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deleSayo:


It's like you don't know p o c o h a n t a s. If you know her on this forum, you would stop trying to reason with a dim wit. Her own is to bash men as per the miserable spinster she is.

I thought as much.
She keep making it seem as if I was the one at fault. Even when I have clearly stated the genesis of the issue.

deleSayo:


It's like you don't know p o c o h a n t a s. If you know her on this forum, you would stop trying to reason with a dim wit. Her own is to bash men as per the miserable spinster she is.

Ya right. Less than 24hrs ago, I was a good girl. I couldn’t wait for the compliments to end- makes me sick.

Sad.

Women

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pocohantas:


Mehn! Then this is a serious. Something strange is happening and it is nothing spiritual. 2008- till date is a long time not to communicate with ones blood. Just keep checking on him in your own way. Sometimes people separate you from your family/support system before they strike. I just hope she doesn’t have other sinister plans apart from the supposed “closeness”.

Our mother have been calling him, sending sms but till today no answer.

She visited him last year but they refuse to let her enter their house.

Umunna have tried to talk to him but no way. The last time they called him, he told that that we can only reconcile whenever his wife decide to so.

Thank God all of us are fainancally ok if don't I hate to imagine would have happened to our Mother and the younger one's.

samuelchimmy:
did Paul mentioned prejudice against her tribe?

My answer was in response to your question. You asked and I quote- "Can two brothers hate a woman?" That's one instance when even a whole family can hate a person...we don't know their own story; we all are just speculating

That's shallow thinking. You don't know what's going on behind the scene. This type of mentality that you just exhibited along with the over 400 likes is the reason we are where we are in this country. Lazy, generalised stereotype. No depth to examine each issue on its own merits.

backnbeta:
If you love your brother, you'll learn to live with his choice of woman! You Paul are too petty and unforgiving!

sweetmelanin:


Ain't gonna air so much of my personal life here but just know that this story is one I can relate with as a married woman myself... as a wife, you will receive love and welcome from most of your husband's family members but NEVER expect all of them to love you... there will always be one or two inlaws that aren't exactly your biggest fans..

Bottom line is I ain't no punk and I certainly ain't a hypocrite who would publicly post "happy birthday" to an inlaw that I haven't spoken to in 4 years! I find Lola's action unnecessary, attention-seeking and highly pretentious.

I share this sentiment.

I mean, for someone who knew that public perception already swayed towards the direction of her being responsible for the brothers' break-up, and given this information about how she and Paul have not spoken for such a long time, I consider it very pretentious and a wee bit malicious to go about wishing him a happy birthday on social media.

If she really intended to make peace by being the mature one who makes the first move of reconciliation, then it's best to do it PRIVATELY – pick up the phone and call.
At least there ought to have been an open line of communication between them before going public on the internet with unnecessary attention-seeking gestures.

superior1:
At the age of almost 50 you still think you can still be manipulative and always trying to be in control as usual...

Omotayo isn’t close to 50. You gossipers sha will see what is not there

She between 47 and 48. I know her very well

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I don't seem to understand what I am talking here.

Make peace with him how ? Are we fighting ? Did we offend him ?

Seems you don't know Pocohontas on this forum, all these your plenty explanation enters one ear and goes out the other lolz! She's the strong feminist type and to them women can do no wrong, infact when they do wrong it's because of a man.

She's just wired that way! About your brother matter, just pray for him. I don't think it's ordinary. I don't really believe issues like this are diabolical but I've seen some strange shit all through my life to rule it out.

wonder233:
That's shallow thinking. You don't know what's going on behind the scene. This type of mentality that you just exhibited along with the over 400 likes is the reason we are where we are in this country. Lazy, generalised stereotype. No depth to examine each issue on its own merits.

Whatever the case may be sir; if your brother has decided to pitch his tent with a woman, and for this long, it's better to just accept it and move on, especially when there are kids involved. Calling your brother's wife of many years out on social media says a lot about you as a man. "Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved.”

E no concern me, I get my own problem wey I dey face in the hands of Dominique

Truly Peter's wife isn't friendly in real life, one of my friend that works in a supermarket where Peter's wife do go for her shopping said that no one dare goes close to Lola as she's so unfriendly anytime she comes shopping

Its shows you are not a good person . people like you get more people to hate those you hate . Its bad madam woman . Respecting peoples choice to the level of hatred is evil . Jesus said if you love me , you will keep my commandment . Like your brother's wife even if she's bad

sweetmelanin:



Well that's you... not everyone is capable of being pretentiously cordial with someone they have issues with.

They are grown adults and are free to associate or disassociate with whomever they wish! There's a reason Peter is standing ALONE in this matter. He has made his choice.

pocohantas:


Ya right. Less than 24hrs ago, I was a good girl. I couldn’t wait for the compliments to end- makes me sick.

Only goes to show how mentally unstable you are

Please don't argue when people tell you you are bad cuz hatred radiate in you . If only you can do without hatred

wonder233:
That's shallow thinking. You don't know what's going on behind the scene. This type of mentality that you just exhibited along with the over 400 likes is the reason we are where we are in this country. Lazy, generalised stereotype. No depth to examine each issue on its own merits.

Beckysexy:
This is serious!
If she truly wanted them back together, she can do it. Infact both wives can do it.
So, I'll advice both brothers to put their differences aside and end the nonsense feud once and for all .

The woman just dey chase clout truly. Like you said, Both wives can fix things or at least make the brothers look like fools.

Seems like this Lola babe doesn't want them back together but she is covering up on Social Media.

Which kain wahala be this..

deleSayo:


Only goes to show how mentally unstable you are

Pele my dear...

Smellymouth:
Lola should swallow some self respect & bone them. This thing she does year in, year out constantly looks like she’s begging for their friendship.

But then again, her kids and the rest kids are close cousins, it’s hard to ignore if not the kids will inherit the whole nonsense they met their parents doing...

This rudeboy nor just get sense, age shaming people is awkward.

indeed a SMELLYMOUTH has spoken.

sweetmelanin:


I'm a woman and I disagree. No one should have to put up with anyone they don't like.
They left him alone with his wife since he made his choice.

left him alone? Yet he won't stop typing trash every year

Onyi22:
So na Yoruba woman scattered this handsome twins?
Afonjas and their miserable way of doing things.

Even olosho get say on this matter, imagine an Igbo olosho said yoruba woman scattered handsome twins. Are you Igbo trying to say Igbo men are useless that a non Igbo could scattered their homes? I mean a woman that should be a subject in their hands?


I have been trying to defend Igbo men not to be dumb and blockhead but you naive entities keep forcing me to believe they're opposite of my impression with the hatred for Lola


Lola gat Peter big time and vice versa, so there is nothing you nnamdi KANU cows can do to stop that. You want a married man to leave his wife and kids because of you people hatred? Let Paul mention Yoruba in his argument if he won't say bye bye to his music forever

paul is not mature...

i cant talk to my brother wife like that..

jrusky:


You are the one wrong bro its all about tribalism stop being hypocrite.

Name any successful Igbo man that marry other tribe and smile? None. Bro its unfair and very satanic.

I'm a full blooded SE but very very far different in reasoning. My younger brother married Edo girl it was a war simply our dad is a big retired senior millitary officer for that reason some idiots tribalist should be deciding for us or what? I had to banned 2 of my so called uncle never to step feet on my father's compound again and if they do I have promised them I will put them on wheelchair for the remaining of their tribalistic miserable life and I even text their childten to warn their father and went to police station to put down my statement they all know me and know when I'm ready to strike i fear no one.

We are too racist and tribalistic. Let Lola and her family be or whoever not should go and die.

And they want 2023 presidency but hate fill their hearts. Nonsense!!!

You claim to be from south east and then you are using 'they' in your comment. This they does it includes or excludes you ?

PataAlhaja:
Lola ....

O ti fẹ ọmọ Ibo daran!

I wonder how a beautiful, corporate professional like you ended up with a family of riffraffs. The fame, I guess.

People wey for dey hustle travellers for Jibowu and Ojota if not for their cheap music that fortunately for them, spurred them into limelight.

Lọla, ti ẹ ba ẹ! Waa b'ẹru ẹ ni bode.

F.A.M.E. abi she don hook? Abegi

backnbeta:
If you love your brother, you'll learn to live with his choice of woman! You Paul are too petty and unforgiving!

Paul is only following his mother's last wish 4 his twin broda.

do u call a mother's last wish petty n unforgiving ??

d way som of u rationalize issues baffle me

Smellymouth:
Lola should swallow some self respect & bone them. This thing she does year in, year out constantly looks like she’s begging for their friendship.

But then again, her kids and the rest kids are close cousins, it’s hard to ignore if not the kids will inherit the whole nonsense they met their parents doing...

This rudeboy nor just get sense, age shaming people is awkward.

d ppl liking ur comment are unbelievable.

Dafts

masterP042:

Guy u be simp oo.. So u go fight your mother because of woman or so called wife.. Nawa o. This simping level is on drugs

Yeah, I became a multi millionaire listening to what people have to say lool... the moment you become a winner in life, your perspective changes on everything but until then, keep living in the shadow of people that have lived their lives.

freecocoahubby:


idi0ts like magicminister don't realise a woman will never choose him over her own family

Loool.....my whole point is do not ever disrespect my woman to her face.
If you’re my inner circle and I wanna talk to me about her, call me aside as a family or a good friend and I’ll listen. But the moment you disrespect her, it’s gloves off!!

I’ll protect my woman the way I want my sister to be protected....
I’ll protect my woman the way my dad protected my mom. It’s as simple as that.

simple as that!!

omoolokunEsin:
Paul, this is highly unreasonable of you! You make it look like you and your Sister-in-Law are vying for a trophy. Quite bucolic the way you speak to her. Know what? Your tantrums here is unbecoming of a Star like you and it has really revealed the kind of bottled up anger you're carrying, year in year out like an albatross. You really fall my hand talking this way to a woman. If you ask me, looks like you're the one who has allowed bitterness of the liver to gnaw ceaselessly at your innards.

Wake up and be a man. Nothing your Sister-in-Law may have done is greater than what we Christians did to Jesus Christ.

I see many of shading Paul are just sympathetic to Lola cos u share same tribe or somtin.

mozona:
paul is not mature...
i cant talk to my brother wife like that..

lol. u can't cos d pocket money might stop coming