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Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by Nobody: 5:34pm On Dec 18, 2020
We're getting married Feb next year, ave been a faithful nigga and 100% committed. But the problem has always been sex not money, not communication! I always have to beg for it, she shows no interest even when I try to initiate it she shoves me off even before I start.

She's been there for me from the beginning, when we used to sleep on the floor. When things where difficult, business is doing OK, closing in at $3000 monthly now, na small money sha but I gots give thanks to God.

Ave tried so many things, talked to her, nothing seems to work. Infact she offers sex as a reward for good behaviour, like when I buy her a fancy gift or take her to an exotic place then she will gladly initiate sex that night.

I'm beginning to accept my faith, we have sex like once a month and it will only get worse when we're married. It sucks but it has to be this way, I'm 28 now but slowly feeling like I'm 45.
E no just make sense at all, I can't force another man's daughter before they tag me a rapist, I no fit try olosho, I'm not that type of nigga angry.
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by fati2001(m): 5:41pm On Dec 18, 2020
toyflare:
We're getting married Feb next year, ave been a faithful nigga and 100% committed. But the problem has always been sex not money, not communication! I always have to beg for it, she shows no interest even when I try to initiate it she shoves me off even before I start.

She's been there for me from the beginning, when we used to sleep on the floor. When things where difficult, business is doing OK, closing in at $3000 monthly now, na small money sha but I gots give thanks to God.

Ave tried so many things, talked to her, nothing seems to work. Infact she offers sex as a reward for good behaviour, like when I buy her a fancy gift or take her to an exotic place then she will gladly initiate sex that night.

I'm beginning to accept my faith, we have sex like once a month and it will only get worse when we're married. It sucks but it has to be this way, I'm 28 now but slowly feeling like I'm 45.
E no just make sense at all, I can't force another man's daughter before they tag me a rapist, I no fit try olosho, I'm not that type of nigga angry.
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by lovelybugs(f): 5:44pm On Dec 18, 2020
Assuming you guys have been intimate right from when you started dating then it's safe to say that this issue has also been around for that long.

Why now?
Why not then?

Different people have different sex drives.
If she doesn't want it frequently now it's safe to say the possibility of her changing is slim.

It seems you're left with the obvious.
Decide to live like this till death do you part or leave.

I'm sure some people will recommend seeking the services of a side chick. Well, you should know that different women act very differently to betrayal.
Some stay, some leave but your marriage will never remain the same.
Hatred and unspoken malice.

Is it really worth it for something that could have been avoided?

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Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by 2dice01: 5:52pm On Dec 18, 2020
Buy her gift any day you want to knack cheesy
Since gifts put her in the mood


You guys libido are not compatible
¹Marry her and cheat later
²Breakup and find your square root

Bros choose your poison wisely grin
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by grim33(m): 5:53pm On Dec 18, 2020
You never hola...
shaybe una stupid ni.
Simping will never let a woman respect you.
And there a 80% chance it will end in tears so why bother?

Men safe yourself.

MGTOW guys mgtow
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by Mandela27: 6:28pm On Dec 18, 2020
GUY RELATIONSHIP IS OVERRATED.JAPA
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by Nobody: 6:31pm On Dec 18, 2020
if you have to beg for it, ogbeni japa
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 6:35pm On Dec 18, 2020
So you want to be begging for the toto that is your entitlement? angry

Na wah o

Simp spotted!

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Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by NiRfreak(m): 6:45pm On Dec 18, 2020
toyflare:
We're getting married Feb next year, ave been a faithful nigga and 100% committed. But the problem has always been sex not money, not communication! I always have to beg for it, she shows no interest even when I try to initiate it she shoves me off even before I start.

She's been there for me from the beginning, when we used to sleep on the floor. When things where difficult, business is doing OK, closing in at $3000 monthly now, na small money sha but I gots give thanks to God.

Ave tried so many things, talked to her, nothing seems to work. Infact she offers sex as a reward for good behaviour, like when I buy her a fancy gift or take her to an exotic place then she will gladly initiate sex that night.

I'm beginning to accept my faith, we have sex like once a month and it will only get worse when we're married. It sucks but it has to be this way, I'm 28 now but slowly feeling like I'm 45.
E no just make sense at all, I can't force another man's daughter before they tag me a rapist, I no fit try olosho, I'm not that type of nigga angry.

So what do you want us to do now, when you already know it's going to get worse when you marry.
.
So you can't try Olosho, but your fiancee is acting like a coded prostitutes for you, and u don't know she's Olosho in disguise...you doubt it?
.
But she only gives you transactional sex like runs gal do, which you attested to by saying u can only get sex by buying her gift...or taking her out to expensive places..smh u dey suffer o..isn't that what Olosho does? Some Olosho even give u free of charge sometimes when uve been good for a while and they've become familiar with you....
.
You are already a simp before marriage, chai, so no spontaneous sex that come from lovers being naughty and hornny at same time, but until u practically have to pay. wow....
She's in charge of the relationship, she's the man while u are the woman unknowing to you. She's enjoying her manipulation tactics on you and this will get worse in marriage.
.
Let me tell you...such woman are known to cheat without remorse since u are already seen as weak, as someone who can't get her wet and turn her over and fvvck her brain off...Once she meets a man who is strong enough to make her pant soak wet, she's going to spread her legs wide like school gate and enjoy the rough pounding....cos that's the kind of sex she enjoys, ..sex from natural wetness not the fake one you buy with gift...which I'm sure she hardly get wet even after paying...you use ur spit to wet it I guess...Pele..u just enter

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Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by Kiddyong123ayo(m): 7:03pm On Dec 18, 2020
A quick question how old is she? How old are you? And how long have you been dating her...

Then threaten to dump her if she doesn't change, and if she proves any stubbornness, like telling you she has other guys as options, Bro with the immediate speed of light... DUMP HER!!!

Let her know you can't marry a log of wood in the house. Make her cry over the matter, say words that will pain her and see er change her ways

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Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Dec 18, 2020
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Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by tobechi74: 7:29pm On Dec 18, 2020
You need to claim your power back.wait until she has shared invitation card,

Fake a call with your best friend, tell him you have called off the marriage over lack of sex, let her hear the discussion.

Meet her female best friend, tell them the same thing.

Watch how she will make her self available for daily banging.

Warniy: after marriage,she goes back to square one.
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by DaddyRochie1642: 7:33pm On Dec 18, 2020
NiRfreak:


So what do you want us to do now, when you already know it's going to get worse when you marry.
.
So you can't try Olosho, but your fiancee is acting like a coded prostitutes for you, and u don't know she's Olosho in disguise...you doubt it?
.
But she only gives you transactional sex like runs gal do, which you attested to by saying u can only get sex by buying her gift...or taking her out to expensive places..smh u dey suffer o..isn't that what Olosho does? Some Olosho even give u free of charge sometimes when uve been good for a while and they've become familiar with you....
.
You are already a simp before marriage, chai, so no spontaneous sex that come from lovers being naughty and hornny at same time, but until u practically have to pay. wow....
She's in charge of the relationship, she's the man while u are the woman unknowing to you. She's enjoying her manipulation tactics on you and this will get worse in marriage.
.
Let me tell you...such woman are known to cheat without remorse since u are already seen as weak, as someone who can't get her wet and turn her over and fvvck her brain off...Once she meets a man who is strong enough to make her pant soak wet, she's going to spread her legs wide like school gate and enjoy the rough pounding....cos that's the kind of sex she enjoys, ..sex from natural wetness not the fake one you buy with gift...which I'm sure she hardly get wet even after paying...you use ur spit to wet it I guess...Pele..u just enter




Oga why this thing dey pepper you like this with that your Thick Lips grin grin
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Dec 18, 2020
Kiddyong123ayo:
A quick question how old is she? How old are you? And how long have you been dating her...

Then threaten to dump her if she doesn't change, and if she proves any stubbornness, like telling you she has other guys as options, Bro with the immediate speed of light... DUMP HER!!!

Let her know you can't marry a log of wood in the house. Make her cry over the matter, say words that will pain her and see er change her ways

Bro, it's not just that simple. I'm 28 and she's 24. We've been dating for 4 years, like I said she was there when change no gum me at all. This issue of sex has not always been there, the 1st year we couldn't stay away from each other, then she went back to school after her IT then it became a distance relationship.

That was when she slowly lost interest in sex, she's done with school since last year. The worse of it all is because of her attitude towards sex I just prefer to let her be so no one will spoil my mood.

If I dump her now, it will be one of those one sided stories about dating a broke Nigga who made money and dumped he's girlfriend. She's a very nice person apart from this I have no problem with her.

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Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Dec 18, 2020
Another thing I noticed is that she masturbates a lot, I didn't know this until we spent months in the same house.
During this time I observed she can masturbate upto 3 times some days, I did let her know this is a bad habit and killing her sex drive with me.

She will say she will stop it but then I see her doing it again at night while she thinks I'm sleeping. I don't see masturbation as a bad thing but too much of everything is bad and since it's coming in between us the best she can do is to cut it down.
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by luminouz(m): 7:52pm On Dec 18, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:





Oga why this thing dey pepper you like this with that your Thick Lips grin grin


Werey...you made him remove the pic grin

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Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 18, 2020
NiRfreak:


So what do you want us to do now, when you already know it's going to get worse when you marry.
.
So you can't try Olosho, but your fiancee is acting like a coded prostitutes for you, and u don't know she's Olosho in disguise...you doubt it?
.
But she only gives you transactional sex like runs gal do, which you attested to by saying u can only get sex by buying her gift...or taking her out to expensive places..smh u dey suffer o..isn't that what Olosho does? Some Olosho even give u free of charge sometimes when uve been good for a while and they've become familiar with you....
.
You are already a simp before marriage, chai, so no spontaneous sex that come from lovers being naughty and hornny at same time, but until u practically have to pay. wow....
She's in charge of the relationship, she's the man while u are the woman unknowing to you. She's enjoying her manipulation tactics on you and this will get worse in marriage.
.
Let me tell you...such woman are known to cheat without remorse since u are already seen as weak, as someone who can't get her wet and turn her over and fvvck her brain off...Once she meets a man who is strong enough to make her pant soak wet, she's going to spread her legs wide like school gate and enjoy the rough pounding....cos that's the kind of sex she enjoys, ..sex from natural wetness not the fake one you buy with gift...which I'm sure she hardly get wet even after paying...you use ur spit to wet it I guess...Pele..u just enter
Guy, calm down grin

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Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by luminouz(m): 8:01pm On Dec 18, 2020
toyflare:
Another thing I noticed is that she masturbates a lot, I didn't know this until we spent months in the same house.
During this time I observed she can masturbate upto 3 times some days, I did let her know this is a bad habit and killing her sex drive with me.

She will say she will stop it but then I see her doing it again at night while she thinks I'm sleeping. I don't see masturbation as a bad thing but too much of everything is bad and since it's coming in between us the best she can do is to cut it down.
.

Oga...this is the root of your problem. Either someone initiated her to it(a man) or she had a lesbian partner in school who made her love it. Masturbation is self servicing and if she can do that and get satisfied, why need your dick?

I dont tolerate masturbation, it kills feelings for real sex and if you dont curb her now, your marriage would be hell on earth.

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Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by slan87(m): 8:25pm On Dec 18, 2020
From my experience, its better you talk to her now & let things be clear between both of you before heading to the altra.

If things remain the same, then I will advice you to let her go cause if not cheating is very much certain & it can lead to divorce

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Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by Enigma2049(m): 8:35pm On Dec 18, 2020
toyflare:
Another thing I noticed is that she masturbates a lot, I didn't know this until we spent months in the same house.
During this time I observed she can masturbate upto 3 times some days, I did let her know this is a bad habit and killing her sex drive with me.

She will say she will stop it but then I see her doing it again at night while she thinks I'm sleeping. I don't see masturbation as a bad thing but too much of everything is bad and since it's coming in between us the best she can do is to cut it down.


Find out if she masturbates to lesbian porn or loves watching it. Your girlfriend might be a low-key bisexual.
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Dec 18, 2020
luminouz:
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Oga...this is the root of your problem. Either someone initiated her to it(a man) or she had a lesbian partner in school who made her love it. Masturbation is self servicing and if she can do that and get satisfied, why need your dick?

I dont tolerate masturbation, it kills feelings for real sex and if you dont curb her now, your marriage would be hell on earth.
I totally agree, why she doesn't want to stop or cut it down is what I don't understand. She doesn't want to admit she's addicted to masturbation and it's getting into our relationship. This has been a long debates topic and honestly I'm tired of the whole thing. Ave told her to stay away from doing it for 2 weeks let's see if she can get her sex urges back but that seems impossible for her.
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by luminouz(m): 9:48pm On Dec 18, 2020
toyflare:
I totally agree, why she doesn't want to stop or cut it down is what I don't understand. She doesn't want to admit she's addicted to masturbation and it's getting into our relationship. This has been a long debates topic and honestly I'm tired of the whole thing. Ave told her to stay away from doing it for 2 weeks let's see if she can get her sex urges back but that seems impossible for her.


Thats her main issue.

If she can't cope, biko let her be ooooooo....


Your choice sha

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Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by Dreadlock69(m): 9:50pm On Dec 18, 2020
Europeanian:
I was once a simp like you, most women are evil honestly I would tell you.. break up with her , move on and find someone who is sexually compatible with you! She helped you when you were broke..and so! Women do still betray guys too oh. Please just forget about marriage.. have different side girls and flirt, have baby Mama's...but if you still want to marry, make her insignificant in your life and have side chicks! Women don't deserve good men, they deserve aggressive men. Since I started being a red Piller, I have been happy.

Udunminit oyah clap for yourself
Re: Cheating 101 What Do I Need To Know? by inioluwa95491: 10:45pm On Dec 18, 2020
GUY RELATIONSHIP IS OVERRATED.JAPA

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