, a well brought-up girl has absolutely no biznaze visiting d house of any man whatsoever.

Any man wey get interest for u shd do d needful by visiting ur parents first, pay the bride price, marry u, den una fit take it on from there.

There's a saying that "why buy d cow when u can get d milk free?".
This is what many 21st century girls aka 'slay-kwins' fail to realize.
If d guy can get free access into her vagína, what extra motivation does d guy need to propose marriage to her? Las-las she go turn babymama as hooking a guy with pregnancy nor dey work again.

Without trying to make excuses for some he-goats, men are moved by sight! Any small 'seeing' and the third leg is already 'raising shoulder'. Many women still fail to realize that men and women don't reason alike! Men's arousal i s like light switch- it can turn on in microseconds whereas women's arousal is not so. So for a girl to naively think she will go to a Guy's house (esp d one who fancies her) and think that they are going to be discussing 'zee world' is naivety taken to the next level.

Me I don tork my own, d person wey wan hear, make he/she hear!
Na everybody waka cum by their selves!
I wee not cum and go an kee myself biko!

Evolutionlove:


Well Judging from the Average males mentality most especially Nigerian male babies. I think you are absolutely right. I won't blame you at all, Not your fault, I will absolutely blame most of them for their misfortunes because they think with their DVCK most of the time and always thirsty. Only few Real MEN like "ME" on earth can control their TESTOSTERONE......

Controlling your hormone, that is new.

i wont be surprise, wen u start controlling ur testes nt to produce sperm.

BadRadio:
I can bet one of my hairly brown balls that everytime he asks her to come see him in his house, he wants to dig something... Naija guys are deadly and dangerous !!!

Are u a sierra leonian guy?

Not only in Nigeria. Even in Germany, girls usually visit boy's house for sex.

Dating usually occurs outside the house, maybe restaurants etc.
But once you invite a girl in your apartment and the girl is not your coursemate or your casual friend, then it's mostly for Sex.

Nobody gets time to beat around the bush because time is limited, most people are straightforward with what they want and what they don't want.
Weekends are usually period for hot Sex and meriments after a stressful working days.

Powerfly:


That's because they don't mind.. What if they insisted on not doing nkor?

If they don't want I free them ..
I no even dey force person

robosky02:



Oya we take you dash that Swahili girl

Leave amàka and bola for us

What abt fatima?

Silentgroper:
Controlling your hormone, that is new.

i wont be surprise, wen u start controlling ur testes nt to produce sperm.

Abeg leave dt boy, e be learner.
The person wey nor fit control hin salivary gland from producing saliva in front of savory soup dey talk of controlling hin blokus in front of sexy woman!

richie240:

Abeg leave dt boy, e be learner.
The person wey nor fit control hin salivary gland from producing saliva in front of savory soup dey talk of controlling hin blokus in front of sexy woman!

Hahahaha. D guy is crazy in d skull.

ityP:



Spirit wife . It doesn't exist abeg. As for the HIV stuff, I'm sure he planned to use condom

Please, spare me that. We all know the amount of niggas who bleep raw is three times those that don't. Irresponsible lots known as 'real men' abound today.

illicit:



No now, but it's not their plan jooo....

How you tekno if you don't give it a trial?

Gandollaar:
How you tekno if you don't give it a trial?

lol I Nokia....