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thesilentman:
While at AOCOED,the last couples' life i lived did not end on a romantic note.This sexy and slender beauty that i had banged like over a hundred times just woke up one sunday and started preaching the gospel to me,that what we were doing is called "living in sin" and that we should stop it and all that jazz.I was shocked.Like play like play,this young lady became a heavy church-goer and a big time S.U. She's now married to an RCCG pastor.Imagine!

After reading your post, all my doubts on if I'll marry or not has been removed.

Zyxsc:
This is my confession

I first saw her profile pics on Nairaland. Let's call her Rachel. Later, I got to know she stays in the same hostel as I. She was into me more than I am into her. She attempted to come closer but I wouldn't have that. I resisted because my kind of introvert prefers being alone. I can't tolerate people's presence for long. Even my girlfriends, ex and then-present, I can only tolerate for a maximum of three days. Afterwards I would become hostile towards them till they eventually leave. But Rachel, she would leave and come back the following day, no matter how hostile I was the previous day. Gradually, she taught me how to tolerate people's presence more. I started getting comfortable with her. Then comes the second issue.

I have a very short temper. I flare up on any slight provocation. Rachel, she would remain calm while I'm angry. Once she notice I'm calm, she would come to me and ask me to reminisce the reason for my anger if it's bigger than an issue we could have resolved by discussing. She uses many other vices to correct me in a very respectful way. In the event I get angry while being corrected, she wouldn't raise her voice. She just wants to teach me, most things that trigger my anger can easily be resolved through communication. Gradually, I learn to be slow to anger and speak my temper. There, she taught me to be a better communicator and have a better grip over my temperament.

While all these went on, the sex wasn't amiss, even though it's usually my 2 seconds jiggy-jiggy. She noticed I was bogged by my inability to last long. Then she told me a secret that spurred me into action. I made my research. I found how to last long and give better pre-intimacy and got really good at the game.

From the start of my narration till the last paragraph, it was 5 years of cohabitation already, but it was a blessing. I would still be the primitive version of myself if I hadn't engaged in that.

So in case you're thinking it's bad to cohabit in school, of course it is, but that's your opinion. It's okay to have one, but don't shove it down our throat.[b]

[b]Does it affect my grades?
sure, it does. I came out with a second class upper. Strong or not strong, second class upper na second class upper. I might not have had a first class even if I didn't live a couple's life. And come to think of it, I am doing better than the first class graduate of my set.

Will I be glad if my daughter does it?
Of course, no. I wouldn't. But shit happens and life goes on yet. To the best of my knowledge, my Dad didn't even attend any tertiary institution, talk more of doing it. So my doing it or not doing it wouldn't affect my daughter's decision to either do it or not. Just live your life and enjoy it the best way you can

I and Rachel are not dating presently, but I value her more than any lady I've ever come across because she's had great impact in my life. The changes I experienced while cohabitating with her formed the foundation of any positive change I am presently undergoing.

You were lucky to have found Rachel (not her real name I guess), only 1 in 1,000,000 Nigerian girls are anything like Rachel

I too found someone I loved very much and I could have laid my life down for her though we never cohabited, met 300l started love while I was serving which lasted 5years though we never agreed we were dating, she was worth everything but she’s long gone, we’re both married to other human beings, she no be like all this our money money girls wey go go any length to collect even your last money for pocket to buy wig or even wreck your business so she can have ten minutes fame

Plenty Nigerian girls are just something else

Awwwnn..so beautiful

africanman2002:
That is the mistake today's parents make,and many of our young girls have refused to help themselves. Today's parents want answer my daughter is a graduate without any financial help to their daughters,the girls in turn engages in all sorts of things to survive and live big,doing regular abortion,treatment of disease, transmission of diseases including HIV/AIDS.parents always provide your daughters with basic necessities and daughter s always be contented with what you have.Any flies that refuses to listen follows corp's to the grave.

Not just to the girls, even the guys. A student will tell his parents he needs like 5k to feed for some days. They'll start ranting that there's no money this and that but if you tell them you urgently need to pay 50k and it's very important else you won't graduate, they'll conjure that money out of thin air under 30 minutes.

All parents want to hear is "my ward is a graduate". How you want to do it, they don't care.

LordOfTheGame:
Na so my dear... lies everywhere.

Me, I didn't do that shit cos I didn't go to university. I graduated from primary school level to do my masters and later travelled out for my second masters degree. So I didn't have they 1st degree living experience.

Eeeeeeh.... Inside life.

spiralwedge:
Your experience is similar to mine, though outside the country. I hold her in high esteem and respect, though married.
If this your Rachel is still available, bros I will like to reach out. At least, date to see if we are compatible

you read how he bang her front and back, yet you talking about compatibility... simply be straight, and say you want to go on a trip too

Zyxsc:
This is my confession

I first saw her profile pics on Nairaland. Let's call her Rachel. Later, I got to know she stays in the same hostel as I. She was into me more than I am into her. She attempted to come closer but I wouldn't have that. I resisted because my kind of introvert prefers being alone. I can't tolerate people's presence for long. Even my girlfriends, ex and then-present, I can only tolerate for a maximum of three days. Afterwards I would become hostile towards them till they eventually leave. But Rachel, she would leave and come back the following day, no matter how hostile I was the previous day. Gradually, she taught me how to tolerate people's presence more. I started getting comfortable with her. Then comes the second issue.

I have a very short temper. I flare up on any slight provocation. Rachel, she would remain calm while I'm angry. Once she notice I'm calm, she would come to me and ask me to reminisce the reason for my anger if it's bigger than an issue we could have resolved by discussing. She uses many other vices to correct me in a very respectful way. In the event I get angry while being corrected, she wouldn't raise her voice. She just wants to teach me, most things that trigger my anger can easily be resolved through communication. Gradually, I learn to be slow to anger and speak my temper. There, she taught me to be a better communicator and have a better grip over my temperament.

While all these went on, the sex wasn't amiss, even though it's usually my 2 seconds jiggy-jiggy. She noticed I was bogged by my inability to last long. Then she told me a secret that spurred me into action. I made my research. I found how to last long and give better pre-intimacy and got really good at the game.

From the start of my narration till the last paragraph, it was 5 years of cohabitation already, but it was a blessing. I would still be the primitive version of myself if I hadn't engaged in that.

So in case you're thinking it's bad to cohabit in school, of course it is, but that's your opinion. It's okay to have one, but don't shove it down our throat.[b]

[b]Does it affect my grades?
sure, it does. I came out with a second class upper. Strong or not strong, second class upper na second class upper. I might not have had a first class even if I didn't live a couple's life. And come to think of it, I am doing better than the first class graduate of my set.

Will I be glad if my daughter does it?
Of course, no. I wouldn't. But shit happens and life goes on yet. To the best of my knowledge, my Dad didn't even attend any tertiary institution, talk more of doing it. So my doing it or not doing it wouldn't affect my daughter's decision to either do it or not. Just live your life and enjoy it the best way you can

I and Rachel are not dating presently, but I value her more than any lady I've ever come across because she's had great impact in my life. The changes I experienced while cohabitating with her formed the foundation of any positive change I am presently undergoing.

I rarely comment on Nairaland but your post drew me out.

When people alter the statement- What else can they offer other than sex, this right here is a very good example.

I will always SAY this- A decorated face is good but a decorated brain is better but sadly a higher percentage of girls priorities the face more than the other BUT CERTAINLY NOT ALL.


Thank you for making this comment.

femmyapson:
Is there a government owned prestigious university in Nigeria?
The ones I know are private.. and no chance for couples life cos they are camped inside a compound.
Meanwhile please remove the prestige thing on the comment.Thanks

Their are government owned prestigious universities in Nigeria such as The first, second and third generations university in Nigeria. The first generation Universities in Nigeria are UI,UNN,ABU, OAU,Uniben.
The Second generation universities in Nigeria are,University of calabar,Unijos, uniport, unilorin, university of sokoto, University of kano. I considered those listed universities as prestige based on their past positivism antecedent for nation developments

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Wahala for we wey no study for naija. I graduated from Harvard University in Sambisa

Moyenii:
Announcement pls!

All couples, intending, current and future couples, pls read my signature and patronize me oh. Comman register your business with the CAC biko .

You are a lawyer?

pray you dont have carry over, or else i will deal with you. stubborn boy

olukaygold:
This is my own couple's life story
First year started with no sex relationship when I was in 100l(Ronke God go judge you for those money you chop without seeing your pant)
200l-na when I started couple's life with Toyin(not real name) well it lasted for 3months
300-this one is not couples life but confirm marriage life, it's now 1yr with 2months,even during Coro, we're still together, I hope and pray this is my last bus stop sha.in all Couple's life Sweet if your partner is loyal and cherished you.

Zyxsc:
[s]This is my confessionI first saw her profile pics on Nairaland. Let's call her Rachel. Later, I got to know she stays in the same hostel as I. She was into me more than I am into her. She attempted to come closer but I wouldn't have that. I resisted because my kind of introvert prefers being alone. I can't tolerate people's presence for long. Even my girlfriends, ex and then-present, I can only tolerate for a maximum of three days. Afterwards I would become hostile towards them till they eventually leave. But Rachel, she would leave and come back the following day, no matter how hostile I was the previous day. Gradually, she taught me how to tolerate people's presence more. I started getting comfortable with her. Then comes the second issue.I have a very short temper. I flare up on any slight provocation. Rachel, she would remain calm while I'm angry. Once she notice I'm calm, she would come to me and ask me to reminisce the reason for my anger if it's bigger than an issue we could have resolved by discussing. She uses many other vices to correct me in a very respectful way. In the event I get angry while being corrected, she wouldn't raise her voice. She just wants to teach me, most things that trigger my anger can easily be resolved through communication. Gradually, I learn to be slow to anger and speak my temper. There, she taught me to be a better communicator and have a better grip over mytemperament.While all these went on, the sex wasn't amiss, even though it's usually my 2 seconds jiggy-jiggy. She noticed I was bogged by my inability to last long. Then she told me a secret that spurred me into action. I made my research. I found how to last long and give better pre-intimacy and got really good at the game.From the start of my narration till the last paragraph, it was 5 years of cohabitation already, but it was a blessing. I would still be the primitive version of myself if I hadn't engaged in that.So in case you're thinking it's bad to cohabit in school, of course it is, but that's your opinion. It's okay to have one, but don't shove it down our throat.Does it affect my grades?sure, it does. I came out with a second class upper. Strong or not strong, second class upper na second class upper. I might not have had a first class even if I didn't live a couple's life. And come to think of it, I am doing better than the first class graduate of my set.Will I be glad if my daughter does it?Of course, no. I wouldn't. But shit happens and life goes on yet. To the best of my knowledge, my Dad didn't even attend any tertiary institution, talk more of doing it. So my doing it or not doing it wouldn't affect my daughter's decision to either do it or not. Just live your life and enjoy it the best way you canI and Rachel are not dating presently, but I value her more than any lady I've ever come across because she's had great impact in my life. The changes I experienced while cohabitating with her formed the foundation of any positive change I am presently undergoing[/s].

You sound so pompous.

You disgust me.

We virgins don't do that,,,,,


The remaining virgins should please line up behind me,,,,,,,,,

Hmnn

AKAyomide:
Their are government owned prestigious universities in Nigeria such as The first, second and third generations university in Nigeria. The first generation Universities in Nigeria are UI,UNN,ABU, OAU,Uniben.
The Second generation universities in Nigeria are,University of calabar,Unijos, uniport, unilorin, university of sokoto, University of kano. I considered those listed universities as prestige based on their past positivism antecedent for nation developments

The same shit hole institution they keep mentioning. Go to SA and compare the federal secondaryversity here with the public uni in SA. prestigious ko. presidency ni

tillaman:
Yes I did, I really like that stuff and also there was no suffocation based on a real niqqa shiiit I rented a cheap room self con for my away matches!!
On code

chai badooo

Zyxsc:
This is my confession

I first saw her profile pics on Nairaland. Let's call her Rachel. Later, I got to know she stays in the same hostel as I. She was into me more than I am into her. She attempted to come closer but I wouldn't have that. I resisted because my kind of introvert prefers being alone. I can't tolerate people's presence for long. Even my girlfriends, ex and then-present, I can only tolerate for a maximum of three days. Afterwards I would become hostile towards them till they eventually leave. But Rachel, she would leave and come back the following day, no matter how hostile I was the previous day. Gradually, she taught me how to tolerate people's presence more. I started getting comfortable with her. Then comes the second issue.

I have a very short temper. I flare up on any slight provocation. Rachel, she would remain calm while I'm angry. Once she notice I'm calm, she would come to me and ask me to reminisce the reason for my anger if it's bigger than an issue we could have resolved by discussing. She uses many other vices to correct me in a very respectful way. In the event I get angry while being corrected, she wouldn't raise her voice. She just wants to teach me, most things that trigger my anger can easily be resolved through communication. Gradually, I learn to be slow to anger and speak my temper. There, she taught me to be a better communicator and have a better grip over my temperament.

While all these went on, the sex wasn't amiss, even though it's usually my 2 seconds jiggy-jiggy. She noticed I was bogged by my inability to last long. Then she told me a secret that spurred me into action. I made my research. I found how to last long and give better pre-intimacy and got really good at the game.

From the start of my narration till the last paragraph, it was 5 years of cohabitation already, but it was a blessing. I would still be the primitive version of myself if I hadn't engaged in that.

So in case you're thinking it's bad to cohabit in school, of course it is, but that's your opinion. It's okay to have one, but don't shove it down our throat.[b]

[b]Does it affect my grades?
sure, it does. I came out with a second class upper. Strong or not strong, second class upper na second class upper. I might not have had a first class even if I didn't live a couple's life. And come to think of it, I am doing better than the first class graduate of my set.

Will I be glad if my daughter does it?
Of course, no. I wouldn't. But shit happens and life goes on yet. To the best of my knowledge, my Dad didn't even attend any tertiary institution, talk more of doing it. So my doing it or not doing it wouldn't affect my daughter's decision to either do it or not. Just live your life and enjoy it the best way you can

I and Rachel are not dating presently, but I value her more than any lady I've ever come across because she's had great impact in my life. The changes I experienced while cohabitating with her formed the foundation of any positive change I am presently undergoing.

It was almost like i was reading something I must have typed and I didn't know when I typed (except for the cohabitation part shaaa...) i have same temperament as you and I am an introvert also... Infact everything about ur kind of person that you typed is me.

femmyapson:
The same shit hole institution they keep mentioning. Go to SA and compare the federal secondaryversity here with the public uni in SA. prestigious ko. presidency ni

Take it easy man.. He is not responsible for your frustration.

ChemicalReaction:
And you're LordOfTheGame? Lol
Whatever made you settle for that moniker

Yes na, you no see sey everybody just dey react with different lies cos nairaland is a faceless forum. Lols...

Btw, moniker is real cos am the real Lord.

Belmot:
Take it easy man.. He is not responsible for your frustration.

Young man, Use your head before you spew out rubbish.
I am stating facts here and you call it frustration.
Ode ni bobo yi sha..

Yes sir

Maduawuchukwu:
You are a lawyer?

Moyenii:
Yes sir

Same with me. I practice in Kaduna. Soon moving to Abj though.

Only stupid Boys do that rubbish, and if you observe, the ladies always end up better than the men although the men back then thought they were enjoying - acting like husband

profmallor:
Only stupid Boys do that rubbish, and if you observe, the ladies always end up better than the men although the men back then thought they were enjoying - acting like husband

Confirm lie joor!

For the ones I know back then na so ooo. The lady that slept her way through Higher institution has little problems sleeping through promotions and Bonuses, while the stupid guy probably ends up with yeye grades and is still hustling. while it was not uncommon to see guys with loans of girlfriends in school which is the norm, Men tying themselves to a lady in the name of cohabit was not common when I was in school simply because the men didnt have that time to waste.

EaglesEyes1:
Confirm lie joor!

Okay. Nice

Maduawuchukwu:
Same with me. I practice in Kaduna. Soon moving to Abj though.

femmyapson:
Young man, Use your head before you spew out rubbish.
I am stating facts here and you call it frustration.
Ode ni bobo yi sha..

You're still frustrated.... Oponu Ayirada

profmallor:
For the ones I know back then na so ooo. The lady that slept her way through Higher institution has little problems sleeping through promotions and Bonuses, while the stupid guy probably ends up with yeye grades and is still hustling. while it was not uncommon to see guys with loans of girlfriends in school which is the norm, Men tying themselves to a lady in the name of cohabit was not common when I was in school simply because the men didnt have that time to waste.

That's your believe bro, and whatever you fear or believe comes to you. FYI some people who have done much worse are still making it in terms of been financially successful.

olukaygold:
This is my own couple's life story
First year started with no sex relationship when I was in 100l(Ronke God go judge you for those money you chop without seeing your pant)
200l-na when I started couple's life with Toyin(not real name) well it lasted for 3months
300-this one is not couples life but confirm marriage life, it's now 1yr with 2months,even during Coro, we're still together, I hope and pray this is my last bus stop sha.in all Couple's life Sweet if your partner is loyal and cherished you.

Enough Condoms, or else, enough abortions..
That's one disadvantage of thaaa shiiii

kizwid:
you read how he bang her front and back, yet you talking about compatibility... simply be straight, and say you want to go on a trip too

Everyone has a past bro. When you get to a certain age, you will understand that life companionship is not about who she has been with.

Ok