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Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Dec 02, 2020
Some live to harness themselves for it.

Some would set no other goal & do nothing else but look forward to the excitement of being married.

For a man or a woman, Is marriage and having kids an achievement?

When a man or a woman decides by choice not to have kids or get married, does it in anyway affect them?

What are the core importance of being married or getting married.

Is having children paramount in marriage?

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by hashtagged(m): 4:14pm On Dec 02, 2020
No they are not achievements they are liabilities

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by tnerro1(m): 4:15pm On Dec 02, 2020
First to reply grin seau I need a gold medal oooooo

How did this one get up there? cry

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by planetx13: 4:17pm On Dec 02, 2020
Ok
Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by thesicilian: 4:22pm On Dec 02, 2020
For some women, yes.
One doesn't need any special credentials to be able to marry or have children. The true achievement comes from being able to raise up godly children

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Dec 02, 2020
thesicilian:
For women, yes.
Explain further pls

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Nazgul: 4:25pm On Dec 02, 2020
thesicilian:
For some women, yes.
One doesn't need any special credentials to be able to marry or have children. The true achievement comes from being able to raise up godly children
Wouldn't you want to have kids?

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Dec 02, 2020
hashtagged:
No they are not achievements they are liabilities
cheesy
Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Zeedarh(f): 4:29pm On Dec 02, 2020
Honestly, its an individual thing.

For some people, its an achievement. Some don't care.

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by thesicilian: 4:37pm On Dec 02, 2020
Nazgul:

Wouldn't you want to have kids?
Of course, but that's not an achievement, considering the fact that even a madman can impregnate a madwoman.

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Dec 02, 2020
Nooil, where u @?
Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by gunners160(m): 4:41pm On Dec 02, 2020
Marriage is an achievement to a Lady and to most men a liability. Whenever a man should propose to a lady, the first thing you see is she is crying or shouting out of excitement. She starts flaunting and making paparazzi out of the engagement ring because she has seen some one who has helped her in accomplishing a goal. Just like the feeling of building a house

in addition to this,marriage to a woman is like a childhood fantasy come true. Ever since she was little, she has been made to belief she is a Queen and special so there is a Mr Knight somewhere who will one day marry her and fulfill all her fantasy.
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A man looks for financial independence before getting married but a woman crave for good shape and a good dress sense before getting married. She knows all what she needs is a man who can shoulder her responsibilities. that is why men get married late while women get married so early. You hear words like " i need a rich man even though he is ugly"

Also, marriage to a woman is a respect on its own. She is given respect both in and outside her home. At church she is called madam, at work she is called a Mrs and at the society she is called a mother

Finally marriage can be an achievement and also a liability depending who u end up with. they either destroy you or makedo

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by nobodii: 4:45pm On Dec 02, 2020
Kestolove:
To us it is, but for some of dem ladies dat have crossed 30 ND know husband dey console demsefs by saying it's not an achievement, watch dem cum attack me now
And No angry

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by internationalman(m): 4:50pm On Dec 02, 2020
After achieving everything in the world without a family, then you would know that kids are the biggest achievement of all...

Even though I'm scared of marriage but the feeling I get when my babe is sleeping over is enriching. I sometimes wonder how it would feel when this sleeping over happens everyday...

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Dec 02, 2020
why on Earth would marriage be an achievement?
why?

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Dec 02, 2020
internationalman:
After achieving everything in the world without a family, then you would know that kids are the biggest achievement of all...

Even though I'm scared of marriage but the feeling I get when my babe is sleeping over is enriching. I sometimes wonder how it would feel when this sleeping over happens everyday...

bro reports has it that most people get tired of that companionship just after 3 years of marriage


I can't imagie sharing the bed with one kpekus with the rest of my life .

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by gunners160(m): 4:54pm On Dec 02, 2020
internationalman:
After achieving everything in the world without a family, then you would know that kids are the biggest achievement of all...

Even though I'm scared of marriage but the feeling I get when my babe is sleeping over is enriching. I sometimes wonder how it would feel when this sleeping over happens everyday...
you are getting it wrong. u can have a family without marriage. Davido, whizkid, olamide etc are perfect examples. Talking of kids, you can also get that outside marriage, we are in the 21st century now not in an archaic one.

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Dec 02, 2020
internationalman:
After achieving everything in the world without a family, then you would know that kids are the biggest achievement of all...

Even though I'm scared of marriage but the feeling I get when my babe is sleeping over is enriching. I sometimes wonder how it would feel when this sleeping over happens everyday...

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by internationalman(m): 4:58pm On Dec 02, 2020
azawuoba:


bro reports has it that most people get tired of that companionship just after 3 years of marriage


I can't imagie sharing the bed with one kpekus with the rest of my life .

That's how rotten the system has gotten.
And it's mainly because relationships nowadays set of on a foundation of sex..

When you are dating the right girl you hardly get tired of her let alone marriage..

You see that my babe I never get tired of her...

In fact the more I see her the stronger my hunger for her gets..

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by internationalman(m): 5:03pm On Dec 02, 2020
gunners160:
you are getting it wrong. u can have a family without marriage. Davido, whizkid, olamide etc are perfect examples. Talking of kids, you can also get that outside marriage, we are in the 21st century now not in an archaic one.

If the members of the union are scattered, it's not called a family. Below is the definition of a family.

a group of one or more parents and their children living together as a unit.

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by gunners160(m): 5:05pm On Dec 02, 2020
internationalman:


That's how rotten the system has gotten.
And it's mainly because relationships nowadays set of on a foundation of sex..

When you are dating the right girl you hardly get tired of her let alone marriage..

You see that my babe I never get tired of her...

In fact the more I see her the stronger my hunger for her gets..
are u married? No. so chilax.
in every marriage dhr is always the fantasy stage, excitement stage, decline stage and Restoration stage. Don't conclude yet , you never start. It takes couple with a will to pass and conquer these stages not just by typing

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by gunners160(m): 5:07pm On Dec 02, 2020
internationalman:


If the members of the union are scattered, it's not called a family. Below is the definition of a family.

a group of one or more parents and their children living together as a unit.
Davido pikin scatter? Ned pikin scatter? do they still recognize him as a father and husband? case close... next

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Dec 02, 2020
gunners160:
Davido pikin scatter? do they still recognize him as a father and husband? case close... next

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by internationalman(m): 5:11pm On Dec 02, 2020
gunners160:
Davido pikin scatter? do they still recognize him as a father and husband? case close... next

He may have children but he doesn't have a family..

I've shown you the definition of marriage..

I don't like marriage anymore than you do, but the truth must be said.

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by internationalman(m): 5:14pm On Dec 02, 2020
gunners160:
are u married? No. so chilax.
in every marriage dhr is always the fantasy stage, excitement stage, decline stage and Restoration stage. Don't conclude yet , you never start. It takes couple with a will to pass and conquer these stages not just by typing

Marriage just as every other thing in life don't come easy..But the unwavering strength to keep going despite the whatever is what pronounce you a man..

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by gunners160(m): 5:17pm On Dec 02, 2020
internationalman:


He may have children but he doesn't have a family..

I've shown you the definition of marriage..

I don't like marriage anymore than you do, but the truth must be said.
This is Hilarious I swear. Ur definition is Orthodox man. Ned Nwakwo has a family so does Davido. Are they in Harmony? Yes so what else does a family need again. His children attends the best schools, has several endorsement deal and he carries out his duties. What else do family get involved in that he does not participate or enjoy.. just calm down

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by internationalman(m): 5:25pm On Dec 02, 2020
gunners160:
This is Hilarious I swear. Ur definition is Orthodox man. Ned Nwakwo has a family so does Davido. Are they in Harmony? Yes so what else does a family need again. His children attends the best schools, has several endorsement deal and he carries out his duties. What else do family get involved in that he does not participate or enjoy.. just calm down

OK. Ned Nwoko you mentioned is a married man

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Nobody: 5:31pm On Dec 02, 2020
internationalman:


OK. Ned Nwoko you mentioned is a married man
The name Ned Nwoko make me laughgrin
Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Aboks(m): 5:54pm On Dec 02, 2020
azawuoba:


bro reports has it that most people get tired of that companionship just after 3 years of marriage


I can't imagie sharing the bed with one kpekus with the rest of my life .


guy forget all kpekus na de same

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Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by Biglittlelois(f): 6:53pm On Dec 02, 2020
thesicilian:

Of course, but that's not an achievement, considering the fact that even a madman can impregnate a madwoman.


Are they not humans too? The fact that they are mentally ill doesnt mean their down below wouldn't work and procreate na undecided

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