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zanebaddo:
hahahahahaha

This your story made me laugh out loud especially the last part Where you said if only she knows how much you love her lol

Do you know how many men who say the same thing to her everyday? she's tired.

I hope your SMV is high bro??

odinson1:
Fineboynl take this Lady's Advice at your own peril

Women don't love men,women don't care about men and that is why they will give you any random advice that suits their Selfish and Narcissistic Narratives. They will only give you Relationship Advice that will be of more benefit to The woman you are dating. Dont ever take advice from them!

and as for the topic,bro She doesn't love or like you. She wouldn't play hard to get if she were into you. If she eventually agrees to date you,you will be On unending pressure to always please her so she won't leave you,you will essentially worship her. You will spend till your last Kobo and she still won't fancy you. Dude never chase a girl because a girl who you chase,never Wants to be with you that's why she Makes you chase her so she can be the prize in your eyes

odinson1:
Fineboynl take this Lady's Advice at your own peril

Women don't love men,women don't care about men and that is why they will give you any random advice that suits their Selfish and Narcissistic Narratives. They will only give you Relationship Advice that will be of more benefit to The woman you are dating. Dont ever take advice from them!

and as for the topic,bro She doesn't love or like you. She wouldn't play hard to get if she were into you. If she eventually agrees to date you,you will be On unending pressure to always please her so she won't leave you,you will essentially worship her. You will spend till your last Kobo and she still won't fancy you. Dude never chase a girl because a girl who you chase,never Wants to be with you that's why she Makes you chase her so she can be the prize in your eyes

fineboynl:
what is SMV?

Jennycoolz:
Try harder , she's got so many guys after her and you're just one of them , it'll take you realnes and time inorder to get her , good luck to you

Jennycoolz:
Try harder , she's got so many guys after her and you're just one of them , it'll take you realnes and time inorder to get her , good luck to you

Nazgul:
From your narrative, it's clear that she's not into you. When a girl isn't into you, trust me it's different from playing hard to get.

When she's not into you, She won't pick up your calls or reply your chats. If she even manages to pick up, she'll be busy. If she manages to chat, with you, it will be more of a question and answer game...very boring, characterized with k, kk, um, oh, hmm...etc.

She'll cancel dates suddenly without offering any kind of apology to you, she won't even regard you in anyway or form, she won't appreciate any kind of gift you give to her. Even if you request for her account details and credit her with some money, she won't call you to acknowledge the receipt

The problem here is that most guys mistake this attitude for her playing hard to get. Truth is they're so wrong. Girls like these are already in a relationship, they don't actually need you, so they don't bother, you're the one running around them like a male goat that wants to mate. And believe me, you'll hardly have any success with such people cos you'll end up getting frustrated.

When a girl is playing hard to get, she'll give you attention, reply your chats provided you're reasonable with your discussion and not the "when are you visiting me crew" pick up your calls, talk to you with respect...etc. She would just be taking things slowly between you both by respectfully refusing some of your offers, so as not to look cheap.

My advice? Let her be...she's already in a relationship.