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My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by TheZebra(op): 2:11pm On Dec 11, 2020
Hello, good day. Before i go on, let me give a small details about myself. I am a 23yr old graduate who just finished from ABU Zaria last year. I am very good looking, i mean handsome, like very handsome that it has become my trademark everywhere i go. Many people feel i am a bad player cos of how i relate with females, but the truth is i am an introvert, but not shy. I love spending my time alone and enjoying my peace. But when it comes to social activities also, i participate fully cos I'm not shy, just an introvert. My introvert nature makes me see ladies as a waste of time because i enjoy the company of myself. As a result of this, i haven't had any serious relationship with any lady.

Recently, i met a hausa lady in my are where i stay in kaduna, one of the most beautiful and influencial area in Nigeria as it is home to Hundreds of political names in Nigeria, from governors to presidents. I am currently financial stable as i don't depend on anyone.

So about 2months ago, i met this lady, cute Muslim lady, I'm sure she should be around 22-24 cos I'm sure she's older than me. This lady loves me to the core and she doesn't deny me sex. We have it on a steady.

Now, i noticed that i am so getting into her even more than the way she loves me, but i didn't let her know because i am a Red pilled guy. I know how to make a lady submissive to me, besides any lady i meet is ready to submit totally to me because i told you i have a nice look and also good physique. My girlfriend once even told me that she is shocked I'm not cheating on her cos according to her, no lady in this world can resist my seduction.

Maybe she thinks i just wanna play her, but I'm not, I'm ready to love her for real even though we won't get married, and she knows.

Now my main aim of writing this is because i need help on if i should break up with her because i don't want to come out weak showering love on her. I hate being seen as weak.

Note: she doesn't ask me for financial aid, nothing at all... Even if i try recharging her phone, she doesn't accept. You know how hausa girls are.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Climax07(m): 2:13pm On Dec 11, 2020
Wetin concern me?

Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Mokason288(m): 2:13pm On Dec 11, 2020
No ooo don’t break up with her
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by TheZebra(op): 2:15pm On Dec 11, 2020
lalasticlala Mynd44 ishilove
Fp pls
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by blackpanthar: 2:16pm On Dec 11, 2020
TheZebra:
Hello, good day. Before i go on, let me give a small details about myself. I am a 23yr old graduate who just finished from ABU Zaria last year. I am very good looking, i mean handsome, like very handsome that it has become my trademark everywhere i go. Many people feel i am a bad player cos of how i relate with females, but the truth is i am an introvert, but not shy. I love spending my time alone and enjoying my peace. But when it comes to social activities also, i participate fully cos I'm not shy, just an introvert. My introvert nature makes me see ladies as a waste of time because i enjoy the company of myself. As a result of this, i haven't had any serious relationship with any lady.

Recently, i met a hausa lady in my are where i stay in kaduna, one of the most beautiful and influencial areas in Nigeria as it is home to Hundreds of political names in Nigeria, from governors to presidents. I am currently financial stable as i don't depend on anyone.

So about 2months ago, i met this lady, cute Muslim lady, I'm sure she should be around 22-24 cos I'm sure she's older than me. This lady loves me to the core and she doesn't deny me sex. We have it on a steady.

Now, i noticed that i am so getting into her even more than the way she loves me, but i didn't let her know because i am a Red pilled guy. I know how to make a lady submissive to me, besides any lady i meet is ready to submit totally to me because i told you i have a nice look and also good physique. My girlfriend once even told me that she is shocked I'm not cheating on her cos according to her, no lady in this world can resist my seduction.

Maybe she thinks i just wanna play her, but I'm not, I'm ready to love her for real even though we won't get married, and she knows.

Now my main aim if writing this is because i need help on if i should break up with her because i don't want to come out weak showering love on her. I hate being seen as weak.

Note: she doesn't ask me for financial aid, nothing at all... Even if i try recharging her phone, she doesn't accept. You know how hausa girls are.
YOU ARE A PLAYER..... A DIRTY ONE AT THAT...


I doubt you really are red pilled... YOU USED HER.... SHE LOVED YOU THE BEST WAY SHE COULD BY NOT USING YOU As A CASH POINT.... She gave you her BODY, SOUL and everything.... now YOU FEEL WISE AND ARE TIRED OF HER BECAUSE YOU FEEL YOU DESERVE BETTER..... shame on you.

That is LIFE for you.... sadly you do not know the L in LOVE. So you think in marriage every day is Hot DAY or PASSION day?

In love, there are days you would not really feel the other spouse loves you.... now if you are redpilled you would know that ANYONE UNDER 25/26 yrs of age is a potential player or victim and they really do not know what they want in life.


Dude don't hurt her else you may regret it cos you would not find another lady as loyal and loving as her.... be content with what you got and do things the right way by MARRYING HER. Soon if she tells you she is preggy... your eyes will clear.

If you dump her, you would make her the most dangerous player.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by 2dice01: 2:18pm On Dec 11, 2020
Any small thing
Am a Redpiller huh

Redpiller koh Badman killer ni grin

Your mumu button has been activited
She is updating the latest version

Stay tuned cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by virginprincess(f): 2:21pm On Dec 11, 2020
You just open this tread to tell us how handsome you are, nothing more. because i don't see any sense in what you typed.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by PUSSYHOE(m): 2:21pm On Dec 11, 2020
no o dont break up let her use you to make money.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by PUSSYHOE(m): 2:21pm On Dec 11, 2020
if you love a Nigerian girl your pocket go hear am.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Bodyodour: 2:22pm On Dec 11, 2020
You are a redpilled guy. Lol. Don't allow this stupid redpill stuff spoil ur relationship oo.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Dec 11, 2020
I'm good looking, I'm a redpiller yen yen yen, I pity ladies who dates your age, their body will suffer for it. Some ladies can fall hand sha, why be with someone you know you can't marry and be having constant sex with him mtcheww.As for you op, go and grow up and focus on your life, don't let your erection lead you astray
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by hashtagged(m): 2:29pm On Dec 11, 2020
Break up with her, since that's what you Wana hear, you don't need anyone's permission to breakup with anyone you can breakup cause you feel like, having a relationship with someone no matter how long does not mean you must end up with that person. I have had lots of relationships and breakup for no reason.

And she be Muslim bro abeg run from those people if you love your head
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by MJBOLT: 2:30pm On Dec 11, 2020
Mr man stop claiming what you are not angry
You are red pill,you are good looking yet na lamentations full here

Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Dec 11, 2020
MJBOLT:
Mr man stop claiming what you are not angry
You are red pill,you are good looking yet na lamentations full here
rubbish
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Dec 11, 2020
virginprincess:
You just open this tread to tell us how handsome you are, nothing more. because i don't see any sense in what you typed.
I swear. I was searching for the point and I couldn't see it
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by SavageBoy: 2:35pm On Dec 11, 2020
virginprincess:
You just open this tread to tell us how handsome you are, nothing more. because i don't see any sense in what you typed.
In other words, sense is a thousand kilometer far away from his headgrin
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by frozen70(f): 2:35pm On Dec 11, 2020
TheZebra:
Hello, good day. Before i go on, let me give a small details about myself. I am a 23yr old graduate who just finished from ABU Zaria last year. I am very good looking, i mean handsome, like very handsome that it has become my trademark everywhere i go. Many people feel i am a bad player cos of how i relate with females, but the truth is i am an introvert, but not shy. I love spending my time alone and enjoying my peace. But when it comes to social activities also, i participate fully cos I'm not shy, just an introvert. My introvert nature makes me see ladies as a waste of time because i enjoy the company of myself. As a result of this, i haven't had any serious relationship with any lady.

Recently, i met a hausa lady in my are where i stay in kaduna, one of the most beautiful and influencial area in Nigeria as it is home to Hundreds of political names in Nigeria, from governors to presidents. I am currently financial stable as i don't depend on anyone.

So about 2months ago, i met this lady, cute Muslim lady, I'm sure she should be around 22-24 cos I'm sure she's older than me. This lady loves me to the core and she doesn't deny me sex. We have it on a steady.

Now, i noticed that i am so getting into her even more than the way she loves me, but i didn't let her know because i am a Red pilled guy. I know how to make a lady submissive to me, besides any lady i meet is ready to submit totally to me because i told you i have a nice look and also good physique. My girlfriend once even told me that she is shocked I'm not cheating on her cos according to her, no lady in this world can resist my seduction.

Maybe she thinks i just wanna play her, but I'm not, I'm ready to love her for real even though we won't get married, and she knows.

Now my main aim of writing this is because i need help on if i should break up with her because i don't want to come out weak showering love on her. I hate being seen as weak.

Note: she doesn't ask me for financial aid, nothing at all... Even if i try recharging her phone, she doesn't accept. You know how hausa girls are.
From your narrative, you are too proud of yourself and your look

Don't get bothered if a lady loves you or not since you know that you already knows how to hook up with them

If they come and go, get another to replace them

When you are ready for relationship with a woman, you will humble yourself
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Dec 11, 2020
All redpillers deserve feminists,
And all feminists deserve redpillers.
Just so that they could fulfil the stereotypes they have written for themselves.


The rest of the sensible ones will marry themselves
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Dec 11, 2020
virginprincess:
You just open this tread to tell us how handsome you are, nothing more. because i don't see any sense in what you typed.
All of them are handsome on Nairaland and sometimes I wonder if the word handsome has another meaning, you will check his pictures now and you will be tempted to slap him for wasting your time. Audio handsomeness has been worrying all these chewing gum Nairaland boys
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by hashtagged(m): 2:40pm On Dec 11, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
All redpillers deserve feminists,
And all feminists deserve redpillers.
Just so that they could fulfil the stereotypes they have written for themselves.


The rest of the sensible ones will marry themselves
This is a fact, they can continue their gender wars in their marriage let the rational people live their lives
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Lawliet(f): 2:43pm On Dec 11, 2020
Op, we know you are handsome. We know you are redpilled.
In short, break up with her to prove your point.

But one thing, don't come here to post another epistle of how miserable you are after the break up. Na that one God go punish you for.

Nonsense!
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by virginprincess(f): 2:45pm On Dec 11, 2020
Zzor:
All of them are handsome on Nairaland and sometimes I wonder if the word handsome has another meaning, you will check his pictures now and you will be tempted to slap him for wasting your time. Audio handsomeness has been worrying all these chewing gum Nairaland boys
grin grin grin, Zzor you have start again o, don't let our audio handsome nairalanders come for you oh.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Dec 11, 2020
virginprincess:
grin grin grin, Zzor you have start again o, don't let our audio handsome nairalanders come for you oh.
let them come but with their pictures
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by virginprincess(f): 2:48pm On Dec 11, 2020
SavageBoy:
In other words, sense is a thousand kilometer far away from his headgrin
You are the one that sense is far from, can you explain what he typed.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 2:52pm On Dec 11, 2020
You have some issues yours so blind to and it's that you're full of yourself. Do you know how many times you stated how handsome you are? Girls fall for you, you live in sthe most beautiful place in Nigeria where wealthy people reside, so what? Who cares? You reek so much of pride and it's quite appalling!
You also think you're cool/superb and probably, none compares to you!
You're trying to sound like a superman! You're a redpiller and you can't be weak! You don't want to show your sensitive side, blah blah blah!
If she totally avoids you, I'll understand why!
Your post also doesn't even make sense.
By the way, you're not an introver, find out what or who you are. You're probably an ambivert or you're just another extrovert but you delusional about it and think you're an introvert that you aren't.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by virginprincess(f): 2:52pm On Dec 11, 2020
Zzor:
let them come but with their pictures
Yes o, i no know you are ready for them anytime, anyday.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Dec 11, 2020
TheZebra:
I am very good looking, i mean handsome, like very handsome that it has become my trademark everywhere i go.

I know how to make a lady submissive to me, besides any lady i meet is ready to submit totally to me because i told you i have a nice look and also good physique. My girlfriend once even told me that she is shocked I'm not cheating on her cos according to her, no lady in this world can resist my seduction.

Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Silentgroper(m): 2:56pm On Dec 11, 2020
TheZebra:
lalasticlala Mynd44 ishilove
Fp pls
when was d last time u visited nairaland b4 nw? huh

ishi, isnt a mod anymore.

mynd is nt a supermod. so therefore, he cannot handle d movement of this topic to fp.

dont mention. huh
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Silentgroper(m): 3:04pm On Dec 11, 2020
Zzor:
let them come but with their pictures
Why do u like self servicing with our picture, just why? huh
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 3:24pm On Dec 11, 2020
TheZebra:
Hello, good day. Before i go on, let me give a small details about myself. I am a 23yr old graduate who just finished from ABU Zaria last year. I am very good looking, i mean handsome, like very handsome that it has become my trademark everywhere i go. Many people feel i am a bad player cos of how i relate with females, but the truth is i am an introvert, but not shy. I love spending my time alone and enjoying my peace. But when it comes to social activities also, i participate fully cos I'm not shy, just an introvert. My introvert nature makes me see ladies as a waste of time because i enjoy the company of myself.
Introvert indeed

Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by odinson1(m): 3:37pm On Dec 11, 2020
virginprincess:
You just open this tread to tell us how handsome you are, nothing more. because i don't see any sense in what you typed.
This is the only sensible thing you've said in this forum
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Her. Should I Break Up With Her? by Biglittlelois(f): 3:45pm On Dec 11, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
All redpillers deserve feminists,
And all feminists deserve redpillers.
Just so that they could fulfil the stereotypes they have written for themselves.


The rest of the sensible ones will marry themselves
On point.


@Op, you are handsome yen yen yen, we have heard, where is your picture? Let's see if you look a little bit like Drogo.
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