thunderfirebubu:
Naija girls eh so selfish nd stingy. That was how I went to an eatery the other time nd 3 girls walked in, only one bought food the other 2 just kept watching in shame and all, I asked the girl eating why she couldn't buy for her friends and the idiiot said why didn't I buy for them when I saw them not eating. Like wtf, I asked the fooool that had a guy brought her here would she not take away food for her friends, family, village people etc? Babe cm start dey insult me oo, God save her finally Sha if not for the intervention of others.

Queenserah26:
It is so sad that things have degenerated to this level. What can I say?

Escabado:


You girls have not seen anything yet . I'm happy redpill is streading very fast , redpill has entered instagram and very soon it will enter twitter and that's when you girls Games will end. Cos una no go see any man to fool and collect his money in the name of relationship abi marriage. Then you girls will learn how to use your two hands to work and make legit money .

ZIINI:

Escabado bad guy

Escabado:


Those girls never see anything. They are supposed to be the one begging men for a relationship because they are usually at the receiving end .

YorubaMod:
You be her mugu-12,
Run for ur life, that girl will never contribute a dime if u eventually marry her, u got the result of ur test, so what else are u asking for

Fountainofyouth:
But what if she was really really broke

Escabado:


My man haven't you heard that dating a Nigerian girl is like having a liability or dating an orphan. Break up with her immediately .She is crying not becos she love but because of the money and gift she is getting from you. If you continue with that relationship a time will come when she will break up with you because she have found a more rich guy and by then your looses will be close to 3 million naira . Dating a Nigerian girls is like playing a bet any money you put inside is lost forever

Fuckyoumod:
Hello everyone,

I hope you enjoy reading my little experience, something funny happened today and it changed my perspective about 99% of Nigerian Ladies.

Fast forward, I met a friend named Rebecca, Rebecca is a young lady endowed with everything called beauty, so charming and sweet lol...

We met sometime ago during the covid lockdown, the lockdown actually brought a lot of people home and together so we had enough time hanging out. So, gradually we became friends and started dating, she had no choice but to trip and fall for a wonderful and sweet guy like me. (Who wan vex, sey I be sweet guy, make em vex!) Yes, my love for any lady is a function of her love for me as long as we are together. I was actually in love.

Fast forward to the main story, after the lockdown the company I work for in Lagos called me and asked me to resume. I told her I was going back to work, however I will be coming back on monthly bases to see her and take care of other personal things.

She felt so bad that I was leaving at a time when she was already madly in love with me and couldn't stand the pain of losing me.

Hmmmmm my brothers and sisters I was touched and moved by her endless tears,worries and how she is going to miss me, hmmm do you know love? but man must work, man must hustle.

Finally, I traveled back to Lagos 3 weeks ago, we have been talking and chatting everyday and night. I have sent over 47k to her so far for her upkeep. Just to support her, she is working anyways. But I didn't care!

Now just like I promised to come home every month, I will be going home next week.
Just this morning, I had need to make a very urgent and important call. But I had some difficulties trying to buy airtime via my bank, so, I called her with the remaining airtime of about 10 naira balance and this was my conversation with her
" sweet beks can you please help me out with an airtime of 1k, my bank is not responding, ooh....mi Love sorry i don't have 1k, how about 500 200 or even 100 anything please? No, I don't have, I'm really broke right now. and i responded by asking, you are broke? Since when?" My airtime finished. So I was disappointed and moved to try my bank again and luckily it went through this time.

Then I called her back after calling who I wanted to speak to, she was like "mi love it seems you succeeded with your bank? Yes. So when are you coming back next week? Friday. OK while coming I'd like you to buy me some stuff, like what? Jeans and shoes. So What happened to the ones you have? They are getting old and fading away. OK, no p Like how many pairs? 6 pairs of jeans and maybe just 4 pairs of shoes.
I said OK no p.

Ladies and gents, I was wondering how on earth I will be dating a lady who can not help me or afford 100 naira airtime for me? But wants me to buy cloths and shoes worth over 40k - 50k for her. Even when i know she earns some cash every month and i do support her as well. I am heart broken already.

Is this really how women are? Or what we have are just female miscreants and gold diggers in Nigeria this days? Always Expecting what they can't give?

This is more than a heartbreak, cheating would have been better.

I just called her now (11: 05 am) 23/11/2020. telling her that I can't continue with the relationship, she should find someone else.

Sorry I had to block her line because she has already given me 29 missed calls. My padi man just called to ask what's up with Rebecca, she called him with tears all over like mad.

But now my friend is asking me a very critical question, " guy, na 100 naira airtime go make you break up with your babe? Abeg Review your stands jare, it is too harsh".

I have made up my mind about it. So I'm free again!

Queenserah26:
It is so sad that things have degenerated to this level. What can I say?

khingTony:
It's not in the nature of a Nigerian girl to give a guy money, even if they have 1 million naira in their aza, they'll still look forward to looting the little you have left.


Besides, most of them think they are doing you a favour by dating you and giving you sex, so they expect you to pay them for their services. You are right brother, imagine my girlfriend telling me today to established her BC she will soon become my wife.This is a lady that I gave over 300k to keep in her account, till today,she can't account for the money.She even said that I should be paying her salary every month, that is how her friend fiance used to do.

OKOATA:
Ghosted one recently, we met before the corona period and I think a few weeks after then she travelled to Dubai to hustle, this lady would tell me repeatedly almost everyday to send her money, I told her point blank I don't have. I post photos of me going to the gym, swimming and flexing, pains the shit outta her. Ok here comes the part she sent some money into my account and told me to help her send it to some family, the remaining money about 1k there about she now dashed me. So after then she was to come to Nigeria she needed some doe to complete her flight money. She begged me so I remembered when she dashed me 1k to buy card on my phone so I sent her 40k that day. She came back to Naija that's how this one start won de bill me. So because I helped you out with 40k I have now turn to a nice guy. Fine the sex was cool and amazing, fresh body but never take me for a fool. Why will you tell me to give you some money to make your hair? Why would you ask me to give you money for your card? Why will you tell me that in a relationship a man must do 90percent and a lady should do 10 percent in finances? You must be mad.

Fountainofyouth:
But what if she was really really broke

sukhothai:
Blocking her is very rude... Women hate that..

You could have used another route to end the relationship

OKOATA:
Ghosted one recently, we met before the corona period and I think a few weeks after then she travelled to Dubai to hustle, this lady would tell me repeatedly almost everyday to send her money, I told her point blank I don't have. I post photos of me going to the gym, swimming and flexing, pains the shit outta her. Ok here comes the part she sent some money into my account and told me to help her send it to some family, the remaining money about 1k there about she now dashed me. So after then she was to come to Nigeria she needed some doe to complete her flight money. She begged me so I remembered when she dashed me 1k to buy card on my phone so I sent her 40k that day. She came back to Naija that's how this one start won de bill me. So because I helped you out with 40k I have now turn to a nice guy. Fine the sex was cool and amazing, fresh body but never take me for a fool. Why will you tell me to give you some money to make your hair? Why would you ask me to give you money for your card? Why will you tell me that in a relationship a man must do 90percent and a lady should do 10 percent in finances? You must be mad.

tyup:


Tell that ur guy I said he's an irredeemable syphilitic stupid guy

Fuckyoumod:

" sweet beks can you please help me out with an airtime of 1k, my bank is not responding, ooh....mi Love sorry i don't have 1k, how about 500 200 or even 100 anything please? No, I don't have, I'm really broke right now.

Lastmankc:

You are right brother, imagine my girlfriend telling me today to established her BC she will soon become my wife.This is a lady that I gave over 300k to keep in her account, till today,she can't account for the money.She even said that I should be paying her salary every month, that is how her friend fiance used to do.

Preshieben:
she politely asked you if she could send 500 or 200 as she didn't have 1k at the moment..

Bro no reason for this breakup...you should have told her you can't afford the new shoes and jeans instead of shattering the poor girl the way you did

NIGERIAN MEN EHN
date one at your peril....tufiakwa

khingTony:

You still haven't learnt how to understand simple things, he asked for 1K, she said she don't have, he reduced the request to 500, then to 200 and even 100 naira, she still said she don't have

Next time, take your time to read, understand before you comment, okay?

Preshieben:
you need to understand the post too

read it again and stop quoting me

Preshieben:
she politely asked you if she could send 500 or 200 as she didn't have 1k at the moment..

Bro no reason for this breakup...you should have told her you can't afford the new shoes and jeans instead of shattering the poor girl the way you did

NIGERIAN MEN EHN
date one at your peril....tufiakwa

Preshieben:
she politely asked you if she could send 500 or 200 as she didn't have 1k at the moment..

Bro no reason for this breakup...you should have told her you can't afford the new shoes and jeans instead of shattering the poor girl the way you did

NIGERIAN MEN EHN
date one at your peril....tufiakwa