Don't mind her. Seams she was overly emotional and unable to reason well when she type that to nairaland.

Beverlyjean:



Really...did u just say that @ bolded ?? ...so he doesn't satisfy u or What?? I don't get ...isnt it enjoyed by both ??..or u see it as a favour or what?? Its confusing

AuntRose:

The op isn't a female.

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Wo Las Las both gender needs each other so all this one na long story. [/quon
no be lie

AuntRose:

The op isn't a female.

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AuntRose:
The op isn't a female.

madam, she's married and a mother of two(girls).

FEMINIST

Men should stop getting married jare. These arrogant people will be nice. I have 2 of them as friends. They can greet me 10 times a day.

Have you eaten? Have u breath today? Have u this ..have u that?

They are in their 30s...any lady above 26 is a no no for me as wife.

Women live in a fantasy world on social media, but in reality, they are nothing

Op be careful, this mango tree that you're shaking so, if it fall eh?

Your writeup is an exercise in futility, as it requires the female demographic you're referring, to be something they can't be, and if you anything about female nature, it is that when a lady goes bad, she hardly go back. Good girl gone bad is real. Instead of these women to digest, make changes and move on, they will attack. They are like an aboki soldier, robotic to the core, can't think for themselves, and when you see one, you've seen all.

Everything you said made sense, but "cognitive dissonance" is woven deep into the fabric of their being, they are capable of coexisting harmoniously with two contradicting thoughts, and still emerge as survivors, noble, faultless, and of course, its always men fault. The delusion is real. So madam, let them be. If anything I learnt about life, it is that "you can deny the truth because it uncomfortable, but you can not run away from the consequences of denying the truth".

Life has evolved a perfect system of rewarding, or punishing us in accordance with our works. As for me, I'll be overseeing how things goes, praising the smart ones and laughing at the idiots who think they are smart because they are young and the attentions are coming.

Of course its a known fact that women lies to themselves a lot. Or tries to vomit manipulatory words to make men feel as though women is a big favor to them...when in reality,women needs men to survive in any way you look at it.

A woman without a man in her life is completely bitter all her life. ..but a man can go years without a woman and still be extremely happy.

Women are on social medias screaming "I don't need a man in my life"..yet their prayer points centers around finding a man.

Small time they will flood social medias with engagement rings etc

Nonense

Leshurr:
We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.

We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.

We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.

We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.

We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.

Lol..Mr MAN! Stop deceiving yourself, bloody lowlife! Because no woman gives you face in the real life, you come here to talk trash!
At least 80% of Nigerian women are breadwinners or earn almost same as their husbands! Men are really losing their value. I am quite sure you can barely take care of your own financial needs, talk more of a woman! Many of you men here suffer from serious low selfesteem. Pure Shame! Lmao

BadBitch:


First of all, we're still very much in a patriarchal society, where women are shamed and bullied for not being married before thirties, I mean, the males on nairaland, even have a term "evening newspaper" an insult reserved for "single women" that are older than 27... Parents join in the circus as well, and you're wondering why some women "pressure" for marriage in the Nigerian society? For peace of mind, security, going with the "norm" and all the other privileges that come with being a married woman in this country. Anyday I step out without a wedding ring, I see the difference in how men and women regard me. And as for praying and religion and whatnot, we pray for everything in this failed state. Pray for light, water, security, health, admissions, food, so why the heck won't people pray for husband, or wife or children??





Many women are working their asses off, to make income to support the family. Many are even breadwinners, and you're here claiming women don't share financial roles? In Nigeria the poverty capital of the world? You must be kidding. Even the stay at home moms, still do business, and cover chores that would have cost a lot of money to get done if outsourced.
Catering, laundry and cleaning services are expensive services in saner climes. Not to talk of when children are now in the mix. Also the cost of them not pursuing their dreams and career goals, just to keep the home front in check.

And as for red pills or whatever the fok they call themselves, dem go dey alright. This is Nigeria, ignorance is the order of the day. Keep your pills within your borders tho'

Both genders have their challenges...no one cares if a 30 yr old woman don't hv a car money, business or rented apartment... but men are validated based on the mentioned... if linda was a man with the money she has , she wud hv been married since just by a snap of the finger but because the society validates money as the way a man is respected or wanted in the society , she herself will not settle for less.... a very rich man can go to the village and marry a girl from a poor home...but a rich woman will not do that ...

There is no much feminism offline. The hypocrisy online is just to flow with the trend, because not many persons can swim against the tide. We are in the zombie civilization age. Follow, follow is a sign of a retard.

CalliDora1:
How many ladies truly have you seen doing those things you mentioned? Or you're just trying to get the cheap attention of the men here? I hope you get it though but mind you, it won't get you into the their good books because they are habitual female bashers and will still bash you anyways. So??

Lastly, respect yourself!

I know of one

https://www.nairaland.com/6143669/looking-born-again-brother-serious

Scam!

Stop Claiming Vandamme or Jetli there

the thread is applicable to all of You women

we know how it goes and there you go again, deceiving yourself still

as yoruba will say "ai tii kofa nle ifa tin se" we have not consulted the oracle yet and its already happening

JovialJune:
Who are the we precisely? You should specifically be precise by saying this only apply to the women you have had personal encounter with in your existence

And pls stop yapping like someone living in a cave, most of what you mentioned doesn't even apply in the world today, e.g most women share more in the financial responsibility than men doing house hold chores.


Except you probably created this thread to start unnecessary war of gender words.

ziondaughter247:



Lol..Mr MAN! Stop deceiving yourself, bloody lowlife! Because no woman gives you face in the real life, you come here to talk trash!
At least 80% of Nigerian women are breadwinners or earn almost same as their husbands! Men are really losing their value. I am quite sure you can barely take care of your own financial needs, talk more of a woman! Many of you men here suffer from serious low selfesteem. Pure Shame! Lmao

80 percent? haba na where all these women dey?

www.nairaland.com/attachments/12807034_appads2_jpeg0ad5a20d8ea9e92dd9988967b7f66ff1

Regex:
It's either the author of this post is a man behind an 'f' moniker or she has really mastered the act of controlling her emotions.

Why do I think like the above?

Despite all the ramblings and calling out by "her female colleagues", she's yet to respond to either of them. That's very feminine yet so powerful!

Jesus.

So you're implying that common sense is not common within the female demographic anymore eh? To the extent that you're surprised a woman said something that make sense? In other words, to be smart is not a feature of many nairaland females ?

Which kind nonsense be this naw?

mrblessed:
The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.

Goat Talk!!

mrblessed:
The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.

Nigerian women are in high demand ... where and when...the reverse is the case Nigerian men are the ones in high demand....


And you are blaming Nigerian men for the problems their female counterpart go through .... ....trash

Nuttella:
Its when you don't know your God given purpose on earth that you whole life will be centered on marriage.

Shiloh is today!!

mrblessed:
The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.

Arh.. please don't let other eyes see this post .

AuntRose:

You better change that 'f' beside your moniker to 'm'

Whenever a woman doesn't agree with ur ideology, u say it must b a man..
U know the thing about all these, u will end up seeing how foolish ur ideology is ...it might take a decade or 2 but u will realise...u might not wanna accept it in front of people, but deep down inside, u will realise ur ideology is just the devils plan to ruin the society

JovialJune:
Who are the we precisely? You should specifically be precise by saying this only apply to the women you have had personal encounter with in your existence

And pls stop yapping like someone living in a cave, most of what you mentioned doesn't even apply in the world today, e.g most women share more in the financial responsibility than men doing house hold chores.


Except you probably created this thread to start unnecessary war of gender words.

Mumu

DicklyD:


So only the men enjoys sex. Guess you will like to marry a man that wouldn't bother you with sex duty for months.

That's the solipsism and transactional attitude to sex showing itself.

Those kinds of arrangements tend to not last.

The real problem is their misinterpretation of feminism,which has made them shirk most of their responsibilities.
Am just glad that,at least,someone still have enough sense to realise the self-deception.

mrblessed:
The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.

Another simp

mrblessed:
The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.

Another simp

Leshurr:
We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.

We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.

We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.

We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.

We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.

My friend Keep this nonsense to yourself. So Nigerian men are the price then? You disgust me. Stop degrading Nigerian women while looking for cheap Nairaland recognition. If you are using this mentality to run your home, I can bet you 100% that your husband has no regard for you.

ojun50:
The world is not ending soon..... Stop deceiving ur self....

SORRYYYYYYYY OOOOOO O______OYO

ziondaughter247:



Lol..Mr MAN! Stop deceiving yourself, bloody lowlife! Because no woman gives you face in the real life, you come here to talk trash!
At least 80% of Nigerian women are breadwinners or earn almost same as their husbands! Men are really losing their value. I am quite sure you can barely take care of your own financial needs, talk more of a woman! Many of you men here suffer from serious low selfesteem. Pure Shame! Lmao

Abeg where did you get your 80% statistics from So you are saying all the men that we see everyday going to their various places of work don't contribute financially to the home

Abeg make Una De think before Una talk, okay?

Kuns84:


Lol.
Coming from the same dolt who said this:


Nigerian girls must surely disgrace themselves

Like your mom did I guess
What a waste

Kuns84:

Lol. Coming from the same dolt who said this:

Nigerian girls must surely disgrace themselves

ANYWHERE ANY DAY

Leshurr:



I am very much a woman and a mother of two girls.
I said what I said and I stand by it.

Wife nko?