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Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Nobody: 1:30pm On Nov 28, 2020
kingxsamz:


You keep talking about structure and standards. grin
I'm asking who made it so?
Just because emails are used most times does not mean using other methods is unprofessional or not properly structured.
Where did you get the notion from that emails are used for an organization, but whatsapp is for one man business? grin abeg.

Based on my role and work experience. We don't use WhatsApp because WhatsApp own the data not the company. I mentioned One man business because they are most often to have less structure when starting out and I put the clause for non structured. I didn't say one man business only use WhatsApp for communication. Also Mary is wrong, but a proper professional introduction will be to introduce yourself and intent of the message at a go.

Whats wrong with

Good morning Mary, this is Mr Emmanuel from One man company and sons, we are contacting you to discuss your interest in our organization based on the email you sent us. Gbam all these would be avoided, then again Mary needs the job not him, so she's wrong for not having emotional intelligence also.

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Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by lomprico(m): 1:30pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
I do not support the lady's rudeness, but the company should have informed her on the method they would use to contact her in case she was selected. It is just standard procedure.

with all your standards will u hire an employee like her?

yes or no!
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Jashub: 1:33pm On Nov 28, 2020
Oktane:


There is absolutely nothing wrong with the way the interview was conducted. His Salutations should have calmed her down; 'Hello Mary'.

He greeted her with her first name. What more was she expecting? The least she could have done is to be a little patient.

But no need to argue about this. The message has been passed. Even Mary would have learnt her lessons judging from the way she begged later on as if her life was dependent on that job.

Important question for you Sir;
With benefit of hindsight, do you think she will repeat this behaviour consciously in a subsequent experience?

That is the best answer to the question regarding if she was wrong or not.

I rest my case.
Life did not begin and end with this company, so Mary will get another job (most certainly).

But the company should upgrade their HR if they want to stay in business.

Peace.
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Jashub: 1:34pm On Nov 28, 2020
lomprico:


with all your standards will u hire an employee like her?

yes or no!
I would if I gave a prior notice.
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Nobody: 1:36pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
Life did not begin and end with this company, so Mary will get another job (most certainly).

But the company should upgrade their HR if they want to stay in business.

Peace.

Mary has a fault too in this. Today she has learnt the situation Reverse Halo Effect, she will do well to be courteous in the future.
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by lomprico(m): 1:42pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
I would if I gave a prior notice.

and what notice did you think the recruiter was trying to give?
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Jashub: 1:46pm On Nov 28, 2020
pcguru1:


Mary has a fault too in this. Today she has learnt the situation Reverse Halo Effect, she will do well to be courteous in the future.
What relationship does courtesy have with incompetence? undecided
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Jashub: 1:47pm On Nov 28, 2020
lomprico:


and what notice did you think the recruiter was trying to give?
Buzzing people on WhatsApp with strange numbers without prior notification is not a way to go about a recruitment excercise!
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Mitsurugi(m): 1:52pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
The company is not smart, it is just one of those mushroom companies that have no organization. It is companies like these that will owe you till eternity.


Well that remains to be proven. I'm more interested in the prospective employee who has already proven to be a potential toxicity was she erroneously hired.
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by EgunMogaji2: 1:55pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
Na lie you dey talk. In the US na law suit go follow this company...wallahi.

What will the lawsuit be for?

In the USA I've contacted people specifically for job openings and interviews using WhatsApp. Have you?

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Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Nobody: 1:56pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
What relationship does have courtesy with incompetence? undecided

Negative character trait can be used to judge an overall person's competence even though its wrong.
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by ibechris(m): 1:56pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
I do not support the lady's rudeness, but the company should have informed her on the method they would use to contact her in case she was selected. It is just standard procedure.


Whatever method they applied has nothing to do with her rudeness...she is simply rude and stupid.

Thank goodness she messed herself up at least to give room for others to be called.
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Ladyvixen: 1:57pm On Nov 28, 2020
Patience is actually one of the prominent keys in life...she probably thought he was just one female chaser cool,but for the fact that he tried to calm her down,she sef for try hold small break..
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by lomprico(m): 1:58pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
Buzzing people on WhatsApp with stranger numbers without prior notification is not a way to go about a recruitment excercise!

this is the 21st century, some recruiters place calls to prospects. they dont have to have the number saved! buzzing at WhatsApp is not a taboo. go back and read d girls response after the first salutation.

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Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Jashub: 1:59pm On Nov 28, 2020
EgunMogaji2:


What will the lawsuit be for?

In the USA I've contacted people specifically for job openings and interviews using WhatsApp. Have you?
Via chatting abi? Mtchww
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Jashub: 2:01pm On Nov 28, 2020
EgunMogaji2:


What will the lawsuit be for?

In the USA I've contacted people specifically for job openings and interviews using WhatsApp. Have you?
Did you not give them prior notice? Did you start the way this joker started out? Answer me
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by openmine(m): 2:09pm On Nov 28, 2020
genitori:


No, the company didn't have to inform her the mode of contact. That is why you give your VALID numbers and mail addresses during job application.

They may want to test how you relate with people (strangers especially). The way you tested this aunty, I suppose.
You have said everything!
No company would like to hire a personnel that lacks interpersonal and intrapersonal skills!
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by dazzlingd(m): 2:17pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
It will make you sick because it is the truth! But a slave like you does not understand this.

The shithole(Nigeria) you live is the way it is because people like you foolishly choose to embrace nonsense all in the name of staying alive.

You are a dumb idiot.....

Pls go employ her and give us a break
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by LordOfTheGame: 2:18pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
I agree, but try and look at it from this perspective : you receiving a text from an anonymous number on WhatsApp is a breach on your privacy and security. And as you know, this is 9ja, and you cannot vouch for the next man. So her response is only natural given the circumstances


My friend stop supporting idiocy. Nobody invaded her stupid and poverty ravaged privacy. The moment she made her phone number public in application for a job, the employer is free to use the number in any platform at his disposal, which WhatsApp is a platform like that. Why didnt she give them her email if her number is her privacy? I can bet you, if the employer had called her in a direct call, that's how the bitch would've still responded or even worse. A mannerless girl is a mannerless girl, nothing can change her except situations like this. What happens to answering the greeting and politely ask "May I know you, please" or "Please I don't think i know or have met you before, could you please explain yourself ".... statements like this are super matured and polite. Even if the caller or the writer is a toaster, these lines of statements can knock him off balance for a moment and reset his views about the girl.
Anyways, Some nigerian and African girls are the worst set of women a man should talk to.

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Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by dazzlingd(m): 2:19pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
What relationship does courtesy have with incompetence? undecided

The way u speak really shows u are lacking something upstairs....
Have u taken your meds
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by dazzlingd(m): 2:22pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
Via chatting abi? Mtchww

How old are u? either u are below 12 being way too immature and haven't seen life or above 75 and have gone archaic.
No offense but you don't appear intellectually sound...and most annoying you think u are smart

Whatzap that people are using for businesses and closing deals is your problem abi..
Do u know the skills they required for the job, maybe interpersonal relationship is a prerequisite??
You are just dumb and should shut up in Shame already

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Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by trutht828: 2:22pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
I do not support the lady's rudeness, but the company should have informed her on the method they would use to contact her in case she was selected. It is just standard procedure.

It goes a long way to test her manners.
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by kingxsamz(m): 2:23pm On Nov 28, 2020
pcguru1:


Based on my role and work experience. We don't use WhatsApp because WhatsApp own the data not the company. I mentioned One man business because they are most often to have less structure when starting out and I put the clause for non structured. I didn't say one man business only use WhatsApp for communication. Also Mary is wrong, but a proper professional introduction will be to introduce yourself and intent of the message at a go.

Whats wrong with

Good morning Mary, this is Mr Emmanuel from One man company and sons, we are contacting you to discuss your interest in our organization based on the email you sent us. Gbam all these would be avoided, then again Mary needs the job not him, so she's wrong for not having emotional intelligence also.

Lol, all what you wrote proves my point. It all depends on the company itself. This organization uses emails, the other uses other platforms because it's suitable to them. It doesn't make it less professional.
It all boils down to what means the company wants to share its information. You get?

Now, there's nothing wrong with Mr Emmanuel starting the conversation with a "Good evening". Get this, Absolutely nothing wrong . If you check the time stamps, you'd see that he wanted to arrive at that point of introduction, but first, he needs to confirm that it's actually Mary he's chatting with. How would you just text a number on WhatsApp and start introducing yourself when you're not sure that you're chatting with the right person? undecided It makes no sense.
It's not as if that if he doesn't introduce himself at the first text the world would end. undecided
C'mon... Finding fault in a "Hello, good evening Mary" is just you defending her attitude and manner which she responded. There's no two ways about it. If she didn't like the good evening, she should have ignored.
Even you won't respond that way.
If you're against his greeting at first, you're definitely in support of her response. Simple as that.
And if you read the full story, you'd see that he already called before texting, which she didn't pick.

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Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Saig: 2:24pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
I agree, but try and look at it from this perspective : you receiving a text from an anonymous number on WhatsApp is a breach on your privacy and security. And as you know, this is 9ja, and you cannot vouch for the next man. So her response is only natural given the circumstances
Na lie! who knows whether even if it were evil intended for her, her politeness would avert it and change the mind of the person from harming her?
Let's not encourage nonsense pls.
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by toye440: 2:24pm On Nov 28, 2020
odinson1:
Who is bringing up all these mannerless and uncouth Ladies
I wonder what nigerian ladies Gain in being unnecessarily rude to strangers


So I finally made first to comment in a front page topicgrin I dedicate this FTC to Righteousness89 and Slawomiir
See Why marriage dey fear me even at my age. Na only our fathers marry wife, what we have today na apologies.

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Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by dazzlingd(m): 2:28pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
Buzzing people on WhatsApp with strange numbers without prior notification is not a way to go about a recruitment excercise!

Obviously u don't have a job and you don't have a business u run.....you don't even sense making it worse

I am a testimony of closing deals on whatzap, I havebuzzed on whatzap and deal was closed without even speaking but all through chats...
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Realhommie(m): 2:29pm On Nov 28, 2020
jamesharryson:


Most ladies lack manners. I can remember last year during Jamb registration, a lady was having a serious issue doing regularisation of admission. She went to Jamb Office Umuahia but the person she met there directed her to come to my CBT center. That she should ask of Matthew (Which is me) that he will do it perfectly and settle the lingering problem easier. She was trying to go for service.

On getting to my office, I met her at the door. "Hellooo, good morning how are you and how may we be of help to you today" I said to her. The funny girl looked at me from hair to toe hissed and replied; "it's like you lack manners" maybe because she was brought in a Toyota Camry 2004 model. I felt like the ground to open and swallow me. I went out being embarrassed. The poor girl went into my office to report me to my staff. That it's like these stupid boys that work here are mannerless. The girl apologized, not knowing she was referring to me. She then said she was sent from Jamb office to meet one Mr Matthew. I was called. When I came in she found out that it was the same stupid boy she embarrassed at the entrance. She was silent for more than 5 minutes. The next thing was apology.
Trust me, I accepted the apology but I delayed her till jamb closed the portal for regularisation. At least she lost a year cos of that.
Women are just something else
She was wrong no doubt and she duly apologized afterwards whether she did with the right intention or not..

You said you accepted her apology but you still went on to pay her back and made her lose a year. Now tell me, what does that make you? You think you're any different from her?

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Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by poseidon12: 2:29pm On Nov 28, 2020
I'm not surprised. Nigerians are generally rude. We are either brown nosing or rude.
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by dazzlingd(m): 2:29pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
Na lie you dey talk. In the US na law suit go follow this company...wallahi.

Go and sue them na for $10m.....you be mumu wey never pass nigeria border...
And even if u pass, na only your body pass, your sense no follow
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Jashub: 2:30pm On Nov 28, 2020
LordOfTheGame:



My friend stop supporting idiocy. Nobody invaded her stupid and poverty ravaged privacy. The moment she made her phone number public in application for a job, the employer is free to use the number in any platform at his disposal, which WhatsApp is a platform like that. Why didnt she give them her email if her number is her privacy? I can bet you, if the employer had called her in a direct call, that's how the bitch would've still responded or even worse. A mannerless girl is a mannerless girl, nothing can change her except situations like this. What happens to answering the greeting and politely ask "May I know you, please" or "Please I don't think i know or have met you before, could you please explain yourself ".... statements like this are super matured and polite. Even if the caller or the writer is a toaster, these lines of statements can knock him off balance for a moment and reset his views about the girl.
Anyways, Some nigerian and African girls are the worst set of women a man should talk to.
Your post reeks of extreme foolishness and lack of consideration.
But let me ask you this :

1.What would it have cost the company to give the lady prior notice before reaching out to her ?

2. Should interviews be conducted on WhatsApp through strange numbers?

3. The HR agent did not even package his text well: he was breaking sentences like a would-be suitor. Who the hell does that?!
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Jashub: 2:32pm On Nov 28, 2020
dazzlingd:


Obviously u don't have a job and you don't have a business u run.....you don't even sense making it worse

I am a testimony of closing deals on whatzap, I havebuzzed on whatzap and deal was closed without even speaking but all through chats...

In 9ja... the shithole you keep using as standard.
Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by dazzlingd(m): 2:34pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jashub:
In 9ja... the shithole you keep using as standard.

You are very stupid....it is obvious
Better go and get a job even if it is cyber cafe job because it is obvious u don't know what the business world is all about

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