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chlowi:
all the wife needed to do was take her husband up for divorce, what ever angle you look at it, the wife is wrong on all fours ....... first off harming a life ? over a cheating man? no, i wont do the same. How many women is she going to keep poring hot water on? how many? why didnt she met out same treatment to the community P3nis of a husband ? since you noted she had asked the lady severally to leave her husband ? look , no matter the angle you want to look at this, the wife had no right to do this , regardless...

Let me ask you a question, so if you were in the girls shoes and the wife asked you to leave her house, you will decline and tell her to meet her husband instead? Common sense needs to be applied.

Chii59:
This world is a very small place. May your loved ones never find themselves in situations like this, as you're blaming this young lady.
Let's even assume she was sleeping with the woman's husband, who is to blame? Isn't it the husband in question?

I know girls that have dated married men, just text msg from the man's wife alone they will leave the man run for their life but since you will rather stick to the man and wait for him to be blamed, then you are ready for whatever happens to you.

Wartsnigeria:
She's didn't ask the lady to leave her husband, she asked the lady to leave her house, she should have left, somethings are better avoided than getting justice, okay the woman is wrong, the highest that can happen is jail term right? Does it change the fact that the girl is burnt? Does it return her skin to normal? If she had killed her, will it return her to life? The safest way to live is to avoid problems rather than trying to get justice.

Absolutely, i agree with you ... the ordeal could have been avoided ...No woman should belittle herself to even come second place after another woman ... women do it , who am i to judge them ? we all sin differently ... but this occassion is not worth taking another's life nor harming another .... same way infidelity is a choice ... you owe it to urself to leave or forgive a cheating spouse ...give urself that honour .... deliberately harming another human being is Wrong! there are laws laid to tackle such offenses .... and if that side chick knows what to do ... she can make that woman's life a miserable one.... Now ask urself as the wife , is that community P3nis worth it ?

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Wartsnigeria:
Let me ask you a question, so if you were in the girls shoes and the wife asked you to leave her house, you will decline and tell her to meet her husband instead? Common sense needs to be applied.

Oh darling , dont even equate me with a woman who scrambles for leftovers ... no way .... i can never find myself in those shoes, not in this life and not after. Still wisdom from the wife too wd save her that jail term you mentioned! ever been to Nigerian prisons? id die a day in there ......To what end biko? wisdom os profitable to direct ... there are better ways to kill a rat ........

chlowi:
Absolutely, i agree with you ... the ordeal could have been avoided ...No woman should belittle herself to even come second place after another woman ... women do it , who am i to judge them ? we all sin differently ... but this occassion is not worth taking another's life nor harming another .... same way infidelity is a choice ... you owe it to urself to leave or forgive a cheating spouse ...give urself that honour .... deliberately harming another human being is Wrong! there are laws laid to tackle such offenses .... and if that side chick knows what to do ... she can make that woman's life a miserable one.... Now ask urself as the wife , is that community P3nis worth it ?

You still don't get my point, even if she makes her spend the rest of her life in prison, it won't remove the scars she has which could have been avoided, leaving the house is much easier than getting justice.

We lock our cars when we park outside because it's easier to press lock button than replace what is stolen or get justice over the thief. Instead of saying people should blame the thief instead of you that refuse to lock your vehicle.

chlowi:
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Oh darling , dont even equate me with a woman who scrambles for leftovers ... no way .... i can never find myself in those shoes, not in this life and not after. Still wisdom from the wife too wd save her that jail term you mentioned! ever been to Nigerian prisons? id die a day in there ......To what end biko? wisdom os profitable to direct ... there are better ways to kill a rat ........

This is the point I have been trying to make, if the girl in question were like you, she won't be in this position now, so our actions and inactions dictates the direction of our life.

Wartsnigeria:
This is the point I have been trying to make, if the girl in question were like you, she won't be in this position now, so our actions and inactions dictates the direction of our life.

i got your point from the onset, yet my stand remains..what the wife did was cruel .Thers are other ways ..One way or the other she wd have to pay too.. they both have to pay while the man walks free.... smh

Wartsnigeria:
You still don't get my point, even if she makes her spend the rest of her life in prison, it won't remove the scars she has which could have been avoided, leaving the house is much easier than getting justice.

We lock our cars when we park outside because it's easier to press lock button than replace what is stolen or get justice over the thief. Instead of saying people should blame the thief instead of you that refuse to lock your vehicle.

you comparing scar to life imprisonment ? what if the the lady died ? and the wife was convicted of murder and killed too? i want you to get my point .... it is not worth it ! they both lose ..the man wins and will even get another to warm his bed ... women shd think better and do better ...what u permit persists ...

dre11:
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Very sad what happened to Mnena but I believe she was wrongly misguided or perhaps naive.To boldly enter a married man's house in the guise of work. When asked to leave severally, she refused. Even a family member of the aggrieved wife warned you - that was a veiled threat issued i.e. if this be the last day you will be a consultant, so be it. Her sense should have come alive at that point cos that was shots fired in advance.

Instead she carried herself BACK to the same home and ended up fighting with the aggrieved wife. Small girl Mnena, Haba! Your effrontery is legendary. Look at your yellow pawpaw skin, that should tell you anything that causes fight should be very far from you. What were you thinking?

Please get well soon.

Haykinx98:
Read what i wrote carefully and type what you just said without crying

Yeah just like your mom

Husband snatcher

This matter can not be settled without hearing from Jeff, who is in the center of this case. Let's hear from Jeff biko

chlowi:
it beats me !!! .... wetin gbolahan dey cause for women ....is it the fear of finding a replacement ? or fear of being alone without one ? i cant wrap it up in my head .....they are quick to harm the women who cheat with their spouses forgetting that those woman owe dem no allegiance or oath rather their partner does. Take ur grievances to the man.

Or divorce him?

Feeling for the Young girl sha.God Almighty grants her speedy recovery.The girl is pretty I will not even allow my hubby bring a lady like that to the house.

Africa proverb goat and yam no dey stay the same room�

The girl made a mistake. Once tension starts rising because of my presence in a place (a matrimonial home for that matter), the next thing is to find my square root.

I'm finding her side of the story hard to believe, but irregardless grievous bodily harm is taking things too far. Way too far. The culprit MUST be made to face the consequences of her actions

bjtinz:
Come off it. Doesn't make sense. She's the daughter of an ex commissioner, so money is not a problem.

It's possible, in fact it's HIGHLY LIKELY Jeff made passes at at her, but I truly doubt she would have agreed especially right in the man's matrimonial home.

Moreover she would have been aware of the scandal it would cause her parents.

Very good point.