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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by krownie: 6:03pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed



Believe me I understand what you're going through & if it's escort you want.. I can hook you up with a girl in your state jus PM me, no one will know.... Boys will be Boys
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by MaziIgwe007: 6:04pm On Nov 28, 2020
Sundrus:
Wetin u need now na depressant drugs, to help reduce ur libido(urge for sex). Go pharmacy go complain to the pharmacist.

Never try this, it has a worst side effect
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Nobody: 6:05pm On Nov 28, 2020
TheKingIsHere:


So, a victim of rape should not complain?

NL is filled with idiots!!
mumu which rape
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by farouknini2006: 6:10pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed
go meet the daughter bro she’s the best option
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by theFilmtric: 6:11pm On Nov 28, 2020
fati2001:



SO HANG YOURSELF....
So what does this mean??
You just proved him right!

theFilmtricsay

Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by generationz(f): 6:11pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:


She is way older than I am and am sure she must have married by now and have kids by now.
Like I said she is older that me that is why she sends me errands and allow me keep the change

Thanks alot yours was useful, I will re-establish contact and talk things through but I may awake hidden emotions

This your experience is very common with men who were either deflowered by older women or at a young naive age slept with older women. They practically become sexual deviants. I don't know how deeply spiritual it is, but I know the spirit of lust is strong in a woman who finds a small child sexually attractive and it is not good for a virgin or someone pure in spirit to be joined together with a sexually/spirituality filthy person like that. The difference will be obvious in your life.

Try and do more research outside nairaland, find some new endeavors to focus on, and pray for God to give you the wisdom and self-control to overcome it. Prayer might be slow, it might take years but it breaks chains.

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by chinazaJoshua: 6:12pm On Nov 28, 2020
Come to Jesus Christ,He will take away every trace of the urge from you. If you are already born again you have to immerse yourself in the in Word of God...The Bible. Study the scriptures. The books of Proverbs and Romans, Galatians and Colossians. You will definitely be free. In the course of your concentrated study the habit and the urge will be burnt off. Am living witness. By God's grace I don't struggle with any sinful habit because of the Word of God. As a matter of fact it was the Word that saved me when I was about drifting 2013.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by niyidenrele: 6:18pm On Nov 28, 2020
Carchoice:
I’m in the same shoe, but mine is complicated, it seems I’m surrounded with Hot ladies. If I don’t want sex, I get wooed to sex.


I think there’s something out there possessing both genders. The urge is so strong that nothing can stop it until you satisfy the urge. It’s not normal to me, I have no answer yet.


But what you should know is this, your life challenges is what you are facing. It’s left for you to manage it yourself. We are not completely free from problems, temptations and obstacles must come in your way to slow you down and in your case, sex is the obstacle you must learn to manage and tame. You can’t escape it, also try to understand that this is just the beginning, you still have a lot of years to face this and even after Marriage the battle still continues.
wow , I must confess am really absorbed by this your piece of advice, once like you ,I meant our story somehow close ,but presently with God, am getting over it, in fact am training myself, working on my self though very difficult, that one day I will be able to sleep naked in between two beautiful, naked women and , my body will not feel any urge nor get carried away, not forget to tell you that, today makes it over 6 months that I divinely dropped masturbation, after 12 years of active participation, To God be the Glory.... May God continue to help me
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Sixfeetbelle: 6:23pm On Nov 28, 2020
Yada01:


Don't be and idiot. Didn't you read where he said he continue the act until the left the state when he became 15?

It would even be "unreal" if he didn't continue to have urge for sex after they left that state. His psyche had already been messed with and 'switching' it off is damn near impossible.

When people, especially young children, gets introduced to a vice they aren't emotionally matured to handle, it becomes an addiction for them in their adult age. Browse about some American young stars drug addiction stories to judge.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by chiefolododo(m): 6:28pm On Nov 28, 2020
Sex if not dealt with, will ruin you. Surrender to the Lordship of Jesus Christ , accept him as your Lord and savior and forsake your sin. To know more pls contact me. It is possible to be saved from the bondage of immorality, through the power in the name of Jesus , by His grace.

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Nov 28, 2020
Bro roll urself a wrap of Arizona and ask urself about this matter




Come thank me later
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Saynotoapc(m): 6:32pm On Nov 28, 2020
Funkyswagzz:


How old are you right now?

Best reply so far �
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by forghe(m): 6:35pm On Nov 28, 2020
Bro you're not alone.
Had same experience with two of our maids when I was 7-11. But I try my best to supress the outrageous feeling.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Nov 28, 2020
mariahAngel:


Are you trying to encourage him, or just making matters worse?
not making matters worse. He’s fighting a battle like everyone else. Did you see where he said he’s got job, gets home tired and still wants to sex? That means he does not have career or financial problems grin

Many are out there without a job, they are looking for job and don’t have time to think of sex, in their case, their life problems at that point is getting a job. Even after they get the job, another problem in form of an obstacle comes their way just to slow them down. It’s left for you to manage it and try to be a man. But you can’t completely be a man, it is only when a man lives a problem free life for the rest of his life that he can be a complete man.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by SweetDipBenny(m): 6:44pm On Nov 28, 2020
No details on d sex part
Worst story teller
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by baralatie(m): 6:46pm On Nov 28, 2020
234dm8:

Take tramadol.
I give you the assurance that even if a naked lady stands in front of you, their will be no single sexual urge.
alakoba
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by SilverSurfer: 7:01pm On Nov 28, 2020
odebmart:
Hello bro,
Feel your stress. I have a nephew who confided in me once about his uncontrollable sexual urge.
I did not take it seriously because I thought it runs in the family, the men are very sexually active, but when he told me all he has been through, I knew there was problem.
So I started searching for solution, then I remembered a health book my father gave to me, he also got it from his dad, I searched through and found something, we tried it and it worked. Bros, where do one get all the herbs listed on the book... Besides, the book didn't talk about how to mix these things and the quantities. I hope to hear from you

The book has become very rare now, I stumbled upon it again on amazon, and I have been an advocate ever since, it is truly a must have for every home.
So many natural health remedies.
Am attaching the page that talks about the solution, but the herbs involved, you have to visit your alagbo.
But should incase you want to buy the book. Buy through my link https://bulkselas.com.ng/wp2/BackToEden

So I can make commission, after all I no charge you, but if you end up buying the whole book, the seller cannot make profit at my own expense, man must wack.

Wish you luck.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by SilverSurfer: 7:03pm On Nov 28, 2020
odebmart:
Hello bro,
Feel your stress. I have a nephew who confided in me once about his uncontrollable sexual urge.
I did not take it seriously because I thought it runs in the family, the men are very sexually active, but when he told me all he has been through, I knew there was problem.
So I started searching for solution, then I remembered a health book my father gave to me, he also got it from his dad, I searched through and found something, we tried it and it worked. Bros, where do one get all the herbs listed on the book... Besides, the book didn't talk about how to mix these things and the quantities. I hope to hear from you

The book has become very rare now, I stumbled upon it again on amazon, and I have been an advocate ever since, it is truly a must have for every home.
So many natural health remedies.
Am attaching the page that talks about the solution, but the herbs involved, you have to visit your alagbo.
But should incase you want to buy the book. Buy through my link https://bulkselas.com.ng/wp2/BackToEden

So I can make commission, after all I no charge you, but if you end up buying the whole book, the seller cannot make profit at my own expense, man must wack.

Wish you luck.
Where do one get all those herbs listed there? The quantities needed to be mixed was not listed either... How were you guys able to go about these challenges?
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by DeeMain(m): 7:07pm On Nov 28, 2020
Guy your mind has been raped and warped and damaged by that girl, period. Imagine, none of the comments above have mentioned that you were raped at 8 and that the girl should be prosecuted or be made to pay for her crime.

That girl is a paedophile. Imagine the outrage if the roles were reversed and an adult male sleeps with an 8 year old girl.

Guy, you will need to see a good therapist. No need for too much talk.

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by fleksy: 7:17pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed

You need a job.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Dreadlock69(m): 7:19pm On Nov 28, 2020
Castration is the best
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by sylve11: 7:29pm On Nov 28, 2020
Bornsinner7:
Awa fierce gan to ba n wa mi

Say no more bro.. I've got the right remedy for you, once you take this drink you are free from thinking about sex, it works like magic. instead you go dey attract pussy, na you go dey run from pussy sef

The person below me dey give the undiluted one for a reasonable price (direct from the source)


grin cool

Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Ezennia101(m): 7:31pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:


She is way older than I am and am sure she must have married by now and have kids by now.
Like I said she is older that me that is why she sends me errands and allow me keep the change

Thanks alot yours was useful, I will re-establish contact and talk things through but I may awake hidden emotions
haba now ur matter pass endsars oo
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by fati2001(m): 7:47pm On Nov 28, 2020
theFilmtric:
So what does this mean?? You just proved him right!
theFilmtricsay

Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by biggestmanhood(m): 7:47pm On Nov 28, 2020
Go and marry and dig your wife as u want
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by godliman: 7:48pm On Nov 28, 2020
SkyRicks:


What will I tell the pharmacist is my sickness or illness?
Don't take any anti depressants they will ruin your health. I suffered the same problem but got freed. whatsapp me on 080760six two nine two9 I will counsel you.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by fati2001(m): 7:49pm On Nov 28, 2020
Mosesadeiza:
You are so childish

WELL DONE ADULT.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by fati2001(m): 7:50pm On Nov 28, 2020
Jesse25:

Shut up angry

PUSSY ASS NIGGA IS ON PISS MODE.

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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Funkyswagzz(m): 7:56pm On Nov 28, 2020
Eagba:
accident dey your head

Ppl like you always feel you smart but at of the day u will end lookin stupid. Even when u know ur wrong you still show how smart you can be. You can never grow
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Nov 28, 2020
generationz:


So if you someone comes to take your daughter's hand in marriage just to satisfy your sexual urge, you'll be happy?

What if when he's away from wife, the urge returns?
Sexual Urge Dat Cannot Be Controlled Is Not Normal. What D Lady Did To Him When He Was Still Might Av Affected His Spirit, Soul & Body. It's Spiritual. So He Should Fast & Pray Abt It.
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by lawalmovichhhh: 8:16pm On Nov 28, 2020
FIND THAT GIRL....BY FIRE BY FORCE

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