Khd95:
why do guys ask their girls to wash their clothes for them


i dont feel comfortable with that, even tho i have had a girl that voluntarily wanted to do that, i vehemently rejected it

Only dirty guys allow their ladies to clean up their mess only if you are sick. If you can't your laundry, take it to any laundry services around you. Be a man of pride. I wish our young women earn their money, it gets why.

That is why I choose my beer as my gf bcoz no stress except the fish head they tire me chop sometimes.

Ayo2004:

Is that not what she is?

That's what he's turned her into and is even feeling fly about it. A girlfriend of two months is doing wifely duties. What nonsense insult do women receive all in the bid to have money?


Imagine. Even you being comfortable to term someone such horrible name shows you're no different from the kind of demeaning person Op is.

Sixfeetbelle:


That's what he's turned her into and is even feeling fly about it. A girlfriend of two months is doing wifely duties. What nonsense insult do women receive all in the bid to have money?


Imagine. Even you being comfortable to term someone such horrible name shows you're no different from the kind of demeaning person Op is.

The fact of life is once u are dependent on some1 financially,most would surely want to control u..a lesson Nigerian women and girls know but won't acknowledge

IamAngelica:
Wait let me get this straight..is your girlfriend your house girl? To wash your clothes and sweep your house? I don't even understand you men these days..i understand that you don't like that she's generally lazy and uses YOUR money to fund her lifestyle but bringing your house chores into the picture is completely wrong because she's not your WIFE! Ordinary girlfriend and you want to enslave her. Have you ever asked her why she behaves like that? Why she's lazy for even sex? Might be deeper than you think. When you're calm, have a sit down with her and trash things out..please if you want someone to do your chores, do them yourself or hire somebody.

Wats bad in a woman washing Clothes for her man and doing the house chores if she's working or not

Khd95:
why do guys ask their girls to wash their clothes for them


i dont feel comfortable with that, even tho i have had a girl that voluntarily wanted to do that, i vehemently rejected it

I feel as the man u don't need to ask them to wash your clothes for u. If she doesn't volunteer to help U in washing ur clothes then why are u in that relationship. It's our tradition for women to b the home caretakers and if she can't show that little aspect of helping u wash ur clothes while still dating,I wonder what she will say she won't do wen u marry her. As a man u are the HEAD OF THE RELATIONSHIP.

THE DECISION TO REJECT THE HELP OFFERED FROM HIS LADY IS UP TO THE MAN.
BUT THE LADY SHOULD AT LEAST OFFER THE HELP IT SHOWS AND PORTRAYS HER FEMININITY

A relationship is not 50/50

A relationship is a team sports that has a leader,THE MAN and a supporter,THE LADY

IF U DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS THEN MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR YOU SHEKINA

DEMZEE:


Wats bad in a woman washing Clothes for her man and doing the house chores if she's working or not

She should do it because she WANTS to, not because he told her to

IamAngelica:
She should do it because she WANTS to, not because he told her to

Yes she must not be shamed or belittled for wanting to but she should feel joyful in wanting to cos it is her feminine nature to want to

DEMZEE:


Yes she must not be shamed or belittled for wanting to but she should feel joyful in wanting to cos it is her feminine nature to want to

Exactly it comes naturally for her to want to do these things if she loves you but it doesn't mean that she's wrong if she chooses not to or that she should be taken for granted if she decides to.

IamAngelica:
Exactly it comes naturally for her to want to do these things if she loves you but it doesn't mean that she's wrong if she chooses not to or that she should be taken for granted if she decides to.

Exactly and she should not fight her nature and accept it with her all