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How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Killertune20(op): 7:51pm On Nov 19, 2020

Guys, I'm not talking about uk to Nigeria kind of relationship, just within Nigeria but in different states.

My Gf stays in Benin while I stay in Lagos, to go see her, I spend nothing less than 20k on a 3 days visit.

The money is not the issue here as I can manage to see her at least once a month or in two months.

My problem is the time spent, the danger of touring from one state to another as Nigeria is not secure at all and I'm not the travelling type, she can't travel too due to family strictness and the danger of traveling in Nigeria too.

So guys, is anyone in similar condition with me? How do you cope?

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Davash222(m): 7:52pm On Nov 19, 2020

With the level of insecurity in Nigeria, I can’t believe a vibrant sensible man will tour from Lagos to Benin cos of kpekus.

Girl that you might be sharing with Osas.

Not my business sha.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by slawormiir: 7:54pm On Nov 19, 2020

Damnnnnn niggarrr
.
Toto nor go kill you my brother

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Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Davash222(m): 8:00pm On Nov 19, 2020

slawormiir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr . Toto nor go kill you my brother

Amen on his behalf!

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Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Killertune20(op): 8:13pm On Nov 19, 2020

Davash222:
With the level of insecurity in Nigeria, I can’t believe a vibrant sensible man will tour from Lagos to Benin cos of kpekus.

Girl that you might be sharing with Osas.

Not my business sha.

LMAO, mad people everywhere, even you will do more than this, it's an essential activity in life.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Killertune20(op): 8:50pm On Nov 19, 2020

slawormiir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
.
Toto nor go kill you my brother

Amen bro

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by nazicartel(m): 8:53pm On Nov 19, 2020

I no get any business with distant relationship ooo... Though they might think they're dating me... Omoh, Oyo na your case ooo.... I just keep the chats and love moving, so mistakenly something might take me to the place and we hook up again

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Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by virginprincess(f): 8:59pm On Nov 19, 2020

Davash222:
With the level of insecurity in Nigeria, I can’t believe a vibrant sensible man will tour from Lagos to Benin cos of kpekus.

Girl that you might be sharing with Osas.

Not my business sha.

SHUT UP

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Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Nov 19, 2020*

Bro, let me tell you the gospel truth.. No Nigerian girl loves you, they only love what you have. Believe me.

The only woman that loves you is your mum, take it to anywhere. She'll always be there for you no matter what.. Naira Marley is a good example, Isaiah 49:15 is there for you.

Let me tell you something, during the lockdown, my sister in the uni told me that why she was in her boyfriend's house is because she does not want to suffer.. yes, let that sink in.. that is the truth.

Stop pleasing girls bro. Even the girls you're pleasing, unfortunately, they don't like weak men like you but they'll never let you know cos of what they're gaining from you(your hard earned money) Trust my judgement.

For now, let me stop here.

Be wise

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Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Davash222(m): 9:07pm On Nov 19, 2020

virginprincess:
SHUT UP

Efulefu, go baff first.

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by simplepee(f): 9:10pm On Nov 19, 2020

Davash222:
With the level of insecurity in Nigeria, I can’t believe a vibrant sensible man will tour from Lagos to Benin cos of kpekus.

Girl that you might be sharing with Osas.

Not my business sha.

Is your daftness inborn?

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Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by virginprincess(f): 9:15pm On Nov 19, 2020

Davash222:
Efulefu, go baff first.

It is you that is an Efulefu, what concerns you if he travels from to benin to see his babe? maybe you are the osas she is sleeping with, EWU

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Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Shortyy(f): 9:18pm On Nov 19, 2020

collinsuchendu:
Bro, let me tell you the gospel truth.. No Nigerian girl loves you, they only love what you have. Believe me.

The only woman that loves you is your mum, take it to anywhere. She'll always be there for you no matter what.. Naira Marley is a good example, Isaiah 49:15 is there for you.

Let me tell you something, during the lockdown, my sister in the uni told me that why she was in her boyfriend's house is because she does not want to suffer.. yes, let that sink in.. that is the truth.

Stop pleasing girls bro. Even the girls you're pleasing, unfortunately, they don't like weak men like you but they'll never let you know cos of what they're gaining from you(your hard earned money) Trust my judgement.

For now, let me stop here.

Be wise

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by simplepee(f): 9:18pm On Nov 19, 2020*

It shouldn't be hard if both parties aren't wayward and trustworthy. I even love my relationship distanced so we can both concentrate on work.
Unlike that every weekend seeing and hangouts.

We will have all the time together when married anyways.

Distance relationships are meant for well disciplined people not for all these community prick carriers.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by omooba969(m): 9:23pm On Nov 19, 2020

Long Distance Relationship - Bad idea.

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by jjuliajul11: 9:35pm On Nov 19, 2020

My husband and I in 18-21 were in different countries. I studied in another country, we just loved each other and trusted each other

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Davash222(m): 9:36pm On Nov 19, 2020

simplepee:
It shouldn't be hard if both parties aren't wayward and trustworthy. I even love my relationship distanced so we can both concentrate on work.
Unlike that every weekend seeing and hangouts.

We will have all the time together when married anyways.

Distance relationship are meant for men who can zip up and not for all these community prick carriers.

I agree with you on your last assertion.

Distance relationships are meant for men who can zip up and women you can’t zip up.

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Davash222(m): 9:37pm On Nov 19, 2020

simplepee:
Is your daftness inborn?

I’ve stopped entertaining night newspapers.

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by simplepee(f): 9:38pm On Nov 19, 2020

Davash222:
I’ve stopped entertaining night newspapers.

lol run along boy.

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Davash222(m): 9:39pm On Nov 19, 2020

simplepee:
lol run along boy.

Okay Aunty.

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Dreadlock69(m): 9:49pm On Nov 19, 2020

I forget about the relationship...
If 3k transport can't see you going and coming

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Nazgul: 9:53pm On Nov 19, 2020

Killertune20:
Guys, I'm not talking about uk to Nigeria kind of relationship, just within Nigeria but in different states.

My Gf stays in Benin while I stay in Lagos, to go see her, I spend nothing less than 20k on a 3 days visit.

The money is not the issue here as I can manage to see her at least once a month or in two months.

My problem is the time spent, the danger of touring from one state to another as Nigeria is not secure at all and I'm not the travelling type, she can't travel too due to family strictness and the danger of traveling in Nigeria too.

So guys, is anyone in similar condition with me? How do you cope?

Distant relationship is based on trust...once trust is dead please don't waste your time, cos you two would end up arguing like kids on daily basis.

It's all about trust

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Nov 19, 2020*

another name for distance relationship is called friendzone. the distance is a barrier. any lady that support such is a serial cheat.

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Deceptionlove: 12:38am On Nov 20, 2020

Killertune20:
Guys, I'm not talking about uk to Nigeria kind of relationship, just within Nigeria but in different states.

My Gf stays in Benin while I stay in Lagos, to go see her, I spend nothing less than 20k on a 3 days visit.

The money is not the issue here as I can manage to see her at least once a month or in two months.

My problem is the time spent, the danger of touring from one state to another as Nigeria is not secure at all and I'm not the travelling type, she can't travel too due to family strictness and the danger of traveling in Nigeria too.

So guys, is anyone in similar condition with me? How do you cope?

If this Is true. I don't have choice than to agree to most female beings saying. Men"Nigerian Men Exclusively" life revolves around the female beings. I'm absolutely sure this Is real because the way some folks In my neighborhood worships female beings Is out of this world. I've seen several men keeping late nights out with single mothers and coded oloshos. Comes to drop them off around 1:00am sometimes. Imagine you knew about the repercussions yet you keep on fooling around and still have the audacity to come on here and ask this kinda question. Make I hear PIM If anything goes wrong......

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Womanizer(m): 12:58am On Nov 20, 2020

I hope the pvssy is worth the risk you're taking angry

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Nobody: 1:00am On Nov 20, 2020

well op if u can cope with long distance dating and you trust her cheesy

then get on with the long distance dating.at least u said u visit so in ur own case its a little better.For me nope i dont do long distance dating.i can keep the lady as a normal friend but say relationship wise over a long distance nope i cant do dat cos i see it as time wasting.i had prefer a lady thats closer.

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by Womanizer(m): 1:05am On Nov 20, 2020

Deceptionlove:
If this Is true. I don't have choice than to agree to most female beings saying. Men"Nigerian Men Exclusively" life revolves around the female beings. I'm absolutely sure this Is real because the way some folks In my neighborhood worships female beings Is out of this world. I've seen several men keeping late nights out with single mothers and coded oloshos. Comes to drop them off around 1:00am sometimes. Imagine you knew about the repercussions yet you keep on fooling around and still have the audacity to come on here and ask this kinda question. Make I hear PIM If anything goes wrong......

What exactly are you trying to say?

Re: How Do You Cope With Distant Relationship? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 1:10am On Nov 20, 2020

Killertune20:
Guys, I'm not talking about uk to Nigeria kind of relationship, just within Nigeria but in different states.

My Gf stays in Benin while I stay in Lagos, to go see her, I spend nothing less than 20k on a 3 days visit.

The money is not the issue here as I can manage to see her at least once a month or in two months.

My problem is the time spent, the danger of touring from one state to another as Nigeria is not secure at all and I'm not the travelling type, she can't travel too due to family strictness and the danger of traveling in Nigeria too.

So guys, is anyone in similar condition with me? How do you cope?

I like using babes in this kind of situation as sidechicks cos they're always very discreet grin

They won't be disturbing me with unnecygum body grin

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