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J111333:
Brother, economy is bad.

Ishilove papa gave me marriage list of over 200k whereas I have marriage budget of 30k which is the minimum wage.

Pocohantas papa no gree mek I pay her brideprice installments so wetin son of man go do?

Ike gwuru.

Bro, I Want To Give U A Weird Advice. Do U Know What To Do? Get Her Pregnant, Her BridePrice Go Reduce To Ur Level Of Capacity. Na Dem Go Even Come In terms With U, No Be U Go Meet Dem.

Mrscarter:
Most western women don't expect men to take care of them. Most are bout equality in relationships tho

Do U Mean D Yorubas?

Truvel:
What Could Make Men To Be Scared Of Marriage Or To Propose Marriage? Is It because Of D Bad Economy Of D Country? I Know Many Things Could Be Involve In It. 4rm My Observation, Many Men Today Would Rada Av Gfs Dan To Marry. Yes. Even In U.S & U.K Dey Do Dsame. Most Of Dem Would Rada Av Gfs Dan To Marry. B4 U See Get Marry To Their Gfs, It's Rare. Guys What's Ur View Abt Dis? Honestly, I'm Scared Too Abt Dis Marriage Of A Thing.

In the 3rd world countries, it's mostly financial constraints while a small percentage are scared because of all the bad stories that sorround marital unions. An even smaller percentage have had bad experiences in their relationships so they need time to heal in order to be able to open up their hearts again.

In the foreign West, they are scared of commitment, QED. A friend told me he is afraid of bringing kids into this fvcked up world and he doesn't know if he can trust a woman enough to commit to her permanently.

The truth is that marriage is a risk. But so is crossing the road. So is a business investment. So is boarding a bus or a plane. So is breathing and eating. Life itself is filled with risks but does that mean we will not live it? People like us commit our lives into God's mighty hands and plunge headlong into the business of living. We won't hide from life. We will live and glory in it.

If marriage wasn't natural you won't have lifelong pairings between some species of animals, so instead of running from something even ordained by nature and God, do your due diligence and pray when picking a mate.

Ruudy:
Most women goes into marriage not because of love but because of financial survivor

SURVIVAL.

Truvel:
SURVIVAL.

Survivor, survival, understanding na the koko

Truvel:
Bro, I Want To Give U A Weird Advice. Do U Know What To Do? Get Her Pregnant, Her BridePrice Go Reduce To Ur Level Of Capacity. Na Dem Go Even Come In terms With U, No Be U Go Meet Dem.

That is a bad advice. What you should advice him is double his hustle so he can afford our bride price, not get us pregnant first. Do you know that in some cultures if you get a woman pregnant without paying her bride price they will take you to the village square and stone you with water melons and tomatoes?

Truvel:
Do U Mean D Yorubas?

He means the foreign West

Ishilove:
That is a bad advice. What you should advice him is double his hustle so he can afford our bride price, not get us pregnant first. Do you know that in some cultures if you get a woman pregnant without paying her bride price they will take you to the village square and stone you with water melons and tomatoes?

Na Where U Want Make Him Double Him Huzzle Reach? Someone Who Earns 30k? Haba! 4rm My Point Of View, My Bad Advice Is Good. Baby Food Is There, Hospital Bills Are There, Feeding Is There, House Rent Is Also There Etc. By D Way, If Na Stone Dem Won Stone Me, I Go Leave Their Daughter 4 Dem.

Truvel:
SURVIVAL.

tanks

Nazgul:
Hypocritical feminists don't copy the part where the woman who obviously is financially independent adds her own financial support to the family. They only focus on the equality part, and remind him that he's and African man when it comes to her playing her own role.

they want to eat their cake and have it. Thats fraud not feminism

Truvel:
Na Where U Want Make Him Double Him Huzzle Reach? Someone Who Earns 30k? Haba! 4rm My Point Of View, My Bad Advice Is Good. Baby Food Is There, Hospital Bills Are There, Feeding Is There, House Rent Is Also There Etc. By D Way, If Na Stone Dem Won Stone Me, I Go Leave Their Daughter 4 Dem.

J111333 owns a fleet of keke (4 keke) and I hear you can make up to 10k daily on good days. Multiply that by 4 and you have an average of 30k daily, repairs and other logistics included. If it is not stinginess worrying him why can't he save up to at least 100k to start preparation?

Ishilove:
J111333 owns a fleet of keke (4 keke) and I hear you can make up to 10k daily on good days. Multiply that by 4 and you have an average of 30k daily, repairs and other logistics included. If it is not stinginess worrying him why can't he save up to at least 100k to start preparation?

Anyway, I Don't Know Abt Dat.

Ishilove:
J111333 owns a fleet of keke (4 keke) and I hear you can make up to 10k daily on good days. Multiply that by 4 and you have an average of 30k daily, repairs and other logistics included. If it is not stinginess worrying him why can't he save up to at least 100k to start preparation?

See as you sidon calculate how much I dey make for my keke. Have you considered how much agberos dey collect from us in the park? What about police check points?
If your papa no gree reduce the marriage list to 30k which is the official minimum wage, na free mass wedding we go wait for be that. I try sef. Brideprice in my village na five naira, I just wan marry from far place, e get why.

:Doesn't it take U forever to type this putting a capital in every word lol? I Like It Dat Way. Na My Style.

fadekemi7475:
:Doesn't it take U forever to type this putting a capital in every word lol? I Like It Dat Way. Na My Style.

Maybe. It's My Style Of Writing.

J111333:
See as you sidon calculate how much I dey make for my keke. Have you considered how much agberos dey collect from us in the park? What about police check points?
If your papa no gree reduce the marriage list to 30k which is the official minimum wage, na free mass wedding we go wait for be that. I try sef. Brideprice in my village na five naira, I just wan marry from far place, e get why.

We shall calculate the bolded so that people will judge the matter

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Owo booking- 200
Owo load- 100
Owo aro- 100
Owo osan- 100
Owo ale- 100
Police - -+ 200
Owo wahala-1,000
Fuel- 1,500/1,700

Total- 3,400/3,600

Multiplied by 4=

Use the higher value- 3,600 x 4= 14,400

Average profit- 40,000- 14,400

Total: -+25,600 daily.

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J111333, stop being stingy. Na your type go dey measure yam with taperule every morning so that I will not mess with it. Nna gerrarahere mehn

Truvel:
I Like It Dat Way. Na My Style.

Am not complaining just enquiring if it takes ages to type that way

Lightangel65:
Shut up how many guys have you shared the bills equally with stop blaming feminist when it suits you broke farmtool

Hahaha really
For Ur information I have my own money.
But I was talking bout western women.
So U sharap werey

I'm guessing this is a rhetorical question or can't you see the economic situation of the country.

Nazgul:
Hypocritical feminists don't copy the part where the woman who obviously is financially independent adds her own financial support to the family. They only focus on the equality part, and remind him that he's and African man when it comes to her playing her own role.

Maybe but not all women are femenists.

Truvel:
Do U Mean D Yorubas?

Umm I mean any man with or without a tribe

Mrscarter:


Am not complaining just enquiring if it takes ages to type that way

No, It's Just To Make Me Type Fast Or Faster. My Phone Is An Itel Button Phone & My Browser Is Operamini, If I Don't Type Fast Or Maintain D Time Limit Of My Browser Too. If Don't Do So Quickly, D Connection Time Of D Operamini Would Run Out.

Mrscarter:
Hahaha really
For Ur information I have my own money.
But I was talking bout western women.
So U sharap werey

That won't change the fact you are a useless sex tool

Nazgul:
Loyalty ...sex is so cheap these day that even a married woman can easily give you a quickie. To have a faithful girl now is like using a spoon to fetch water in a bucket. Most beautiful girls have an unlimited number of toasters, and with time, she might just give in to one and begin to cheat on you...this scares most men a lot.

Finance... this also plays a very big role. A friend of mine wedded on the 19th of this month. I was among his committee of friends, I wouldn't want to exaggerate but on the average he spent over 3m. White and traditional.

Most men can't afford such luxury due to the present state of the economy.

Westernization. take it or leave it, Western Civilization has negatively influenced marriages in Nigeria. Hypocritical feminists are on the increase. Many women feel it's the sole responsibility of the man to provide for them while they do little or nothing to support his efforts.

Most men opt for baby mamas cos it's obvious that such orientation about marriages from the angle of the lady wouldn't be beneficial to them.

Materialism. Many relationships crumble due to this. And the few that survive till marriage crumble after few years of marriage. Marriage I believe should be more of sacrifice not about one party. When it becomes all about you and your needs, the guy becomes scared to commit. I once met a girl who told me that her ex gives her 150k monthly for her upkeep, and she went on to tell me that if I want her to consider my proposal I should add or double it. I was like wtf.

The problem wasn't even about the money but what's in it for me. Many girls are so blinded by their needs that they care less about what the provider of those needs stands to gain from them aside sex.

Let me stop here for now...

All ur sermons narrow down to one factor! Monetary factor...

Cheating has been of ages

Thou increases lately but not significant factor.

Ur friend that spent 3 million has money to waste

People do get married without do ordinary introduction

Financial problem, the fear of marrying a wrong woman, the fear of commitment. The list is endless. Check out my YouTube channel for more tips

Nazgul:
Loyalty ...sex is so cheap these day that even a married woman can easily give you a quickie. To have a faithful girl now is like using a spoon to fetch water in a bucket. Most beautiful girls have an unlimited number of toasters, and with time, she might just give in to one and begin to cheat on you...this scares most men a lot.

Finance... this also plays a very big role. A friend of mine wedded on the 19th of this month. I was among his committee of friends, I wouldn't want to exaggerate but on the average he spent over 3m. White and traditional.

Most men can't afford such luxury due to the present state of the economy.

Westernization. take it or leave it, Western Civilization has negatively influenced marriages in Nigeria. Hypocritical feminists are on the increase. Many women feel it's the sole responsibility of the man to provide for them while they do little or nothing to support his efforts.

Most men opt for baby mamas cos it's obvious that such orientation about marriages from the angle of the lady wouldn't be beneficial to them.

Materialism. Many relationships crumble due to this. And the few that survive till marriage crumble after few years of marriage. Marriage I believe should be more of sacrifice not about one party. When it becomes all about you and your needs, the guy becomes scared to commit. I once met a girl who told me that her ex gives her 150k monthly for her upkeep, and she went on to tell me that if I want her to consider my proposal I should add or double it. I was like wtf.

The problem wasn't even about the money but what's in it for me. Many girls are so blinded by their needs that they care less about what the provider of those needs stands to gain from them aside sex.

Let me stop here for now...

You've said it all man.. Thumbs up

Mrscarter:
Doesn't it take U forever to type this putting a capital in every word lol?

Let's not talk about the battle between the guy and his autocorrect.

bigpicture001:
My own na money ooo

Anyone dare me with investment challenge... Give me 500k. We sign all signable. Will employ minimum 12 person by DEC. 2021. Decently paid. And return the 500k with interest. And also get married in a comfortable way.. Just 500k...

Any one up for the challenge. ?

See dts y we are not married..eco problem

Email me.

fati2001:

MAY GOD SEE US THROUGH IN JESUS NAME (AMEN )

I thought you were a Muslim

Daprinxy:
Email me.

I have done that bro.

J111333:
Brother, economy is bad.

Ishilove papa gave me marriage list of over 200k whereas I have marriage budget of 30k which is the minimum wage.

Pocohantas papa no gree mek I pay her brideprice installments so wetin son of man go do?

Ike gwuru.

Giv them belle

bigpicture001:
Giv them belle

So belle is the solution?