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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by bigbossila: 5:01pm On Nov 24, 2020
through my relative (aunty). she came with her to my family relation weeding and we have two wonderful kids at this moment.

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Humanoid01(m): 5:04pm On Nov 24, 2020
Pierocash:
even though I quite understand your point. But bro, sometimes it doesn't work that way. Nobody rejects courtesy, kindness, and neatness. Most of the ugly men I know all have very beautiful women in their lives.

Therefore cast not away your confidence, which has great recompense of reward
I understand you too bro. That's why I said "very few" in my previous post. Being polite/not shouldn't be an effect of how people treat you, it should flow out naturally. However, it can seem difficult to make the first move when you're an introvert lol.
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 5:06pm On Nov 24, 2020
AdaNri1:
you’re not introverted at all. You are just looking for an opportunity to bash females. Your type is what any self respecting lady should stay away from.

Please let actual introverts answer.
What is this one even saying

Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Deceptionlove: 5:06pm On Nov 24, 2020
SmellySperm:
My charger got blown at where i was charging so she offered me hers,na so we take startgrin

But nothing come out, relationship na scam,farm toolz everywhere, can't trust these pusssy people

Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Tonyspecial(m): 5:08pm On Nov 24, 2020
JeffSiberstein:
Since I buy car I done block many numbers, bleep many punas both tight and slack and also save many girls numbers with male names because madam can inspect my phone but last year na God help us madam nor even they then. You see this call log na only one name there be man all the rest na girls na them Dey rush me na. My own advice is to hustle, I’m still waiting for the day I go gather mind stop girl for road ask her say “how are you” but with the car I Dey give them lift to my room!

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Pierocash(m): 5:09pm On Nov 24, 2020
Humanoid01:

I understand you too bro. That's why I said "very few" in my previous post. Being polite/not shouldn't be an effect of how people treat you, it should flow out naturally. However, it can seem difficult to make the first move when you're an introvert lol.
you are right though
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Nov 24, 2020
Xexza:
Well, being an introvert, it's not easy to decide to try to socialize. I can see a lady I like, but I won't make a move. This isn't because I'm shy or anything of the sorts, but because I understand that you can't actually like someone you don't know. I prefer to be expressive to people I've come to know a few things about.

Most times, I'm approached by ladies who find me attractive (yeah, I'm not ugly and I'm not a dullard). I think ladies have this thing for guys that are not all over the place but have a cool reputation.

Some people people think being introverted is synonymous to being a simp and that's wrong. I've had many ladies try to take advantage of my quiet nature, hoping they'd have me in their palms. However, I'm even more principled than I am reserved.

Like someone here said earlier, you basically need confidence, will, financial stability, sense (however you understand it) and good manners to attract people to you - whether you're an introvert or an extrovert.

The hardest part for introverts (that meet the criteria in the paragraph above this), I think, is knowing how to keep ladies interested after they find you attractive. Many introverts are either too serious, lack experience, bad communicators or too formal. So a lady might be attracted to you and you like her too, but you spoil it real quick (let me not go into details).

Bottom line is, it's not so difficult to enter a good relationship (if you're good ooo). If you're a good introvert, you'll find it easy; if you're a bad introvert (ambiguous, I know), you'll be played or taken for granted. In the same way, if you're a good extrovert, you'll find it easy; if you're a bad extrovert, you'll be a clown or an irritant.

This applies to me. Too serious, formal and unapproachable is what they always complain about. But I could become a parrot if I am comfortable around you. Just gimme space to go to my woods. I need loads of recharge before I break down.

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by lizzypro: 5:18pm On Nov 24, 2020
Can you add me to the group thanks

themaestro08:


I am currently in a forex wats app group with endless lectures and trainings. I'm tired as Af angry. How does yours work?
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Nov 24, 2020
yunglegend99:
wow I love your write up, seems like you are motivationally inclined just like me. Let's get to know ourselves so we can exchange ideas
badt guy grin

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Kingzjayzee: 5:24pm On Nov 24, 2020
Alphamale101:
Nah my Samsung ear piece be bae o

She Sabi satisfy me die with noise that are pleasurable to the ears

Take me to climax to and fro without needing urgent 2k
which particular one abeg. I wan buy. All my earpiece no dey last 2weeks.
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by phazotron(m): 5:24pm On Nov 24, 2020
Na she bring the job opening

I come agree to take the job

Although we are not together anymore she was great until she changed

The big challenge is fear of rejection and fear of wooing someone's girlfriend

And then girls who aren't conversationally creative

When convos are boring it kills my morale

And many girls here just don't have it

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by fati2001(m): 5:24pm On Nov 24, 2020
tollyboy5:

As I see the Korean pics I just remember this person. Mrs Korean undecided why lie that your married ?
Your comment and pics shows you're very young.


still none of ur business!
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by CopaMike(m): 5:27pm On Nov 24, 2020
I have never seen any guy as introverted as I was. I'm a very handsome guy so naturally girls admire me alot. I was so shy that no matter how much I admire a girl, I could never bring myself to approaching her. Sometimes girls do come to me on their own, but nervousness will set in on it own and the girl sensing the discomfort in me will have no choice than to leave me alone. The first girlfriend I had was highly extroverted and she was the one that made the first move. To be continued...

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:28pm On Nov 24, 2020
seniorgozman:
I don't know for others but ladies are the ones coming after me as an introvert

you are a true introvert....

some ladies pay more attentions to u if you are introverted, which leads to them initiating conversation.

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by ibietela2(m): 5:28pm On Nov 24, 2020
Now wife
On Facebook
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by LordOfTheGame: 5:29pm On Nov 24, 2020
Really battling this shit called loneliness now. I am tired of hiding and pretending that all is well.

I NEED A SERIOUS GIRL FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. ARE YOU LIVING IN GERMNAY? YOU'RE THE ONE.

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Nov 24, 2020
I've been single all my years. Thanks for reminding me about my singleness

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Nov 24, 2020
CopaMike:
I have never seen any guy as introverted as I was. I'm a very handsome guy so naturally girls admire me alot. I was so shy that no matter how much I admire a girl, I could never bring myself to approaching her. Sometimes girls do come to me on their own, but nervousness will set in on it own and the girl sensing the discomfort in me will have no choice than to leave me alone. The first girlfriend I had was highly extroverted and she was the one that made the first move. To be continued...

no need to continue, we have taken the point!

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by sty1es: 5:34pm On Nov 24, 2020
anochuko01:
My first gf had been my class mate since primary two grin.

I met the last one online, broken up though.

I've got about 10 different girls I'm talking to now, met all of them online but not dating anyone of them. Just gist


My online game is MAD
lol
Please teach me your ways master. smiley
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Nov 24, 2020
falcon01:
I've been with several ladies and all of em are Arghhh!! Women are usless creatures walai!!!

I don't support this. This is harsh
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Happy2020: 5:48pm On Nov 24, 2020
I’m a female and I feel sorry for any Nigerian man looking for a Nigerian women. Somewhere with their upbringing there is a kink. Most are not right in the head, the think the most unimportant things are important like how much makeup you can cake on your face in a day.

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Harvesttony(m): 5:51pm On Nov 24, 2020
She toasted me
Gave me many signs that she liked me before I then realized that I speak to her. It's not easy for ladies when it comes to such shall.
But as an Introvert guy I learnt that you should never allow her compare you with another guy though that doesn't mean you should not spark up the relationship as an Introvert (as in Introvert style lol)

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by mannie69(m): 5:52pm On Nov 24, 2020
�� I'm introvert I don't have a girlfriend I no Sabi woman talk

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Greatfullheart: 5:57pm On Nov 24, 2020
falcon01:
I've been with several ladies and all of em are Arghhh!! Women are usless creatures walai!!!
bros na today you dey know? Girls/ladies/women are the selfish, yeye type of beings in life, mehn i suffer for girls hand sha. And i promise to take my revenge.

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Dollanaira: 5:59pm On Nov 24, 2020
ANyhow
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by lkillbrokehoes: 6:08pm On Nov 24, 2020
Humanoid01:

Heyy! I just want to say you look pretty, and those glasses look damn good on you.
Simp forever!

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Harvesttony(m): 6:09pm On Nov 24, 2020
Checkout my signature and chat me up
I need a friend in Jos
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Kingzjayzee: 6:14pm On Nov 24, 2020
falcon01:
I've been with several ladies and all of em are Arghhh!! Women are usless creatures walai!!!
kikikikikikigrin
Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by amparas(m): 6:16pm On Nov 24, 2020
She likes the way I rrrrrr... grin grin

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Re: Introverted Guys, How Did You Meet Your Girlfriends? by Humanoid01(m): 6:16pm On Nov 24, 2020
lkillbrokehoes:
Simp forever!
Sorry, but I don't live in your world of toxic masculinity. I respect women, and if you think complimenting them is a function of being a simp, then there's a problem somewhere.

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