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IamGreen1:
We wey marry one nko

Did you marry from NL?

omooba969:
I'm praying for you as well but I think your case is beyond redemption.

can you not make any sensible comment on your own

omooba969:
Many lovely ladies here and I've met one actually, she's beautiful, so cool and exciting.

hmm really? well lets hope this beautiful,cool and exciting babe no carry ur matter come here then

lefulefu:
oh u sabi nl hahaa
and before that there was one with one female nairalander who housed a male nairlander and the male nairalander spent a whole month in her house eating all her food and becoming a liability to her
i have forgotten the lady"s moniker

See casting.

lefulefu:
hmm really? well lets hope this beautiful,cool and exciting babe no carry ur matter come here then

You seem like a gossip and for a man, it's very bad. Just stop reteirating rubbish here and there. It makes you come across as a sissy. Meh ka nwoke mechi tu onu gi. Fia!

lefulefu:
hmm really? well lets hope this beautiful,cool and exciting babe no carry ur matter come here then

Naaaah she's cool like that, she would know I'm referring to her if she sees my comments - she'll just be blushing.

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ume1000:
can you not make any sensible comment on your own

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omooba969:
See casting.

thats why i love romance section.its a hilarious section .babe said the guy claimed he was a business man of sorts and needed to come to her town to engage in one contract and if she could provide a space for him.dude ended up eating all her food and spent more than a week dere .some nl guys for here to dey fall their hand abeg

CalliDora1:
You seem like a gossip and for a man, it's very bad. Just stop reteirating rubbish here and there. It makes you come across as a sissy. Meh ka nwoke mechi tu onu gi. Fia!

omooba969 knows i am just joking with him

CalliDora1:
You seem like a gossip and for a man, it's very bad. Just stop reteirating rubbish here and there. It makes you come across as a sissy. Meh ka nwoke mechi tu onu gi. Fia!

Can you kindly translate please coz I believe it must be something serious.

lefulefu:
omooba969 knows i am just joking with him

no, it's not About him but the other people's stories you're discussing with him.

Anyways, say all you want. Not your fault.

lefulefu:
thats why i love romance section.its a hilarious section .babe said the guy claimed he was a business man of sorts and needed to come to her town to engage in one contract and if she could provide a space for him.dude ended up eating all her food and spent more than a week dere .some nl guys for here to dey fall their hand abeg

Some guys though... SMH.

omooba969:
Can you kindly translate please coz I believe it must be something serious.

Amebo face front.

CalliDora1:
no, it's not About him but the other poeples stories you're discussing with him.

Anyways, say all you want. Not your fault.

Calm down na...haba!

CalliDora1:
Amebo face front.

Looool . . Wahala dey o!

CalliDora1:
no, it's not About him but the other people's stories you're discussing with him.

Anyways, say all you want. Not your fault.

they posted their stories here just as u

taaaa urgent 2k crew in disguise

pocohantas:
People ask that question out of concern, not because they want to open a fast food kitchen for you. Just good ol concern. If you don’t like it, open your mouth and tell him to stop asking you.

We are here to talk about what he thinks, which prompted his actions- not what I think.

Once again, I never said you are guilty. I said you are a victim of stereotyping. You are quite presumptuous...

Gracias

after observing your comments on this thread, I'm following you for real.

NOwazobia:
Presumption is quite bad.
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The guy may be wanting to help but helpless himself, so he may have decided to take a break due to the burden of shame that weighed on him that instance (it is very common among introverted people).
you never inquire from him but went ahead to conclude (and even posted it on the public space) from your own rather narrow presumption, therefore, maybe judging him falsely.
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he made a mistake by even initiating such friendship initially.

You're very smart.

Michdaf:
I don't normally do this before but I am forced to because op and most commenting really misunderstood me. Yeah am the guy. I had to create this new account to hid my identity. Am Christian and everything I said and did I did with good intentions. Am not the type of guys that will blank or reject her because of money. I really wanted to her then. Infact one the reason I back peddled was because I couldn't assist then. She pose to me then like she was truly in need and I felt ashamed of myself. Not knowing she was lying. She could tell from my intentions then that I meant well. I was going through a lot of this then. Some of which the op knew about. I had this issue that landed me in court. Though she didn't know about the court issue. Am this type of person if am going through a ruff part, I don't like disturbing others. I keep things to myself. We just knew each other, and I cannot be sharing all this with you. If the op notice then, I wasn't if commenting on nl then. I was reserve in everything. Since

Sorry Bro. you shall scale through.

chronique:
I don't mean to insult you but it appears some of you don't understand how silly you guys sound sometimes. How were you expecting the young man to know you were fasting when you didn't tell him? Is he a witch? Your own gender is correcting you that you are at fault and you are still doing strong head that you have no fault... If I call you 3 days in a row and you tell me you haven't eaten and you can't explain why you have not eaten when I ask, I'd simply assume you are tryna be crafty with me and I detest crafty people with a passion. They ain't no different from idiots in my view.

for the last sentence alone, lets be friends.

YourCoffin:
Madam was watering ground for the normal urgent 2k. Guy man saw through it and jakpa.

Kpele dear. As you dey avoid men's burden na so wise guys dey dey begin avoid women's burden

Abi you thnk all the advice they get here no dey enter their head

dont mind her, that is how she will not eat till 40 days..
Urgent 2k crew are everywhere.

Mac12:
I met a great dude here

tell us more about him

PhillipPHD:
Keep hand picking unnecessarily. Evening newspaper go soon reach.

Holding onto some silly dealbreakers may rob you of an actual great person. Later you’ll wonder were all the good men are.

Breaking off a budding friendship on an unfounded assumption.

you made my day..... Kudos

CalliDora1:
Helloooo.. what do you mean by did she ask? Ask for what exactly? All I want to know is why he stopped calling and chatting and not why he didn't offer to help or not. Please!

Stop playing on our intelligence, he stopped calling probably becos he noticed moodiness on your part,,a gurl who as not eaten for three days can't be jovial or her usual self
There is an adage in yoruba that says dog wey belleful no dey play with fellow hungry dog, if he had stayed n kept asking you same jamb question & showing mouth concern would that make you love him, you guys are not on the same tempo @that period so the conversation is definitely gonna be odd if he had insisted or force it.
The logical thing to do is either to assist you get back or give you space to find your feet, when he re draw did you make attempts to rekindle the flow, that is all he needs to know you needed space.
Now let say reverse was the case, he was the one that came up with stories of not been fine, no one is around to take care of him, will you not stereotype he wants to lure you over for knack n probably avoid him. poco don tell you the reality

pocohantas:
You are overthinking things.

How can you keep saying you haven’t eaten for 3days without any explanation? Haba! Don’t you know that is Naija babes intro to ask for urgent 2k?

The guy is not psychic to know you were fasting. Whenever I tell a man I haven’t eaten, I always make sure I add the reason (e.g) Busy day, I am trying to watch my intake/weight...etc.

While it wasn’t so nice of him to disappear, we should remember that building relationships is hard in Nigeria because we suspect ourselves too much. Imagine if he kept telling you he is lonely.

It is okay if you want to block him, I just want you to know you are not entirely blameless. It takes time and trust to unlock certain aspects of a friendship...

Ok I don't know why people attack you here and call you name's, But this your comment scatter my head, you said it all.. Weldon.

lefulefu:
oh u sabi nl hahaa
and before that there was one with one female nairalander who housed a male nairlander and the male nairalander spent a whole month in her house eating all her food and becoming a liability to her
i have forgotten the lady"s moniker

At Akure

lefulefu:
oh u sabi nl hahaa
and before that there was one with one female nairalander who housed a male nairlander and the male nairalander spent a whole month in her house eating all her food and becoming a liability to her
i have forgotten the lady"s moniker

At Akure and was searching for what wasn't missing in her apartment

omooba969:
Did you marry from NL?

Yes, he slide into my dm and fell yakata

Stop asking people of they've eaten or not if you're not interested in their answer.
There are other ways to go about chit chatting.

IamGreen1:
At Akure and was searching for what wasn't missing in her apartment

aghaaa! u remember the story
dude was searching her apartment when she went to work
aghh some ppl have mind oo
allowing a total stranger u met on nairaland to come stay at ur place and u know how mentally unbalanced some ppl are here
very risky i would say

IamGreen1:
At Akure

exactly the incident occurred in akure.the bros claimed he was a business man and he had one big contract that he was coming to do in akure and if the girl could allow him stay at her place .babe agreed and saw something else .anyway thank God she lived to tell the tale .Very hilarious story abeg