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Nigerian women have this exaggerated sense of self worth.
Crawl through Instagram..you will see them calling themselves names like "queen", "princess" "goddess" etc
They can overhype themselves ehnn!!!...even the ugly ones

gregyboy:
I dont get you so much want a white dick and mixed child lol didnt you read what she wrote that urchin are the least sort after,


With all d boibs and ass white niggas still dont want it,


I guess this your comment wasnt for me

milehigh06:
if you know the number of white men who date black women...you will not state the BS in here...I stay in the most mixed state in the US and for every black couple you see, you see 2 mixed couples with the women pre-dominantly black and that did surprise me...would have thought it was the other way around

luminouz:
Do tell me more....

I'm very very curious. Is it that the members are toxic or what?

Aileexa1:
I prefer the deafening silence to the despicable roads of Nigeria!

Madam show us your white husband biko

Dey there dey deceive yourself

milehigh06:
if you know the number of white men who date black women...you will not state the BS in here...I stay in the most mixed state in the US and for every black couple you see, you see 2 mixed couples with the women pre-dominantly black and that did surprise me...would have thought it was the other way around

seunny4lif:
They offer nothing apart from destruction
Lucky my wife don’t have Nigerian mentality else my marriage could have been over because most of those mama for Nigeria church are useless.
They will tell how she can be enjoying herself without and been making money off you

codemaniacs:
She is telling her truth.

Leshurr:
#1. The Silence is Deafening!
When I first arrived in the West, I was so taken aback by how quiet everywhere was. On the way out of the airport, I looked around in awe as the pristine clean roads were not littered with with hawkers, jampacked cars , numerous pedestrians and the blaring sounds of horns! - although, mega-cities like New York is an exception to the rule.  quite is nice better than the 20 churches and mosque on every street in Nigeria. With no control on noise pollution

#2. Your Neighbours & The Police: You Can Co-exist with Neighbours for Years Without Ever Saying a Word to Each Other.
In the average neighbourhood, you can't make noise anyhow. Everyone minds their business. ... The most you will get out of your neighbors is an occasional nod and smile.
Although this doesn't deter them from watching your every move through their windows... they won't hesitate to call the cops/snitch on you at any slight opportunity. Make noise and fight with your spouse anyhow and you will find police knocking at your door. in a civilised society the police is your friend. Wife beating is not accepted here like in Nigeria

#3 Raising kids in a Predominantly Black Neighbourhood Can Spell Doom.
Bullying is incessant in these communities. Gang culture, crime, violence  etc.. not necessarily true

#4. Your Child(ren) can be Taken from You.
This almost happened to a close friend of mine whose nosy neighbour called  child services on her because she heard her baby crying for a lengthy period of time. And the police actually showed up to her house to carry out a thorough investigation on the living conditions of the baby.. Thank God nothing incriminating was found..
Moral of the story: be careful with how you care for/discipline your kids when living abroad. What we call discipline in Nigeria is actually child abuse here. Nigerians are damaging their kids in Nigeria and these kids grow up and accept violence as the norm.

#5. Nigerian Churches (most RCCG branches) are Epicenters for Drama & Toxicity.
Avoid! Just Avoid! An extension of Nigeria

#6. Black (especially Nigerian women) are at the Bottom of the Food Chain; be it at the Workplace or on the Dating Scene.
Young black guys will rather date white or mixed race girls.. (may not be true for all) but my observation living in London.
...and at work, we have to work twice as hard to be respected and valued. The biggest oppressor of a black woman at work is a white woman (and in some cases, your fellow blacks).. but not a white man surprisingly.  You must be mixing in the wrong scene, there are loads of black Nigerian women at the height of their careers, no problem dating who they like with loads of confidence and will never accept bullying in any form especially at the work because they know their self worth.

#7. You will Happily Miss Home from Afar and be so Much More Invested in the Affairs of Nigeria than Those Living in Nigeria.

Need I say more? It depends on what is there to miss as nothing works in that country

#8.You May Gain Weight.
Why??
Kebabs & Pizzas
Chicken and chips.
Cheap and irresistibly delicious chinese takeaways
Fish & chips
Burgers,
TGI Fridays & Nandos
Depends on the individual, loads of Nigerians go to gyms and do other forms of exercises. There are also loads of healthy takeaway choices

Important Note: This is a light hearted post and just a snippet of my experience so far living abroad.. it isn't perfect here, but I'd choose this over and over again than my experiences living in Nigeria.

My responses are also lighthearted

favor914:
Couldn’t be further from the truth, nowhere like home, that is why I am so adamant that Nnenna Kanu will beg to visit Nigeria, sooner than later he will get homesick be it 2028, the irony of life is that the same Governors he is belittling today, will be the same persons that will be pleading on his behalf in future.

ekesoft:
Am not going to read this thread .. � I wan experience am myself

luminouz:
How exactly do they ruin marriages bro?

Newman20:
#5 is so true.

SavageBoy:
Did you read and understand what she wrote in the last paragraph?...especially what she wrote in the last two lines of her post

You had better worked on your understanding and comprehension before you come and start disgracing your local government here

jajeri3216:
You live in Canada but still don't understand how the world works?

Na wa oh.

luminouz:
Oya let's go abroad babe

Leshurr:
#1. The Silence is Deafening!
When I first arrived in the West, I was so taken aback by how quiet everywhere was. On the way out of the airport, I looked around in awe as the pristine clean roads were not littered with with hawkers, jampacked cars , numerous pedestrians and the blaring sounds of horns! - although, mega-cities like New York is an exception to the rule. 

#2. Your Neighbours & The Police: You Can Co-exist with Neighbours for Years Without Ever Saying a Word to Each Other.
In the average neighbourhood, you can't make noise anyhow. Everyone minds their business. ... The most you will get out of your neighbors is an occasional nod and smile.
Although this doesn't deter them from watching your every move through their windows... they won't hesitate to call the cops/snitch on you at any slight opportunity. Make noise and fight with your spouse anyhow and you will find police knocking at your door.

#3 Raising kids in a Predominantly Black Neighbourhood Can Spell Doom.
Bullying is incessant in these communities. Gang culture, crime, violence  etc..

#4. Your Child(ren) can be Taken from You.
This almost happened to a close friend of mine whose nosy neighbour called  child services on her because she heard her baby crying for a lengthy period of time. And the police actually showed up to her house to carry out a thorough investigation on the living conditions of the baby.. Thank God nothing incriminating was found..
Moral of the story: be careful with how you care for/discipline your kids when living abroad.

#5. Nigerian Churches (most RCCG branches) are Epicenters for Drama & Toxicity.
Avoid! Just Avoid!

#6. Black (especially Nigerian women) are at the Bottom of the Food Chain; be it at the Workplace or on the Dating Scene.
Young black guys will rather date white or mixed race girls.. (may not be true for all) but my observation living in London.
...and at work, we have to work twice as hard to be respected and valued. The biggest oppressor of a black woman at work is a white woman (and in some cases, your fellow blacks).. but not a white man surprisingly. 

#7. You will Happily Miss Home from Afar and be so Much More Invested in the Affairs of Nigeria than Those Living in Nigeria.

Need I say more?

#8.You May Gain Weight.
Why??
Kebabs & Pizzas
Chicken and chips.
Cheap and irresistibly delicious chinese takeaways
Fish & chips
Burgers,
TGI Fridays & Nandos

Important Note: This is a light hearted post and just a snippet of my experience so far living abroad.. it isn't perfect here, but I'd choose this over and over again than my experiences living in Nigeria.

Leshurr:
My point is, you would think white men would be the biggest perpetrators of racism and oppression in the workplace but in actual reality, white women are...
...and your fellow blacks will never have your back.

Frustrated007:
Nigerian women have this exaggerated sense of self worth.
Crawl through Instagram..you will see them calling themselves names like "queen", "princess" "goddess" etc
They can overhype themselves ehnn!!!...even the ugly ones

ednut1:
why not tell us how it works. Abeg get off my mention