lydianessa:
What's the point of having 500k made through the wrong means just to have a man..
Funny enough, Rich independent ladies suffer most in relationships..they meet the wrong guys..
Today's men prefer broke girls that will beg them for money just to massage their egos..
This life is definitely not balanced.. wahala for who comes to social media for advice..

Poorboy:
little amount means nothing in marriage.


There must be a benchmark depending on individuals lifestyle.

Poverty is too much in Nigeria and the cause is getting married with no good income and having children you hardly have money to feed.

Nigeria youths need to wise up both men and women

Don't suffer till you die it's not worth it.

Have a decent pay or hustle before marriage

Any man earning #80,000 monthly can marry a woman earning at least #50,000 monthly

Not marrying and saying my wife is working husband 30k, wife 15k that's hard life.

Suffer suppose tire Nigerians.

CHoccolaTE:

Facts, @bold.

Men in general don't want an independent woman, they claim they do but when they get one they start resenting her and look for ways to humble her or use her for her money, the relationship is hardly ever healthy,
Just imagine a relationship where the lady never ever asks her man for anything because she is independent and doesn't need him. He will start complaining that the lady is too proud or arrogant/not submissive.

Confused people

SweetCunt97:
So should go to a man too. Make una dey deceive una self there. If u dating me for my money, u won't see shishi

golddare:


Unfortunately for them that is not the criteria that considerate men are looking for. The lady with 5k or nothing deserves a man too. Nonsense.

craves:


So you are saying a man earning 30k and a woman earning 15k should never get married? So if it takes them 20 yrs for their income to improve, they should wait till that 20 yrs before getting married?

You may be privileged, but don't use it as a yard stick to generalise

If I may ask. What if a man earns 100k and gets married, eventually down the line he loses the job and settles for a 30k job. Should he leave the marriage just because his income has dropped

Beckysexy:
I disagree!
If that's the case I'm pretty sure her mother will probably remain single till date!
Just because you have the opportunity to be rich doesn't give you the right to criticize or condemn others for not having. There are a lot of hardworking ladies that don't even have up to 500k, but they still pay their bills.
Nonsense and Ingredients.

craves:


You can't just conclude on that amount. I think the narrative should be " ladies without legitimate source of income ". This is because there are hard working ladies who don't make up to 50k a month. But they pay their bills with the little amount they make

LutanFyah:
He is very correct, check the Vanguard newspaper of 2nd June 2016.


Just Google it.

pocohantas:
Sadly reality is different;
You don’t always get what you deserve. You don’t always deserve what you get.

MummyD2020:


Jesus! Where do u guys get these stats from? U mean just 2%of 200 million people have above 500k? Men that's pathetic. Things may be hard but it's not that bad biko... . . Sorry u ain't well informed, shikena

Babara1994:

No broke lady deserves to have her clit sucked.

craves:


You can't just conclude on that amount. I think the narrative should be " ladies without legitimate source of income ". This is because there are hard working ladies who don't make up to 50k a month. But they pay their bills with the little amount they make

Babara1994:

No broke lady deserves to have her clit sucked.

Jack005:
A woman must not necessarily have up to 500k to date but at least she should be able to afford her data,her transport, her make up kits, her hair and some other stuff because I once dated a girl that cannot recharge common 100 box to call me, the highest she does is to flash.. I will never make such mistake again. Broke Girls disgust me.

Mitsurugi:
The biggest scam in Nigeria is feminism. Because like all principles Nigeria has its own version. It's only in Nigeria that a feminist leeches on men and believes being a feminist gives her the right to call him broke ass when he can't deliver. These are ladies whose fathers struggle to the grave yet demand standards even they cannot uphold. The way I dodged ladies without work or cash eh... you'd think they had ebola. Nonsense!

Tab4kids:
Instead make I marry man wey I no love, make I no marry at all. Nobody deserves to be emotionally tortured, not fair.

Guys too, if you see say the woman no love you reach as you love her, please let her be. You will love again.

It's just like that idiiot boy that calls himself ozo from bbn, forcing himself on someone who obviously don't like him. If she eventually pities him and probably gets married to him, later on have extramarital affairs, na him go first commit suicide.
Silly boy

CHoccolaTE:
Nobody says men must know how to cook and clean before marriage
Nobody says they must be excellent child carers before marriage

It's always different laws to make women's lives miserable.

Men are truly a scourge and a plague on earth

Beckysexy:
I disagree!
If that's the case I'm pretty sure her mother will probably remain single till date!
Just because you have the opportunity to be rich doesn't give you the right to criticize or condemn others for not having. There are a lot of hardworking ladies that don't even have up to 500k, but they still pay their bills.
Nonsense and Ingredients.

thebosstrevor1:
The man should have more than her before he can marry her.

If she has 500k, she wont want a guy that has 200k in his bank account, in anyway, poor men still lose.

500k woman for 1M man
50k woman for 100k man
5k woman for 10k man.

Know your levels

jababillions:
There is always peace of mind when you have your own money as a lady. Men will respect you more.

My immediate family (parent and siblings) bills wan joke me already not to talk of adding another random broke vagina person and her family as a liability

Men should stop dating broke women because they wouldn't date you if reverse was the case.

Beckysexy:
I disagree!
If that's the case I'm pretty sure her mother will probably remain single till date!
Just because you have the opportunity to be rich doesn't give you the right to criticize or condemn others for not having. There are a lot of hardworking ladies that don't even have up to 500k, but they still pay their bills.
Nonsense and Ingredients.

Rushna27:
Yah, it's gud to be responsible and don't a parasite but stating amount to have is nonsense to me. fyn, we have ladies who depend solely on d menfolk to survive but definitely not all.. we have dose dat are working but can't boast of having dat amount but believe me dey pay dia bills..... bin fortunate to have such amount doesn't make oda hustling women a useless bin.... u dat ave such, aw happy are u and aw free are u..... just shut d Bleep of dat gutter opinion of urs and enjoy ur money without rubbishing odas..... Ire oooooooo

zeusdgrt:

E pain am ,so u nor get common 500k for account later u go dey run mouth for nairaland and dey expect guy to buy bone straight of 450k

Realtord43:
But some see relationship as a money begging entity

you will hear those shameless broke bitch leech say i cant date a guy who does not have money while they do not have a single kobo or investment, the all wait for rich maga who wil foot their lavish lifestyle.

Their mentality is to alway ask and ask without giving any thing even though it sensible ideas the do lack.

Their entitlement believe is way much and it bad for them. I hope the learn for their good.