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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 8:40pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix1:A wife has so much more to offer than just sex So that analogy sometimes is not always accurate |
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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by angelfallz(m): 9:06pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Well said pansophist: |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by OBIPLUS(m): 9:07pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Good writeup, marriage is no longer interesting considering the level of moral decay and fake lifestyle. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 9:15pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
DexterousOne: So much more like what? Sex and progeny aside, a man can pretty much end up much better on his own. Don't tell me you believe all that rot about women being behind every successful man? Because that is patently untrue. Many of the best success stories are glaringly by men devoid of the distraction of women in their lives. If you look at the lives of billionaires and founders like Donald Trump, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Colonel Sanders, Steve Jobs, Elon musk, Warren Buffet, even our own Aliko Dangote, a common thread seems to be their disregard for women and relationships. They were all either single, divorced, or in extremely free marriages when they made their wealth and marry and discard at will afterwards. I spend much time reading about the lives of successful, self made people and if there is a common thread that runs through their personal lives, it's their total lack of regard for commitment and female attention. In not a single case does the wife emerge from the background to dominate their lives; as in the case of people like Barrack Obama for example, who achieved political success, but is more or less a washout in the corporate and business world. You don't have to believe me, look it up. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Youngzedd(m): 9:24pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
wisdomiskey: Ya gazia ✌�. |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Tohsynetita1: 9:24pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Rrex99:Someone quote that job seeking in Nigeria has gotten to the era whereby "seeking job" is a job |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 9:27pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix1: Like I said A wife has so much to offer than just sex Personally I'm not so crazed about marriage or whatever But I'm sensible enough to know That a wife has much more to offer than just sex. If one wants to stay away from the entanglement of women That's fine No one should shame him for that But its foolhardy to believe that a wife has so little to offer (Wife material anyways, not some ot these women we have causing problems out there ) And what you said about Obama is also not very accurate He was successful in his own right as a lawyer AND a politician) I have dissected that mans life And I have nothing but admiration and respect for him How he runs his family How he treats people And how he ran the country Donald Trump on the other hand |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Liposure: 9:37pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
emmaodet:simply put, women have the connections, men work their way up 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 9:38pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
DexterousOne: It is said that when a man repeats a phrase twice, he is unsure of what he's saying. You repeated "a wife has so much to offer than sex" three times, and not once did you deign to give one little example of what that is. Obama was a wuss; even as POTUS. He regularly drew red lines that everyone ignored. He built nothing and achieved nothing in his private life. The only reason you admire him is because the leftist US media pushed him as some socialist hero. And he didn't run his family; Michelle does. Trump on the other hand, was and is, a successful businessman. No wuss achieves such a status. It takes grit and balls, and the ability to focus your brain power on your path. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 9:42pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Draught: GBAM!!! There we have It........ 1 Like
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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by samcolee(m): 9:46pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
deltateam: I earn approximately 50k but it's very difficult to see a wife. I'm gainfully employed but seems the rich yahoo boys have raised our girls standard. They make legit Hustle look like joke 6 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Frustrated007: 9:47pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
make I hear word abeg! Trump has more balls than Obama. Obama is a simp, a pushover and a spineless man. The guy caused more wars than most US presidents before him. DexterousOne: |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Liposure: 9:49pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Youngzedd:even the milk is no longer free |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Frustrated007: 9:50pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Finally! Someone who says things as they are! Love your comment! RisenPhoenix1: |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Wisefellow(m): 9:54pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
The scarcity of husband in Nigeria can be attributed more to bad economic situation, unequal gender ratio, social disintegration and immorality. In developed countries, same issue persist with better employment opportunities, functional institutions and many good features of ideal society. In marriage, some government policies and culture encourage equality of gender as against God's dictate to humanity. Also, morals and virtues are considered less important compared to affluence and material possession believed to sustain marriage. What a wrong notion and misplaced priorities! Polygamy is highly unwelcomed amidst the present generation compared to our parents and the generation before theirs. Baby mamas and papas are the order of the day. Attitude and character are less important compared to wealth possession for sustainability. Until we change our ways and follow the masterplan of The Almighty, things will go south the more. What is the reason for marriage? Marriage is a constituted authority ordained by God on mankind, who are matured in love, heart and goodness to become one family for the purpose of progenies and happiness. Man must love his wife, provide and protect the family, while wife, the helper, must respect and care for her husband. When the two partners fulfilled their obligation towards each other as commanded, then they can happily make love to bear children whom are mostly blessed under that circumstance. A disintegrated society should expect worse situation of loneliness, competition, supremacy of personality in contrast to love, togetherness, equal gratification and happiness for all. Both guys and ladies of marriageable age must ask the question, I my ready in all ramification for marriage? Marriage is love, tolerance, patience, compromise, sacrifice and togetherness irrespective of wealth, sex and children. When wealth, sex or children are placed ahead of love, patience, compromise, sacrifice, tolerance and prayer in marriage, break down is inevitable! |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Youngzedd(m): 9:56pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 10:01pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix1: Trump is a failed businessman Failed at every business he put his hand in A failed family man (multiple divorcee) Filed for bankruptcy many times Ran america aground with his reckless 2017 tax cuts Put American long standing goodwill at jeopardy Has ZERO RESPECT for women And the list goes on... Who goes bankrupt in running a casino A fvcking casino ? Is this a man that you and your fellow "red pillers" and "Alfa males" look up to ? A known coward who dodged draft with lies (does Bone spurs ring a bell) Abeg abeg Leave Trump That one is a failed fellow If you talk of Nikola, Dangote, Rubenstein, Steve Jobs and other men like that who are actually successful at what they did Yea that makes sense But Trump Knowing his antecedents does not fit the bill As for your remarks about Obama You probably did not take the time to study his landmark policy thrusts during his presidency Or maybe you were not interested But the fact remains that he was able to achieve a whole lot in his own presidency TPP was his brain child to steer asia Pacific away from China grip The Iran deal was also his signature achievement The longest private sector growth expansion in America history is also his achievement Now did Obama do some stupid things Just like every president He did But to say he achieved nothing is a cop out Even Trump with all his recklessness can still point out to some achievements of his own 2 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 10:04pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Frustrated007: Another "alfa male " and "red piller " Obama INHERITED TWO disastrous wars And upon assumption of office in January 2009 Was steering the affairs of a country that was about to hit the rocks He steered the country away from impending disaster, and upon leaving office, was able to leave America in a better shape than he met it Can you say the same for Trump? America again is on the brink (due to his recklessness ) And Joe Biden will be saddled with the task of steering the country away from calamity again If I tell you now to list the wars that Obama declared on countries now Or the war he "caused" You will not be able to answer Dont even mention Libya 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 10:05pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Apparently being a reasonable man is the definition of being a "wuss" and a "weakling " to many of you And being brash, disrespectful and reckless is the definition of being a MAN. Pele o No wonder Nigerians gladly replaced Jonathan with Buhari 2 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Reex12(m): 10:15pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
I wished I saw this thread earlier The greatest reason is that men are becoming woke knowing fully well that marriage is a scam and a ploy by women to cage a mans freedom ...lets be practical if a man hits 1milli at 25 the first thing to think of will it be marriage? but once a girl reaches 25 first thing she longs for is marriage MEN BE WISE, BE REDPILLED[quote author=RisenPhoenix1 post=97335611] So much more like what? Sex and progeny aside, a man can pretty much end up much better on his own. Don't tell me you believe all that rot about women being behind every successful man? Because that is patently untrue. Many of the best success stories are glaringly by men devoid of the distraction of women in their lives. If you look at the lives of billionaires and founders like Donald Trump, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Colonel Sanders, Steve Jobs, Elon musk, Warren Buffet, even our own Aliko Dangote, a common thread seems to be their disregard for women and relationships. They were all either single, divorced, or in extremely free marriages when they made their wealth and marry and discard at will afterwards. I spend much time reading about the lives of successful, self made people and if there is a common thread that runs through their personal lives, it's their total lack of regard for commitment and female attention. In not a single case does the wife emerge from the background to dominate their lives; as in the case of people like Barrack Obama for example, who achieved political success, but is more or less a washout in the corporate and business world. You don't have to believe me, look it up.[/quote\] a wise man once said "I do not think you can name many great inventions that have been made by married men." -Tesla 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 10:30pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
DexterousOne: Trump is a Forbes acknowledged USD billionaire. If that is an unsuccessful businessman, I wonder what you would consider as successful. Filing for bankruptcy does not make one a failed businessman. There are many business savvy reasons to file for bankruptcy. Even Henry Ford has filed for bankruptcy at one time. Ask yourself, if he sucked so much at business, how come he is worth billions today when he filed for bankruptcy 'many times'? As for Trump running the US aground, you will recall that your adored Obama added much more to the national debt, and he never had a congress-imposed $2 trillion Covid-19 stimulus on his back; nor a total shutdown to deal with. The US economy was booming under trump...until Covid 19 happened. And the crippling shutdown along with the riots; were entirely the brainchild of the democrats and their nagging media. They were engineered to bring the economy down. Obama never had to deal with economic saboteurs in his own country. He's not a doormat for women, yes. If you translate that as zero respect for women, then so be it. He was married to three beautiful women; all either actresses or models, and two of whom were much younger; despite his so called lack of respect. How many beautiful younger models do respectful men get to marry? |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 10:32pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix1: Let me take your points one by one I like this conversation |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 10:37pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix1: Trump is a Forbes acknowledged USD billionaire. If that is an unsuccessful businessman, I wonder what you would consider as successful. Filing for bankruptcy does not make one a failed businessman. There are many business savvy reasons to file for bankruptcy. Even Henry Ford has filed for bankruptcy at one time. Ask yourself, if he sucked so much at business, how come he is worth billions today when he filed for bankruptcy 'many times'? Filing for bankruptcy multiple times makes you a failed business man He filed for bankruptcy AT LEAST FOUR times (I'm sure it's more) His father at some point had to bail him out because he was making stupid decisions His father already was a very rich man Multimillionaire real estate mogul who laid the ground work for him Despite all the advantages Trump still flunked Trump university = Failed Trump airline = Failed Trump wine = Failed The casino at Atlantic city =Failed Let me not even go on Even his networth has a question mark on it There was an article that alleged anyways that he paid that person for the op ed that brought his name into the forbes list in the first place, an allegation trump is denying, but we know he is a habitual liar 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Hathor5(f): 10:43pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix1: Yeah, and why live with a swine when the sausage is freely available? |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by samcolee(m): 10:44pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
DexterousOne:True |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 10:44pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
As for Trump running the US aground, you will recall that your adored Obama added much more to the national debt, and he never had a congress-imposed $2 trillion Covid-19 stimulus on his back; nor a total shutdown to deal with. The US economy was booming under trump...until Covid 19 happened. And the crippling shutdown along with the riots; were entirely the brainchild of the democrats and their nagging media. They were engineered to bring the economy down. Obama never had to deal with economic saboteurs in his own country. What are you talking about here? Obama was a president of a country in crisis FROM DAY ONE George Bush admin was lying about thr deficit (actually using fraudulent accounting techniques to account for the debt) That changed under Obama and the debt blew up Second, the tax cuts of George Bush which blew up the deficit in the first place was to expire in 2010, two years into the obama presidency Go look at the debt figures of Obama Those first two years was the time most debt was put on his slab Not to talk of handling the great recession and the fallout of the iraq war Trump on the other hand was running a $1 trillion deficit ANNUALLY I repeat $1 trillion ANNUALLY In an economy that was supposedly "booming " It was domino and a house of cards that took Covid 19 to pop No other developed country had the economic fallout on the scale America did When you build bubbles One day it will burst This Covid 19 incident was his first real test as president And on crisis management And you and I saw how woeful he performed 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 10:49pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
He's not a doormat for women, yes. If you translate that as zero respect for women, then so be it. He was married to three beautiful women; all either actresses or models, and two of whom were much younger; despite his so called lack of respect. How many beautiful younger models do respectful men get to marry? 1) Respecting women does not make you a door mat Worshipping women and having no respect for yourself makes a doormat There is a difference Some people mix up both But they are not the same Marrying someone like Melania Trump says a lot about Trumps character Cheating on your first wife with the second Cheating on the second wife with the third And then sleeping with a porn star while your third wife was pregnant Is this the kind of man you red pillars look up to as the ideal role model? That would be very unfortunate 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 10:52pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
samcolee:In my opinion that's a warped way to think Being a man is being results oriented Being rude and rash and misogynist and all that does not make you an "alpha male " Christ was compassionate and respectful Despite being who he was from heaven I'm sure if he was alive today Some "Alfa males" will call him a simp 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Hathor5(f): 10:53pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
DexterousOne: Two failed marriages. Many failed businesses. One term president. Catastrophic management of the COVID-19 pandemic with the largest death toll among developed nations. Plenty of scandals. And the one you are talking to is still celebrating him like a hero because he is rude, crass and uncouth. That's their definition of strength. Hopeless case. |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by descarado: 11:04pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
madridsta007:Your school fees was well worth it. Kudos. I almost gave up hope 1 Like |
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