Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,151,265 members, 7,811,748 topics. Date: Sunday, 28 April 2024 at 06:45 PM

Sad Truths About Living Abroad - Travel (8) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Travel / Sad Truths About Living Abroad (80325 Views)

Disadvantages Of Living Abroad Or Obodo Oyinbo / Japa: Struggles Of Living Abroad No One Likes To Talk About / Some Tips About Living In Uk (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (16) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by generationz(f): 12:20am On Dec 24, 2020
gypsey:
Don't mind the self hating goon.

You dey mind them. grin

1 Like

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:24am On Dec 24, 2020
jajeri3216:


My partner is white , she knows racism without power is prejudice.

Inter racial relationship's is equal to genocide.

I speak facts only, Nigerians have been indoctrinated with bullshit for too long...

Apologies for the other day cheesy
If you say so.


Apology accepted, though i don't remember which other day.
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:27am On Dec 24, 2020
gypsey:
If you say so.


Apology accepted, though i don't remember which other day.

Can't remember but we clashed on some issues.

Apologies bro, it's just that I'm sick of the crass indoctrination going on.

I'm here to wake people up.

1 Like 1 Share

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by gregyboy(m): 12:31am On Dec 24, 2020
gypsey:
yes, white women has their own issues, but Nigerian women are not the best, atleast they are better than Jamaican women.


Lol, what's with theirs
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by watchindelta(m): 12:33am On Dec 24, 2020
Even here in Italy! Nigerian churchs are like a club. Every sunday now competition of cloth! I no dey waste my time to go there, because they are not worshiping God, I know God no they there self ..

12 Likes 1 Share

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by SeriouslySense(m): 12:34am On Dec 24, 2020
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
watchindelta:
Even here in Italy! Nigerian churchs are like a club. Every sunday now competition of cloth! I no dey waste my time to go there, because they are not worshiping God, I know God no they there self ..

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:38am On Dec 24, 2020
jajeri3216:


Can't remember but we clashed on some issues.

Apologies bro, it's just that I'm sick of the crass indoctrination going on.

I'm here to wake people up.

I remember now, i didn't remember means i didn't take the clash/issue serious. No qualms, everyone has their opinions, some people may not share your opinions sometimes, it doesn't warrant insults, name calling or derogatory remarks such behaviour isn't mature.

I was even being sacarstic with my comment that day, but you couldn't recognise the sacarsm in my comment. Never mind it's all good.

2 Likes

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:41am On Dec 24, 2020
gregyboy:



Lol, what's with theirs
They are ignorant, obnoxious, greedy, violent, selfish and thieves. smiley

1 Like 1 Share

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by At10tion: 12:42am On Dec 24, 2020
Keshinr0:
Just avoid Nigeria churches abroad
why? Can you elaborate more on this.
@Leshurr can you say more about this.
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by luminouz(m): 12:54am On Dec 24, 2020
Ninokingz1:
OP your no5 is shit. Ain't no fucking truth in it. If e happened for the church wey u be attend no mean say na so e dey for all RCCG branches in UK. As a matter fact for those planning relocation, the best thing to do for yourselves is locating a 9ja church o if not eh you dey alone for der.

My official 1st job here was connected to me by a brother from the church. In the RCCG parish I do worship we are to ourselves the family members we don't have here.

I can't so deal with most of you who will run to Nairaland to either run Nigeria down or the whole Africa because you've gotten the opportunity of leaving. Though, I will agree with some of your assertions especially Black to Black kind of giving attitude but still it's none of my business.




None of your business yet you opened ya fat mouth to attack OP abi?

Why you sounding pained na?

5 Likes

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Reex12(m): 12:57am On Dec 24, 2020
no 6 is so true black girls are undesirable for blacks there toowhy because nigerians have had enough of urgent 2k back here and all their drama so they mix and explore other races

3 Likes

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 12:58am On Dec 24, 2020
walesho:
If you want to live peacefully without any trouble avoid the blacks especially Nigerians, they are toxic, full of envy and hatred. And they like to look down on other blacks of their kind.

In fact Black Lives Matters is a scam, when we blacks living abroad are not truly united.

Arabs are more united in the West, they take care of their own
Na today you just dey know @bolded? grin
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Phraences: 12:59am On Dec 24, 2020
Nuel4:
lol you are very brilliant. This is what I've been saying since forever. An average Nigerian is proud, arrogant and foolish. Come to my home town, people who don't drive cars are seen as human chaff. No one gives a shiiit about your intelligence or character. If you don't use the latest iPhone or drive around in a car (nobody cares whether you stole it or how you got it) you are treated like human waste. Tueeh on Nigeria.

Very true.
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 1:00am On Dec 24, 2020
codemaniacs:


This your story seems fake and it's too derogatory towards anything African and black American.


A post like this one can only come from a racist or an African with low self esteem and self hatred.
Because it doesn't align with your beliefs? Park well abeg. You can start your own thread too.

1 Like 1 Share

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by elijahkayode(m): 1:00am On Dec 24, 2020
ednut1:
I like the silence - nothing concerns me with another man business grin. For the dating part blame some black women, they are usually rigid, still carry 9ja mentality about. Dont blame the guys going for other races or nationalities. I think those abroad should stop complaining as many here are seeing it as bad belle. You knew most of these things before going and you have refused to come back to Nigeria too. So make una just keep shut and enjoy your lives.


USMedia is Black #AfricaisBrown

Black literal Application & Translation in Nigeria (Yoruba, Igbo & Hausa) and most Africa tongue is Darkness and this proves Africa will only get worse cause the Light/White of God is against all form of Darkness/Black

In the Spirit Of the Almighty which sustains all Life #black denotes suffering and agony and this is evident in all cultures all over the world

In 90% africa we wear black after suffering affliction (maybe death of a loved one etc)
In 99.9% of Nigeria black is also use to denote death & suffering, O Africa the Western has given us a name of death & suffering

In Nigeria Black is Literally called "Okunkun" In the Yoruba Tongue which means "pitch black"

In layman terms The #Darkness denotes "black" in essence and Literal Name and as such is devoid of God light

This Overlooked Fact Is why No single black/Darkness state is successful on the Earth, jaimaica despite its closeness to prosperity (White USA) is still inflicted with the same problems as Nigeria

The Living Word Holding Africa in Lack is in the Name attached to it's People


The Great people Of Africa we need to consciously get of (starve the) the Black "Dark" Name

The Great people of Africa has reasons to believe we have been Spiritually manipulated into taking on a bondage of name "Black" so glaring because we forgot our Roots (Words Are Alive Physically I Jesus)

The USMedia must change #SaveAfrica #SaveNigeria #Letsgoviral

2 Likes

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 1:07am On Dec 24, 2020
i cannot relate, then again i'm not in London, but my sister who's doing her PhD in the U.K (not London) seems to love it there. i haven't heard any of these complaints from her, so... truth is relative.

6 Likes

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by joyousever(f): 1:09am On Dec 24, 2020
You nailed it all. I prefer my race and country man till tomorrow, irrespective of their shortcomings. There's really no comparison between the Nigerian/ African woman and a Caucasian woman in terms of true family values. The Caucasian woman wouldn't hesitate to sue you for a slight misdemeanour and acquire all your lifetime achievements, but the Nigerian woman isn't wired or raised that way.
gregyboy:



Bros relax every woman get their issues not only nigerian women oo,
European women would patiently wait for you to Bleep up so she can sue you and take her husband property the laws protect them more so the men begs them for their mercy but yet the whitemen still put them untop and still sort after them,


Our women only have finical issues the behavioral issues are curtail by our own culture

I would rather be with a nigerian lady than any other lady in the world,

So leave that thing nigerian ladies are the best
No race is perfect

6 Likes 1 Share

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by mindpresh: 1:10am On Dec 24, 2020
undecided Daft AF.

codemaniacs:


This your story seems fake and it's too derogatory towards anything African and black American.


A post like this one can only come from a racist or an African with low self esteem and self hatred.

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by generationz(f): 1:13am On Dec 24, 2020
jajeri3216:


Please!!

No white billionaire is looking out for your black ass.

They're smarter than that and understand wealth preservation unlike mumu blacks .


Serena Williams is richer than Alexis with a 40 million networh, while Serena's networh is a whooping 209 million .


But I mentioned several in my first comment. E dey pain you. Unlike your type I don't hype the white's but when your type brings down black women, I have to educate you.

The richest man in entertainment (George Lucas) has a black baby same as Janet Jackson with her Arab billionaire ex. Of course these are men that have so much more to offer.

What did the likes of Larsa Pippen have to offer the simp Scotty Pippen or OJ Simpson white thrash wife who sought a white boyfriend as soon as she got that divorce white from OJ Simpson?
You can bring down and talk thrash about yourself and your acquaintances but leave black women out of your low self-esteem.

8 Likes 2 Shares

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by COMPAQ(m): 1:14am On Dec 24, 2020
Keshinr0:
Just avoid Nigeria churches abroad

Why?
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 1:21am On Dec 24, 2020
elijahkayode:



USMedia is Black #AfricaisBrown

Black literal Application & Translation in Nigeria (Yoruba, Igbo & Hausa) and most Africa tongue is Darkness and this proves Africa will only get worse cause the Light/White of God is against all form of Darkness/Black

In the Spirit Of the Almighty which sustains all Life #black denotes suffering and agony and this is evident in all cultures all over the world

In 90% africa we wear black after suffering affliction (maybe death of a loved one etc)
In 99.9% of Nigeria black is also use to denote death & suffering, O Africa the Western has given us a name of death & suffering

In Nigeria Black is Literally called "Okunkun" In the Yoruba Tongue which means "pitch black"

In layman terms The #Darkness denotes "black" in essence and Literal Name and as such is devoid of God light

This Overlooked Fact Is why No single black/Darkness state is successful on the Earth, jaimaica despite its closeness to prosperity (White USA) is still inflicted with the same problems as Nigeria

The Living Word Holding Africa in Lack is in the Name attached to it's People


The Great people Of Africa we need to consciously get of (starve the) the Black "Dark" Name

The Great people of Africa has reasons to believe we have been Spiritually manipulated into taking on a bondage of name "Black" so glaring because we forgot our Roots (Words Are Alive Physically I Jesus)

The USMedia must change #SaveAfrica #SaveNigeria #Letsgoviral


Deep, but the issue is not the blackness, but the lack of self awareness and delusional thinking.

Instead of avoiding black, let's make black great again.


Never met a White person who hates, black car's, dogs, cats.


Ever seen a venta black bmw? Gorgeous.


That's what we need to do with blackness, but the people are too unwoke, unwilling, some are even asking for the colonial master's return.

1 Like

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by mt77: 1:23am On Dec 24, 2020
Could you please expatiate more on #5.
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 1:26am On Dec 24, 2020
generationz:


But I mentioned several in my first comment. E dey pain you. Unlike your type I don't hype the white's but when your type brings down black women, I have to educate you.

The richest man in entertainment (George Lucas) has a black baby same as Janet Jackson with her Arab billionaire ex. Of course these are men that have so much more to offer.

What did the likes of Larsa Pippen have to offer the simp Scotty Pippen or OJ Simpson white thrash wife who sought a white boyfriend as soon as she got that divorce white from OJ Simpson?
You can bring down and talk thrash about yourself and your acquaintances but leave black women out of your low self-esteem.

I am pro black, i believe black women are the greatest gifts God bestowed on mankind.


Again I say you're delusional, please read what you wrote and stop contradicting yourself because you want to sell something that isn't there, which I explained properly in my previous comment.

5 Likes

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by elijahkayode(m): 1:37am On Dec 24, 2020
jajeri3216:


Deep, but the issue is not the blackness, but the lack of self awareness and delusional thinking.

Instead of avoiding black, let's make black great again.

Never met a White person who hates, black car's, dogs, car's.

Ever seen a venta black bmw? Gorgeous.

That's what we need to do with blackness, but the people are too unwoke, unwilling, some are even asking for the colonial master's return.

Lol all I know is Name & Colour means a lot to #GodAlmighty
Darkness is Black in essence and literal application
First Representation Of Black (Absence of Light As Seen In The Bible)

Genesis 1:2-5 GW
The earth was formless and empty, and darkness (unfathomable black spirit just hibernating) covered the deep water. The Spirit of God was hovering over the water. Then God said, “Let there be light!” So there was light. God saw the light was good. So God separated the light from the darkness. God named the light day , and the darkness he named night
Night is always #black so do you understand
Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 1:51am On Dec 24, 2020
elijahkayode:

Lol all I know is Name & Colour means a lot to #GodAlmighty
Darkness is Black in essence and literal application
First Representation Of Black (Absence of Light As Seen In The Bible)

Genesis 1:2-5 GW
The earth was formless and empty, and darkness (unfathomable black spirit just hibernating) covered the deep water. The Spirit of God was hovering over the water. Then God said, “Let there be light!” So there was light. God saw the light was good. So God separated the light from the darkness. God named the light day , and the darkness he named night
Night is always #black so do you understand



Night/dark is the beginning.

Dark is mysterious and holds tremendous secrets, ever heard of dark matter?

Black is first, study genomics.


We don't understand our place in the world.

Too late to claim brown, that's for arabs, Indian and Latino

4 Likes

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by elijahkayode(m): 1:53am On Dec 24, 2020
jajeri3216:




Night/dark is the beginning.

Dark is mysterious and holds tremendous secrets, ever heard of dark matter?

Black is first, study genomics.


We don't understand our place in the world.

Too late to claim brown, that's for arabs, Indian and Latino

This is Spirit not science

1 Like

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by omoyankee3(m): 1:54am On Dec 24, 2020
#2 depends on you.

I'm close with some of my neighbors. We hang out, help each other, and do dinners on festive days (in fact my nextdoor neighbor recently invited me for xmas dinner with his family). I live in a small town in the south of the US...population ninety percent white. Over the years, I've come to realize that Americans, especially whites, give you back exactly the same energy you give.

17 Likes

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by Nobody: 1:58am On Dec 24, 2020
elijahkayode:


This is Spirit not science

We live in a 3d world not the fourth dimension and you can't be spiritual by running away from black using a white man's Bible put together by a roman called Constantine copied from the Egyptian book of the dead.

4 Likes

Re: Sad Truths About Living Abroad by nograv: 2:03am On Dec 24, 2020
yemiosinbajo:

Not only in the church, but also anywhere Nigerians predominantly are. Check Nigerian organizations, even some campus organizations such as African Students Organizations and compare them to European Students (or Lantinx) Organizations. Check hospitals where Nigerians form the majority of nurses and check how they interact with each other. Now, compare the relationships of Nigerians in America to Indians or Chinese in America, and you'll find a stark difference. This shows that the problem of Nigeria isn't just the leaders but the people, and this is justified because the leaders come from among the people. And the weird thing is that when I discuss these things with other Africans in America such as Ghanaians and east Africans, they mention the same problems in their own communities too. Probably why Africa is the way it is today.

Speak for yourself, I have spent time with the upper and middle class Nigerians in the UK who fled Nigeria in the 80s..

Their children have largely excelled and they all get along well..

Working class Nigerians have struggled more, institutional racism combined with starting from a lower base makes things harder...

Also Nigerians are capable of running successful institutions, I can think of two successful fund managers and another who owns a successful pharmaceutical company. Just because you don’t know them or haven’t seen them doesn’t mean they don’t exist...

10 Likes

(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (16) (Reply)

See How Lagosians Sleep In Buses On Their Way To Work In The Morning (PHOTOS) / My Visit To Oron Crayfish Market Akwa Ibom State / Longest And Most Confusing Pedestran Bridge In Nigeria

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 64
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.