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lefulefu:
30k every month
30,000 X 12=360,000 thousand a year
360,000 naira=944 USD
Almost 1000 USD a year !
OP if u save that money u can use it to establish a big business or even travel overseas to do a school programme which will actually upgrade u
i just hope u not a salary earner throwing off such money at a girl in the name of relationship

KimberlyWest:
I believe in the mutual spending stuff too. I can imagine how depressing it feels to shoulder another adult's responsibilities.

I know many ladies with their own money, and they spend on their men too. Whenever I come to nairaland and see the whole "leeches" stories. It makes me wonder where these guys meet their women.

Hopefully, you'll find an independent lady soon.

KimberlyWest:
I was expecting you to say that the $944 is too small sef. That's almost the amount for PS5 that some naija guys expect you to buy for them, just cuz their G.O.A.T's girlfriend bought for him.

KimberlyWest:
I was expecting you to say that the $944 is too small sef. That's almost the amount for PS5 that some naija guys expect you to buy for them, just cuz their G.O.A.T's girlfriend bought for him.

khingTony:
Stop saying what you don't know, a the PS 5 launched for $400

lefulefu:
944 dollars is even a quite an amount of money for an average american right now that corona is ravaging the US .Thats the amount op is wasting on girl in the name of relationship .A smarter guy would save that 30k from his salary every month then when the money increases he could use it to establish another business so hence he will have two or more outlets where he is earning money.From his salary and other business.On the issue of PS5...why would a dude be telling his girlfriend to buy video game for him and a 944 dollars own at that .wetin im wan take am do? So he will be playing video games all day while she is out hustling .Wich kain man be dat? hope no be dat kine guy you dey date oo anyway i havent heard of a video game that is worth 900 dollars

dermmy:
Since you believe in that mutual spending i might even be talking to the lady without knowing sef. Or are you the will of God for my life?
Cause it's strange hearing this from a naija lady.

khingTony:




If I read this right, op you spend more than a total of 30K on your girl monthly? Do you know that the minimum wage of this country is 30K? So what is means is that she is automatically being paid as a government worker just for dating you, and she gets her pay without any glitch and tax deductions. She must be doing you a favour by dating you.



Does she love you? What sacrifices has she made for you? How sure are you that she's not requesting for money to give one broke fu*ker of hers? If you stop giving her money, will she still be with you? If you want to be sure she loves you, stop providing for her.

Some people will come here to tell you to ignore people telling you how to live your life and handle your relationship, but I have to tell you the truth, that girl is using you as a pathway to getting undeserved wealth, and the earlier you realize that, the better.



Peace

lefulefu:
I am sure the girl the girl is saving the money.There was this girl i knew who did visa for two of her younger brothers and sent them to south africa.she did the visa,passport and flight ticket from the money her struggling boyfriends and sugar daddy were giving to her

KimberlyWest:
I'm definitely not 'the' lady, but I'll be praying for you to find her soon.

khingTony:
Maybe this one dey plan use the money do visa too, in the next two years, she go leave am for Nigeria go find another guy abroad

dermmy:
Why? Don't worry i won't tell you to order my playstation on Amazon you can do that on Jumia

Kestolove:
If you can count how much u spend on ur girlfriend monthly it simply means you spending nothing ND u stingy..

KimberlyWest:
We're talking of 30,000 Naira here o. Not THREE HUNDRED thousand Naira.

He should dump the girl cuz he spends 30k on her? Wow! Just wow! If it's now 100k, you'll ask him to use her for money rituals. You don't know how much he earns, and you don't know if that 30k is 1% of his salary.

When you get your own girlfriend, give her 200 Naira per month. For now, allow the guy do what he wants with his money.

legallyminded:
Who is this foolish moniker with an entitlement mentality? �

Kestolove:
If you can count how much u spend on ur girlfriend monthly it simply means you spending nothing ND u stingy..

odinson1:
Oga Poster Please Don't ever Take relationship Advice from a woman Because they don't have your best interests at heart! They just want what is best for their fellow woman,so the cycle of Parasitism and leeching will keep on going.
-Now my Advice to you is this, Stop spending on her

KimberlyWest:
We're talking of 30,000 Naira here o. Not THREE HUNDRED thousand Naira.

He should dump the girl cuz he spends 30k on her? Wow! Just wow! If it's now 100k, you'll ask him to use her for money rituals. You don't know how much he earns, and you don't know if that 30k is 1% of his salary.

When you get your own girlfriend, give her 200 Naira per month. For now, allow the guy do what he wants with his money.

Brunosamel:
see them Entitlement clientele picking offense.... Keep showing your ture character...

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts. But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc. Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

Cc: lalasticlala, Seun, onila, farano, prettythicksme, mynd44

KimberlyWest:
We're talking of 30,000 Naira here o. Not THREE HUNDRED thousand Naira.

He should dump the girl cuz he spends 30k on her? Wow! Just wow! If it's now 100k, you'll ask him to use her for money rituals. You don't know how much he earns, and you don't know if that 30k is 1% of his salary.

When you get your own girlfriend, give her 200 Naira per month. For now, allow the guy do what he wants with his money.

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts. But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc. Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

Cc: lalasticlala, Seun, onila, farano, prettythicksme, mynd44

KimberlyWest:
Thanks. But don't advice a guy to dump his girlfriend cuz he spends on her. A simple advice like, "Speak to her and cut down on the amount you spend. Tell her to get a job to pay some of the bills" would have made more sense than asking him to dump her.

The grass is not greener on the other side.

By the way, I don't see my boyfriend coming to nairaland to wail about my supposed entitlement. Until he does that, your opinion doesn't count.

Brunosamel:
tell yourself the truth do your boyfriend spend 30k on you every month, please let call what that is bad, bad!....
You only keep your wife on monthly stipend not your girlfriend... Besides Is only a simps that please women to that extent, I have learned my lessons so no girl in this planet will mess with me... Fuvk Love

KimberlyWest:
We're talking of 30,000 Naira here o. Not THREE HUNDRED thousand Naira.

He should dump the girl cuz he spends 30k on her? Wow! Just wow! If it's now 100k, you'll ask him to use her for money rituals. You don't know how much he earns, and you don't know if that 30k is 1% of his salary.

When you get your own girlfriend, give her 200 Naira per month. For now, allow the guy do what he wants with his money.

PUSSYHOE:
You can give same advice to your blood brother?