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Men We Can Do Better by CuteMike01(m): 9:22am On Dec 17, 2020
I've been a ghost viewer of this section for some time and I noticed the high rate of women bashing and misogyny by some men in this forum which I believe isn't healthy.

Personally, I'm not against the belief and principles of the red pill nor mgtow but I feel some men are talking it too far. The truth is being stretched beyond it's capacity and being turned into something else. Veritably, I would like to say that these arguments between both genders hold no water and isn't healthy for the mind and the forum at large as readers would have different insight to these hate posts. I'm trying to be realistic here.

Based on a self induced research specifically in Nigeria, most men are the reasons ladies behave the way they do. Most men are the real reasons our ladies are delusional and to an extent obnoxious as some recent demonstrations on this forum has shown.

Besides the irrational act of simping, most men don't even work on themselves. I mean, most men just live life the way they see it. Some have refused to grow up while some are wishers but never doers, Some look very unkempt, some drink till they're wasted, some are mere complainers, some never seek knowledge or try to be someone better yet they want women to accord them respect and loyalty.

It is a shame to say but most men have low IQs but inflated egos and that is quite unfortunate. It is very rare to find a prudent and presentable dude in the society these days. They don't make men like they used to.

I believe before any woman can be respectful and loyal to a man, that man must rise up to the task of being a man truly. Transformation begins with men before women follow suit.

A man isn't a man because he has a penis but because of what he has upstairs. A man is defined by his intelligence, character and resourcefulness and not his big penis or stature.

I advice every man reading this, if you want women to value you more, double your potential, dress well with good dress sense, smell good, work your way into success, try having a good physique, feed your brain with vital information, try all best to be independent, let society call you rich before good-looking.

Stop complaining women tag you broke, it might not be your fault to be poor now but it becomes your fault when you remain poor. If you want loyalty and respect while you remain broke, get a dog not a woman cause no woman wishes to abide with a broke man.

Don't be too confident when a woman tells you she loves you and would remain with you alone especially when you're poor, it is most likely not true.


Men, let's work on ourselves then watch other things fall in place for our best interest. My humble opinion.

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Re: Men We Can Do Better by fati2001(m): 9:28am On Dec 17, 2020
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Re: Men We Can Do Better by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:31am On Dec 17, 2020
....Mr op. Do you understand the summary and the implications of your post towards women?

Make Una try to dey think critically before posting some views.

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Re: Men We Can Do Better by CuteMike01(m): 9:40am On Dec 17, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
....Mr op. Do you understand the summary and the implications of your post towards women?

Make Una try to dey think critically before posting some views.
I'm open to debunking cool
Re: Men We Can Do Better by Shortyy(f): 9:54am On Dec 17, 2020
Transformation begins with nobody. cheesy
Y'all men always make everything about you.

If a woman wants to be a better person for herself, I don't think she needs the permission of any person or to wait for anyone to be better first.

If you men like, continue misbehaving thinking the world revolves around you, no. It doesn't.

If only women could see that life isn't all about getting a rich man or being swept off your feet by a rich prince. There's more to life as a human. cheesy
Re: Men We Can Do Better by virginprincess(f): 9:57am On Dec 17, 2020
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Re: Men We Can Do Better by Snaagg(m): 10:05am On Dec 17, 2020
Shortyy:
Transformation begins with nobody. cheesy
Y'all men always make everything about you.

If a woman wants to be a better person for herself, I don't think she needs the permission of any person or to wait for anyone to be better first.

If you men like, continue misbehaving thinking the world revolves around you, no. It doesn't.

If only women could see that life isn't all about getting a rich man or being swept off your feet by a rich prince. There's more to life as a human. cheesy

Most females here will disagree with you as their lives revolve around;
selling their rotten p-sleeves for money,
treating relationships like a poverty alleviation scheme and,
turning men (who are dumb enough) into Atm machines.
not only are most NL females lazy sluts but most are also empty up there.. dull, lifeless and trashy lipsrsealed

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Re: Men We Can Do Better by CuteMike01(m): 10:07am On Dec 17, 2020
Shortyy:
Transformation begins with nobody. cheesy
Y'all men always make everything about you.

If a woman wants to be a better person for herself, I don't think she needs the permission of any person or to wait for anyone to be better first.

If you men like, continue misbehaving thinking the world revolves around you, no. It doesn't.

If only women could see that life isn't all about getting a rich man or being swept off your feet by a rich prince. There's more to life as a human. cheesy
Don't be delusional

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Re: Men We Can Do Better by SILENTandSMART2: 10:08am On Dec 17, 2020
Alaye you wrote epistles nah grin



Who's going to read dat


Abeg summarize and lemme give you answer

Nah few lines i read before the thing tire me grin
Re: Men We Can Do Better by Shortyy(f): 10:15am On Dec 17, 2020
CuteMike01:

Don't be delusional

Take that chivalry and shove it up your ass. cheesy
Re: Men We Can Do Better by CuteMike01(m): 10:15am On Dec 17, 2020
SILENTandSMART2:
Alaye you wrote epistles nah grin



Who's going to read dat


Abeg summarize and lemme give you answer

Nah few lines i read before the thing tire me grin
No vex Sir, all I'm trying to say is that as men we should strive to be better in most aspects as that would earn us more respect from the ladies
Re: Men We Can Do Better by Jessepaid(m): 10:18am On Dec 17, 2020
Una matter don tire me I swear

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Re: Men We Can Do Better by SILENTandSMART2: 10:19am On Dec 17, 2020
CuteMike01:

No vex Sir, all I'm trying to say is that as men we should strive to be better in most aspects as that would earn us more respect from the ladies


You're right sir ,

No need to tell anybody this, everybody suppose know this wink


You for write this only rather than the epistles wink

All is well sir ✌️
Re: Men We Can Do Better by Snaagg(m): 10:20am On Dec 17, 2020
Shortyy:


Take that chivalry and shove it up your ass. cheesy

In that case,
don't cry wolf the next time you slap a dude and get an uppercut in run.
don't expect xmas bone straight from ur bf, only to give singlet and boxers in return
dont request for urgent 2k because you feel entitled to his pockets because of a pucci you are sharing with your bf and three other dudes lipsrsealed

We gladly take our chivalry back! wink

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Re: Men We Can Do Better by Shortyy(f): 10:21am On Dec 17, 2020
Snaagg:


In that case,
don't cry wolf the next time you slap a dude and get an uppercut in run.
don't expect xmas bone straight from ur bf, only to give singlet and boxers in return
dont request for urgent 2k because to feel entitled because of a pucci you are sharing with your bf and three other dudes.

We gladly take our chivalry back! wink

Seeetheart, stop dating clueless girls. That's the only reason you'll think every girl reasons like the girls around you. wink

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Re: Men We Can Do Better by Snaagg(m): 10:23am On Dec 17, 2020
Shortyy:


Seeetheart, stop dating clueless girls. That's the only reason you'll think every girl reasons like the girls around you. wink

.. as spoken by a clueless girl smiley

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Re: Men We Can Do Better by CuteMike01(m): 10:23am On Dec 17, 2020
Shortyy:


Take that chivalry and shove it up your ass. cheesy
<smiles> You will be fine las las. Take care cool
Re: Men We Can Do Better by tobechi74: 10:31am On Dec 17, 2020
You made sence
Re: Men We Can Do Better by mathong: 10:34am On Dec 17, 2020
Lol
Re: Men We Can Do Better by CuteMike01(m): 10:38am On Dec 17, 2020
tobechi74:
You made sence
Thanks
Re: Men We Can Do Better by BaddieFreak(f): 10:44am On Dec 17, 2020
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Re: Men We Can Do Better by niyilolawa34798: 12:44pm On Dec 17, 2020
:....Mr op. Do you understand the summary and the implications of your post towards women?Make Una try to dey think critically before posting some views.I'm open to debunking

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