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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Toks2008(m): 10:35pm On Dec 23, 2020
Leshurr:


... good idea, il consider another write up on this..

Are you presently residing in UK?
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by PoliteActivist: 10:35pm On Dec 23, 2020
Sonnobax15:
cheesy. And the op ended up speaking the mind of over 99% of Nigerians living in Nigeria by saying he would choose abroad over Nigeria over and over again...

The truth is that I don't have any single problem with our leaders,but you see that angel that directed the sperm that formed me to Nigeria,me and am must throw blows when we go finally meet for heaven

U forget there are billions of other sperms who formed nothing and never experienced humanity. U r the lucky one in a billion. So thank that angel

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 10:36pm On Dec 23, 2020
codemaniacs:

It's her truth.

So they don't take your kids at the slightest mistake, abroad isn't quiet and cold?, Europeans are not private people, black neighborhoods like Camberwell London, freehold new Jersey are not rough, black churches are not full of crappy people who go there to show off.

Like for real. I know you getting some white punna grin, that's why you think otherwise

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by drlateef: 10:38pm On Dec 23, 2020
Frustrated007:
Madam show us your white husband biko undecided undecided

Dey there dey deceive yourself undecided


I personally think the black girls are the ones avoiding black men. They prefer white men and mixed race men. Our black girls are too suspicious of black guys.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Faithful007: 10:38pm On Dec 23, 2020
yemiosinbajo:

Not only in the church, but also anywhere Nigerians predominantly are. Check Nigerian organizations, even some campus organizations such as African Students Organizations and compare them to European Students (or Lantinx) Organizations. Check hospitals where Nigerians form the majority of nurses and check how they interact with each other. Now, compare the relationships of Nigerians in America to Indians or Chinese in America, and you'll find a stark difference. This shows that the problem of Nigeria isn't just the leaders but the people, and this is justified because the leaders come from among the people. And the weird thing is that when I discuss these things with other Africans in America such as Ghanaians and east Africans, they mention the same problems in their own communities too. Probably why Africa is the way it is today.
you're right.
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by amuwo1980: 10:39pm On Dec 23, 2020
Number 6 is so true, even the Mexicans and Asians and ur fellow blacks (African Americans)try to use u as a punching bag

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by codemaniacs: 10:39pm On Dec 23, 2020
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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by OyinO: 10:39pm On Dec 23, 2020
Avoid Nigerian churches everywhere you go whether home or abroad. The ones abroad are a true reflection of the ones back home. They are toxic centres of brainwashing, indoctrination, mass control, extortion, deception, manipulation, subjugation, mental slavery, exploitations and distraction.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by uncleade(m): 10:42pm On Dec 23, 2020
I STILL PREFER MY NAIJA.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Leshurr(f): 10:42pm On Dec 23, 2020
Midastorch:


Keep being the intelligent woman you are, how's your second girl I’m sure she’s fine. ....... Even if it’s the fact that I will have light in my house as much as I want, nothing will make me pick Nigeria over America or Europe if I have a choice but guess what we die here (Nigeria) D cheesy cheesycheesy

She's doing great smiley thanks for asking!

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Leshurr(f): 10:43pm On Dec 23, 2020
Toks2008:


Are you presently residing in UK?

Yep..

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Sonnobax15(m): 10:44pm On Dec 23, 2020
PoliteActivist:


U forget there are billions of other sperms who formed nothing and never experienced humanity. U r the lucky one in a billion. So thank that angel
He go must still explain why no matter what
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Frustrated007: 10:44pm On Dec 23, 2020
our women are very ungrateful creatures.
You won't believe the amount of effort I have put into just trying to see if things would work out between anyone I come in contact with..but I always end up getting burnt.

They are so fake! everything with them has to be a transaction.
Even the ugly and despicable ones..they have this exaggerated sense of self importance.

There's this church girl I approached several months back. Took her on several expensive dates and all.
God knows the girl no be my spec but I just wan manage am.
If you see the kind behavior wey this girl display ehnn.
Untop say her teeth rotten oo.
Chai I was just laughing, disappointed with myself that I ever went this low!!!


gregyboy:



I still like nigerian ladies but their attitudes is what other people cant cope with outside nigeria


Guess who made them so, we nigerian men

Anything our women are is just a shadow of we men.....

If our women are downgraded outside, who do u think feel d insult, is we nigerian men

Nigerian men are still one of d least sort after, tok in the western world

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 10:45pm On Dec 23, 2020
codemaniacs:


I don't encourage inter racial relationships. It leads one race breeding out the other.

It's her truth .

Good that you have that level of consciousness .

Not explaining why you don't agree means you can't defend your argument.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Bozzy001(m): 10:45pm On Dec 23, 2020
Sad truth also living in Nigeria
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Sonnobax15(m): 10:46pm On Dec 23, 2020
drlateef:



I personally think the black girls are the ones avoiding black men. They prefer white men and mixed race men. Our black girls are too suspicious of black guys.
Na lie jor...
That's a cash-out mentality....every black woman sees a white man as maga, while they see black men as stingy men...

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by SeriouslySense(m): 10:47pm On Dec 23, 2020
yes some of them, i sense that too, i just mind my business.

drlateef:



I personally think the black girls are the ones avoiding black men. They prefer white men and mixed race men. Our black girls are too suspicious of black guys.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by jesmond3945: 10:47pm On Dec 23, 2020
walesho:
If you want to live peacefully without any trouble avoid the blacks especially Nigerians, they are toxic, full of envy and hatred. And they like to look down on other blacks of their kind.

In fact Black Lives Matters is a scam, when we blacks living abroad are not truly united.

Arabs are more united in the West, they take care of their own
but we are all guilty of envy and hatred against one another. I think is competition.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by luminouz(m): 10:47pm On Dec 23, 2020
seunny4lif:
Nigeria churches abroad is meant for show off
Who own the biggest car while most of them live in council homes.
Be a single mom abroad earn you well
Damn,what a bummer!!!
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by SeriouslySense(m): 10:48pm On Dec 23, 2020
aha
jesmond3945:
but we are all guilty of envy and hatred against one another. I think is competition.
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by luminouz(m): 10:49pm On Dec 23, 2020
Leshurr:


Yep..

Tons leave this babe na...sheybi u don marry

Leshurr hunny! Just coman marry me... Innit good,matey? tongue

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by SeriouslySense(m): 10:49pm On Dec 23, 2020
Aha, Some Nigerians are like that, they become like a God, who are too great to be approached.

walesho:
If you want to live peacefully without any trouble avoid the blacks especially Nigerians, they are toxic, full of envy and hatred. And they like to look down on other blacks of their kind.

In fact Black Lives Matters is a scam, when we blacks living abroad are not truly united.

Arabs are more united in the West, they take care of their own

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by SeriouslySense(m): 10:51pm On Dec 23, 2020
when i sense that, i run for my dear Life, cheesy cheesy cheesy
jesmond3945:
but we are all guilty of envy and hatred against one another. I think is competition.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by ParkleElegant: 10:53pm On Dec 23, 2020
LLSAINT:
Good right up.
Abeg, e never late make we do exchange.
Make I go there and you come here. The following will be your experience:
1. Kidnapping everywhere to the point that a full bus loaded with passengers were kidnapped
2. The slightest noise, is presumed to be a bomb where people just run without even knowing the cause
3. You hold money to pay armed robbers in uniforms and in mufti in case yawa gas
4. Your one pound is my N700
5. No job let alone facing job discrimination
6. We thin because we regulate our feeding formular 001 (Morning, Afternoon, night)
The list is endless.....
We prefer to be a dog in the city than to remain a lion in an empty and corrupt jungle.



grin lol u said my mind, I like u already

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by jesmond3945: 10:54pm On Dec 23, 2020
SeriouslySense:
when i sense that, i run for my dear Life, cheesy cheesy cheesy
lol of course you should. The African shop down the road.
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by VanDan007: 10:54pm On Dec 23, 2020
LLSAINT:
Good right up.
Abeg, e never late make we do exchange.
Make I go there and you come here. The following will be your experience:
1. Kidnapping everywhere to the point that a full bus loaded with passengers were kidnapped
2. The slightest noise, is presumed to be a bomb where people just run without even knowing the cause
3. You hold money to pay armed robbers in uniforms and in mufti in case yawa gas
4. Your one pound is my N700
5. No job let alone facing job discrimination
6. We thin because we regulate our feeding formular 001 (Morning, Afternoon, night)
The list is endless.....
We prefer to be a dog in the city than to remain a lion in an empty and corrupt jungle.

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by gregyboy(m): 10:55pm On Dec 23, 2020
Frustrated007:
our women are very ungrateful creatures.
You won't believe the amount of effort I have put into just trying to see if things would work out between anyone I come in contact with..but I always end up getting burnt.

They are so fake! everything with them has to be a transaction.
Even the ugly and despicable ones..they have this exaggerated sense of self importance.

There's this church girl I approached several months back. Took her on several expensive dates and all.
God knows the girl no be my spec but I just wan manage am.
If you see the kind behavior wey this girl display ehnn.
Untop say her teeth rotten oo.
Chai I was just laughing, disappointed with myself that I ever went this low!!!




Bros relax every woman get their issues not only nigerian women oo,
European women would patiently wait for you to Bleep up so she can sue you and take her husband property the laws protect them more so the men begs them for their mercy but yet the whitemen still put them untop and still sort after them,


Our women only have finical issues the behavioral issues are curtail by our own culture

I would rather be with a nigerian lady than any other lady in the world,

So leave that thing nigerian ladies are the best
No race is perfect

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by jesmond3945: 10:56pm On Dec 23, 2020
SeriouslySense:
Really, me too, i don't go to the Nigerian church, they are okay, but i don't want drama, can they stop been so dramatic in the Nigerian church's and more matured, I just enjoy staying on my own. No drama, but does not mean i don't care for others. cheesy cheesy cheesy
won't you be lonely and unhappy
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by IamPlato(m): 10:57pm On Dec 23, 2020
Leshurr:


My point is, you would think white men would be the biggest perpetrators of racism and oppression in the workplace but in actual reality, white women are...
...and your fellow blacks will never have your back.
explain Number 5
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by SeriouslySense(m): 10:58pm On Dec 23, 2020
Aha, but as a people we just need to be friendly and helpful to one another, whether it is in church or outside, i don't see blacks as smart, united, and having a patience and cooperation to be more productive as a people, just yet,

I don't have any grudges, would love to see more maturity.
OyinO:
Avoid Nigerian churches everywhere you go whether home and abroad. The ones abroad are a true reflection of the ones back home. They are toxic centres of brainwashing, indoctrination, mass control, extortion, deception, manipulation, subjugation, mental slavery, exploitations and distraction.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Empiree: 10:59pm On Dec 23, 2020
Keshinr0:
Just avoid Nigeria churches abroad

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