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Why call him or her your partner if you can’t go through their phones – Ruth Kadiri speaks.

Popular Nigerian actress and film producer Ruth Kadiri has questioned why partners cannot freely go through each other’s phones.

The boss of Ruth Kadiri Films said this while answering a question.

“Is it ever OK to check your partner’s phone?” the question reads.
In response, Ruth said:

“Why call him or her your partner if you can’t go through their phones Once the shreds of secrecy is allowed then so many things sets in. My thought. Correct me if I’m wrong.”

Gbam

It's unfortunate we live in a generation where partners can touch each other's private parts but term their phones private property

Partners that are free and faithful to each other can't be hiding their phones for themselves.

We live in times where cheating, infidelity and adultery has skyrocketed because of the same phone through social media. It takes a lot of discipline and determination these days to be chaste and faithful.

But for anyone's best interest, I think you shouldn't be so curious to check your partner's phone.

gbam! partners fone are their private part while their private part are public

The only reason I'll give you my phone is if you are dying and you need it for emergency call. Even at that I may end up making the call myself.

What made her opinion Relevant


Why should you go through your partner's phone? What are you going to look for there? Can you bear and be mature about it if you eventually find what you're looking for?


Your mates are looking for ways to make their country better, na your partner' phone be your own wahala


Misplaced priorities


Peace

Ahmed0336:
Gbam

It's unfortunate we live in a generation where partners can touch each other's private parts but term their phones private property

Touching your partner's private parts does not cause divorce.

thesicilian:
Touching your partner's private parts does not cause divorce.

wetin bring divorce for dis mata


There should be openness in marriage. I go through my wife's phone and vice versa. No hidden charges

thesicilian:
Touching your partner's private parts does not cause divorce.

It would if it's without my consent,

Phones have screen locks for a good reason so even if we are partners stay off my phone

Ahmed0336:
wetin bring divorce for dis mata


There should be openness in marriage. I go through my wife's phone and vice versa. No hidden charges

Hahaha
Bro no go try yourself o.
E clear say u neva marry.
Even an innocent "hi, how're you doing" from a female colleague is enough to arouse suspicion in a jealous wife. If you want to live long and happy in your marriage you better learn to keep your phone to yourself.

Some people don't like their phones checked it's a norm for them but if you like checking your partner's phone you might probably want to date someone that welcome's the idea of it.
Save yourself the trouble.

Abeg this table you wan shake so, na your head e go nack oooo, oyibo way put mouth for this matter say “let sleeping dogs lie” why u wan disturb dem na?

If that will reduce the price of onions, then it's a big YES

thesicilian:
Hahaha
Bro no go try yourself o.
E clear say u neva marry.
Even an innocent "hi, how're you doing" from a female colleague is enough to arouse suspicion in a jealous wife. If you want to live long and happy in your marriage you better learn to keep your phone to yourself.

then you have no idea whom you are talking to. happily married for 14 years by Jan 23 will be 15.

Not every guy keeping his phone private could be cheating. Some have bank credit transactions, delicate business messages, meetings and other things that an entitled girl might feel the need to ask for her share. So the best is to keep it locked.

Let me use myself as an example, the last place I worked, we had an issue with our bank so we were told to process our customers transactions directly from our personal salary account. So the customers I was managing, they began making transactions directly to my bank account pending when the issue would be resolved.

Now how would you explain to an entitled girl would scrolls through you phone and sees several credit alert amounting to over 10m that it doesn't belong to you. Una go fight taya that day.

If she's a street girl, she can even organize boys to kidnap you and clean your account.

For me keeping my phone private has nothing to do with cheating, it's for security purposes.

It's simple people don't want their phones being checked randomly because they have their sh1t hidden there, women wh0re themselves for attention, money sells their bodies, Instagram attention-seeking from strangers and random men, photoshop, nudity, flirting. you name it the evidence of debauchery is usually in the phone that's why you must check it whenever you want.

men also provide financial assistance, pay for sex, flirt, cheat with these whores. either way, the society that we live in hides its shreds of evidence (good or bad) in the phone

My phone is not even password protected, the only thing I'll be scared of someone finding in my phone is exotic photos

Ahmed0336:
then you have no idea whom you are talking to. happily married for 14 years by Jan 23 will be 15.

Maximum respects.
But if you're going to tell me that your wife has unfettered access to your phone, then the only logical conclusion I can make is that you have a secret phone. Or you're one of those "delete after reading" (suspicious photos, chats, bank alerts etc) kind of people.

thesicilian:
Maximum respects.
But if you're going to tell me that your wife has unfettered access to your phone, then the only logical conclusion I can make is that you have a secret phone. Or you're one of those "delete after reading" (suspicious photos, chats, bank alerts etc) kind of people.

I don't have any secret phone. I only delete bank alerts for security reasons. as for my phone she have unlimited access to it and for your information I have never cheated on my wife so why hide/password my phone? not all men cheat and I am proud to be among them.

:Touching your partner's private parts does not cause divorce.It would if it's without my consent,

thesicilian:
The only reason I'll give you my phone is if you are dying and you need it for emergency call. Even at that I may end up making the call myself.

na you know wetin dey your phone!