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Disappointed:
Only a wicked demon can make you think of dating a pregnant woman.
No be you deflowered her, u no even enter there, and you wan marry her.
Issoryt.
Go on...
I wish you the best of luck!!!

Disappointed:
Of all the fishes in the ocean?

ednut1:
She will bill you and still go back to the father of the child. Better flee

KingsJohnson:
The owner of the child will come back soon just like a Biblical prodigal son and definitely she and her family will always forgive and accept him, while they will forget all your efforts in the past.

My people will always say, "Uzo Nwa, aburu uzo Nwanyi", You can always fight for a woman's love, but the father of a child will always win when paternity is in question.

WoundedLamb:
I really don't know why most NL men/boys come online to seek approval/validation in their personal relationships. It's almost as if everyone is afraid of being called a simp or whatever it is kids say these days, and that's like living one's life in a societal cage instead of being oneself and following one's heart.

Back to the topic, people here don't really care about you. They will say anything that makes them feel good about themselves, anything that makes them feel amongst the "sharp guys" and they will forget the thread the moment the page reloads. So don't expect much carefully thought out answers. Even the sincere ones can only give their opinionated views. At the end, it's still all on you. It's really about your inner peace, what you can overlook and what you can't. Remember that there's no perfect relationship, people are different, and there's no formula.

Here is my own take: if you love her and you are sure she loves you (and you don't have a problem raising a baby that is not biologically yours), I'd say you shouldn't then let people talk you out of your happiness cause whomsoever you decide to date tomorrow might have had much more sex than this one but just didn't get pregnant. But then again, it's understandable if you're uncomfortable with raising another man's child. If that that's the case, it would be better if you quit now than make things difficult for the woman and her baby in future. Nobody can tell you your disposition towards the subject so do what makes you happy.

WoundedLamb:
I really don't know why most NL men/boys come online to seek approval/validation in their personal relationships. It's almost as if everyone is afraid of being called a simp or whatever it is kids say these days, and that's like living one's life in a societal cage instead of being oneself and following one's heart.

Back to the topic, people here don't really care about you. They will say anything that makes them feel good about themselves, anything that makes them feel amongst the "sharp guys" and they will forget the thread the moment the page reloads. So don't expect much carefully thought out answers. Even the sincere ones can only give their opinionated views. At the end, it's still all on you. It's really about your inner peace, what you can overlook and what you can't. Remember that there's no perfect relationship, people are different, and there's no formula.

lasisi69:
underrated comment but you talk too much