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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 11:42pm On Dec 23, 2020
Nuel4:
lol you are very brilliant. This is what I've been saying since forever. An average Nigerian is proud, arrogant and foolish. Come to my home town, people who don't drive cars are seen as human chaff. No one gives a shiiit about your intelligence or character if you don't use the latest iPhone or drive around in a car (nobody cares whether you stole it or however you got it) you are treated like human waste. Tueeh on Nigeria.

Facts

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by meobizy(f): 11:47pm On Dec 23, 2020
You will Happily Miss Home from Afar
This is very true. During the EndSars protests, I told my abroad friends to come home and join the fight. These were some of their replies.

“Fvck that!”

“In the next life.”

“Do the work. I’ll come back to enjoy the benefits.”

“Yes, I’ll support them by protesting here.”

“Nigeria is dead. There is no hope.”

“I’ll come next year. I hope the protests will continue then.”

It was very obvious none of them was ready to put in physical effort nor risk his/her life back home. No matter how much they complain about the white man’s land, they know they’re better off there than here.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by generationz(f): 11:48pm On Dec 23, 2020
Frustrated007:
let's face it, most Caucasian guys who date and marry black girls are generally loosers who can't land decent white girls.

And black women who go after white guys are generally girls with extreme low self esteem.
That slave master dynamics is deeply entrenched in many of them.

So George Lucas (star wars billionaire) Eve's husband (Maximillion Cooper), Rihanna's Ex, Janet Jacskons Ex are all losers? All these men are billionaires married to or have dated high quality black women.

Stop the hate. All the Youtube interracial couples I follow (black women/white men) have working good looking husbands. Black women who marry outside never settle for less. They have standards and with such standards they are ready to pick any man from any race (black, white, whatever) as long as he meets their standards.

Stop the hate on black women.

Most African American men who marry white women either pick the bottom of the barrel groupies or marry the one's white men term 2's and 4's.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Yoighaman(m): 11:48pm On Dec 23, 2020
Frustrated007:
our women are very ungrateful creatures.
You won't believe the amount of effort I have put into just trying to see if things would work out between anyone I come in contact with..but I always end up getting burnt.

They are so fake! everything with them has to be a transaction.
Even the ugly and despicable ones..they have this exaggerated sense of self importance.

There's this church girl I approached several months back. Took her on several expensive dates and all.
God knows the girl no be my spec but I just wan manage am.
If you see the kind behavior wey this girl display ehnn.
Untop say her teeth rotten oo.
Chai I was just laughing, disappointed with myself that I ever went this low!!!



Good you learnt a lesson.

It is best to never date or marry someone who is not within your social class, there is usually some form of friction when you do. Either stay within your class or practise hypergamy. All things being equal, hypogamy should be a no-no.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by gregyboy(m): 11:52pm On Dec 23, 2020
Frustrated007:
Tell "your" women to work on their character and stop being hypocrites.

Nobody go church pass Nigerian women but their character worse pass person wey no attend church.

And yeah..alot of foreign women put a ton of effort into pleasing their men so teaching one how to cook our meals shouldn't be a problem grin



They are, unluckily for u the bad ones are the ones currently rushing you now

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 11:53pm On Dec 23, 2020
Keketu:
good morning, shocked please pm me thank
You are the most silly nairalander. undecided
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Sniper101(m): 11:54pm On Dec 23, 2020
Leshurr:


#7. You will Happily Miss Home from Afar and be so Much More Invested in the Affairs of Nigeria than Those Living in Nigeria.

Need I say more? smiley

This I can relate to...

My cousin who's been in the US for years now, always bug me unnecessarily by copying and posting, mostly, current Naija Gists to me on Whatsapp
And most times the stuff he sends usually turn out to be things I am yet to know of or hear about grin

I guess he miss Home

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 11:58pm On Dec 23, 2020
SeriouslySense:
Aha that is how people who are fake behave
my neighbour is currently blaring music on his home theater by this time of the night. Tell me how this is not foolishness. I can't complain because he stays in his flat. He believes because he paid for the apartment he can do whatever he likes grin grin

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 11:59pm On Dec 23, 2020
generationz:


So George Lucas (star wars billionaire) Eve's husband (Maximillion Cooper), Rihanna's Ex, Janet Jacskons Ex are all losers? All these men are billionaires married to or have dated high quality black women.

Stop the hate. All the Youtube interracial couples I follow (black women/white men) have working good looking husbands. Black women who marry outside never settle for less. They have standards and with such standards they are ready to pick any man from any race (black, white, whatever) as long as he meets their standards.

Stop the hate on black women.

Most African American men who marry white women either pick the bottom of the barrel groupies or marry the one's white men term 2's and 4's.



Don't mind the self hating goon.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by banmee(m): 12:01am On Dec 24, 2020
Nicoswit:

Why does the whites likes calling police on blacks...what do they tend to gain...i see it as wickedness

Because black people are generally re.tarded. It doesn't matter if they are black American or immigrants. There is this thugish agbero mentality in our genes. Very few of us escape this mentality by using education as a tool.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:02am On Dec 24, 2020
generationz:


So George Lucas (star wars billionaire) Eve's husband (Maximillion Cooper), Rihanna's Ex, Janet Jacskons Ex are all losers? All these men are billionaires married to or have dated high quality black women.

Stop the hate. All the Youtube interracial couples I follow (black women/white men) have working good looking husbands. Black women who marry outside never settle for less. They have standards and with such standards they are ready to pick any man from any race (black, white, whatever) as long as he meets their standards.

Stop the hate on black women.

Most African American men who marry white women either pick the bottom of the barrel groupies or marry the one's white men term 2's and 4's.




Keep deceiving yourselves, i have never ever seen a rich white person date a poor black person.

Not one!!!

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by banmee(m): 12:03am On Dec 24, 2020
Nuel4:
my neighbour is currently blaring music on his home theater by this time of the night. Tell me how this is not foolishness. I can't complain because he stays in his flat. He believes because he paid for the apartment he can do whatever he likes grin grin

Try that shit in Germany and see what happens. I love the way they handle things over there. Every action has a monetary price and they make you pay heavily.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by banmee(m): 12:04am On Dec 24, 2020
jajeri3216:


Keep deceiving yourselves, i have never ever seen a rich white person date a poor black person.

Not one!!!

Fascinating. So you know everyone everywhere.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:06am On Dec 24, 2020
Frustrated007:
I'm talking about black women oga..not men
well.. maybe but i have seen quite a few young white boys/black girls couples. But yes! Mostly African young women/white old men couples.

I even have a Nigerian woman friend 35 and she is dating a 56 years old worn out white man, she said she would never date a young Nigerian or black guy. smiley even though she dates this white old guy she still let's me grab her bum and breasts sometimes. cheesy

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:09am On Dec 24, 2020
banmee:


Fascinating. So you know everyone everywhere.

I look at statistics, even from the write up, she clearly shot herself in the foot.

Almost like self delusion.

Black women are at the bottom of the dating pool globally.

It doesn't mean you won't find inter racial couples, ugly/attractive etc.

Infact white people kolo , they could pick someone we blacks consider unattractive as a partner grin

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:10am On Dec 24, 2020
gregyboy:



Bros relax every woman get their issues not only nigerian women oo,
European women would patiently wait for you to Bleep up so she can sue you and take her husband property the laws protect them more so the men begs them for their mercy but yet the whitemen still put them untop and still sort after them,


Our women only have finical issues the behavioral issues are curtail by our own culture

I would rather be with a nigerian lady than any other lady in the world,

So leave that thing nigerian ladies are the best
No race is perfect
yes, white women has their own issues, but Nigerian women are not the best, atleast they are better than Jamaican women.
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by ofiko123(m): 12:11am On Dec 24, 2020
Nice thread..
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Gabbriell: 12:13am On Dec 24, 2020
LLSAINT:
Good right up.
Abeg, e never late make we do exchange.
Make I go there and you come here. The following will be your experience:
1. Kidnapping everywhere to the point that a full bus loaded with passengers were kidnapped
2. The slightest noise, is presumed to be a bomb where people just run without even knowing the cause
3. You hold money to pay armed robbers in uniforms and in mufti in case yawa gas
4. Your one pound is my N700
5. No job let alone facing job discrimination
6. We thin because we regulate our feeding formular 001 (Morning, Afternoon, night)
The list is endless.....
We I prefer to be a dog in the city than to remain a lion in an empty and corrupt jungle.

Corrected

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by jesmond3945: 12:14am On Dec 24, 2020
ALEX182:


I disagree with 6.

As a black woman, your greatest adversary is a fellow woman who is black or any other ethnicity except white. The white woman and white man is often your greatest ally.

Your number one foe is a black woman. Followed by any other non-white woman.
hmm are black not united?
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:15am On Dec 24, 2020
codemaniacs:


I don't encourage inter racial relationships. It leads one race breeding out the other.

It's her truth .
What? shocked This is racism, my kids are mixed raced.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by moodyguy: 12:15am On Dec 24, 2020
Keshinr0:
Just avoid Nigeria churches abroad
explain oooo
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by jesmond3945: 12:16am On Dec 24, 2020
Ninokingz1:
OP your no5 is shit. Ain't no fucking truth in it. If e happened for the church wey u be attend no mean say na so e dey for all RCCG branches in UK. As a matter fact for those planning relocation, the best thing to do for yourselves is locating a 9ja church o if not eh you dey alone for der.

My official 1st job here was connected to me by a brother from the church. In the RCCG parish I do worship we are to ourselves the family members we don't have here.

I can't so deal with most of you who will run to Nairaland to either run Nigeria down or the whole Africa because you've gotten the opportunity of leaving. Though, I will agree with some of your assertions especially Black to Black kind of giving attitude but still it's none of my business.



but why the black to black attitude? Are we no longer brothers?
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by SeriouslySense(m): 12:16am On Dec 24, 2020
lol, they are like that, only them exist

Nuel4:
my neighbour is currently blaring music on his home theater by this time of the night. Tell me how this is not foolishness. I can't complain because he stays in his flat. He believes because he paid for the apartment he can do whatever he likes grin grin

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by SeriouslySense(m): 12:17am On Dec 24, 2020
Just avoid such character as much as you can, they lack self control, cheesy cheesy cheesy.

Nuel4:
my neighbour is currently blaring music on his home theater by this time of the night. Tell me how this is not foolishness. I can't complain because he stays in his flat. He believes because he paid for the apartment he can do whatever he likes grin grin
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:17am On Dec 24, 2020
Leshurr:


My point is, you would think white men would be the biggest perpetrators of racism and oppression in the workplace but in actual reality, white women are...
...and your fellow blacks will never have your back.
very true. But sometimes White people also use black people to oppress other fellow blacks.

It isn't that some white men are not racist, it is that they don't wanna get into trouble with either black men or black women, so they are not ussually racist in your face, they are cowards.

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:18am On Dec 24, 2020
gypsey:
What? shocked This is racism, my kids are mixed raced.

My partner is white , she knows racism without power is prejudice.

Inter racial relationship's is equal to genocide.

I speak facts only, Nigerians have been indoctrinated with bullshit for too long...

Apologies for the other day cheesy

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Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by generationz(f): 12:19am On Dec 24, 2020
jajeri3216:


Keep deceiving yourselves, i have never ever seen a rich white person date a poor black person.

Not one!!!

Nope. Not delivering myself. I'm glad the white billionaires chose the best of the best from the black community when choosing wives. Oh, I forgot Serena Williams.
I never mentioned rich or poor.
Your fellow low self esteemed black man said black women choose thrashiest white men and I refuted that claim.

Even the black women who don't date billionaires choose white men with steady jobs and young and good looking. Meanwhile our African brothers go for fat grandmas and bottom barrel groupies and thots.

Stop putting your women down to feel important.

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