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Eyah, so sad. Hope you are fine emotionally

Thattallgirl:
Thank u. I have a terrible step dad too. His own wickedness isn't physical.

I don't think the lady's mom would listen though. She doesn't wanna be without a husband which is bad for her health

Stranger18:
Eyah, so sad. Hope you are fine emotionally

Lol yea I am, thanks

Thattallgirl:
Thank u. I have a terrible step dad too. His own wickedness isn't physical.

I don't think the lady's mom would listen though. She doesn't wanna be without a husband which is bad for her health

Exactly, my mom has refused to listen to my advice. She has refused to leave the man.

RedPanthar:
Wicked gal. You've turned a brother to a SIMP

Lol that's funny, so na redpillers dey beat woman abi

BaddieFreak:
Exactly, my mom has refused to listen to my advice. She has refused to leave the man.

Is she working or doing a business? She might feel lonely when you're out there doing your thing while she's in your house

Thattallgirl:
Is she working or doing a business? She might feel lonely when you're out there doing your thing while she's in your house

hmm, she is not working but I always send her money almost every week. About feeling lonely, maybe yes but wouldn't that be better than being beaten?
Sorry about your step dad

BaddieFreak:
Lol that's funny, so na redpillers dey beat woman abi

You've turned him to a wimp. That woman go dey chance am now. And it's your doing

BaddieFreak:
hmm, she is not working but I always send her money almost every week. About feeling lonely, maybe yes but wouldn't that be better than being beaten?

Ask her if she'll be interested in doing something just to get her mind off her husband.
It seems she prefers being beaten to loneliness

Thattallgirl:
Ask her if she'll be interested in doing something just to get her mind off her husband.
It seems she prefers being beaten to loneliness

Story. That man is that woman's world and life. She loves him and can give her life for. Him. They're inseparable

RedPanthar:
You've turned him to a wimp. That woman go dey chance am now. And it's your doing

It was his own doing. If he has stopped his stupid behavior, things like this won't happen. And I trust my mom, my mom is not like that

RedPanthar:
Story. That man is that woman's world and life. She loves him and can give her life for. Him. They're inseparable

It seems so

Thattallgirl:
Ask her if she'll be interested in doing something just to get her mind off her husband.
It seems she prefers being beaten to loneliness

Lol I have asked her before if she would start a business, she said no. I don't know why and how she is like that.

BaddieFreak:
It was his own doing. If he has stopped his stupid behavior, things like this won't happen. And I trust my mom, my mom is not like that

Listen. They both need activities to get engaged in and then bond and then play around. The issue isnt either of them but a lack of engagement and easy access. So they can see their worse unlimited because they aren't engaged with something to keep them happy and take thier time


I buried my own mum in church activities for example. Now, she attends more meetings than a CEO comes in 9pm tired. And that's it her time is invest in engagements


They need to be engaged with activities.

RedPanthar:
Story. That man is that woman's world and life. She loves him and can give her life for. Him. They're inseparable

That man used voodoo on her, it can't be natural

Thattallgirl:
It seems so

If she troubles that man too much, Op will be shocked. She will turn back and like a dog but her hand

BaddieFreak:
That man used voodoo on her, it can't be natural

It's not voodoo. That's the pure the very pure way love used to be, and ought to be. But you slay Queens have now become confused

The man is her cloth, life, mission and ministry. She has willed her life to him and has given her life to him



As imperfect as they are, she has made him her life her very reason for existence

RedPanthar:
Listen. They both need activities to get engaged in and then bond and then play around. The issue isnt either of them but a lack of engagement and easy access. So they can see their worse unlimited because they aren't engaged with something to keep them happy and take thier time


I buried my own mum in church activities for example. Now, she attends more meetings than a CEO comes in 9pm tired. And that's it her time is invest in engagements


They need to be engaged with activities.

Hmm, may be true. My step dad has retired and all he does is drink alcohol, my mom doesn't work either and she has refused to start a business though she goes to church regularly but is that enough?

BaddieFreak:
Hmm, may be true. My step dad has retired and all he does is drink alcohol, my mom doesn't work either and she has refused to start a business though she goes to church regularly but is that enough?

There's need to plan. They need to be distracted. Like an inverter so they have steady light. When they both watch film tire, e go tire them


Another thing I did with my mum was got her a kid to take care of. 2021 I'm getting 2 more so she can become endeared doing this. And the kids will make both parties talk, give orders and drain their energy


The man has abundant energy he isn't using which is why it's happening. You need an outlet he can use his energy

RedPanthar:
If she troubles that man too much, Op will be shocked. She will turn back and like a dog but her hand

You don't know my mom, my mom is not the troublesome type, very gentle and submissive if not she won't be in that house with all the maltreatment. I can't take half of what she is taking.

BaddieFreak:
You don't know my mom, my mom is not the troublesome type, very gentle and submissive if not she won't be in that house with all the maltreatment. I can't take half of what she is taking.

Relax. I know she's gentle. But the other party nko?


They both need distraction

RedPanthar:
It's not voodoo. That's the pure the very pure way love used to be, and ought to be. But you slay Queens have now become confused

The man is her cloth, life, mission and ministry. She has willed her life to him and has given her life to him



As imperfect as they are, she has made him her life her very reason for existence

You forgot to add that when a woman loves a man unconditionally, the man start to see her as a slave that is why every ladies nowadays wants to be liberated from that slavery. An example is my step dad and mom.

BaddieFreak:
You forgot to add that when a woman loves a man unconditionally, the man start to see her as a slave that is why every ladies nowadays wants to be liberated from that slavery. An example is my step dad and mom.

Forget ke. An Oracle doesn't forget. I rather took things into perspective. They are both incompatible and don't have much in common. She needed a man however imperfect. Her choice was what matters irrespective of the risks associated. She chose him because she doesn't want to be alone

RedPanthar:
There's need to plan. They need to be distracted. Like an inverter so they have steady light. When they both watch film tire, e go tire them


Another thing I did with my mum was got her a kid to take care of. 2021 I'm getting 2 more so she can become endeared doing this. And the kids will make both parties talk, give orders and drain their energy


The man has abundant energy he isn't using which is why it's happening. You need an outlet he can use his energy

Hmm, I can't tell him to find something to do, I can only tell my mom and since she has refused, there is little I can do.

BaddieFreak:
Hmm, I can't tell him to find something to do, I can only tell my mom and since she has refused, there is little I can do.

If you calm down you can scheme

Another example. One can say mum go visit child a for one week by the time she returns their love reignites. He would have been self distracted while she's away

Getting them an inverter with stable light as a gift with is actually a gift with a motive... Will give them steady light and he will get distracted with TV and activities. This is another way to relax his masculine energy

So the mumu can only flex his muscles on his waek wife

RedPanthar:
If you calm down you can scheme

Another example. One can say mum go visit child a for one week by the time she returns their love reignites. He would have been self distracted while she's away

Lol, that's funny. I have a child already but even that didn't stop my mom from being distracted. And the funny thing is that I don't want my son to see what is happening between my mom and her husband, it is probably going to affect his thinking as he is growing up, I don't want him to be a woman beater too. I usually lie to him about the situation but how long will I keep lying to him.

If you disrupt their lives stylishly things may change. Then watch the process. It's a gamble.


You also need to work on yourself and start detaching emotionally. You're heavily invested and fearful this is another place to fix. You need to come to terms that you both enjoyed a past but your lives won't be the same again as it used to be.. In your past

BaddieFreak:
Lol, that's funny. I have a child already but even that didn't stop my mom from being distracted. And the funny thing is that I don't want my son to see what is happening between my mom and her husband, it is probably going to affect his thinking as he is growing up, I don't want him to be a woman beater too. I usually lie to him about the situation but how long will I keep lying to him.

Have her visit you. Their environment is toxic. You can't take an healthy child in. You can take the victim out of the toxicity. That's how it works. A week visit here and there would stir things up

RedPanthar:
Getting them an inverter with stable light as a gift with is actually a gift with a motive... Will give them steady light and he will get distracted with TV and activities. This is another way to relax his masculine energy

Lol, I understand you but the situation is far beyond that. I even told both of them at a point to see a counselor, my mom was ready but the man refused, can you see what I am passing through?

BaddieFreak:
Lol, I understand you but the situation is far beyond that. I even told both of them at a point to see a counselor, my mom was ready but the man refused, can you see what I am passing through?

It's up to you to choose to either leave things as they are or try. Wahala be like bicycle. One has to keep pushing

RedPanthar:
Have her visit you. Their environment is toxic. You can't take an healthy child in. You can take the victim out of the toxicity. That's how it works. A week visit here and there would stir things up

There was a time I told her to come spend like a month with my son and I, she came truly but left after a week to go meet her husband.