| Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Anitalembo(f): 1:10pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
It's been 4years since I left secondary school and I find it difficult to find love after dating this particular guy(Xxxx) in SS3 like it's hell tormenting. I can't just stop thinking about this guy we hardly talk, he's not much if a talker, he's highly reserved, very quiet but I can't keep him off my head. After school I had to moved into university placed on a foundation by my dad at Bridgehouse college after that I was to study Law in the Uk everything worked fine but as for him he travelled out after his exams to the Uk resides in Sheffield. I would be rounding up my law school soon but he's pictures just keep reflecting in my head like a Fog like I freaking still love this guy like hell jeez. I'm not understanding myself, around 2019 March I have had many failed relationship Soo far after school I reached out to his junior brother who was my school son desperately to get his contact, I had to look for all means cause (Xxxx) not a social media person he's highly an introvert.
I reached out I got his number finally but to respond to texts he takes alot of time I keep calling, bugging, disturbing, everything possible just for him to come online. We text and everytime I feel crazily happy anytime he calls like my Euphoria levels are freaking high, I do sleep well, good dreams, I pray for him always I still love this guy deeply. He's tall about 6ft2, he's fair complexion vas, cute, intelligent, he's a first class graduate but the qualm is my mum doesn't like him cause he's *IGBO* When I say he's a spec's *One*
I'm from a yoruba background like family and stuffs but even my sisters dig the guy. His parents are weathly very notable people in Nigeria but very reserved especially he's dad. My dad works in an oil company but not really bothered about that.
They were time he's won't respond to my text for weeks I got worried I had to see my therapist. He's a Virgo and researched alot of things even bought out some books tho to understand his personality. I'm doing my best to graduate with a first class and I'm on it totally. He's mostly at meetings. The major problem is that most guys I dated after him just want to sleep with me like that's all and I cannot do it. He's just freaking different during our dating stuffs with him *We didn't have sex* but every other shitty stuffs we did there were times I even wanted to gift him *Sex* to him cause i loved him crazily up till now. Some of my girlfriends spoke to me maybe he's stuffs is small and whatever, it isn't for God sake like a hell freaking 7.3 inch dick like he's freaking *Perfect*
The bad side of him is that he has *anger issues* like deep ones from birth stuffs and he like being quiet in which my mum has warned me about dearestly but I still love him.
About two days I went to pay him a visit in amsterdam we met up and shit went down. We got in the room and stuffs I stripped down and he stared at me, told me to wear up my clothes. Like he's level of discipline is scary like I'm depressed tbh
We broke up due to the fact he's was traveling out now he's has gone back to hardly replying my texts and calls. I still love and I want him desperately please help. We spoke he told me to move on but it's been hard. I have been having dreams of me getting married and still leaving my hubby to just be with him. Please help 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by SarutobiEky(m): 1:14pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Anitalembo:
It's been 4years since I left secondary school and I find it difficult to find love after dating this particular guy(Xxxx) in SS3 like it's hell tormenting. I can't just stop thinking about this guy we hardly talk, he's not much if a talker, he's highly reserved, very quiet but I can't keep him off my head. After school I had to moved into university placed on a foundation by my dad at Bridgehouse college after that I was to study Law in the Uk everything worked fine but as for him he travelled out after his exams to the Uk resides in Sheffield. I would be rounding up my law school soon but he's pictures just keep reflecting in my head like a Fog like I freaking still love this guy like hell jeez. I'm not understanding myself, around 2019 March I have had many failed relationship Soo far after school I reached out to his junior brother who was my school son desperately to get his contact, I had to look for all means cause (Xxxx) not a social media person he's highly an introvert.
I reached out I got his number finally but to respond to texts he takes alot of time I keep calling, bugging, disturbing, everything possible just for him to come online. We text and everytime I feel crazily happy anytime he calls like my Euphoria levels are freaking high, I do sleep well, good dreams, I pray for him always I still love this guy deeply. He's tall about 6ft2, he's fair complexion vas, cute, intelligent, he's a first class graduate but the qualm is my mum doesn't like him cause he's *IGBO* When I say he's a spec's *One*
I'm from a yoruba background like family and stuffs but even my sisters dig the guy. His parents are weathly very notable people in Nigeria but very reserved especially he's dad. My dad works in an oil company but not really bothered about that.
They were time he's won't respond to my text for weeks I got worried I had to see my therapist. He's a Virgo and researched alot of things even bought out some books tho to understand his personality. I'm doing my best to graduate with a first class and I'm on it totally. He's mostly at meetings. The major problem is that most guys I dated after him just want to sleep with me like that's all and I cannot do it. He's just freaking different during our dating stuffs with him *We didn't have sex* but every other shitty stuffs we did there were times I even wanted to gift him *Sex* to him cause i loved him crazily up till now. Some of my girlfriends spoke to me maybe he's stuffs is small and whatever, it isn't for God sake like a hell freaking 7.3 inch dick like he's freaking *Perfect*
The bad side of him is that he has *anger issues* like deep ones from birth stuffs and he like being quiet in which my mum has warned me about dearestly but I still love him.
About two days I went to pay him a visit in amsterdam we met up and shit went down. We got in the room and stuffs I stripped down and he stared at me, told me to wear up my clothes. Like he's level of discipline is scary like I'm depressed tbh
We broke up due to the fact he's was traveling out now he's has gone back to hardly replying my texts and calls. I still love and I want him desperately please help. We spoke he told me to move on but it's been hard. I have been having dreams of me getting married and still leaving my hubby to just be with him. Please help
it's obvious he's not really into you like you thought at first. You ladies have to learn to let go. If you don't get over him now and he breaks your heart, y'all will come on here and start a screaming blue murder. "All guys are the same" please let him go. Someone who adores you would come your way. God bless you, love. Finally made FTC. Nice. 12 Likes |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by chatinent: 1:15pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Raise your left hand up.
Now raise the right one up.
Slowly put it on your head.
Make sure you don't hurt your bone straight hair.
Inhale.
Exhale.
Now scream: “common sense collapse on me.” x 6
You are letting your past emotions refloat in your memory and it now translates love to you.
What is love?
Nothing you posted meant love. You are merely infatuated and desperate!
I'm sorry I don't mince words. 56 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Nobody: 1:19pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
If you have any iota of respect left for yourself, cut him off. Stop being a dog! Stop giving yourself too much to people who don't want you.
Rather be yourself and invest in yourself more and the right people would come around you. I would advise you to be strong enough to let go of people who are different from you even if you admire them else you would face severe depression. It's painful to say goodbye to someone you don't want to let go, but more painful to ask someone to stay when you know they want to leave. Use your brain.
#If you don't love yourself, you would always be chasing people who don't love you either 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by chinchonglee(m): 1:24pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Anitalembo:
It's been 4years since I left secondary school and I find it difficult to find love after dating this particular guy(Xxxx) in SS3 like it's hell tormenting. I can't just stop thinking about this guy we hardly talk, he's not much if a talker, he's highly reserved, very quiet but I can't keep him off my head. After school I had to moved into university placed on a foundation by my dad at Bridgehouse college after that I was to study Law in the Uk everything worked fine but as for him he travelled out after his exams to the Uk resides in Sheffield. I would be rounding up my law school soon but he's pictures just keep reflecting in my head like a Fog like I freaking still love this guy like hell jeez. I'm not understanding myself, around 2019 March I have had many failed relationship Soo far after school I reached out to his junior brother who was my school son desperately to get his contact, I had to look for all means cause (Xxxx) not a social media person he's highly an introvert.
I reached out I got his number finally but to respond to texts he takes alot of time I keep calling, bugging, disturbing, everything possible just for him to come online. We text and everytime I feel crazily happy anytime he calls like my Euphoria levels are freaking high, I do sleep well, good dreams, I pray for him always I still love this guy deeply. He's tall about 6ft2, he's fair complexion vas, cute, intelligent, he's a first class graduate but the qualm is my mum doesn't like him cause he's *IGBO* When I say he's a spec's *One*
I'm from a yoruba background like family and stuffs but even my sisters dig the guy. His parents are weathly very notable people in Nigeria but very reserved especially he's dad. My dad works in an oil company but not really bothered about that.
They were time he's won't respond to my text for weeks I got worried I had to see my therapist. He's a Virgo and researched alot of things even bought out some books tho to understand his personality. I'm doing my best to graduate with a first class and I'm on it totally. He's mostly at meetings. The major problem is that most guys I dated after him just want to sleep with me like that's all and I cannot do it. He's just freaking different during our dating stuffs with him *We didn't have sex* but every other shitty stuffs we did there were times I even wanted to gift him *Sex* to him cause i loved him crazily up till now. Some of my girlfriends spoke to me maybe he's stuffs is small and whatever, it isn't for God sake like a hell freaking 7.3 inch dick like he's freaking *Perfect*
The bad side of him is that he has *anger issues* like deep ones from birth stuffs and he like being quiet in which my mum has warned me about dearestly but I still love him.
About two days I went to pay him a visit in amsterdam we met up and shit went down. We got in the room and stuffs I stripped down and he stared at me, told me to wear up my clothes. Like he's level of discipline is scary like I'm depressed tbh
We broke up due to the fact he's was traveling out now he's has gone back to hardly replying my texts and calls. I still love and I want him desperately please help. We spoke he told me to move on but it's been hard. I have been having dreams of me getting married and still leaving my hubby to just be with him. Please help
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| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Nazgul: 1:30pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
You've reached out to him, if he wants you, he'll come around. For the fact that he hardly reciprocates the efforts you've been making towards reaching out to him means he's clearly not into you
Just let him be and move on with your life. Sometimes we find it so difficult to win the heart of those we actually want to be with, that's life for you.
Give others a chance and I can assure you that you'll still experience happiness. 2 Likes |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Yusufisraelj(m): 1:36pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
SarutobiEky:
it's obvious he's not really into you like you thought at first. You ladies have to learn to let go. If you don't get over him now and he breaks your heart, y'all will come on here and start a screaming blue murder. "All guys are the same" please let him go. Someone who adores you would come your way. God bless you, love.
Finally made FTC. Nice. Best advice |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by chatinent: 1:37pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
What did she mean when she said even her sisters dig the guy?  2 Likes |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Yusufisraelj(m): 1:41pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Nazgul:
You e reached out to him, if he wants you, he'll come around. For the fact that he hardly reciprocates the efforts you've been making towards reaching out to him means he's clearly not into you
Just let him be and move on with your life. Sometimes we find it so difficult to win the heart of hose we actually want to be with, that's life for you.
Give others a chance and I can assure you that you'll still experience happiness. Another good one, relationship is a two way thing, when yiy give your love freely watch what you get in return. Just move on my dear. And I think you are too fixated on him, and people with anger issues like that may end up being violent and you sucking it up. MOVE ON What you have is a crush not love. I think 1 Like |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by extol1(m): 1:44pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
you don't have a problem if this is what you are thinking of. I just hope gang of men are useless won't come and derail the thread.
for me, move on with your life, there are big task ahead of you 2 Likes |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by coming2america: 1:47pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Na small pikin dey worry u. You are only 20yrs old. You go learn 8 Likes |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by JOACHINpedro: 1:50pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
SarutobiEky:
it's obvious he's not really into you like you thought at first. You ladies have to learn to let go. If you don't get over him now and he breaks your heart, y'all will come on here and start a screaming blue murder. "All guys are the same" please let him go. Someone who adores you would come your way. God bless you, love.
Finally made FTC. Nice. Drop the vodka bro. It has started manifesting  Op: Your case pass me but I'm more concerned about your potential marriage cheating instinct. Ok, Let me try and discourage you. The guy has anger issues- that should be a turn off for you dear. He may hurt you badly. Your happiness and inner peace should be your priority. Good guys still gather dy, sha I for volunteer myself but I'm yet to find myself. Wish you luck dear 1 Like |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Nobody: 1:51pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Madam... So you registered on here today to spit this sh*t
Where are we heading to in this world 8 Likes |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by fati2001(m): 1:59pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Anitalembo:
It's been 4years since I left secondary school and I find it difficult to find love after dating this particular guy(Xxxx) in SS3 like it's hell tormenting. I can't just stop thinking about this guy we hardly talk, he's not much if a talker, he's highly reserved, very quiet but I can't keep him off my head. After school I had to moved into university placed on a foundation by my dad at Bridgehouse college after that I was to study Law in the Uk everything worked fine but as for him he travelled out after his exams to the Uk resides in Sheffield. I would be rounding up my law school soon but he's pictures just keep reflecting in my head like a Fog like I freaking still love this guy like hell jeez. I'm not understanding myself, around 2019 March I have had many failed relationship Soo far after school I reached out to his junior brother who was my school son desperately to get his contact, I had to look for all means cause (Xxxx) not a social media person he's highly an introvert.
I reached out I got his number finally but to respond to texts he takes alot of time I keep calling, bugging, disturbing, everything possible just for him to come online. We text and everytime I feel crazily happy anytime he calls like my Euphoria levels are freaking high, I do sleep well, good dreams, I pray for him always I still love this guy deeply. He's tall about 6ft2, he's fair complexion vas, cute, intelligent, he's a first class graduate but the qualm is my mum doesn't like him cause he's *IGBO* When I say he's a spec's *One*
I'm from a yoruba background like family and stuffs but even my sisters dig the guy. His parents are weathly very notable people in Nigeria but very reserved especially he's dad. My dad works in an oil company but not really bothered about that.
They were time he's won't respond to my text for weeks I got worried I had to see my therapist. He's a Virgo and researched alot of things even bought out some books tho to understand his personality. I'm doing my best to graduate with a first class and I'm on it totally. He's mostly at meetings. The major problem is that most guys I dated after him just want to sleep with me like that's all and I cannot do it. He's just freaking different during our dating stuffs with him *We didn't have sex* but every other shitty stuffs we did there were times I even wanted to gift him *Sex* to him cause i loved him crazily up till now. Some of my girlfriends spoke to me maybe he's stuffs is small and whatever, it isn't for God sake like a hell freaking 7.3 inch dick like he's freaking *Perfect*
The bad side of him is that he has *anger issues* like deep ones from birth stuffs and he like being quiet in which my mum has warned me about dearestly but I still love him.
About two days I went to pay him a visit in amsterdam we met up and shit went down. We got in the room and stuffs I stripped down and he stared at me, told me to wear up my clothes. Like he's level of discipline is scary like I'm depressed tbh
We broke up due to the fact he's was traveling out now he's has gone back to hardly replying my texts and calls. I still love and I want him desperately please help. We spoke he told me to move on but it's been hard. I have been having dreams of me getting married and still leaving my hubby to just be with him. Please help
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| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by SarutobiEky(m): 2:04pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
JOACHINpedro:
Drop the vodka bro. It has started manifesting
Op: Your case pass me but I'm more concerned about your potential marriage cheating instinct.
Ok, Let me try and discourage you.
The guy has anger issues- that should be a turn off for you dear. He may hurt you badly. Your happiness and inner peace should be your priority.
Good guys still gather dy, sha I for volunteer myself but I'm yet to find myself.
Wish you luck dear Nice Yoruba lady at that. Just seeing her gushing over some guy who doesn't value her is a pain. She'll be okay. Time heals all. BTW I don't do drinks, or puff either. |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by JOACHINpedro: 2:10pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
SarutobiEky:
Nice Yoruba lady at that. Just seeing her gushing over some guy who doesn't value her is a pain. Na e be things ni PS- I'm the one drunk  But I pledge to be alright when I find myself 
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| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by SarutobiEky(m): 2:13pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
JOACHINpedro:
Na e be things ni
PS- I'm the one drunk
But I pledge to be alright when I find myself I talk am. For a moment I come dey shake myself. Pinching my self, shaking my phone.. Scrolling upandan looking for FTC.. I come dey wonder. Abi have I been high spiritually? You better Goan rest so the effects wear off. 2 Likes |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Slynation(m): 2:14pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Anitalembo:
It's been 4years since I left secondary school and I find it difficult to find love after dating this particular guy(Xxxx) in SS3 like it's hell tormenting. I can't just stop thinking about this guy we hardly talk, he's not much if a talker, he's highly reserved, very quiet but I can't keep him off my head. After school I had to moved into university placed on a foundation by my dad at Bridgehouse college after that I was to study Law in the Uk everything worked fine but as for him he travelled out after his exams to the Uk resides in Sheffield. I would be rounding up my law school soon but he's pictures just keep reflecting in my head like a Fog like I freaking still love this guy like hell jeez. I'm not understanding myself, around 2019 March I have had many failed relationship Soo far after school I reached out to his junior brother who was my school son desperately to get his contact, I had to look for all means cause (Xxxx) not a social media person he's highly an introvert.
I reached out I got his number finally but to respond to texts he takes alot of time I keep calling, bugging, disturbing, everything possible just for him to come online. We text and everytime I feel crazily happy anytime he calls like my Euphoria levels are freaking high, I do sleep well, good dreams, I pray for him always I still love this guy deeply. He's tall about 6ft2, he's fair complexion vas, cute, intelligent, he's a first class graduate but the qualm is my mum doesn't like him cause he's *IGBO* When I say he's a spec's *One*
I'm from a yoruba background like family and stuffs but even my sisters dig the guy. His parents are weathly very notable people in Nigeria but very reserved especially he's dad. My dad works in an oil company but not really bothered about that.
They were time he's won't respond to my text for weeks I got worried I had to see my therapist. He's a Virgo and researched alot of things even bought out some books tho to understand his personality. I'm doing my best to graduate with a first class and I'm on it totally. He's mostly at meetings. The major problem is that most guys I dated after him just want to sleep with me like that's all and I cannot do it. He's just freaking different during our dating stuffs with him *We didn't have sex* but every other shitty stuffs we did there were times I even wanted to gift him *Sex* to him cause i loved him crazily up till now. Some of my girlfriends spoke to me maybe he's stuffs is small and whatever, it isn't for God sake like a hell freaking 7.3 inch dick like he's freaking *Perfect*
The bad side of him is that he has *anger issues* like deep ones from birth stuffs and he like being quiet in which my mum has warned me about dearestly but I still love him.
About two days I went to pay him a visit in amsterdam we met up and shit went down. We got in the room and stuffs I stripped down and he stared at me, told me to wear up my clothes. Like he's level of discipline is scary like I'm depressed tbh
We broke up due to the fact he's was traveling out now he's has gone back to hardly replying my texts and calls. I still love and I want him desperately please help. We spoke he told me to move on but it's been hard. I have been having dreams of me getting married and still leaving my hubby to just be with him. Please help
Do your underground check if he has any past relationship or even a girlfriend,if non, then he's a fuvking gay......!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Nobody: 2:22pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Anitalembo:
It's been 4years since I left secondary school and I find it difficult to find love after dating this particular guy(Xxxx) in SS3 like it's hell tormenting. I can't just stop thinking about this guy we hardly talk, he's not much if a talker, he's highly reserved, very quiet but I can't keep him off my head. After school I had to moved into university placed on a foundation by my dad at Bridgehouse college after that I was to study Law in the Uk everything worked fine but as for him he travelled out after his exams to the Uk resides in Sheffield. I would be rounding up my law school soon but he's pictures just keep reflecting in my head like a Fog like I freaking still love this guy like hell jeez. I'm not understanding myself, around 2019 March I have had many failed relationship Soo far after school I reached out to his junior brother who was my school son desperately to get his contact, I had to look for all means cause (Xxxx) not a social media person he's highly an introvert.
I reached out I got his number finally but to respond to texts he takes alot of time I keep calling, bugging, disturbing, everything possible just for him to come online. We text and everytime I feel crazily happy anytime he calls like my Euphoria levels are freaking high, I do sleep well, good dreams, I pray for him always I still love this guy deeply. He's tall about 6ft2, he's fair complexion vas, cute, intelligent, he's a first class graduate but the qualm is my mum doesn't like him cause he's *IGBO* When I say he's a spec's *One*
I'm from a yoruba background like family and stuffs but even my sisters dig the guy. His parents are weathly very notable people in Nigeria but very reserved especially he's dad. My dad works in an oil company but not really bothered about that.
They were time he's won't respond to my text for weeks I got worried I had to see my therapist. He's a Virgo and researched alot of things even bought out some books tho to understand his personality. I'm doing my best to graduate with a first class and I'm on it totally. He's mostly at meetings. The major problem is that most guys I dated after him just want to sleep with me like that's all and I cannot do it. He's just freaking different during our dating stuffs with him *We didn't have sex* but every other shitty stuffs we did there were times I even wanted to gift him *Sex* to him cause i loved him crazily up till now. Some of my girlfriends spoke to me maybe he's stuffs is small and whatever, it isn't for God sake like a hell freaking 7.3 inch dick like he's freaking *Perfect*
The bad side of him is that he has *anger issues* like deep ones from birth stuffs and he like being quiet in which my mum has warned me about dearestly but I still love him.
About two days I went to pay him a visit in amsterdam we met up and shit went down. We got in the room and stuffs I stripped down and he stared at me, told me to wear up my clothes. Like he's level of discipline is scary like I'm depressed tbh
We broke up due to the fact he's was traveling out now he's has gone back to hardly replying my texts and calls. I still love and I want him desperately please help. We spoke he told me to move on but it's been hard. I have been having dreams of me getting married and still leaving my hubby to just be with him. Please help
I don't expect you to actually go insane as a result of this. If he says you should move on,then you have to move on by focusing on other things. I think you will find someone else that you like,later. These things happen by chance. |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Nobody: 2:37pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Damn that guy is my role model.
i am really working hard to be disciplined. |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Anitalembo(f): 2:37pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Slynation:
Do your underground check if he has any past relationship or even a girlfriend,if non, then he's a fuvking gay......!! ________________________________________________ I do talk to his exes like some of them wanna get back like the guy is *Rare* I'm just realising that some people are not just replaceble jeeeez in life. He has anger issues as I said but doesn't show it at all it's a *Rare* it's like a moonlight stuffs. He has this kind of weird discipline like calming himself like if you see him jeez you wouldn't notice you would get attracted to him. I'm just 22 like mentally it's draining. |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Anitalembo(f): 2:42pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Nazgul:
You've reached out to him, if he wants you, he'll come around. For the fact that he hardly reciprocates the efforts you've been making towards reaching out to him means he's clearly not into you
Just let him be and move on with your life. Sometimes we find it so difficult to win the heart of those we actually want to be with, that's life for you.
Give others a chance and I can assure you that you'll still experience happiness. ________________________________________________ Like I have tried to date guys but not just working I dunno just mentally drained. I'm desperately trying to get over him and I'm still going back same with Miruna (his ex) he's a simple guy |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Nazgul: 2:51pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Anitalembo:
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Like I have tried to date guys but not just working I dunno just mentally drained. I'm desperately trying to get over him and I'm still going back same with Miruna (his ex) he's a simple guy You're still young, you'll get over it. Don't damage yourself over nothing. You deserve better. Focus on your schooling, and keep your options open, with time you'll get over him. |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by humilitypays(m): 3:02pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Anitalembo:
It's been 4years since I left secondary school and I find it difficult to find love after dating this particular guy(Xxxx) in SS3 like it's hell tormenting. I can't just stop thinking about this guy we hardly talk, he's not much if a talker, he's highly reserved, very quiet but I can't keep him off my head. After school I had to moved into university placed on a foundation by my dad at Bridgehouse college after that I was to study Law in the Uk everything worked fine but as for him he travelled out after his exams to the Uk resides in Sheffield. I would be rounding up my law school soon but he's pictures just keep reflecting in my head like a Fog like I freaking still love this guy like hell jeez. I'm not understanding myself, around 2019 March I have had many failed relationship Soo far after school I reached out to his junior brother who was my school son desperately to get his contact, I had to look for all means cause (Xxxx) not a social media person he's highly an introvert.
I reached out I got his number finally but to respond to texts he takes alot of time I keep calling, bugging, disturbing, everything possible just for him to come online. We text and everytime I feel crazily happy anytime he calls like my Euphoria levels are freaking high, I do sleep well, good dreams, I pray for him always I still love this guy deeply. He's tall about 6ft2, he's fair complexion vas, cute, intelligent, he's a first class graduate but the qualm is my mum doesn't like him cause he's *IGBO* When I say he's a spec's *One*
I'm from a yoruba background like family and stuffs but even my sisters dig the guy. His parents are weathly very notable people in Nigeria but very reserved especially he's dad. My dad works in an oil company but not really bothered about that.
They were time he's won't respond to my text for weeks I got worried I had to see my therapist. He's a Virgo and researched alot of things even bought out some books tho to understand his personality. I'm doing my best to graduate with a first class and I'm on it totally. He's mostly at meetings. The major problem is that most guys I dated after him just want to sleep with me like that's all and I cannot do it. He's just freaking different during our dating stuffs with him *We didn't have sex* but every other shitty stuffs we did there were times I even wanted to gift him *Sex* to him cause i loved him crazily up till now. Some of my girlfriends spoke to me maybe he's stuffs is small and whatever, it isn't for God sake like a hell freaking 7.3 inch dick like he's freaking *Perfect*
The bad side of him is that he has *anger issues* like deep ones from birth stuffs and he like being quiet in which my mum has warned me about dearestly but I still love him.
About two days I went to pay him a visit in amsterdam we met up and shit went down. We got in the room and stuffs I stripped down and he stared at me, told me to wear up my clothes. Like he's level of discipline is scary like I'm depressed tbh
We broke up due to the fact he's was traveling out now he's has gone back to hardly replying my texts and calls. I still love and I want him desperately please help. We spoke he told me to move on but it's been hard. I have been having dreams of me getting married and still leaving my hubby to just be with him. Please help
You are sounding just like a girl I grew up with who was so obsessed with me and funny enough, as we grew up, I was no longer attracted to her, my priorities and desire in a woman changed. To her and some childhood friends back then in school, she is beautiful but in my eyes she is just there (plane Jane) not attractive to me. She tried to lure me into sex back then and I rejected severally because she doesn't look attractive enough to me. She saw me as a very disciplined guy who doesn't like sex then, but she didn't know that even then I rejected having sex with her, I had sex with one hot chick like that, yes friends said that chick was below my standard economically but a man's dick doesn't know standard. Our eyes eat differently. My point is, get over the guy. He doesn't cherish you as much as you do. Free your heart to appreciate other guys before its too late, I don't know why its hard for most of you ladies to do. If a guy is attracted to you, he will come to you himself at least you have shown him enough signs that you so much desire him, so free him and be happy with your life. another thing is, when a guy comes from a rich family and he is well brought up and he is intelligent, forget it, he gets so tired of girls easily because he gets to meet too many freaking hot chicks who throw themselves at him for free making him develop dislike for girls. I suffered this which made me start dating late. My parents weren't rich but I was so fortunate that all girls loved me like kilode. Girls fought to be my friend. Girls bribed my cousins just to get close to me and this made me to dislike girls the more. Even in high school girls did all they can to get close to me but friends and male classmates stopped them and even used the opportunity to sleep with some, based on what some of the guys were telling me when we became men lol. Pls forget the guy, the harder you try the more he dislikes you. Trust me there are hundreds of girls like you including white girls pestering him with love and making him dislike girls the more. Let him be, if he wants you, he will come to you himself. Just make sure there is open means of communication like social media, etc to make it easy for him to reach you when he probably develops the passion for you, which I doubt would happen. There are far better guys than him, its your mind that's playing you. If I can remember clearly, let me use myself as example again for you to understand how our minds work as male. Of all the girls that were dying to get close to me, bribing my cousins, doing everything, it was only one girl that I secretly admired in my heart but I was too reserved and too shy to let her know. That girl liked me, she smiled at me seductively one day and gave me a kiss sign, but that was once and she blanked me completely from that day as I didn't respond. Do you know it was that girl that I kept thinking about for years I even secretly looked for a way to connect to her after we graduated from school but no way till today? So free that guy. The more you throw yourself at him cheap, the more he dislikes you, that's men for you 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by sunshineV(f): 3:11pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
i dig ur story and i understand where u are coming from. anyways, i'm single and a yoruba so maybe we can mingle? |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Chimaokigwe: 3:19pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
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| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by hstar: 3:22pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Sorry |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by bigjackass: 3:32pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Anitalembo:
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Like I have tried to date guys but not just working I dunno just mentally drained. I'm desperately trying to get over him and I'm still going back same with Miruna (his ex) he's a simple guy Telling you from experience that if you don't stop forcing yourself on this guy, he will begin to dislike you. You think he's frustrating you now. Wait till he embarrasses you in anger. Then you will get over him by force 2 Likes |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Nobody: 3:41pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Anitalembo:
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I do talk to his exes like some of them wanna get back like the guy is *Rare* I'm just realising that some people are not just replaceble jeeeez in life.
He has anger issues as I said but doesn't show it at all it's a *Rare* it's like a moonlight stuffs. He has this kind of weird discipline like calming himself like if you see him jeez you wouldn't notice you would get attracted to him. I'm just 22 like mentally it's draining. You think he is irreplaceable now. That could change, later. These things happen by chance. |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Nobody: 3:46pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
fati2001:
Kikikikikikikik Hahahahahahaha This story weak me. @op Hahahahahahaha Isn't it obvious the guy isn't into you? You even offered him puccy,kai bae  1 Like |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Slynation(m): 3:51pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Anitalembo:
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I do talk to his exes like some of them wanna get back like the guy is *Rare* I'm just realising that some people are not just replaceble jeeeez in life.
He has anger issues as I said but doesn't show it at all it's a *Rare* it's like a moonlight stuffs. He has this kind of weird discipline like calming himself like if you see him jeez you wouldn't notice you would get attracted to him. I'm just 22 like mentally it's draining. Lol....Then you should be telling him how you feel about him and not me, sometimes in life, their are things beyond our reach which we just have to let go.... I remember a particular girl "Jenny" who loves me just like this for over 7years now and still counting, secretly got my mum's line and became fond of her, but I just can't connect with her emotionally,no matter how hard I tried to give in, I resisted all urge to get down with her so as not to commit myself and put her into more emotional trauma which may likely lead to any unforseen circumstances.... Perhaps, your guy ain't ready for any commitment, or your mum might have embarrassed him in one way or the other since you said she disliked him, so you just have to focus on something that will likely distract your attention, your previous relationship might have failed with other guys because you're putting your present and past relationship in comparison forgetting everyone is unique in one way or the other.... |
| Re: Babes And Guys I Need Your Advice. I'm Dying by Timbers(m): 3:51pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Hahaha OP e dey pain you shebi
abeg no disturb the guy with your yeye love 
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