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SkyRicks:
Ok. I don't what to complicate my life more, like I said my reputation (how people around me see me bro).
I have build a reputation around me and if seen around brothel. I can't even think about it

Bro ur sexual urge na child's play for where my own dey 100% child's play, i don't want to talk much, if I tell u my story u go bow, only yest alone self I slept with 4 different prostitutes and I masturbate twice before sleeping, which made me work up to 9 this morning

I can help you: just get in touch

Romans 7:23 But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.

Romans 7:24 O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death?

I will walk you through the process...
You will overcome

You need to confront that lady, she is evil

Bobxin:
Haba, you don't need to tell the pharmacist anything, just ask for an anti-depressant drug.
Shuuuu

I take the name of Jesus Christ beg una make una no go add better problem on top wetin dey here o

pray about it, and keep busy. These are the only solutions please. sex is not food. build up your life, though it is sad what happened to you, but be strong and move on...

SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed

Saturate yourself with the knowledge of God's Grace, it will give you the ability to withstand such Urges.
My friend, grace does not mean that God has gone soft on sin.
He is not looking down from heaven, shaking his head and saying, “Boys will
be boys!” He is not saying, “Never mind,
it’s okay to sin a little.” As a righteous God, He hates sin and
He has to punish sin, every single sin. In fact, He has punished
your sins and my sins, and He has done this in the body of His
Son. Today, you and I are forgiven because another was
punished.
That is why Paul said in Hebrews 10:17 that our sins and our
lawless deeds He remembers no more. This is because at the
cross, God remembered all our sins in the body of His Son. So
today, He no longer counts our sins against us. (2 Corinthians 5:18–19) This, my friends, is grace.
Grace may be free for you, but it cost God
everything. It cost God His Son.

ghettochild4u:
First off, that abuse didnt lead to ur masturbation. You prolly learnt that act in boarding school.
Secondly if u r very very idle n jobless then you would be thinking of sex...
Dont blame that lady even tho she did wrong.. Wi experienced that too but i didnt turn out to be like u..
So u r ur own problem.
Infact... I did enjoy the act n never told anyone.. Except some years bck i told my ex...

Ok. Thanks for the response sir/ma, I am self employed due to the facts of the employment ratio in Nigeria for young graduates and lastly am engaged but once am out asin within my rooms this thought develops. Why I complain is because it is slowly affecting me.

aronski:
Bro! Let me tell u about me, no one knows about mine, even my mom but i want to share with u so that u feel motivated.
I was 7 getting to 8 years when mine happened and this was done to me by one of my in-laws who was older than. let me explained to u how it started first of all.
A very good day, no one was at their house, it was just her. she called me to send me for an errand and when I was back, I entered her room and after keeping what she sent me on the bed, I was about to live and I saw her inside, she was with a wrapper. She then hold be and push me to the bed gently, I was scared this was new to me. The next thing I saw was a complete naked woman. She grabbed my hands to touch her breast, she then climbed on top me and started kissing me passionately and then she bleeped me. This happened not once, not twice but a lot of times...
I feel in love with what she was doing to me, and sometimes I intentionally go to her house when there was no one....
And then it came to a time when she got admission and I was left alone. Then I get to realized my mind has been polluted, as I get older I started watching porn 247, Any movie I watch anywhere/any day I see just a seductive dress style of a lady, my mind don arrange her for bed already...

Man, when I was a teenager I was no longer comfortable because I had a dream I was so passionate about (being a computer programmer and building something big, which I have already done but currently looking for funds to launch ) and I noticed what happened to me was killing me from the inside. I also had no courage to stand or even talk with ladies, once I get touched by ladies My prick go just charge and I had to find somewhere to sit down first and calm my self...

So I wanted to fight this evil in me alone and this was how I did it, by the age of 17 started to discover that this Jesus I serve is more powerful than I think so I joined baptism class in my church thinking the moment they deep me inside the water my mind will be purified and all that but guess what!

After baptism, that very night I masturbate bad bad and I watch porn, the war with my mind was stronger man...
am beginning to even reach 2 rounds when masturbating at 18 (years old) sef and it was bad for me I know.

But the next wave, this is what I did, I learned that keeping oneself busy will help so when I spend time learning my programming online/at nights I discovered I hardly get any taught but the moment I leave that computer, my mind and prick go get to work so things were hard bro, and I also took another wave which is currently at work now and this is what I do.

I said to myself, keeping myself to be busy won't actually fight this evil but I had to add Jesus to the battle and this is what I did, I started having quiet time as early as 5am in the morning and as usually keep on learning my coding and so on...
And guess what! I won the battle of watching porn and I was happy, and I said to myself, I have to change what I watch, see and listen to, to help renew my mind and I quit musics for sometime and I don't watch all type of movies again. I started listening to worship songs and yes it did help.
Gradually I was able to roll with the opposite gender, I then got admission into the university and I was also having my quiet time. I had female friends now in school, we talked, laugh and things go fine.

NOTE: sometimes I do fall again, I find my self masturbating but I keep on fighting because I don't wan to be consumed by this evil.

After 1st semester break, I came back home and I was still having my quiet time and coding still. I discovered I was spending 1 to 2 months without masturbating, and the months was increasing I could feel freedom from afar somehow. And I started trying new things, I walk to a shop where one of my crush was working and I just started a conversation with her and collected her number, I was fucking shy but I discovered she was shy too and that gave me some little courage but my mouth was vibrating still but I was successful, I started been nice and build acquaintance with random ladies when I find myself in new places and yes I collected their number and called some of them and also walk to them when I see them somewhere and even take pictures (my prick was always asleep now except in the morning sometimes, e dey wake up before me and sometimes it doesn't )
But all glory be to God. Am currently 20 years old and I can't remember when last I masturbated talk less on watching porn sef.
I still do my quiet time, and now I listed to our Wizzy, davido, and other stars music and I don't find myself thinking otherwise, I also watch some movies and when I get to sex scenes I find out there was no effects on me anymore.
I can now talk to any girl I want, but am trying to make it known to myself not to fall for fornication ever again till I get married and I am still moving with this praying God helps me.

I still have my quiet time bro and things are now fine

And this is what I understand in this journey of life bro, and it is this "To walk with Christ is not a decision one makes a day, but a decision one is to make everyday of his life" because the devil doesn't sleeps, he moves like a lion everyday looking for someone to devour so I/You have to keep on going and fighting....

This is my story to u, hope this teaches u something...

am not special nor better than you, I go to church only Sundays but I keep myself going with God's word by having my quiet time and praying to him always for help and so on...

If I can do it what makes u think u can't..


I wanted to send this to u privately but I just decided to write it here so that everybody gets to know...

Don't give up, the fight doesn't end till ur dead bro...

God help us all

Thank you very much.

SkyRicks:
Ok. Thanks for the response sir/ma, I am self employed due to the facts of the employment ratio in Nigeria for young graduates and lastly am engaged but once am out asin within my rooms this thought develops. Why I complain is because it is slowly affecting me.

Get yrself engaged... With playing games or find someone una go dey play scrabble or ludo with n majorly get a gf.. A sexually active one... Las Las na u go Taya

chiefolododo:
Sex if not dealt with, will ruin you. Surrender to the Lordship of Jesus Christ , accept him as your Lord and savior and forsake your sin. To know more pls contact me. It is possible to be saved from the bondage of immorality, through the power in the name of Jesus , by His grace.

Look at this clown oo, when did you turn to a pastor?

Femolacaster:
Look at this clown oo, when did you turn to a pastor?

Go and sin no more

Harshreality:
Heck even if he continued till he was 20 it does not in anyways change the fact that he was raped!

That woman needs to be brought to justice.

Of all the people to sleep with she only saw a child?

Rape is rape. It does not matter if the victim comes back later.
Why are people so insensitive when it comes to molestation of males?

Even his fellow males can't stand up for him
Disgusting.

Exactly

musicproducer:
mumu which rape

If you read the write up and still cannot receive sense to see that the OP was raped at a yound age, then it aint my fault that you decided to be stupid.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

TheKingIsHere:
If you read the write up and still cannot receive sense to see that the OP was raped at a yound age, then it aint my fault that you decided to be stupid.

still not seeing it, maybe ur sense lost

musicproducer:
still not seeing it, maybe ur sense lost

Then it shows your high level of stupidity

TheKingIsHere:
Then it shows your high level of stupidity

maybe, i guess urs get elevated

musicproducer:
maybe, i guess urs get elevated

Coming from someone who thinks that an 8 years old who was lured into sexual intercourse with an older woman wasn't raped

NL is filled with fo0ls

TheKingIsHere:
Coming from someone who thinks that an 8 years old who was lured into sexual intercourse with an older woman wasn't raped

NL is filled with fo0ls

yhhh fools every where

musicproducer:
yhhh fools every where

Like you na.

You're definitely a pedophile too

TheKingIsHere:
Like you na.

You're definitely a pedophile too

if u say so