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| I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by courage411: 8:38pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
I am 27 years old, never had a girlfriend or sex (the ones that count, I was molested when I was six by two sisters and it lasted for about 4years.), I had been mainly fixated on trying to hustle my way into greatness, I was a bookworm as a student and didn't bother about relationships in school because I wanted this best results possible, which wasn't the case in the end, but wasn't bad at all. As a result I missed opportunities to learn a thing or two about women, I am extremely introverted and to cap it all up, I am in tech working remotely for a foreign company, as such I am indoors 24/ 7. I tried online dating, it's scammers and hookers all over, whenever I go swimming, the girls I mostly see seem like they sell their bodies for money. I don't have friends, I am extremely lonely despite earning some pretty good dough due to exchange rates and cost of living. I don't really know what to do, I just need a good lady, pretty in her own right, that works as hard as I do, with big aspirations. What can I do people? Is there a spot I can visit for more decent ladies? I stay on the island, lekki axis. I am shy too. � 7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by yungz: 8:41pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
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| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by webforce: 8:43pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
I think you can start networking in your church group and then neighborhood . Total strangers with fake lived everywhere is not good. 7 Likes |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
I wanted to advise you, but when I saw Lekki, I gave up. I ran from lekki last year. If you are womanizer, lekki is for you. I ran because I got tired of the lifestyle. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by MufasaLion: 9:00pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
All you need is what you use as moniker. Also, you need to go out more. There are good locations. Maybe I should give you 10 girls.  |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by courage411: 9:00pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
webforce:Thank you, I am not active in church, I just take my bag and leave immediately after services, I am trying to avoid any inconveniences that comes with familiarizing oneself with church members, childhood trauma, if you know what I mean. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by courage411: 9:02pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Carchoice:Yeah, a lot of people aren't real here, but the truth is, I wouldn't mind go anywhere in Lagos just to get what I want. |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by courage411: 9:05pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
MufasaLion:I don't know what a moniker is. Lol. I don't really know where to go, aside bars and hotels mostly flooded by the categories of babes I'm trying to avoid. |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by MufasaLion: 9:09pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
courage411: LMAO You need some coaching. DM. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Make I shoot my shot�� Just dm me... I stay in Lagos but at the mainland 25 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by slimjohn2k5: 9:24pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Moniker is your Nairaland profile name. I can help you, though have very tight schedule. I stay around Ajah. Send a private message |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by AoifeNightfall: 9:33pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
You're not alone dear. 80% of male nairalanders are like that, especially the redpillers but they would rather die than admit. Which I think is stupid because everyone knows. |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by JustStupidity: 9:47pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
All you need to do is to come down to ojuelegba and search
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| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by franklingud(m): 9:51pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Act like your name @OP |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by AlphaMale666: 10:07pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Fools talk. Next! 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by courage411: 10:10pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
[quote author=franklingud post=108332589]Act like your name @OP[/quo te]  courage is for career man, I have always had big ambitions, the problem is transferring it to other aspects. |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by courage411: 10:10pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
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| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
gift0123:Shoot my dear. Shoot |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
courage411:You don't need a girlfriend and you also don't need to have sex.. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by mardis: 10:32pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
This one you're mentioning exotic things, making you sound like a big boy. Sha don't go an fall into one ingbeke that will milk you dry. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by Kobicove(m): 10:43pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
courage411: You're giving out too much info about yourself especially info about your finances 5 Likes |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by SKhanmi: 10:55pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Problem with what you want is, you will hardly find ladies like that in your normal hangout spots. You might want to try out high end places & attend tech meetups like the recent #devfestlagos. I'll recommend you try to learn much about women though, because nowadays, decent & women Don't really go together. And work on your shyness. You won't die 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by Theboy21: 10:58pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
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| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by citywal(m): 11:03pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Use to be just like you, I also live around lekki axis working remotely also. Tho no gf for now but I do go out try to connect and socialize (mostly mind the kind of people I roll up to tho) I had to learn how to enjoy my own company. Try that. courage411: 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by citywal(m): 11:05pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
courage411:Use to be just like you, I also live around lekki axis working remotely also. Tho no gf for now but I do go out try to connect and socialize (mostly mind the kind of people I roll up to tho) I had to learn how to enjoy my own company. Try that. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by arthurwillia(m): 12:53am On Dec 09, 2021 |
courage411: I wonder when you guys say you don’t get babes or sex, it baffles me. You are still even looking for places to hangout when life has turn to digital world.. online dating apps dey there. Instagram Twitter Facebook dey there Meet plenty people Babes wey I don knack for tinder alone go don reach like 15. Download tinder tagged and so on, bomb ig Facebook and so on My 2 cents for op 4 Likes |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by arthurwillia(m): 12:56am On Dec 09, 2021 |
citywal:You work remotely and you know world is now digitalized you don’t need to go out to meet girls sha Well anyway guys I just got a job in chevron area, I need accommodation around that side na Show me way 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by Khd95(m): 1:14am On Dec 09, 2021 |
You passed thru school, you didn't allow school to pass thru you, all in the name of I want to make good grades..now you are lamenting School is the best and surest way to socialize,connect, ,test your wooing skills, bleep, and what not. It's not bad that you concentrated fully on making good grades, but it's bad that you neglected other aspects of school life. What you need to do now is first of all, dress well, look cool, smell nice, if you have beards cool, from it well, if not nothing Spoil. Once this is done, socialize with your fellow guys first, learn how to start conversation and keep it going with your guy man, there won't be any air of awkwardness, unlike when you converse with the opposite sex, I for advise smoke, but that thing isn't for everyone. Build your self confidence first, make your self feel you are the most handsome and coolest guy you have ever seen, no dull your self Once you have learn how to keep up conversation with your fellow guy man, let am know your predicament, guys are always willing to help fellow guys in situations like this. Now go out and have fun, learn to enjoy your own company first, you will definitely meet ladies where ever you go, try to maintain eye contact with anyone you fancy, ,flirt with your eyes, let her know you noticed her, if she's into you too, she go dey look your side once once, then cut her one wicked wink and grin. Girls like men that are confident and bold, one sure way I start conversation with random girls for fun is merely walking up to her and telling her her hair is nice, her nails or cool, or her gown is fire, with a smile. Except she be ogbanje, she will smile back and say thank you, the rest is history If you don't mind, we go link up, I know bad places mostly around mainland 7 Likes |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by BTTS(f): 1:15am On Dec 09, 2021 |
courage411: If you’re lonely, I could give you my number. We can be WhatsApp friends. Truth is, I’m lonely too. So, if you feel lonely, you can call or send a message. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by Khd95(m): 1:17am On Dec 09, 2021 |
BTTS:abi una go link up and socialize, hang out and have fun, whick one be u can call or send messages  Call or messages dey cure loneliness, Nawa for you oo 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by BTTS(f): 1:24am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Khd95: Firstly, I’m not in Lagos state. Secondly, that’s the only thing I can do. Not with cases of girls killed from meeting up with strangers. Next time, don’t channel your thoughts on only one route 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Extremely Lonely, I Can't Get A Relationship, Help? by juniorstar(m): 2:34am On Dec 09, 2021 |
courage411:There are many things you need to learn..lest you become used and dumped by women..they see guys like you as a target. 3 Likes |
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