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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 9:47am On Dec 02, 2020
dunmorris:
Hello Redpillers, it is already one month now that a lady agreed to be my gf, ever since then i have been the one calling .

When the foundation is messed up, the upper structure would not stand well. Firstly, it is not in a woman's place to agree to be your girlfriend, instead, you should agree to make her your girlfriend. The power to confer commitment is in your hands, not hers. She can agree to have sex with you, which you shall accept, and you can agree to make her your girlfriend which is she should accept.

I understand that music, society, and modern culture make it seems like it is a man that should chase a woman, well, it may work, but the true formula is that a woman should chase a man she finds desirable. A woman will automatically commit and respect a man she chooses herself because she truly desires him. She is not picking your calls because she doesn't desire you. It is that simple. You are like insurance, when shit gets worse, she can bounce back to. Don't be her pension bro.

I can see a thread now on the front page where a girl is telling wizkid to come and devour her body, that she is having a crush on him for a long time. That's your evidence. Women are like ships, and men are like islands. Women tour the high sea and dock on an island that is beautiful, well maintained, and awesome. Go be an awesome island, and let the women chase you. Not otherwise.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nowisthendtime: 10:10am On Dec 02, 2020
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shocked

Fear women!!! coming across TRP make me fear women more. Bitter and undiluted truth are hidden here.

How do i code my storey o, so that people won't decode my identity grin

Guys should learn from my experience shocked

I'm from poor home, extremely poor but my mum labored to send me to school.

19 years ago, i was attracted to a very beautiful girl in my church, it was as well the time i was writing WAEC, i can remember vividly i quickly wrote my last paper within 1hour instead of 2 hours 30 minutes given time and went to her own center just to ask her out. Though i eventually had B2 in that course grin.

I was a simp grin

Her father was a per-time pastor then, now full time pastor after he retired, so i was scared to ask her out around the church, i even thought she would insult me and report me to her parent but i was shocked she welcomed me.

On getting there, she told me she like me and would have considered having relationship with me but she didn't want church thing, being in the same church and she as well doesn't like my friends. She gave me excuses.

I kept visiting her and persuading her, bought her gift, sometimes gave her money. She later developed feelings for me. she'll kiss me but didn't give me sex whereas she was having sex with one rich guy that wasn't attending our church. she later confessed to me she was dating the guy and she later allowed the guy to deflower her. I was down hearing that from her. I felt oppressed and told myself i must be rich in life.

Then i started working hard, studying hard, hustling 24/7 grin but you know as a guy from poor background, climbing ladder of success will be slow. It was slow but i didn't give up, l kept moving forward.

After NYSC, she congratulated me, then she was in her final year, we met again, she was even prittier than before, considering the fact that she has grown fully and over riped with big back and front. She's light skin babe, so beautiful.

she kissed me again and didn't give me sex as usual, then she told me how the guy that deflowered her lost his life bearing and later realized he isn't serious, then the dad he introduced to her isn't his biological father, his mum got pregnant in her school days and later married the rich man he now call his dad. She told me she cannot marry such man.

She told me she's in relationship with one muslim guy but her parents won't allow her to marry him being a Muslim. I was shocked hearing a pastor's daughter dating a muslim guy, So because that guy is kinda rich, she dated him.

I asked her to marry me and let's start processing how to travel out of Nigeria and start new life abroad, because i was still hustling for job then, she said, you can process your own separately, our relationship isn't real yet.

I later forgot everything about her and continued my hustling until year 2016 when way opened for me and i got good job abroad with attractive salary. My success later got her attracted and she was now running after me. Because she's so beautiful with sexy shape, I was still simping grin sent her money and she was all over me.

In year 2017, i visited nigeria and she was serious and ready to marry me but then i have lost interest in marriage, the sex i had with her was like honey moon, she fuc me by herself, i was flying high grin

I later told her i want her to just give me baby. She did everything for me to marry her but i insist i only need baby. i can not sign marriage certificate with any woman with my experience about life. She apologized for the way she treated me in the past and told me she take all responsibility for making me hate marriage but being a pastor's daughter, she cannot be baby mama.

In year 2018, i visited Nigeria, she came to hotel i lodged to fuc me after her duty at work everyday for one week, last year also. This babe is so sweet but with TRP knowledge it is suicidal to get married to someone that cannot date me when i was poor.

coming across this thread, then i stopped giving her money since two months ago, l can tell you since then she started replying my messages late. Someone that do say "yes sir" "Thank you sir" when i was giving her money.

I challenged her, she said she was busy, with what i read on this thread, to deprive them of attention, i as well stopped talking to her and after one week she messaged me;

"Good morning, it's been a while, just checking on you"

I as well delayed my reply, then after like 3 hours i only replied with "thanks"

since then no one talk to each other.

Lesson learnt: Focus on how to be successful in life, ladies will later run after your success. Don't chase ladies, ladies will chase you when you're successful.

Part 2 of my experience will be posted soon.
I was really a simp but this thread has liberated me. I'm so lucky i didn't go too far before coming across TRP

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emmynator(m): 10:33am On Dec 02, 2020
pansophist:


When the foundation is messed up, the upper structure would not stand well. Firstly, it is not in a woman's place to agree to be your girlfriend, instead, you should agree to make her your girlfriend. The power to confer commitment is in your hands, not hers. She can agree to have sex with you, which you shall accept, and you can agree to make her your girlfriend which is she should accept.

I understand that music, society, and modern culture make it seems like it is a man that should chase a woman, well, it may work, but the true formula is that a woman should chase a man she finds desirable. A woman will automatically commit and respect a man she chooses herself because she truly desires him. She is not picking your calls because she doesn't desire you. It is that simple. You are like insurance, when shit gets worse, she can bounce back to. Don't be her pension bro.

I can see a thread now on the front page where a girl is telling wizkid to come and devour her body, that she is having a crush on him for a long time. That's your evidence. Women are like ships, and men are like islands. Women tour the high sea and dock on an island that is beautiful, well maintained, and awesome. Go be an awesome island, and let the women chase you. Not otherwise.

Ubunja miseducations choosing a girl/chosen follows this line of thoughts, many guys do not follow this principles as their Ego won't allow them.

Guys, you are to only make yourself available and allow girls choose you, when you are chosen then you can go ahead with your agenda.

If you are worried about only attracting girls below your status, that is an indication of your true status, up your game and you will attract higher quality of ladies.

If you continue chasing, the scenario of a girl feeling she is doing a guy a favour by dating him will keep playing out.

Finally, being chosen doesn't mean all the work is done, it only means that you are starting from a better position, and you still have work to do to maintain that position.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 10:38am On Dec 02, 2020
na man wey no sabi dey fear woman,the hunter can never be afraid of the antelope he wants to kill.

nowisthendtime:
shocked

Fear women!!! coming across TRP make me fear women more. Bitter and undiluted truth are hidden here.

Hw do i code my storey o, so that people won't decode my identity grin

Guys should learn from my experience shocked

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by foreman: 11:18am On Dec 02, 2020
pansophist:


If you want to become intellectually formidable, that your so called woke idiots will avoid you like plague, that nothing humans do will surprise or behaviourally strange to you, then you need to have an interest in philosophy. Personally, I do not read conventional books, I read philosophical books. Philosophy is the foundation from which every other book arose from. The bible is really philosophical if you understand it. I will recommend people like Frederick Nietzsche, just start with him. If you understood all his work, then everything other philosophers said will be like a photocopy.

If you read my post as far back as 2015, you will see clearly that I write and talked RP even before it goes mainstream on nairaland. Personally, I do not identify with tags, I am all for truth and to understand the hidden knowledge the world is bed rocked on, and trp is even an easier aspect of it. If you want to go mad and realize that you are utterly stupid, then start studying philosophy, then you will not even be surprised and understand why humans do the things they do, and why even your politician does not give a shit about Nigeria lol.

From modern writers such as Robert Groene, Jordan Peterson, and more, you will consider their work amateur as a refined version of philosophy, because really, philosophy does make a man goes mad, especially if you go really deep the rabbit hole. I wished there was a philosophical forum here on nairaland, I have a lot to say but oh well, I will stick here. I remember when I would argue with my postmodernist professors in uni then, they hated my guts but respects the fact that I challenged them on their beliefs, making them look like an amateur. And they dare not give me a lower mark, because I will call them out on it, and escalate shit if needed. Knowledge is power. With the help of philosophy, I could destroy all their arguments that were bed rocked on post modernist icons such as Michel Focault, Jean Baudrillard, and co. School these days is so far left, hence, the mayhem human face.

SO yes, study philosophy.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:24pm On Dec 02, 2020
Netflix, porn, alcohol,masturbation :

Are all just temporary escapes from reality.

Better to work hard to make your reality something you never need to escape from.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:30pm On Dec 02, 2020
√If you're too generous + easily available :

You reduce the worth of your attention [even though you're high value ]

If you're too conscious of who you give your resources, including time [even though you're a low value ],


it worth inflates and people will work harder to gain your approval.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:34pm On Dec 02, 2020
Calm your movements.
Calm your voice
.

A slower voice is a lower voice.

Don’t be afraid to pause while you speak.

This is powerful, it creates anticipation and a sense you have control and will continue when you’re ready.

Walk calmly and steadily.
Don’t rush.
Kings do not rush.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:39pm On Dec 02, 2020
Power and authority emanate from the man that has mastered himself.

The outward expression of his control is high standards, resolute integrity and a capacity to detect and avoid manipulation.

To cultivate self mastery ,is to cultivate true power.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:50pm On Dec 02, 2020
If you let your natural attraction to women overwhelm you,

Women will routinely manipulate you
,and if you yield,
Your life will become centred around them,you lose your frame and masculinity and you're most likely going to end up with a low quality woman
.

Control your attraction to women

Or be controlled by it
.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:52pm On Dec 02, 2020
Complaining [always ] emasculates a man.

It indicates there’s a problem and he’s too helpless to solve it.

It turns him into a weak and powerless victim.

A man either solves his problems or accepts with grace that nothing can be done, and gets back to work.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 1:03pm On Dec 02, 2020
life hack :

-- Discipline

-- Daily sunbath

-- High water intake

-- High testosterone level

-- quitting (added) sugars

--quitting porn and masturbation

-- Gym

-- Holding power eye contact

Those are going to change your life and people's impression about you within 3 weeks.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 02, 2020
How often do women:

Save men?

Die for men?

Protect men?

Provide for men ?

Yes , they don’t.

So why the f*ck are you
putting her on a pedestal
?

She needs you way more than you want her.

She should be putting YOU on a pedestal.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 1:17pm On Dec 02, 2020
The path to becoming a better man may be a lonely one.

You may lose friends .
You may make enemies
.

You may sometimes get lost.
It may sometimes be cruel.

But a man will endure these trials,because nothing great was ever easy.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by isyourboy(m): 1:19pm On Dec 02, 2020
Authority: elevate

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by waywardpikin: 1:22pm On Dec 02, 2020
nowisthendtime:
shocked

Fear women!!! coming across TRP make me fear women more. Bitter and undiluted truth are hidden here.

Hw do i code my storey o, so that people won't decode my identity grin

Guys should learn from my experience shocked

I'm from poor home, extremely poor but my mum labored to send me to school.

19 years ago, i was attracted to a very beautiful girl in my church, it was as well the time i was writing WAEC, i can remember vividly i quickly wrote my last paper within 1hour instead of 2 hours 30 minutes given time and went to her own center just to ask her out. Though i eventually had B2 in that course grin.

I was a simp grin

Her father was a per-time pastor then, now full time pastor after he retired, so i was scared to ask her out around the church, i even thought she would insult me and report me to her parent but i was shocked she welcomed me.

On getting there, she told me she like me and would have considered having relationship with me but she didn't want church thing, being in the same church and she as well doesn't like my friends. She gave me excuses.

I kept visiting her and persuading her, bought her gift, sometimes gave her money. She later developed feelings for me. she'll kiss me but didn't give me sex whereas she was having sex with one rich guy that wasn't attending our church. she later confessed to me she was dating the guy and she later allowed the guy to deflower her. I was down hearing that from her. I felt oppressed and told myself i must be rich in life.

Then i started working hard, studying hard, hustling 24/7 grin but you know as a guy from poor background, climbing ladder of success will be slow. It was slow but i didn't give up, l kept moving forward.

After NYSC, she congratulated me, then she was in her final year, we met again, she was even pritter than before, considering the fact that she has grown fully and over riped with big back and front. She's light skin babe, so beautiful.

she kissed me again and didn't give me sex as usual, then she told me how the guy that deflowered her lost his life bearing and later realized he isn't serious, then the dad he introduced to her isn't his biological father, his mum got pregnant in her school days and later married the rich man he now call his dad. She told me she cannot marry such man.

She told me she's in relationship with one muslim guy now and her mum knows about the guy but her parents won't allow her to marry him being a Muslim. I was shocked hearing a pastor's daughter dating a muslim guy, So because that guy is kinda rich, she's considering marrying him.

I asked her to marry me and let's start processing how to travel out of Nigeria and start new life abroad, because i was still hustling for job then, she said, you can process your own separately, our relationship isn't real yet.

I later forgot everything about her and continued my hustling until year 2016 when way opened for me and i got good job abroad with attractive salary. My success later got her attracted and she was now running after me. Because she's so beautiful with sexy shape, I was still simping grin sent her money and she was all over me.

In year 2017, i visited nigeria and she was serious and ready to marry me but then i have lost interest in marriage, the sex i had with her was like honey moon, she fuc me by herself, i was flying high grin

I later told her i want her to just give me baby. She did everything for me to marry her but i insist i only need baby. i can not sign marriage certificate with any woman with my experience about life. She apologized for the way she treated me in the past and told me she take all responsibility for making me hate marriage but being a pastor daughter, she cannot be baby mama.

In year 2018, i visited Nigeria, she came to hotel i lodged to fuc me after her duty at work everyday for one week, last year also. This babe is so sweet but with TRP knowledge it is suicidal to get married to someone that cannot date me when i was poor.

coming across this thread, then i stopped giving her money since two months ago, l can tell you since then she started replying my messages late. Someone that do say "yes sir" "Thank you sir" when i was giving her money.

I challenged her, she said she was busy, with what i read on this thread, to deprive them of attention, i as well stopped talking to her and after one week she messaged me;

"Good morning, it's been a while, just checking on you"

I as well delayed my reply, then after like 3 hours i only replied with "thanks"

since then no one talk to each other.

Lesson learnt: Focus on how to be successful in life, ladies will later run after your success. Don't chase ladies, ladies will chase you when you're successful.

Part 2 of my experience will be posted soon.
I was really a simp but this thread has liberated me. I'm so lucky i didn't go too far before coming across TRP

I have to congratulate you because you are actively learning and constantly course-correcting in the event that you err. People that cannot give themselves periodical, unbiased self-appraisals are bound to suffer a thousand-fold for all the many mistakes they are wont to make.

You know the kind of men I hate the most in the entire world? Those ones that you see are making obvious mistakes, like egungun wey dey about to enter express. You are trying to save bros and prevent premium tears wey dey do push up dey load but he's telling you:

"See I understand women. Trust me, I know all these things."

He's dismissing everything you're telling him. He's assuring you that everything is fine and that he's "got this."

In fact, he stops just short of telling you to mind your damn business. So you take a hard step back and sip your kunu in peace.

When it finally happens he always has an explanation for why it happened the way it did. He never acknowledges his faults of the part he had to play in the whole debacle, so the cycle repeats itself all over again.

Men like this, it is their egos that mainly prevent them from learning what could potentially save their lives because they cannot comprehend the fact that maybe, just maybe, they don't really know anything about women.

The worst are those that don't even learn from their previous mistakes, and so they go through life stumbling from one disaster to the other, blaming their innocent village people.

Nice one bro.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 1:25pm On Dec 02, 2020
Weak thirsty men (simps)
are driving down the quality of female behaviour
.

Raise your standards:

Stop tolerating and rewarding entitled, narcissistic and slutty behaviour just because you’re desperate.

You are better than that.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 1:30pm On Dec 02, 2020
The governments of the world don’t want strong men.

They don’t want men that take care of their own shit.

They want weak, dependent men.

Men that obey rules.

Men that consume more.

Men that are incapable of building strong and healthy families.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 02, 2020
Self control is the root of a mans strength and power.

Without it ,he’s like a leaf on the wind,blown whichever way his weaknesses take him.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 1:51pm On Dec 02, 2020
Excerpts from "No more Mr nice guy " By Dr Robert A. Glover


Every Nice Guy is unique, but all have a cluster of similar characteristics. These
traits are the result of a script, often formed in childhood, that guides their lives.
While other men may have one or two of these traits, Nice Guys seem to possess
a significant number.


Nice Guys are givers.

Nice Guys frequently state that it makes them feel good
to give to others. These men believe their generosity is a sign of how good they
are and will make other people love and appreciate them.

Nice Guys fix and caretake.

If a person has a problem, has a need, is angry,
depressed or sad, Nice Guys will frequently attempt to solve or fix the situation
(usually without being asked).

Nice Guys seek approval from others.


A universal trait of the Nice Guy
Syndrome is the seeking of validation from others. Everything a Nice Guy does
or says is at some level calculated to gain someone's approval or avoid disapproval. This is especially true in their relationships with women.

Nice Guys avoid conflict.

Nice Guys seek to keep their world smooth.

To do this, they avoid doing things that might rock the boat or upset anyone.
Nice Guys believe they must hide their perceived flaws and mistakes. These
men are afraid that others will get mad at them, shame them, or leave them if
some mistake or shortcoming is exposed.
Nice Guys seek the "right" way to do things. Nice Guys believe there is a key
to having a happy, problem-free life. They are convinced that if they can only
figure out the right way to do everything, nothing should ever go wrong.

Nice Guys repress their feelings.

Nice Guys tend to analyze rather than feel.
They may see feelings as a waste of time and energy. They frequently try to keep
their feelings on an even keel.

Nice Guys often try to be different from their fathers.

Many Nice Guys report
having unavailable, absent, passive, angry, philandering, or alcoholic fathers. It
is not unusual for these men to make a decision at some point in their lives to try
to be 180 degrees different from Dad.

Nice Guys are often more comfortable relating to women than to men.

Due to their childhood conditioning, many Nice Guys have few male friends. Nice
Guys frequently seek the approval of women and convince themselves they are
different from other men. They like to believe that they are not selfish, angry, or
abusive — traits they link to "other" men.

Nice Guys have difficulty making their needs a priority.

These men often feel
that it is selfish to put their needs first. They believe it is a virtue to put others'
needs ahead of their own.

Nice Guys often make their partner their emotional center.


Many nice guys report that they are only happy if their partner is happy. Therefore they will often
focus tremendous energy on their intimate relationships.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by isyourboy(m): 2:09pm On Dec 02, 2020
Authority: Elevate

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nowisthendtime: 2:15pm On Dec 02, 2020
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NO PART OF THIS STOREY, EITHER IN PARTS OR IN WHOLE SHOULD BE LIFTED TO ANY PLACE NOR REPRODUCE IN ANY FORMAT, ELECTRONIC OR OTHERWISE WITHOUT PERMISSION FROM THE AUTHOR.

THANKS.


Part 2 of my experience.....

Since i have decided not to sign marriage certificate with any lady considering the hypergamous nature of women as she can leave me anytime for someone in higher social class than me, i started looking for a decent lady that can give me baby without marriage attached.

According to my part 1 experience on this thread, the pastor's daughter said she cannot be a baby mama as it is against the doctrine in church, so i was looking for another lady and i got one lady when i visited Nigeria in year 2018.

She told me she will tell her mum about it because her dad is late. after two weeks, i didn't hear from her and i only had one month annual leave to spend in Nigeria, so i moved on with my search in getting a decent lady, then i got a 22 years old small girl that was just trying to gain admission into the university and she agreed but told me to let her inform her mum.

She discussed it with her mum but her mum said i should just pay her dowry as sign of commitment if i insist on not signing marriage certificate. so i took my family there and we pay her dowry.

Then, few days remaining for me to fly back, the first lady I contacted called me and started persuading me to marry her that her mum and elder ones didn't support being baby mama, i told her i had gotten someone else, she was so furious and cried. Then she asked me who am i to you now, i told her she's a friend.

Fast forward to year 2019, my traditionally married wife had issues with her mensuration. The period isn't stable and she couldn't get pregnant. She met gynecologist, we tried but still the same. So, we agreed maybe i should look for another lady as second wife to fast give me baby because my mum is so old and begging us to give her grandchildren. My dad is late.

Then i remembered that first lady i contacted, called her and told her to give me baby, she said what happened to your wife? i explained everything to her but she said she will be thinking about it but she prefer marriage.

October last year, job opportunity showed up for ladies and I got her the job, paid her flight ticket and she joined me. She was so happy but still telling me to marry her that she's not interested in having only baby for me. She was asking for marriage certificate but i declined.

I visited Nigeria around January this year, she didn't go with me, during that time she met some G boys that promised her better job offer, she accepted the offer, before i returned from Nigeria she already did interview and passed. She told me though and i supported her but told her to becareful of those G boys.

When i returned from my trip, i spoke with the company she was working with and the management said she cannot resign now base on agreement signed, even if she will resign she will pay an amount equivalent to 400k in naira.

We agreed to pay the money and she resigned then joined the new company. Then, around March, Covid 19 pandemic was scary and the international company i work with relocated all our staffs to 5 star hotel, unfortunately, she couldn't follow me as visitors are not allowed.

This lady started following the G boys and she removed me from seeing her whatsapp status but my mind told me to open another whatsapp with my second number dedicated to call only, she didn't realize i have opened another whatsapp for that number, so i started seeing romantic videos with one particular guy among those boys.

I didn't asked her, i just told myself immediately that I have lost this babe and i refused to reply her messages. She later called her area brother at Nigeria that really liked me so much and complained about me not replying her messages.

The man asked her if she offended me, she said maybe the video she posted, perhaps, one of her friends hating on her sent the video to me because she removed me from seeing her status, she confessed to the man and the man scolded her then told her to go and be begging me.

This honest man called me and told me everything, I as well revealed how i caught her through another whatsapp to that man. I later told this man to collect the 400k i paid her company before she was allowed to resign as reward for his honesty.

I later replied her messages after she pleaded for forgiveness and denied dating any of them. I called her hoe, LovePeddler, bitch. These got her furious, she insulted me and the war started. Then I started my game.

I started updating how we were enjoying at the 5 star hotel company lodged us, how company paid us bonus for working during coronavirus pandemic but then after she worked with that new company she joined for a month and half, the company closed down because of coronavirus pandemic and couldn't pay their salary. grin

I just saw her message that evening, explaining to me how company dropped all of them and couldn't pay their salary. She started begging me for money, "as a guy man" i told her to come. I met with the receptionist of that hotel company lodged us and begged him to please allow me to have visitor for just 3 days without allowing company to know. The receptionist accepted and gave me time she can enter.

She came and said waoooo, you're enjoying o, your company really try. she said you called me a LovePeddler, bitch and a hoe, i prostrated and begged her, she immediately knelt down as i prostrated and told me to stand up. She then said i have promised myself not to have anything to do with you again. i want to go with another man, let's just be friends from now. I was shocked shocked

Then i later touched her weak point, fuc her like sex machine for three days. When she was leaving, gave her just 5k in naira for her transport. She was not happy but then I didn't know she had her own game to play as well.

Around July or August, I can't really remember when dbanj rape accusation saga was trending online, i just saw her message that i raped her when she visited me shocked, she said she already promised herself not to have any sexual intercourse with me again that i should prepare to meet her in court.


Immediately, i sent her voice record of how she was moaning as a sign of deep pleasure during the sexual intercourse for good 3 days and reminded her of how she wet my bed with her cum like tap water running. grin


She said yeeeeeee, you recorded my voice note without my knowledge, God will judge you. you will still explain yourself in court why you recorded my voice note without my consent, I then still reminded her of her nudes videos she sent and told her i will asked them in court if someone that sent all these videos to me should be accusing me of rape. I recorded your voice note because i didn't trust you anymore. She was just saying God will judge you.

Guys, that was how i escaped rape accusation. Maybe my enemy would have been cooling off in prison by now after my company would have sacked me.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 21cents: 2:22pm On Dec 02, 2020
Danycrusoe:


Our cases are spectacularly similar, very very similar. At some point she started talking as tho she was doing me a favor, I was irritated.

I didn't know game too, I got played, I wasn't even trying to play,.

I don't know y I was banned by d mod sha.
reason why I learnt here that it's good to have abundance mindset.

make her know you're cool with walking away from the beginning so that she wouldn't feel way too over her head. but unfortunately I figured the girls prefer simps all things being equal.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nwaotu10(m): 2:35pm On Dec 02, 2020
lilmaydee:
Excerpt from the Red Pill Bible:

Always follow this rule and no woman will ever take advantage of you.

The rule: if she doesn't put out, then neither do you.

Explanation - most men undervalue themselves. We might fvck women's bodies, but they fvck our time, our money, our love, our attention, commitment, energy, validation, support, protection, status, etc. relationships tend to be a far better deal for them, even if you do get sex.

Yet plenty of men "put out" the way women want even without getting any sex! We call these men nice guys/blue pillers/orbiters/beta bux. They put out what women want for free, because they don't value or respect themselves.

Anyone who tells you that you should give women what they want, for free and unreciprocated is your enemy. They're trying to make you into an easy, disrespected idiot with no dignity (AkA - Mr. Nice guy). No more one sided relationship.

So gentlemen, keep your wallets, hearts/emotion, and or legs closed. Don't give women jack shit unless you're getting something out of it for yourself ( i.e. Pussy, business deals, money, connections). It isn't selfishness, stinginess, nor is it misogyny. It's simply FAIR.

In other words: EITHER FVCK ME OR FVCK YOU.

TF!

This is it!
Gracias bro

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 21cents: 2:36pm On Dec 02, 2020
GLYCOLYSISS:
Complaining [always ] emasculates a man.

It indicates there’s a problem and he’s too helpless to solve it.

It turns him into a weak and powerless victim.

A man either solves his problems or accepts with grace that nothing can be done, and gets back to work.
this is spot on!
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 4:48pm On Dec 02, 2020
That nowisthendtime guy story get as e be...


You went through all that for a girl who had such manipulative tendencies? shocked
.....


Nice sharing the story with us.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Notoftheworld79: 5:04pm On Dec 02, 2020
GLYCOLYSISS:
The governments of the world don’t want strong men.

They don’t want men that take care of their own shit.

They want weak, dependent men.

Men that obey rules.

Men that consume more.

Men that are incapable of building strong and healthy families.

True talk
The whole world wants men to be weak

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by oyolohi: 5:10pm On Dec 02, 2020
GLYCOLYSISS:
Netflix, porn, alcohol,masturbation :

Are all just temporary escapes from reality.

Better to work hard to make your reality something you never need to escape from.

A little 'addition': to form the full picture in your philosophy...


Yes, masturbation, movies, alcohol, etc. might just be distractions: distractions from what? Distractions from your reality? -- Hardwork -- hussle for/towards money/success? Is that the 'reality'?


The REALITY in our life is the apparently inevitable --DEATH.

So, If you think Netflix, porn, alcohol,masturbation, etc. Are bad: you should RETHINK.
Netflix, alcohol, porn, etc... is an escape from the REALITY of life AND so is money/success or everything that leads to the so called 'reality'.

THE REALITY of life is death...and there is a constant battle (individually and collectively) to escape it by all means (movies, alcohol, success, etc). We, however, fail.


So, feel free to use any escape route you wish to. Be it porn, alcohol, money or success. There's no empirical evidence that ANY of these escape ROUTES to avoid the REALITY is bad or good for YOU.


We all will hit the REALITY at our death --irrespective of when, or how ... (including chickens, dogs, chimps, ants) -- at which point, non of the routes we chose to take matter any more.


The most effective way to (try) avoid the REALITY is FOOD -- nothing else -- just food.


So peace on your mind, my people, don't stress yourself unnecessarily: use any route of 'escape' bearing it in mind that they've ALL been proven INEFFECTIVE! Your Death is guaranteed!


Humans have always wanted to avoid the real reality, that's why we invented the afterlife.


P.S. : Society always seems to be wrong! Do not be credulous; run away from obsequiousness!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by oyolohi: 5:27pm On Dec 02, 2020
nowisthendtime:
Part 2 of my experience.....

Since i have decided not to sign marriage certificate with any lady considering the hypergamous nature of women as she can leave me anytime for someone in higher social class than me, i started looking for a decent lady that can give me baby without marriage attached.

How comes you're smart enough to see through the scam called marriage but not through the impulsive desire to bring forth children to this ugly world?


Many guys here will never simp for women but will always simp for kids!


What will children add to your life? Do you plan to sell them into slavery for money/property? Or do you have a large farm for them to work for you?


My brain had a reset the very moment I accepted that I was more of a liability to my parents. Las las Life would have been better for ME and them if I didn't exist!!


So, my dear brother, I'll suggest you calm down and write a detailed list of why you want kids before you make a lifetime mistake!


P.S. : Your kids would not be your responsibility if you don't bring them into existence! Just as no woman will be your responsibility if you don't get married.



We are over 200m in Nigeria and the world is getting to the 9billion mark. What exactly is the point of adding to that number?


A man I knew died recently, I attended his funeral mass. He left 3 kids behind.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:27pm On Dec 02, 2020
nowisthendtime:
Part 2 of my experience.....

Since i have decided not to sign marriage certificate with any lady considering the hypergamous nature of women as she can leave me anytime for someone in higher social class than me, i started looking for a decent lady that can give me baby without marriage attached.

According to my part 1 experience on this thread, the pastor's daughter said she cannot be a baby mama as it is against the doctrine in church, so i was looking for another lady and i got one lady when i visited Nigeria in year 2018.



Immediately, i sent her voice record of how she was moaning as a sign of deep pleasure during the sexual intercourse for good 3 days and reminded her of how she wet my bed with her cum like tap water running. grin


She said yeeeeeee, you recorded my voice note without my knowledge, God will judge you. you will still explain yourself in court why you recorded my voice note without my consent, I then still reminded her of her nudes videos she sent and told her i will asked them in court if someone that sent all these videos to me should be accusing me of rape. I recorded your voice note because i didn't trust you anymore. She was just saying God will judge you.

Guys, that was how i escaped rape accusation. Maybe my enemy would have been cooling off in prison by now after my company would have sacked me.


You were smart enough to make some recordings which saved your ass but from your story, pvssy is your weakness.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by waywardpikin: 5:44pm On Dec 02, 2020
i926:


You were smart enough to make some recordings which saved your ass but from your story, pvssy is your weakness.


Lol, the Part 2 wasn't as good as the first one that's for sure - even for me. That's why learning is a never ending process. Hopefully he learns one or two from the whole debacle.

@ oyolohi, your post made my day. Hard truths!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:53pm On Dec 02, 2020
waywardpikin:


Lol, the Part 2 wasn't as good as the first one that's for sure - even for me. That's why learning is a never ending process. Hopefully he learns one or two from the whole debacle.

@ oyolohi, your post made my day. Hard truths!
Yeah, you right.

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