That's good but I'll like to hear it all if you don't mind

Stop cheering up insolence, yes we may not know what the woman has done but it's not good in anyway to abuse our darling mothers. God forbid bad thing. Since they didn't deal with him, he only signed undertaking, that's a fair judgment.

jawalis:
You’ll definitely regret your action. Mark today’s date in your calendar.

BaddieFreak:
Sequel.

Former thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6300083/step-dad-maltreating-mom-confused


About my mom being maltreated by my step dad, I took a bold step today, I took two military men to my step dad's house today and luckily for me, I only met him at home, I didn't meet my mom there, I guess she went out, I am expecting her call lol. I don't know what she would say about what I did though.

When we got in, he was sitting in his living room watching TV, he was shocked to see military men with me. To cut the long story short, they made him sign an undertaking not to lay his hands on my mom again, I just hope he listens knowing the kind of man that he is.

I am really grateful to everybody that showed some love by giving me quality advice, you are blessed.

I wish I could tell you more gists about how it all happened but I am really tired, today was a really stressful day.

I know you need to proactively address this issue, but sometimes, things are better left off the way they are.

I just pray it won't backfire.
if your stepdad begins to ignore your mom and ghost her like she doesn't exist, your mom will feel lonely and she may bounce it back at you for destroying the relationship between her and her husband.

I pray that the best happens anyway. God will make your good intent fruitify your efforts

thebosstrevor1:
Na wa ooh...contract not to beat mum.

Undertaking that has no legal backing.

It seems you mum love the beating...the more beating the more she falls in love

O ho dai, the message was delivered successfully.

BaddieFreak:
Sequel.

Former thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6300083/step-dad-maltreating-mom-confused


About my mom being maltreated by my step dad, I took a bold step today, I took two military men to my step dad's house today and luckily for me, I only met him at home, I didn't meet my mom there, I guess she went out, I am expecting her call lol. I don't know what she would say about what I did though.

When we got in, he was sitting in his living room watching TV, he was shocked to see military men with me. To cut the long story short, they made him sign an undertaking not to lay his hands on my mom again, I just hope he listens knowing the kind of man that he is.

I am really grateful to everybody that showed some love by giving me quality advice, you are blessed.

I wish I could tell you more gists about how it all happened but I am really tired, today was a really stressful day.

Nice one

Check if you can notarize the document to make it legal

BaddieFreak:

Lol. I actually begged them not to touch him before we left.
I thought he was going to fight them but he didn't, he was really scared and he didn't expect I could do something as elaborate as bringing military men into his house, he was super shocked.

YES him body go calm down small..I support u

BaddieFreak:
Sequel.

Former thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6300083/step-dad-maltreating-mom-confused


About my mom being maltreated by my step dad, I took a bold step today, I took two military men to my step dad's house today and luckily for me, I only met him at home, I didn't meet my mom there, I guess she went out, I am expecting her call lol. I don't know what she would say about what I did though.

When we got in, he was sitting in his living room watching TV, he was shocked to see military men with me. To cut the long story short, they made him sign an undertaking not to lay his hands on my mom again, I just hope he listens knowing the kind of man that he is.

I am really grateful to everybody that showed some love by giving me quality advice, you are blessed.

I wish I could tell you more gists about how it all happened but I am really tired, today was a really stressful day.

So you're a baddie for real. Congrats!

Wyry:
Nigerian girls are useless.

This is becoming a nuisance. Seun, Mynd44, please we don't elements like these here. Let's sanitize Nairaland.

thebosstrevor1:
Na wa ooh...contract not to beat mum.

Undertaking that has no legal backing.

It seems you mum love the beating...the more beating the more she falls in love

freaky

you are just an attention seeking hoe,its so obvious your story is fake.but lets assume it is not,since when is it the duty of the military to engage themselfs in such matters,if na me be the man i go just tear that stupid undertaking and sue your ass for threat to life,or go hire my own soldiers too for you.chai nigerian army don cast.

BaddieFreak:
Sequel.

Former thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6300083/step-dad-maltreating-mom-confused


About my mom being maltreated by my step dad, I took a bold step today, I took two military men to my step dad's house today and luckily for me, I only met him at home, I didn't meet my mom there, I guess she went out, I am expecting her call lol. I don't know what she would say about what I did though.

When we got in, he was sitting in his living room watching TV, he was shocked to see military men with me. To cut the long story short, they made him sign an undertaking not to lay his hands on my mom again, I just hope he listens knowing the kind of man that he is.

I am really grateful to everybody that showed some love by giving me quality advice, you are blessed.

I wish I could tell you more gists about how it all happened but I am really tired, today was a really stressful day.

The facts that he admitted in writing of physical assault is a crime on its own.

He will need to convince the Judge that it was done under duress.

So you need photo evidence both past and the one he will do in the future {he will still assault her} to prove your case in the station or in court if it ever gets there, because of your mum's too Much love.

Your dad will be proud of you. you've done well

I don't support domestic violence, I think your mum should leave the marriage.

Then the document he signed doesn't have a legal backing like a stamp so it might not be useful because it was even signed under duress.

No time

BaddieFreak:
I wish I could tell you more gists about how it all happened but I am really tired, today was a really stressful day

I hope your mom doesn't bounce back on you when she begins to feel another heat aside beatings. Tom & Jerry relationship can be so funny


But you're a good child,,, oil dey your head

BaddieFreak:


My brother, I tire oo.

But he appended his signature, isn't that enough thebosstrevor1?

It's not enough. You would have gone with a lawyer and secondly I understand your plight, but you know your move is illegal, and can get those soldiers court marshalled, but hey, things we do for momma's love. I would do worse anyway if I'm in your shoes.

See what our military men has been reduced to, smh!

Hope you took some pictures and possibly videos

But I hope there was a warrant and proper documentation for the action that you took?

But if your step dad is local man that doesn't know his right, no problem.

But your mom is the real definition of "Till death do us part" Hope that is the signal she is waiting for before she leaves the house.

bold step but bad decision u made, ur moms life is in danger... from starvation to hatred up loading

BaddieFreak:

By cash sir

how much?

Nairaland is full of bullshit stories

BaddieFreak:

Lol. I actually begged them not to touch him before we left.
I thought he was going to fight them but he didn't, he was really scared and he didn't expect I could do something as elaborate as bringing military men into his house, he was super shocked.

You should have allowed them to tear him one so he knows shiis real.

jawalis:
You’ll definitely regret your action. Mark today’s date in your calendar.

So she should sit and watch another man turn her mummy to a punching bag....well she has a a girl...if it is me I would have called the man out one day let's do it man to man......then force my mum out of that useless marriage...

Wyry:
Nigerian girls are useless.

With all due respect sir.Who broke ur heart?

Samorobo2:


So she should sit and watch another man turn her mummy to a punching bag....well she has a a girl...if it is me I would have called the man out one day let's do it man to man......then force my mum out of that useless marriage...

Hmmm. I know what am saying. She should have concentrated on her mother

chatinent:
You took two soldier to a peaceful signing of an undertaking?


You didn't give him a taste of his own soup?

No need to beat him. Sighting the two soldiers alone is enough to make him wise up.

hashtagged:


Whatever, I don't like violent men and if my mom was in that situation I won't wait or give him a chance, people like that never change trust me he is bitter now looking for more ways to harm her

I have gone through some comments here and I agree with you on this. Emotional abuse is even worst than physical abuse..

Sometimes separating a victim of abuse from his abuser may force the abuser to think if he is willing to make adjustments if really hr wants the marriage back.

Your mother need time away from your step dad to heal and recover. Take her for sometime if your circumstances will allow you.

BaddieFreak:

Lol. I actually begged them not to touch him before we left.
I thought he was going to fight them but he didn't, he was really scared and he didn't expect I could do something as elaborate as bringing military men into his house, he was super shocked.

that's good news dear.

jawalis:
You’ll definitely regret your action. Mark today’s date in your calendar.

So in your little mind and little brain, she shouldn't have done anything? Trash

Baiser:

Lol
You step dad naa wimp
Dem suppose tear the man slap first.

This is why I hate anything step dad step mom.
Do not marry a divorcee.
Stear clear. Go and find fresh husband or fresh wife and marry.