You should be ashamed of yourself.

You need to grow out of that experience by growing into a new experience.
The new experience of the power of Christ at work in the spirit of a man is amazing.
Giving your life to Christ is the first step. But surrendering to him is the second step. To surrender mean you must build your time, environment, interaction and contents around the Word of God.
The process requires your faith to be diligently exercised and your mind to be focused on God.
You will not leave sexual immorality by thinking about it. You leave it by turning your mind away from it while focusing totally on the things of God.
In the Spirit, some thoughts can transport you into realms especially strong thoughts like sex and lust. They should not be joked with. They can eat you up, like ice cream in the sun. This is because the natural man has no power over it. It is only the Spirit of God that can strengthen your mind to live above and away from it.
In summary surrender to Jesus, listen, trust and obey Him through His Word. Then let the Holy Ghost renew your mind.

8:13 For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live.8:14 For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. Romans

I advice you read Romans Chapters 7/8 for a start. God bless you.

Demons of lust has taken over you.

Lightangel65:
This is insensitive and it proves u don't have sense at all

offcourse i dont. who sense help na. abeg i need to fork. send me adress

Sincerely you need to give your life to Christ and also go for deliverance as quickly as possible.

So we're all going to ignore the fact that he was molested? Wonderful. Op what happened to you was 100% wrong and in a saner clime that rapist is supposed to be cooling her ass off in jail.

TheKingIsHere:


He continued the act with that same woman neighbor till he was 15 years old which is still underage.

Stop being a fo0l and read again

Heck even if he continued till he was 20 it does not in anyways change the fact that he was raped!

That woman needs to be brought to justice.

Of all the people to sleep with she only saw a child?

Rape is rape. It does not matter if the victim comes back later.
Why are people so insensitive when it comes to molestation of males?

Even his fellow males can't stand up for him
Disgusting.

SkyRicks:


Bro I believe you are enlightened... Marriage requires one to be spiritual, physical, mentality mature and financially stable, kindly go through again thanks. I don't want to bother someone daughter to avoid heart break and repeat the same problem for my future kids if we stay separated for a long time

It doesn't work the way you think.
What work is that you start preparing yourself for the Marriage, spiritual, physical, mentality mature.
financially stability: is not the same for everyone.

If you are above 25years sexual urge is normal, your body is telling you to go and Marry. Don't compare yourself with those who are single at 35+ committing fornication up and down.

SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed

Your sexual desire has nothing to do with the abuse yu experienced at 8 up to 15.

Neverthekess, I think you should not see any big deal in self service except it is controlling your life.

Make no mistake, but for the economy of Nigeria, nothing bad in a guy marrying at 18 as it is in many western countries.

So get yourself busy with other things and condition your mind to ease off maybe once or twice a week talking about self servicing which is perfectly OK and not a sin in anyway but avoid getting addicted to it so much that it stars affecting your life.

All the best.

Is a common occurrence with people who were molested... I battled with mine while praying I don't molest any young person.

If you don't break free through prayer, you might also be a paedophile.

You can conquer it...feed your mind with the scriptures, you will not satisfy the desires of the flesh.

SkyRicks:
If It will help me maintain the right frame of mind and stop desiring why not. Though I will still visit pharmacy later tonight to know if there is any drugs reducing desires for sex

Do you know what a psychologist/psychotherapist does

@skyRicks get the book 'what's on your mind' by merlin carothers. It will help you a lot

SkyRicks:


If It will help me maintain the right frame of mind and stop desiring why not. Though I will still visit pharmacy later tonight to know if there is any drugs reducing desires for sex

You need to give your life to Jesus,
Spirit of lust is already operating in you, you cannot save yourself, go to a Bible believing church and you will receive help,
If you reestablish relationship with the lady, you just want to ruin your life

SkyRicks:


If It will help me maintain the right frame of mind and stop desiring why not. Though I will still visit pharmacy later tonight to know if there is any drugs reducing desires for sex

Lot more goes into this Sir. While it may seem to work, that may not be the cure. You need grace.

Can you start and keep joining this Link https://mixlr.com/pastor-segun-obadje every 5:30am in the morning?!

Repent and follow Christ.

Sort for a spiritual deliverance

Watch similar case. Might be of help


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7B0Pd6RdLno

OP you can gradually get rid of this habit if you decide to engage yourself with something... whenever your alone the urge will always creep in no doubt about that...find a hobby whenever you find yourself alone get your hands busy with something and lastly you need God too very important

It's not normal,you where robbed of your innocence.
You need spiritual help,get to a Bible believing church and go for counseling with prayer and fasting.
Reason being that for a lady to sleep with a minor, many things could.wrong with her.
Secondly delete,disconnect with any video or picture or friendship that can activate such urge
Go to YouTube, download messages by Joshua Selman and listen to them as if you're life depends on it.
Please know that is war, destiny war, it's about your career,finance, dreams,marital destiny etc

Please fight,its not enjoyment,it's slavery.
You can join any nearby Living Faith Church if you don't belong to any

I wish you well.May God forgive that lady.

SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed

is there anyway i can communicate with you? i can talk to you about it and maybe help you out.
i had same experience too but now i am over it.

Go and marry or get a gf...

SkyRicks:


What will I tell the pharmacist is my sickness or illness?

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The earlier you realize that the problem is inside your head, the better for you. Like every other form of addiction, this is a psychological issue that can only be solved by you making changes to your lifestyle. Direct that your wanking energy to something more beneficial to your life. Goodluck.

I had same problem, started having sex at 6, as a boy, before 10 I have slept with 4 girls and one boy. At 11 I began to form Christian, and became very shy. I grew up claiming virgin but deep down I was dying of lusts. Porn and masturbation was horrible, peadophiling nearly got me into trouble, now I gained control when I took freedom into my hand and started a relationship with sex, I was happy but I developed trust issues again. So we broke up. But, now to win, try keep a relationship and be mature enough to trust her and care for her. You will be fine. Simple solution getting married to a woman you desire not for sex but for companionship.

Jesus is the answer!!! When u desire Jesus, u will desired nothing more.

SkyRicks:


If It will help me maintain the right frame of mind and stop desiring why not. Though I will still visit pharmacy later tonight to know if there is any drugs reducing desires for sex

What kind of helpful advice can she offer u at this point she is the root cause of ur problems its far more better to avoid such a woman who sexually exploited ur innonsense at a very tender age. Am very certain she might even seduce u again to continue to sleep with her even if she is now married better run for ur life and seek help elsewhere.

SkyRicks:


What will I tell the pharmacist is my sickness or illness?

Haba, you don't need to tell the pharmacist anything, just ask for an anti-depressant drug.
Shuuuu