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Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by handsomeyitayo(op): 8:12pm On Jan 05, 2021
Please invest , don't be carried away by their feminine charming beauty,love .they ain't loyal.. if you spend much trying to impress them, that doesn't mean they won't Bleep another dick..let them call you broke ass, ignore it..one told me am not romantic and I ask her why..she said I supposed to be caring for her , spending money on her, buying clothes,wigs..blablablaaa...that the only way she will love me or else I will loose her to another man..
Me as a smart guy ..I pretended as if I fall for it..but come to think of it ,shey dey don't want to work ni..just sit there I will be spending for you..me I have received a lots of insults from them .. Because am not a maga.. same girl dat insulted me years ago still call me to tell me to eat is difficult..
They will not want to struggle, parasiting people's relationships, looking for rich guys..
One is also suffering now because she force her self to date a rich guy now she is been dumped because the guy met a new lady beautiful than her..she was speechless , the guy even beat her and drive her away.
Many skills are their to learn..what they know slaying around , living fake life ,..
If you advice them,tell them the truth..they will hate you..
I went to shoprite, I spotted some of them looking for hookups..why are you pretending to be who you are not.. snapping pictures in expensive places.. you that think you are looking for a husband, even he will not respect you because he will be categorizing as a materialistic lady,not serious with relationship...I know of a guy who is rich that went to a village to marry a lady she saw and her family is wretched..he said he was tired of city girls, that they are after his wealth..in that village he has to play a role of poor guy and the girl fell in love with him...this is true Life .. when they discovered that he is rich..they didn't believe until he has to proof it..he took the lady out of the country to go and settle in USA..they are happily married..
Most of this slay girls ended up marrying wrong guy ...
Please I don't mind my write up.. J's follow the story line..
Any comments , contribution additions ..
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by DonBenny77(m): 8:28pm On Jan 05, 2021
Way to go
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by virginprincess(f): 8:29pm On Jan 05, 2021
Mtcheeeeeeeeew, from your headline i knew you had nothing sensible to say undecided.
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Bigredmachine: 8:32pm On Jan 05, 2021
You have made a sensible post up there, but the plain truth is that a man will always spend money on this one particular lady that matters to him... he may not have to spend on random ladies, but there is always one he will spend on... whether that particular one is worth spending on or not is left for him to decide... at times its not stupidity or foolishness that we men spend money on girls but its just the way it is... and there is nothing anyone can do about... its a trend we came in to this world to meet... i hope i have made a sensible post as well shocked shocked
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by handsomeyitayo(op): 8:55pm On Jan 05, 2021
virginprincess:
Mtcheeeeeeeeew, from your headline i knew you had nothing sensible to say undecided.
ok thank you sister..what else do you want to say? Continue insulting ..ode oponu buruku..gambari
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by handsomeyitayo(op): 8:56pm On Jan 05, 2021
Bigredmachine:
You have made a sensible post up there, but the plain truth is that a man will always spend money on this one particular lady that matters to him... he may not have to spend on random ladies, but there is always one he will spend on... whether that particular one is worth spending on or not is left for him to decide... at times its not stupidity or foolishness that we men spend money on girls but its just the way it is... and there is nothing anyone can do about... its a trend we came in to this world to meet... i hope i have made a sensible post as well shocked shocked
thanks .I appreciate .. good one from you..
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Molahnelson(m): 9:34pm On Jan 05, 2021
Thumbs up to you

But you see an average Nigerian girl, especially those from the SW, SE, SS, this girls heart is waxed gross, and their ears are dull of hearing.

If you like write a compendium they will not listen, the whoring live has been ingrained in their DNA, they have been preprogram to see their vagina as asset

Have you ever seen or notice a girl from the northern part of the country before saying i can't marry a poor man or I'm looking for a rich man to marry? i guess you haven't
Why is it always those in the southern make such statement? because of what I said above

But the irony and the harsh reality is that after much whoring looking for the rich man to leech on in their twenties , an after much getting dump by the so call Rich man the are leeching on, they will eventually end up with an impoverish man or start visiting churches for solutions in their late thirties

My heart goes out to them, whenever I see them wasting away their life, while they should be getting themselves engaging skillfully, they will be busy around looking for rich guys and sugar daddy to sleep with,
Sugar daddy that is stealing away their star while giving them small change, and they will be so Daft enough to know that this man is not only after pleasure but they have ulterior motive.

There is this story I heard about a young lady a man promise to pay her 80k after the sex roam she agreed, a few moment after they have enter the room the man change his mind not to sex her, why? according to the story, he said what he wanted to take from her another person as always taken it, inother word she is empty.

Now this is the same kind of girl a young man will see, and fell in love and eventually marry her, then he will start having from one problem to the other in his house, not knowing that the woman in he's house is the cause of the problem, that he as married an empty vessel.

Brothers when you are ready to marry, make sure you become prayerful or if you don't know how to pray go and hire those that can do for you.
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Nobody: 9:37pm On Jan 05, 2021
virginprincess:
Mtcheeeeeeeeew, from your headline i knew you had nothing sensible to say undecided.
Wanna give your reasons?
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by virginprincess(f): 9:47pm On Jan 05, 2021
JustMichael:
Wanna give your reasons?
What kind of reasons undecided.
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jan 05, 2021
virginprincess:
What kind of reasons undecided.
Why you feel his post is senseless...
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Bigredmachine: 9:54pm On Jan 05, 2021
virginprincess:
Mtcheeeeeeeeew, from your headline i knew you had nothing sensible to say undecided.
Everyman is entitled to his own opinion, being that as it may be, he has voiced out his own opinion and there are one or two things to grab from it, speaking from experience... I don't think I would spend my money on any lady I have no intention of getting married to, as a girl if u come close to me and I don't like u, instantly I give u that red light that am a wrong call to u, if u like call me stingy and all sorts of name... Las las we all have one life to live... So no need to hate...
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by virginprincess(f): 9:59pm On Jan 05, 2021
JustMichael:
Why you feel his post is senseless...
Why must he generalise?, he should drop this mentality of every girl is like his gf or sisters.
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by virginprincess(f): 10:03pm On Jan 05, 2021
Bigredmachine:
Everyman is entitled to his own opinion, being that as it may be, he has voiced out his own opinion and there are one or two things to grab from it, speaking from experience... I don't think I would spend my money on any lady I have no intention of getting married to, as a girl if u come close to me and I don't like u, instantly I give u that red light that am a wrong call to u, if u like call me stingy and all sorts of name... Las las we all have one life to live... So no need to hate...
I'm not suprised, men will always be men.
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Ogbotobo77(m): 10:07pm On Jan 05, 2021
I don't mind spending on a lady sofar our relationship is SYMBIOTIC and not PARASITIC
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jan 05, 2021
virginprincess:
Why must he generalise?, he should drop this mentality of every girl is like his gf or sisters.
Hmm, I guess you're right. Thanks for your time. You hear op? Stop generalising. Not all our ladies are bad. Learn to use the word "some".

#Peace
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Bigredmachine: 10:11pm On Jan 05, 2021
virginprincess:
I'm not suprised, men will always be men.
Women will also be women grin grin
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Bigredmachine: 10:20pm On Jan 05, 2021
Almost all of us came into this world to meet a working plan of how a man must be the one to spend on women, and also that notion that women are weaker vessel have not helped as well... It's just natural that men must spend on women... But we gat to be wise so as not to spend foolishly on a girl we won't marry at the end... Sadly many guys who end up realizing how foolish it's to spend on women u know u won't marry have experienced hell either see the girl get married to another bigger guy or still finding it difficult to achieve a stable financial job
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Freelane33(m): 10:21pm On Jan 05, 2021
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Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Mandrake007(m): 10:21pm On Jan 05, 2021
One thing I learned in life is women need men more than we need them,they’re dying stars as soon as they hit their sexual peak,it’s really important for men to learn about gender dynamics,because if a lot of men did,the world would be a better place Cos we’d all be able to see through women’s bullshit and fakness,a woman will never be the focal point of your life,you wouldn’t need to spend on her to seek her validation or win her over,it’s just a shame so many men are not aware and it breaks my heart,true emotions cannot be negotiated and the female hypergamy is insatiable,whatever you do for her only matters NOW in the present if someone who can provide more comes along she will ditch you in a heartbeat,women no get levels.
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by handsomeyitayo(op): 11:58pm On Jan 05, 2021
Molahnelson:
Thumbs up to you

But you see an average Nigerian girl, especially those from the SW, SE, SS, this girls heart is waxed gross, and their ears are dull of hearing.

If you like write a compendium they will not listen, the whoring live has been ingrained in their DNA, they have been preprogram to see their vagina as asset
Good one brother. I love wat you wrote

Have you ever seen or notice a girl from the northern part of the country before saying i can't marry a poor man or I'm looking for a rich man to marry? i guess you haven't
Why is it always those in the southern make such statement? because of what I said above

But the irony and the harsh reality is that after much whoring looking for the rich man to leech on in their twenties , an after much getting dump by the so call Rich man the are leeching on, they will eventually end up with an impoverish man or start visiting churches for solutions in their late thirties

My heart goes out to them, whenever I see them wasting away their life, while they should be getting themselves engaging skillfully, they will be busy around looking for rich guys and sugar daddy to sleep with,
Sugar daddy that is stealing away their star while giving them small change, and they will be so Daft enough to know that this man is not only after pleasure but they have ulterior motive.

There is this story I heard about a young lady a man promise to pay her 80k after the sex roam she agreed, a few moment after they have enter the room the man change his mind not to sex her, why? according to the story, he said what he wanted to take from her another person as always taken it, inother word she is empty.

Now this is the same kind of girl a young man will see, and fell in love and eventually marry her, then he will start having from one problem to the other in his house, not knowing that the woman in he's house is the cause of the problem, that he as married an empty vessel.

Brothers when you are ready to marry, make sure you become prayerful or if you don't know how to pray go and hire those that can do for you.
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by millionboi2: 12:06am On Jan 06, 2021
Bigredmachine:
You have made a sensible post up there, but the plain truth is that a man will always spend money on this one particular lady that matters to him... he may not have to spend on random ladies, but there is always one he will spend on... whether that particular one is worth spending on or not is left for him to decide... at times its not stupidity or foolishness that we men spend money on girls but its just the way it is... and there is nothing anyone can do about... its a trend we came in to this world to meet... i hope i have made a sensible post as well shocked shocked
use d money marry her.....datz d point


Don't allow any hoe convert u to his kpomo
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Bodyodour: 7:00am On Jan 06, 2021
Oga, just say you don't have the money to spend, don't blame everything on your girlfriend
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by ChangedMan1999(m): 7:16am On Jan 06, 2021
Bodyodour:
Oga, just say you don't have the money to spend, don't blame everything on your girlfriend
Shut up.

Don't you know that the more you spend money on them leeches, the more they believe it is awkward for another man not to spend on them.
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Bigredmachine: 8:12am On Jan 06, 2021
millionboi2:
use d money marry her.....datz d point


Don't allow any hoe convert u to his kpomo
Before marriage u still have to spend money on her in one way or the other... The volume of the money u are going to spend during the court ship is down to individual capability... The most important thing is that spend wisely on top of who is worth it... Shikena
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by jericco1(m): 8:15am On Jan 06, 2021
Though I did spend on her but she became stupid so I dumped her.

Learn to put ladies at a respectable distance.
With this, she will keep on wondering what your next steps will be.

Don't promise them relationship, marriage etc.
Just be casual cool
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by millionboi2: 8:37am On Jan 06, 2021
Bigredmachine:
Before marriage u still have to spend money on her in one way or the other... The volume of the money u are going to spend during the court ship is down to individual capability... The most important thing is that spend wisely on top of who is worth it... Shikena
I'm not in for any hoe

Simple.

We enjoy d company and sex together,I can only give u out of my will not to compete or feed my pride

NONSENSE
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by Bigredmachine: 8:48am On Jan 06, 2021
it should be i will give her out of my will and not i can only... undecided undecided

millionboi2:
I'm not in for any hoe

Simple.

I can only give u out of my will not to compete or feed my pride

NONSENSE
Because if even you refuse to give her, the Nigerian girls i know will ask u for it, if even its transport... which ever way however little... you have still spent money on a lady cool cool
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by mosdii(m): 9:01am On Jan 06, 2021
You need a mortuary standard beer for this advice.
Nigerian Girls Are Nitwits...All Of Them
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by handsomeyitayo(op): 9:19am On Jan 06, 2021
Bodyodour:
Oga, just say you don't have the money to spend, don't blame everything on your girlfriend
you are not serious, I know people like you like spending money on girls you will think she loves you for that continue till you will be called maga...
I have money to do better things, than spending on those ladies..
My friend also did that on her girl and a guy from a was fucking her correctly..my friend thought he is doing good guy..whearas the girl will be calling him maga.telling her friends ..guy wise up.. it is only your wife that loves you to the core .. you can spend your money for ok..
I have done that in the past ..so I know what my eyes see...
It is because you ain't see anything ,they are still hiding...
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by handsomeyitayo(op): 9:29am On Jan 06, 2021
jericco1:
Though I did spend on her but she became stupid so I dumped her.

Learn to put ladies at a respectable distance.
With this, she will keep on wondering what your next steps will be.

Don't promise them relationship, marriage etc.
Just be casual cool
God bless you my brother..
Good one from you
I love the way you talk ham.
But some guys will saying they don't want to loose her for another man..
They will be promise heaven and paradise, spending lavishly...
One of younger brother ended up loosing his girlfriend to a guy ..it is same girl in question that he do give her his ATM card to withdraw anything she wants..he spend for her like .. even her elder brother fought him,he insists and said he wants to marry the girl..
He came back to cry telling us the girl girl has dumped him...
So what my eyes have seen on ladies...
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by JOACHINpedro:
Molahnelson:
Thumbs up to you

But you see an average Nigerian girl, especially those from the SW, SE, SS, this girls heart is waxed gross, and their ears are dull of hearing.

If you like write a compendium they will not listen, the whoring live has been ingrained in their DNA, they have been preprogram to see their vagina as asset

Have you ever seen or notice a girl from the northern part of the country before saying i can't marry a poor man or I'm looking for a rich man to marry? i guess you haven't
Why is it always those in the southern make such statement? because of what I said above

But the irony and the harsh reality is that after much whoring looking for the rich man to leech on in their twenties , an after much getting dump by the so call Rich man the are leeching on, they will eventually end up with an impoverish man or start visiting churches for solutions in their late thirties

My heart goes out to them, whenever I see them wasting away their life, while they should be getting themselves engaging skillfully, they will be busy around looking for rich guys and sugar daddy to sleep with,
Sugar daddy that is stealing away their star while giving them small change, and they will be so Daft enough to know that this man is not only after pleasure but they have ulterior motive.

There is this story I heard about a young lady a man promise to pay her 80k after the sex roam she agreed, a few moment after they have enter the room the man change his mind not to sex her, why? according to the story, he said what he wanted to take from her another person as always taken it, inother word she is empty.

Now this is the same kind of girl a young man will see, and fell in love and eventually marry her, then he will start having from one problem to the other in his house, not knowing that the woman in he's house is the cause of the problem, that he as married an empty vessel.

Brothers when you are ready to marry, make sure you become prayerful or if you don't know how to pray go and hire those that can do for you.
Damn!
Guy the story is synonymous to the one I heard from my school shuttle driver.
The loose girls will always board his taxi to hotels nearby. The G-guys would have them to their fill. He said he witness one crying when she called him to pick her that same night(which was unusual). Reason being that the guy considered her empty to be used cry
These set of girls go back to their various hostels flaunting the expensive goodies they get from their magas in order to lure and deceive the good and pure ones there.
That's why I've not found the courage to bleep any loose girl wey dy my school.
Re: Guys Don't Waste You Hard Earned Money On Ladies by jericco1(m): 10:22am On Jan 06, 2021
handsomeyitayo:
God bless you my brother..
Good one from you
I love the way you talk ham.
But some guys will saying they don't want to loose her for another man..
They will be promise heaven and paradise, spending lavishly...
One of younger brother ended up loosing his girlfriend to a guy ..it is same girl in question that he do give her his ATM card to withdraw anything she wants..he spend for her like .. even her elder brother fought him,he insists and said he wants to marry the girl..
He came back to cry telling us the girl girl has dumped him...
So what my eyes have seen on ladies...
He's a big fool
He should invest that money into something that'll be giving him instant turnover
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