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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Stricklybidness(m): 3:41pm On Dec 04, 2020
tecnolad:
Lost almost all my savings to an investment-gone-wrong;

Processed UAE Visa to maybe work and recover but agent eloped;

Tried again, got to UAE and didn't get a job;

Came back to Nigeria to try again and burglars came in to cart all my properties away
Omo
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Stricklybidness(m): 3:41pm On Dec 04, 2020
phkka1:
My career progression as a maintenance engineer. It will be very difficult for me to forget the Ogoni man that forced me to accept volunteery resignation at the pick of my career.
Y
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by mekuso89(m): 3:41pm On Dec 04, 2020
lekki1444:
dont waste your life. go and do bootcamp coding and get certification
bootcamp please tell me about it
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by perryy(m): 3:43pm On Dec 04, 2020
ibro2much:


Pm me,let's see how I can help out

Please I also need help in this regard as I have also lost my original proof of ownership for my car.
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by iboboyswag(m): 3:43pm On Dec 04, 2020
Julius209:
Being born in Nigeria
Being born in the village
Being raised in the village
Being born into a poor family
But all in all(I left the village unceremoniously for Lagos in search of greener pasture after my secondary school)
Suffered in Lagos ( did all kind of jobs: okada, bricklaying, worked inside a market, slept inside a shop for close to 3yrs) despite all this I was focused
Gained admission into a polytechnic
Struggled to finish
Did my IT in a insurance company in Lagos which enable me to raise some money
Now, I'm in UNILAG.A graphic Artist and also a ui/ux designer( please patronize me nairalanders).
The journey has been tough but I thank God for life( when there is life, there is hope )





For better visibility, put your craft and contact on your signature. People would see it better.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Stricklybidness(m): 3:44pm On Dec 04, 2020
PMPSolutions:
I got a contract in Lagos from a company to train their technical staff on how to build power inverters from scratch! The training was to commence in April and the contract was huge (running into millions of naira).

Then COVID struck, the CEO of the company died in August. Na so arrangement take scatter!

But in all, i thank God for life!
Shit.
Life
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Omobada(m): 3:45pm On Dec 04, 2020
My one and major setback even up till today is my inability to attend NLS Nigerian Law School since 2012 due to financial issue.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Juliearth(f): 3:46pm On Dec 04, 2020
trevorhorace:
gained admission

dad had stroke

dad lost job

family became bankrupt treating dad

dad died.

lost admission

starting from the bottom






Sad one, but God's got you!

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by GRACEGLORY: 3:47pm On Dec 04, 2020
tellsblinks:
Kept procrastinating my projects, it's 3 years already

Anytime I remember it, I cry out tears



It's not late. But go at it, hit it hard and come out shining cool

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Stricklybidness(m): 3:49pm On Dec 04, 2020
Ge0grapher:
Someone promised me a job in lagos, if I can work my NYSc to lag
I worked it with close to 60k
The person disappointed
Now I am left with high transportation, traffic, high rent cost to deal with..
See eeh, don't depend on anybody for anything in this life .
we all learn the hard way.
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Juliearth(f): 3:49pm On Dec 04, 2020
StPete:


This your story was almost similar to mine but God had a hand and turned my fortunes around...

I gained admission

Dad had stroke

Dad lost his job

I got scholarships

I finished from school

Family went bankrupt treating dad up to the point he had to sell one of his houses

I eventually got a good job

Dad died

Life goes on




I feel like I will be depressed going through this thread. Sorry for your loss.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Juliearth(f): 3:49pm On Dec 04, 2020
codeSavant:
December 2017 just a few weeks to Christmas I lost all of my birds (200 layers and 100 broilers). It was an extremely sad event.



Oh no!!! How did this happen?
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Stricklybidness(m): 3:49pm On Dec 04, 2020
roqrules04:
I lost 1m to my step brother.
Please don't trust all these family members.
What really happened?
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Stricklybidness(m): 3:50pm On Dec 04, 2020
Whitelookq:
Betting and masturbation, the masturbation part is history now but the betting part is my problem, it always makes me broke. I really need help.
You will stop betting once ur dead broke.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Sarang(f): 3:50pm On Dec 04, 2020
seyicodes:
Getting angry.. it almost ruined my relationship. I don't know if this is spiritual problem .. but the thing is anytime I think of settling down.. one thing will happen that will make me say something that will ruin the relationship. And what I will say will be unforgivable. I am still begging my fiancee since 4 days ago for the statement I uttered.

You need to learn to control your tongue
Nothing spiritual about it
Change your mentality
ANY FORM of Abuse is BAD

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Dec 04, 2020
tppzzy01:
My setback is being born in the family I am now. Especially, my Dad. They're waging war on me spiritually, stopping me from moving forward and. I prayed and prayed and prayed, God said he is looking at them, now that I lost my Guardian Angel (my wife of 9yrs marriage with 3 kids) to accident this year (this one hit me hard), God said he will now fight for me.
And Coro and ASUU too... it makes me to loose my business
Now am waiting for God to start the battle.


I wonder why this happens too often. Why will one's own family that ought to be his/her support base become his/her enemy?
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Dec 04, 2020
ecomalchemist:


It's never too late fam.

All you need do is earn daily while learning the trade you want to.

If you want to go into ecommerce, let me know so I can share some resources with you.

Alternatively, you need to learn about Facebook and Instagram ads if you want to make a ton shit of Money from the Nigerian Market.

No knowledge is a waste, I am interested too
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Juliearth(f): 3:53pm On Dec 04, 2020
Hotzone:
Retrenchment from oil company in the year 2003 and breaking up with my fiancé




What was the reason for the break up?
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by AgentGoat: 3:54pm On Dec 04, 2020
JIREN01:
I currently work as a scientific editor.

Local or international journal?
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by molybdenum0012: 3:55pm On Dec 04, 2020
OgaRico:



First thing first,sorry about the whole setback happenings around you and how about giving Security job a try while you are yet to move to America because the experience gained here might be useful when you eventually move abroad and I'm suggesting Security Job because is readily available.

That is true. Someone helped me to get one at an hotel on the island many months ago, but could not accept because of the distance. Up to 90% of the take home will go for Tfares. And no accommodation provided and nowhere to squat.

Still open for more opportunities by the way.

Thanks for your kind words

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Dec 04, 2020
peropoliet:
Finished from secondary school in 2015 got admission in 2017 paid only my year 1 fees still owning year2 dropped out this year cos fraudsters took my school fees from my mom bank account am even tired of life nothing wey motivational speaker fit talk change my mind I exchange crypto but men it hard to see people this season God help

Pm if you are in Lagos. We can help recover the money fraudsters took from your mum's account without her consent.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by babatilewa: 4:02pm On Dec 04, 2020
Had stroke, then business crumbled as a result of Cork, even feeding my family now na on top begging ppl for money
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by millionboi2: 4:02pm On Dec 04, 2020
kereman1:
efcc use me shine, e no beta for my barrister, that conniving bastard, he was biting me and blowing me breeze, did know he conspired with efcc legal department.
hmmmm
Thy are something else
U should have bounce on him
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Kwara1stson: 4:03pm On Dec 04, 2020
ecomalchemist:


It's never too late fam.

All you need do is earn daily while learning the trade you want to.

If you want to go into ecommerce, let me know so I can share some resources with you.

Alternatively, you need to learn about Facebook and Instagram ads if you want to make a ton shit of Money from the Nigerian Market.
I am interested bro, 08131280558
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by JIREN01: 4:03pm On Dec 04, 2020
AgentGoat:


Local or international journal?
Both
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by JIREN01: 4:04pm On Dec 04, 2020
Stricklybidness:

What really happened?
kindly share details
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by tppzzy01(m): 4:05pm On Dec 04, 2020
litigator:



I wonder why this happens too often. Why will one's own family that ought to be his/her support base become his/her enemy?
In fact! he tire me o. Am only praying to God to help me fight the battle as soon as possible.
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by chibjohn(m): 4:06pm On Dec 04, 2020
tppzzy01:
My setback is being born in the family I am now. Especially, my Dad. They're waging war on me spiritually, stopping me from moving forward and. I prayed and prayed and prayed, God said he is looking at them, now that I lost my Guardian Angel (my wife of 9yrs marriage with 3 kids) to accident this year (this one hit me hard), God said he will now fight for me.
And Coro and ASUU too... it makes me to loose my business
Now am waiting for God to start the battle.
Are you sure your father is actually fighting you as you think? Hope one useless person that calls himself man of God or woman of God didn't tell you so? Your father may just be giving you a safe distance having heard you accuse him. I haven't seen a father that will fight for the downfall of his child. Most of the purported issues are engineered by these fraudster fake pastors.
That was how my uncle was deceived by such a pastor that his wife that gave him 4 beautiful children and resigned a bank managers role to look after the family was trying to kill him. It disorganized his family. The man wasted many years with another evil woman who left him when he lost his job and there was no money again. Today he can barely see and has gone back to his real wife who accepted him despite how he treated her. May God continue to bless her.

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by FahBuLous: 4:06pm On Dec 04, 2020
Finished secondary school 2016, tried admission that year but didn't work out, 2017 past, 2018 past, 2019 past, no admission, no skill, no job and no money in my accnt... Had passion 4 programming and graphic designing but no one to support me... Moved to asaba 2020 to find greener pasture, corona struck, i have been jobless since then... Still without a skill, job, money or admission... Life is just rough, to feed is hard... God send me a helper, i swear i will serve u all the days of my life...

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Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Kwara1stson: 4:07pm On Dec 04, 2020
Monben:
I can help you with number 1 if you wish


am a sickler too how can u help me
Re: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Dec 04, 2020
My own setback is having a soft heart o...

Because if I have the mind that guys out here in the street have, I will not be broke and frustrated with my life right now.
Most of the guys I grew up with are into internet fraud(yahoo boys).
From what I see, they are happy. They can afford things they want.
They have been on my neck since April to come and join them in their hustle, as I am their Gee and they want me to have money(that's what they do say). They even offered to take care of my feeding, take care of me, that I should just go over and stay with them to learn their craft..... But meehhn, my mind no just carry the thing. I mean,,, I can't stand causing harm or sadness to another person because I want to make money. I don't know how they manage to do that but I wish I could too.
For this reason my guys are all unhappy with me, so I have been living in seclusion but anyway...

I just need to leave this environment fast. It's not an environment I can stay and be focused on my career. ASUU will soon call off strike though

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