ekestic1976:

That's not what she meant!

so what did she mean

denny97797:
any woman who frowns at you when you have a good connection with your mom or parents is not a good woman

thank you, I actually prayed against such men that doesn't have any good relationship with his mum, what ever is the cause means the family get as e b o.
If u ain't too close to ur dad it doesn't bother me much but ur mum...... No no no for me.
I believe such men won't value women like that.
Just pray for good in-laws and be good urself.

thebosstrevor1:
How to know simp.
Clingyness to their mother.
I can spot some of them here already

the way u guys throw the word simp around eh, nawa

Liposure:
Yes of course. Whats there. As long as there is love all things are possible

Hello, Love is not everything pls... Some issues are beyond what love can amend.

Love is not peace of mind.

Fact, they are disaster waiting to happen

denny97797:
any woman who frowns at you when you have a good connection with your mom or parents is not a good woman

Yes now

There's nothing wrong with that

No!

Good question

africanman85:
Will u advise same if the person happen to be your brother ? Remember u will be a mum one day

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

dis ur talk no folo i swear

So many guys here are mummy's boy o.

I don't always agree with Zzor but it's like she's making sense somehow.

It's better to avoid. Even if the person is the only gender, just stay off.

Not saying they are bad but if you don't want Adaba FM to be always on your matter, marry from family where dem plenty.

Olunmercy56:


I can if he is well trained and his mother is friendly

are you well trained yourself?
is your own mother friendly?

you people Will be coming here and be talking rubbish as if the world revolves around ya piece of shiit

if you thinking marriage is easy why did you see your flocks in Shilohs

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

You always being notorious to think one sided. Go rehabilitate your reasoning except if this is your philosophy

The mother a woman also. The lady a woman.

Since when has it become a crime to marry an only child ?

Marry them if you spirit carry you.

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

is your WAEC result out ?

Aileexa1:
Only child or only son or first son, once in hear those three, I run. I can't marry a husband whose mother will be controlling my marriage.

And I can't date someone I can't marry

I am not any of those that you stated up there, so will you marry? I need the answer before Monday, morning if not you will lose me

Zzor:
Nothing childish here,what I see sitting down as a lady, you can't see it on top of the highest mountain as a man

Oda bi npe o njonze

Silentgroper:
Ur own redpill is way too toxic

that one is not redpill but mental issues!

redpill is about breaking the manipulating mindset of those female and enlightening simps on how not to be used by those female!

we even preach about Love and loving others equally

MUMMY'S BOI HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING THE ONLY SON OR ONE

womenareapes:
that one is not redpill but mental issues!

redpill is about breaking the manipulating mindset of those female and enlightening simps on how not to be used by those female!

we even preach about Love and loving others equally

My jaws dropped while reading his comment. Looking at it from another perspective, he comes off as a misogynist.

99.999999999% of guys are mummy's boys SO GOOD LUCK LADIES IN TRYING TO FIND A NON-MOMMY'S BOY.

Majority of male only children tend to be closer than usual to their mother.its logic no hard thing here,had it been they were like 2 or 3 then the mother would have shared the love between all of them but in the unavailability of that she tends to concentrate all that love on him only and trust me marrying someone like that especially if you guys are much in your own family is going to seem somehow cos the mother-son relationship,the way they converse ,the fact that he might not really be able to keep somethings away from his mum etc will seem so weird to the woman here except the mother-in-law is the really mature type,you know she knowing what is right and doing it.the worst part is if the father-in-law is dead.....omo na war.its Gon be hard kind of but with patience and little madness things will change

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

I hope in real life nor be like this u dey use talk or reason shall?

Karleb:
So many guys here are mummy's boy o.

I don't always agree with Zzor but it's like she's making sense somehow.

It's better to avoid. Even if the person is the only gender, just stay off.

Not saying they are bad but if you don't want Adaba FM to be always on your matter, marry from family where dem plenty.

looking for cheap attention for those whores here won't pay you!


well! Naija women loves men that beat the hell outta them! and you just proves it!

Nazgul:
Hello Nairalanders,

Last week a lady (casual friend) was complaining to me that her guy is an only child, and she's having mixed feelings concerning the whole relationship issue, cos according to her the guy's mum is literally controlling him and knows practically every thing about them. And she doesn't think she can continue the relationship.

I was just smiling inside me cos I'm an only child as well and my parents don't really interfer with my personal life. (I didn't tell her tho)

So the question is ladies would you feel comfortable dating or marrying an only child.

Guys as well...would you feel comfortable dating or marrying a girl who's the only child of her parents?

Stop worrying yourself now, when you are ready to get married you will get a lady who wouldn't mind marrying you

SimplyFacts:


What a selfish comment !
You could have advised both genders

Na person pikin be this o.
Unlike the other

God,,,, abeg,, bless me with better wife o, so that my waiting won't be in vain.

I know I'm not perfect.
Na beg I dey beg ooo

Oizee is there for you!
She's good

womenareapes:
looking for cheap attention for those whores here won't pay you!


well! Naija women loves men that beat the hell outta them! and you just proves it!

Look for whose attention? I'd rather watch paint dry!

Why don't you try marrying from a family where your woman is the only daughter.

EleventhWeirdo:
Outgrow? Since when has cordiality with One's parent become a symbol of non maturity? Your post reeks of intolerance

Mr., You don't get it.
There's a difference between cordiality and being a mummy's boy ( pet). The latter is an almost inseparable relationship between son and mother while the former could exist between any one. And it was based on the latter the question was raised.

Liposure:
Yes of course. Whats there. As long as there is love all things are possible

Don't ever go into any relationship with this mentality that love solves all problems. It gets to a stage where you have to move pass that love stage and start reasoning. No matter how you love a mommy's boy, his family will always decide when things should happen in your home. Same with a daughter who is mom's baby girl. She will always ask her mom before agreeing to anything you two discuss as a couple. It has ended many marriages and it still does. Spouses that have not realized that they have their own families who always run back to their parents for every little thing are everywhere. Some give their wives money though their mom or siblings. Some pay rent for their siblings but won't pay school fees for their kids.