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Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by myonekobosay: 1:06pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
I don't believe you jhor. Oya if na true give me the number AnonymousRebec: |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Deepthoughts: 1:07pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:well you have your point,for girls you are already use to it's easy to be blunt,but for new catch how many will accept such bluntness considering the pretence of Nigerian girls, perhaps we should adopt the system of simply making sex a precondition for financial assistance for girlfriends. |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Nobody: 1:08pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Silentgroper:riele is dead !!!! |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by BRATISLAVA: 1:32pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
gimakon:They sound like prostitutes. Or fetish for Nigerian men. Or very poor, those countries aren't all that. Nothing to it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by BRATISLAVA: 1:34pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
pocohantas: Looool. They only like foreign women because they don't bring their cultural patriarchal bullshit to the table when they are with them. Nobody will follow them home if they behave like the judgemental, entitled chimps they are in Nigeria. Just look at how he sounds so entitled to easy sex in Rwanda.Maybe it's even prostitutes. Nigerian men will lieeeeee to suit their ego that they are all that. Must be low level girls who will just fall at the thought of dollars from a foreigner. If it's a Nigerian girl, he will say she's gold digging. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by luminouz(m): 2:07pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Powerfly: Lmaooo@yoir last sentence. You ladies ain't no saints either... Green today...red tomorrow |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Sixfeetbelle: 2:37pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Deepthoughts: Asking your girlfriend to visit you is different. She suppose know scope as per you know... Asking a random girl you just befriended on social media to visit you shows how much of a pvssy-whipped nigga you are. A smart girl can use it to ruin you. perhaps we should adopt the system of simply making sex a precondition for financial assistance for girlfriends Aren't you guys already doing this even now? |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Sixfeetbelle: 2:42pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: @ the bold. My sentiments exactly. Once you're chummy with any guy, they automatically assume you're down for anything and so they drop the annoying "come visit me" phrase. Tufiakwa. 1 Like |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 3:22pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: It doesn't annoy anymore. |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by steffi01(m): 4:20pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Before nkor.. wetin she wan com do before 'epp me fry beans or wat' ? It's what it is, but just that guys should learn to take the word NO for an answer ..if she doesn't want it cos it should be a mutual thing |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Dreyton36: 5:07pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
BigDick70inch: Bro i cab relate, all you gotta do is let them be and focus on your life , those who are good and meant for you will surely locate you and they will love you so genuinely that you'll forget about the bad days 2 Likes |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Freebettingtips: 5:08pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
SILENTandSMART2: It's not always like that, most of them just have that belief that you're after sex especially the ones that have known you for a span of weeks. No matter how good your character or personality is they'll always have that belief. I met a girl during our schools matric earlier this year though she's not a student, callected her number calling and chatting with her for 2weeks then I told her that I'd like to meet with her in SCHOOL cos I've got something to tell (I like her) but she told me that she'll only be coming during next years matric, bro it took me some months before I realized that she actually thought I wanted having sex with her jeez. Though I don't blame her but blame other guys for instilling such beliefs into them 1 Like |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Briller: 5:27pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
lefulefu: My dear, it was not a facebook invitation. Known this guy for years though nothing between us. Travelled for Xmas and ran into him around my town, and as per being a long time client, decided to visit him upon his request. And he had no decorum at all. Just went straight to asking me to go down with him and of course, I refused. Come and see Mike Tyson competition. |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Nobody: 5:31pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Briller:na wao a guy that u knew had to stoop to such level as that aint cool |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by IpobAreFools(f): 5:35pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
luminouz: Lai Mohamed. Are you the same guy that was disgraced on ashewo thread for being broke and wearing faded jeans and all? Truly you can be anything online. #UselessChurchRat 2 Likes |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by luminouz(m): 5:40pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
IpobAreFools: Lmaoooo.... |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by SILENTandSMART2: 5:55pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Freebettingtips: You're right with dat what I'm referring to is those that are my friends, Normally no normal girl will not think dat you wanna forkkk her ,as of your case because you met each other recently , only prostitute and unserios girl will follow you, though you don't have bad intention Despite the fact that some get a close friend which is a girl and they have been together for years, she can't still trust him, I'm talking about close friends not a new girl at all 1 Like |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Freebettingtips: 6:12pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
SILENTandSMART2: Yeah my female friends won't think of that should I ever ask them to visit me. Like you said should a girl who is ur friend think that you're trying to screw her by inviting her over, it only means that she knows you're that type of guy |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Mftivi: 6:34pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
21cents:Onye mgbu � 1 Like |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Adrian9(m): 6:41pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
WoundedLamb:Mbok ask dem o! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Tvibes001(m): 7:41pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
21cents:WORD. THEY CAME FOR DEEP FEEL BRO. |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by SILENTandSMART2: 7:44pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Freebettingtips: Straight up ✌️ True talk That's how the thing be 1 Like |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Tango123: 7:56pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Powerfly: Some men have sex with women on periods without minding |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Deepthoughts: 8:16pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Oh no!, certainly I can't ask a random girl I just met to visit me,I have got to size her first,but the initial point wasn't about some random girl, as for your last question I suppose you are a lady,how should it be then?. |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Sixfeetbelle: 8:29pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Deepthoughts: Define "random girl" so I'm sure we're on the same page? Cause guys I didn't even go on one single date with told me to come visit them. As in guys I only knew for like three weeks. My last line was answering your initial thoughts on whether guys should adopt "sex for financial assistance" on women. And I pointed out that it's a normal for guys nowadays. No nigga is dating a girl he ain't bleeping right now. If he can't bleep her, he can't help her financially. |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by saasala(m): 8:56pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
greypencils:I won't rape her nor force her but I will make a move. If she does not give in, I will leave her alone, block her number and never talk to her again...then count my lost (If she don chop me before) and move on 1 Like |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Deepthoughts: 9:19pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Those guys you hadn't even gone on a date with asking you to visit them,did they toasted you for a relationship or they were guys chance just brought you together,i mean if they hadn't toasted you n define their feelings n intent towards you then it's really bad but if they had toasted you n you had consented n perhaps chatting then they should be bold enough explain to you the purpose of the visit whether it's just for you to know their abode for future visits or it's for visit with the happy ending,guys render financial help to ladies they are not dating it's nothing new but for a girl that a guy had toasted n they are dating it's only when the girl begins to play the guy that most guys would switch to the bleep for cash mode.A random girl is a girl you just met n hasn't been quite familiar with. |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Sixfeetbelle: 10:09pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
Deepthoughts: We were at talking stage as per friends when they dropped their come visit me. No toasting, no dates, nothing. Twice sef so it's not as if I'm not confused. And you know the funny thing: once I didn't give in to the sex, they just slowly but surely ghosted me. Clear evidence just how randy they were. Now that I think back at it, na overfriendliness led to those encounters. I was open-minded and so we talked about sexuality with such freedom, you know? Anyway as based on say I don gather experience, if you no be my fiancée, come visit me na impossicant where I dey. As for the money issue, gone are the days when men rendered financial help without wanting anything in return. I remember having random men pay for my cab fare when I was growing up without them even asking for my name. Na early 2000s I dey refer to ooh. The minute we enter 2010, men dem stopped and one guy in a midst of 100 men isn't enough to convince me otherwise. |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by Deepthoughts: 5:58am On Nov 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:That was bad of those guys, that's why I don't support the idea of keeping opposite the sex with the possibility of sexual attraction as just friends it most likely lead to issues,we can relate with each other but on strict levels with boundaries in our actions and discussions,if I'm romantically attracted to you then I have to quickly let you know but some guys may be for lack of confidence will just be infatuating n foolishly try to take advantage of a visit situation which mostly end in disaster but again if such a guy ask you over you should asked him what for.As for the helping, guys still do but be I must say it's difficult for such help to go the way of matured ladies looking well turnout due to doubts n avoidance of embarrassment,I have been denied help too even as a man from my fellow man simply because I was well turnout but asking for help, this is common when the intending helper doesn't know you well n I don't really blame them. |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by ityP(m): 11:19am On Nov 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Nothing bad if "come visit me" mean "come have sex" with me. As long as the babe get choice, it's all good. Forget about abuse, from time immemorial, if you ask girl make she come your house, you dey expect say something go sup. If not, why not take her out, why must it be your house? Let's stop deceiving ourselves abeg. And I'd have you know that no one does random sex like Americans. A girl who agrees to go visit a single guy don dey plan say dey guy go make move |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by ityP(m): 11:24am On Nov 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I see nothing wrong here. There's no reason why I'd stay put at an ATM that isn't dispensing cash. The earlier you realize that virtually all guys care about na to knack; except that guy wey don dey plan to marry. Even that particular one that is forming good boy, inviting you to his house and not attempting sex wants to knack you. He isn't confident enough to ask |
Re: Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!! by ityP(m): 11:26am On Nov 17, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: This is what I'm expecting every girl to understand. If guy no be your boyfriend or fiancé and he invites you to his house, except you sef want to have sex, don't honour his invite. More often than not, the said dude would ghost you and that's a good thing. He isn't serious about you |
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