toyflare:
We're getting married Feb next year, ave been a faithful nigga and 100% committed. But the problem has always been sex not money, not communication! I always have to beg for it, she shows no interest even when I try to initiate it she shoves me off even before I start.

She's been there for me from the beginning, when we used to sleep on the floor. When things where difficult, business is doing OK, closing in at $3000 monthly now, na small money sha but I gots give thanks to God.

Ave tried so many things, talked to her, nothing seems to work. Infact she offers sex as a reward for good behaviour, like when I buy her a fancy gift or take her to an exotic place then she will gladly initiate sex that night.

I'm beginning to accept my faith, we have sex like once a month and it will only get worse when we're married. It sucks but it has to be this way, I'm 28 now but slowly feeling like I'm 45.
E no just make sense at all, I can't force another man's daughter before they tag me a rapist, I no fit try olosho, I'm not that type of nigga .

toyflare:
We're getting married Feb next year, ave been a faithful nigga and 100% committed. But the problem has always been sex not money, not communication! I always have to beg for it, she shows no interest even when I try to initiate it she shoves me off even before I start.

She's been there for me from the beginning, when we used to sleep on the floor. When things where difficult, business is doing OK, closing in at $3000 monthly now, na small money sha but I gots give thanks to God.

Ave tried so many things, talked to her, nothing seems to work. Infact she offers sex as a reward for good behaviour, like when I buy her a fancy gift or take her to an exotic place then she will gladly initiate sex that night.

I'm beginning to accept my faith, we have sex like once a month and it will only get worse when we're married. It sucks but it has to be this way, I'm 28 now but slowly feeling like I'm 45.
E no just make sense at all, I can't force another man's daughter before they tag me a rapist, I no fit try olosho, I'm not that type of nigga .

NiRfreak:


So what do you want us to do now, when you already know it's going to get worse when you marry.
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So you can't try Olosho, but your fiancee is acting like a coded prostitutes for you, and u don't know she's Olosho in disguise...you doubt it?
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But she only gives you transactional sex like runs gal do, which you attested to by saying u can only get sex by buying her gift...or taking her out to expensive places..smh u dey suffer o..isn't that what Olosho does? Some Olosho even give u free of charge sometimes when uve been good for a while and they've become familiar with you....
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You are already a simp before marriage, chai, so no spontaneous sex that come from lovers being naughty and hornny at same time, but until u practically have to pay. wow....
She's in charge of the relationship, she's the man while u are the woman unknowing to you. She's enjoying her manipulation tactics on you and this will get worse in marriage.
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Let me tell you...such woman are known to cheat without remorse since u are already seen as weak, as someone who can't get her wet and turn her over and fvvck her brain off...Once she meets a man who is strong enough to make her pant soak wet, she's going to spread her legs wide like school gate and enjoy the rough pounding....cos that's the kind of sex she enjoys, ..sex from natural wetness not the fake one you buy with gift...which I'm sure she hardly get wet even after paying...you use ur spit to wet it I guess...Pele..u just enter

Kiddyong123ayo:
A quick question how old is she? How old are you? And how long have you been dating her...

Then threaten to dump her if she doesn't change, and if she proves any stubbornness, like telling you she has other guys as options, Bro with the immediate speed of light... DUMP HER!!!

Let her know you can't marry a log of wood in the house. Make her cry over the matter, say words that will pain her and see er change her ways

DaddyRochie1642:





Oga why this thing dey pepper you like this with that your Thick Lips

NiRfreak:


So what do you want us to do now, when you already know it's going to get worse when you marry.
.
So you can't try Olosho, but your fiancee is acting like a coded prostitutes for you, and u don't know she's Olosho in disguise...you doubt it?
.
But she only gives you transactional sex like runs gal do, which you attested to by saying u can only get sex by buying her gift...or taking her out to expensive places..smh u dey suffer o..isn't that what Olosho does? Some Olosho even give u free of charge sometimes when uve been good for a while and they've become familiar with you....
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You are already a simp before marriage, chai, so no spontaneous sex that come from lovers being naughty and hornny at same time, but until u practically have to pay. wow....
She's in charge of the relationship, she's the man while u are the woman unknowing to you. She's enjoying her manipulation tactics on you and this will get worse in marriage.
.
Let me tell you...such woman are known to cheat without remorse since u are already seen as weak, as someone who can't get her wet and turn her over and fvvck her brain off...Once she meets a man who is strong enough to make her pant soak wet, she's going to spread her legs wide like school gate and enjoy the rough pounding....cos that's the kind of sex she enjoys, ..sex from natural wetness not the fake one you buy with gift...which I'm sure she hardly get wet even after paying...you use ur spit to wet it I guess...Pele..u just enter

toyflare:
Another thing I noticed is that she masturbates a lot, I didn't know this until we spent months in the same house.
During this time I observed she can masturbate upto 3 times some days, I did let her know this is a bad habit and killing her sex drive with me.

She will say she will stop it but then I see her doing it again at night while she thinks I'm sleeping. I don't see masturbation as a bad thing but too much of everything is bad and since it's coming in between us the best she can do is to cut it down.

toyflare:
Another thing I noticed is that she masturbates a lot, I didn't know this until we spent months in the same house.
During this time I observed she can masturbate upto 3 times some days, I did let her know this is a bad habit and killing her sex drive with me.

She will say she will stop it but then I see her doing it again at night while she thinks I'm sleeping. I don't see masturbation as a bad thing but too much of everything is bad and since it's coming in between us the best she can do is to cut it down.

luminouz:
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Oga...this is the root of your problem. Either someone initiated her to it(a man) or she had a lesbian partner in school who made her love it. Masturbation is self servicing and if she can do that and get satisfied, why need your dick?

I dont tolerate masturbation, it kills feelings for real sex and if you dont curb her now, your marriage would be hell on earth.

toyflare:
I totally agree, why she doesn't want to stop or cut it down is what I don't understand. She doesn't want to admit she's addicted to masturbation and it's getting into our relationship. This has been a long debates topic and honestly I'm tired of the whole thing. Ave told her to stay away from doing it for 2 weeks let's see if she can get her sex urges back but that seems impossible for her.

Europeanian:
I was once a simp like you, most women are evil honestly I would tell you.. break up with her , move on and find someone who is sexually compatible with you! She helped you when you were broke..and so! Women do still betray guys too oh. Please just forget about marriage.. have different side girls and flirt, have baby Mama's...but if you still want to marry, make her insignificant in your life and have side chicks! Women don't deserve good men, they deserve aggressive men. Since I started being a red Piller, I have been happy.