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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Bennysam: 6:18pm On Dec 29, 2020
LovelyDude:


I don't think your mum should have slapped her at all, it's like your mum doesn't love her at all and that moment was an excuse for her to pounce on your wife. Your wife shouldn't have retaliated with a slap and you were just caught in a war. It would be best if you could resolve the matter rather than filing for divorce. And it's very wrong for your mum to interfere in your internal affairs like that, that slap is so unwarranted.
This your comment is reason men die first in marriage
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Bennysam: 6:19pm On Dec 29, 2020
Teaveapoet:
You cant hit a grown-up person now. Divorce wasn't necessary. You both wanted a good life for your daughter. It was just a mistake, you took it over board. Please ignore your pride and apologise to her and your daughter. That girl doesn't deserve a separated parents.
But your own mother can hit you?

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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Bennysam: 6:22pm On Dec 29, 2020
thebosstrevor1:
If this story is true.

Your mum deserve the slap.

Your mum does not have any right to slap your wife.

You are not a man, aren't you supposed to protect your wife.

Which man allows his mother to slap his wife.

This means that Someone can beat your wife publicly and you won't do anything
If you’re a man you will die young in marriage because las las your wife will take advantage of your stupidity and kill you
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Bennysam: 6:23pm On Dec 29, 2020
thebosstrevor1:
If this story is true.

Your mum deserve the slap.

Your mum does not have any right to slap your wife.

You are not a man, aren't you supposed to protect your wife.

Which man allows his mother to slap his wife.

This means that Someone can beat your wife publicly and you won't do anything
If her mother slap her will she retaliate?
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Bennysam: 6:24pm On Dec 29, 2020
cooooooks:
1. Probably a fake story.

2. Your mum has NO right to slap anybody.

3. You sef no get sense. You allow your mom slap the breadwinner for house. If she pack now, who go give you transport?

4. Your wife should not be entering into unnecessary debt.

5. Apologise to your wife, kiss her, hug her, tell your mum you disapprove of her violence (in your wife's presence!!!!), kiss her where she wants, maybe even wash her pant sef. Look back at No. 3.

6. You and your wife and the vendor should work out a payment plan. Add N2k as interest.

Move on. Limit your mum's appearance in your house until the debt is paid off, you are back to earning money, and you and your wife have settled.

EDIT: LOOL, I did not even read the last 2 sentences.

Oga, you truly have NO sense. Your mum slapped your wife and she slapped her back. What did you expect?? Is she a baby? A married woman with a child is being slapped anyhow. Maka gini? On top of that, she is the breadwinner sef. Your head is not correct. You and all the other Mama's boys that go around falling men's hands need cane.
Tomorrow people like you will claim they’re red pill
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by cooooooks(m): 6:26pm On Dec 29, 2020
I've never claimed any pill bro.

My brain is not sick, I do not need medication.

grin grin

Bennysam:

Tomorrow people like you will claim they’re red pill

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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by cooooooks(m): 6:27pm On Dec 29, 2020
Not since I was small. How old are you that your mom is still beating you?

Schools should do and reopen.

Bennysam:

But your own mother can hit you?

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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Fmghewzy(m): 6:32pm On Dec 29, 2020
Duru9:
Story for the gods

Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 6:40pm On Dec 29, 2020
Bennysam:

If her mother slap her will she retaliate?

Yes..she should.

The wife is not a child but a grown up adult

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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 6:41pm On Dec 29, 2020
Bennysam:

If you’re a man you will die young in marriage because las las your wife will take advantage of your stupidity and kill you

Your type, it seems your mother still beat you

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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by duro4chang(m): 6:45pm On Dec 29, 2020
Since you are no more happy that your wife left, go and call her and prostrate for her . Beg her very well but know for sure she will create problem for you.
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Dec 29, 2020
Your mum don't have the right to slap your wife neither does your wife have the right to return the slap, obviously there is no synergy between your wife and your mum,and you are even at fault here because you keep reporting your family affairs to your mum. The fact your wife earn more than you does not mean you throw away your respect. The Joy of having a wife is that she respect your opinion in good times and not so good times,i don't see why you can't celebrate the birthday in a low key .

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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by adexpa(m): 7:51pm On Dec 29, 2020
Brother, you really need to give yourself a very deep thought about the whole scenario.
In as much as it is not reasonable for her to return the slap, u also av to put yourself in her shoes cus the shock and annoyance from the unexpected slap can make anyone misbehave and act weird. Sincerely, your mum went a bit far but we are not here to blame anyone. You have to give yourself time and be heal of the whole thing, talk to yourself and see things from different angles.
I will advice you to talk to your mum (beg her to forgive her) and find a way to talk to your wife to apologise too.
You need to stand up as a man too, learn how to handle issues ( you should have find a way to sort the debt issue without your mum's intervention......you should have saw your mum off and return to address the issue btw your wife n her friend and promise the woman on when to pay.
Men need to be careful handling issues involving women.
Find a way to settle your home without separation.

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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by ifejobi84754: 8:41pm On Dec 29, 2020
:But your own mother can hit you?
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Lamasta(m): 8:51pm On Dec 29, 2020
OP you should have stylishly taken your Mum outside and scold her for assaulting your wife in your presence and then escort her home before coming to your wife to settle the debt she accrue without informing you all because she wants to mark birthday
I don't blame your wife for returning that slap o cos anybody can be pushed to the wall but I will make sure she go back and apologize to my mum for that action of hers....
Divorcing is not suppose to be what is on your mind at all.

OP you have to start acting like a man both financially, spiritually, materially and otherwise cos it seems your wife get sense pass you
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by general111(m): 8:57pm On Dec 29, 2020
Op this is what you should do..
Go to your wife and make her understand why she shoudnt have returned that slap.because if it was her own mother that slapped her, surely she woudnt have returned it.
Secondly, go to your mother and explain to her why she shoudnt meddle in your affair any longer.explain to her that you can handle whatever crises that emanates from your home..
Thirdly, make them sit together and try to explain their faults to them and cause your wife to first tender an apology to your mother, and your mum should return the apology too.
Case closed..
But your wife is something else.
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 9:00pm On Dec 29, 2020
It was bad his wife retaliated but to be honest, his mother had no right to have slapped his wife that's physical abuse and if care isn't taken, the mum would start beating the wife and respect will demand that the wife does nothing but look and pray the mum changes. Had this happened overseas, the mum could be arrested/sued. That mum is a violent person, she could have corrected the wife in a subtle manner, after all ,the dude also stated she had been supporting him, he never even mentioned that she had been complaining or misbehaving for helping.
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by newdawn2017(f): 9:22pm On Dec 29, 2020
Kamdil:
Hmmmn!


Your wife was wrong, not justifying your mums rage,but your mum is just like a mother to her too. If her mum slaps her,would she retaliate?

She is a very ruthless,mannerless,and inconsiderate wife who you are not supposed to marry In the first place.
But drop the divorce idea ,and sort our your differences. .
Yes d wife is selfish, materialistic & inconsiderate. Taking major decisions in their home without consulting will with her husband. If she did it alone with her money, it will be fine. But having to disgrace her household that way my being a mediocre as her friend hard to come & publicly humiliate them is a shame completely.
Now fir d mother, she has no right to slap a fellow adult who is her daughter inlaw, that assault thus, abusive. The matter is between her (daughter inlaw) her husband ( sin), she should ve let them handle it. I will slap back my mother should she disrespect me that way. Yes that selfish, inconsiderate, lack of emotional intelligence, mediocre behaviour from is a grounds for divorce.
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by newdawn2017(f): 9:25pm On Dec 29, 2020
general111:
Op this is what you should do..
Go to your wife and make her understand why she shoudnt have returned that slap.because if it was her own mother that slapped her, surely she woudnt have returned it.
Secondly, go to your mother and explain to her why she shoudnt meddle in your affair any longer.explain to her that you can handle whatever crises that emanates from your home..
Thirdly, make them sit together and try to explain their faults to them and cause your wife to first tender an apology to your mother, and your mum should return the apology too.
Case closed..
But your wife is something else.
I will slap back d hell out of my own mother if she disrespected me an adult child that way. As that abusive, & humiliating. She could speak to me & advice me respectful I am not a child.
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Teaveapoet(f): 9:32pm On Dec 29, 2020
Bennysam:

But your own mother can hit you?


My mother can't hit me cos she doesn't pry in my marital affairs.
I stand against violence, abuse or whatever from anyone. I'm an adult you can hit an adult over a mistake.

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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Bennysam: 9:38pm On Dec 29, 2020
Teaveapoet:



My mother can't hit me cos she doesn't pry in my marital affairs.
I stand against violence, abuse or whatever from anyone. I'm an adult you can hit an adult over a mistake.
You maybe in control of your marriage but some don’t and the mother have had enough
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by tnerro1(m): 9:42pm On Dec 29, 2020
If my mom slap my wife, I will beg my wife and tell my mom not to do it again. If my wife slaps my mom, I go beat shege comot for her body.
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by leksite120(m): 9:50pm On Dec 29, 2020
cooooooks:
You forgot that:
- OP's mum slapped first.
- OP's wife is the breadwinner and the source of his transport.

And so?
So if the wife's mother slap her no matter what, would she retaliate?
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by general111(m): 9:50pm On Dec 29, 2020
newdawn2017:
I will slap back d hell out of my own mother if she disrespected me an adult child that way. As that abusive, & humiliating. She could speak to me & advice me respectful I am not a child.
you will slap your own mother for slapping you?
Good for you

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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Aflix(m): 9:57pm On Dec 29, 2020
All these wahala for birthday wey pikin no go even remember undecided
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Dec 29, 2020
Even Though Ur Wife Is Extravagant, Ur Mum Wasn't Justified To Slap Ur Wife. U Should Accept Ur Wife Back & Live Peaceful With Her.
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Teaveapoet(f): 10:28pm On Dec 29, 2020
Bennysam:

You maybe in control of your marriage but some don’t and the mother have had enough


This has got nothing to do with being in control. It's just what I will never tolerate.
I respect and love my mother in law just like my mother both of them have boundaries.
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Anfield247(m): 10:57pm On Dec 29, 2020
Kamdil:
Hmmmn!


Your wife was wrong, not justifying your mums rage,but your mum is just like a mother to her too. If her mum slaps her,would she retaliate?

She is a very ruthless,mannerless,and inconsiderate wife who you are not supposed to marry In the first place.
But drop the divorce idea ,and sort our your differences. .
But don't you think his mom over-reacted?

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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by merieam16(f): 12:00am On Dec 30, 2020
Fake story

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