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Itzurboi:
too difficult to live with, but you carried your kaya( load in Hausa) to go live with him/her in the first instance....

You most likely did not know how bullying way the person might be.

I was in that kind of situation one time.
My second day in europe I would have returned back to nigeria if nigeria was good country.
Be noted, I was there to be with a sibling.

tega2luv:
From all I have red in the comment section bout this thread, i only agree with one that says do what works for you, if you ever fall in love be happy you did even if with the wrong person, lifes a lesson we learn everyday and always remember dont be scared to love just bcux you heard it didnt work for Mr A, doesnt mean it wont work for you.

Learning from others mistake is better than learning from your mistakes

Yamiriflathead:
Nigerian men will Never have Sense
I don't Pity them one bit because they would always see the signs but usually continue in their search for non existent love and completeness from people who are incapable of giving them.
You will imagine an idiot saying "I feel i'm compatible with her". Or " I find completeness in her".
You're a fool, na the same time Dem born una two?
You went through primary secondary and tertiary institution all by yourself without bothering about unicorns and suddenly someone u just met is so important that without her you can't find completeness?
This is Simping and bluepilledness
That's bullshit man, you can only find compatibility with yourself, any other forms of compatibility and search for unicorns soulmates, the right one will always bring you premium tears like the idiot of a man in the OP's story as well as death like tunde Thomas.
Nobody dey gree say e woman na devil until Dem don show you pepper, by that time you go kom confirm.
Tunde Thomas would never have believed his wife was capable of what she did.
He once sought completeness in her, she was once amongst the rare 10% of good women out there.
To Simps, every woman is amongst the rare 10% of wife materials and it's not "their portion that their wife or gf is amongst the 90% of women with terrible attitudes.
That's why you see them saying stuffs like "there are good women but they are rare" or "make money and look for a good wife". This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

You deserve a national honour and round of applause.

Ishilove:
E be like sey women don show you shege. See as your dropping wisdom like it's hot.

We all have our good, bad and ugly experiences from relationships. For me I've had my fair share seen all the sides, and like the old saying, that goes thus betrayal from loved ones are the ones that makes us wiser and stronger. I've become stronger and wiser.

Yamiriflathead:
Nigerian men will Never have Sense
I don't Pity them one bit because they would always see the signs but usually continue in their search for non existent love and completeness from people who are incapable of giving them.
You will imagine an idiot saying "I feel i'm compatible with her". Or " I find completeness in her".
You're a fool, na the same time Dem born una two?
You went through primary secondary and tertiary institution all by yourself without bothering about unicorns and suddenly someone u just met is so important that without her you can't find completeness?
This is Simping and bluepilledness
That's bullshit man, you can only find compatibility with yourself, any other forms of compatibility and search for unicorns soulmates, the right one will always bring you premium tears like the idiot of a man in the OP's story as well as death like tunde Thomas.
Nobody dey gree say e woman na devil until Dem don show you pepper, by that time you go kom confirm.
Tunde Thomas would never have believed his wife was capable of what she did.
He once sought completeness in her, she was once amongst the rare 10% of good women out there.
To Simps, every woman is amongst the rare 10% of wife materials and it's not "their portion that their wife or gf is amongst the 90% of women with terrible attitudes.
That's why you see them saying stuffs like "there are good women but they are rare" or "make money and look for a good wife". This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

ok you just bash bash yet you no drop any advice

Yamiriflathead:
Nigerian men will Never have Sense
I don't Pity them one bit because they would always see the signs but usually continue in their search for non existent love and completeness from people who are incapable of giving them.
You will imagine an idiot saying "I feel i'm compatible with her". Or " I find completeness in her".
You're a fool, na the same time Dem born una two?
You went through primary, secondary and tertiary institution all by yourself without bothering about unicorns and suddenly someone u just met is so important that without her you can't find completeness?
This is Simping and bluepilledness
And it's bullshit man, you can only find compatibility within yourself, any other forms of compatibility and search for unicorns soulmates, "the right one" will always bring you Grand premium tears like the idiot of a man in the OP's story as well as death like tunde Thomas.
Nobody dey gree say e woman na devil until Dem don show you pepper, by that time you go kom confirm.
Tunde Thomas would never have believed his wife was capable of what she did.
He once sought completeness in her, she was once amongst the rare 10% of good women out there.
To Simps, every woman is amongst the rare 10% of wife materials and it's not "their portion that their wife or gf is amongst the 90% of women with terrible attitudes.
That's why you see them saying stuffs like "there are good women but they are rare" or "make money and look for a good wife". This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

Enough advice for the wise

Michelle55:
Twitter and lies na 5and6

source is credible in this case.

JaneYave:
Failed love stories every where. To the person above me- Please , be calming down, LOVE IS A .BEAUTIFUL THING only that it is sudden abused.

There isn't anything called LOVE we are only being a slave to the white men life style.

hellohgy:
This issue is a very tricking one...


If we advise men not to sponsor their spouse to abroad cos once they get to abroad they change character it will look like one is wicked....
No


Do whatever works for you..

They will learn by force bro lets allow them with that creatures

BigBashiru:
very well put.... the more women you have the more you wont care if the current one leaves - be it marriage or relationship.

Don't have more women. Rather more time to yourself to chase your gaols. Only fvck wen u have to and release her back to the streets.

Yamiriflathead:
Nigerian men will Never have Sense
I don't Pity them one bit because they would always see the signs but usually continue in their search for non existent love and completeness from people who are incapable of giving them.
You will imagine an idiot saying "I feel i'm compatible with her". Or " I find completeness in her".
You're a fool, na the same time Dem born una two?
You went through primary, secondary and tertiary institution all by yourself without bothering about unicorns and suddenly someone u just met is so important that without her you can't find completeness?
This is Simping and bluepilledness
And it's bullshit man, you can only find compatibility within yourself, any other forms of compatibility and search for unicorns soulmates, "the right one" will always bring you Grand premium tears like the idiot of a man in the OP's story as well as death like tunde Thomas.
Nobody dey gree say e woman na devil until Dem don show you pepper, by that time you go kom confirm.
Tunde Thomas would never have believed his wife was capable of what she did.
He once sought completeness in her, she was once amongst the rare 10% of good women out there.
To Simps, every woman is amongst the rare 10% of wife materials and it's not "their portion that their wife or gf is amongst the 90% of women with terrible attitudes.
That's why you see them saying stuffs like "there are good women but they are rare" or "make money and look for a good wife". This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

I guess the one with a wine in a disposable cup is ubunja

Possiblegee:
ok you just bash bash yet you no drop any advice

As long as you and your wife,Gf,olosho weren't both on same day or die the same date,time and day ....be prepared for the unknown

I'm sure it must a man that sponsored a woman to Canada in this case.

If that's the case, I don't have any pity for the man

This is usually the case with all SIMPS.

One of them died the other day when he discovered that his lovely wife was _fucking the MD of her company and even had kids for the MD right under his nose.

All SIMPS must die.

TheRedpillguy:
Don't have more women. Rather more time to yourself to chase your gaols. Only fvck wen u have to and release her back to the streets.

Word

i smell lies, Is it possible to divorce within 1 month?

If any woman follow me try any shit, nah die for her, nothing concern me with law, I will just play along with the law but use 'local' way to deal with her

Nah die for her!!!!

J111333:
It's highly possible. It has happened at least twice in my very before.

One of the men it happened to tells it to every available ear around in SoCal till today.

I've also heard of a man who invited his "girlfriend" in US via letter of invitation and uncle was salivating and waiting for his package in California only to see update in the girl's Facebook account.

Hanty don land for another state and moved in with another bobo (her long time boyfriend) who at that time was illegal alien and couldn't invite her.

Shiit happens bro so never say never.

Hahha I pity the man

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YorubaPrince:
Na dem sabi joor. Nigerian men are the most stupid fools on earth. Majority use money to lure ladies. NONSENSE! I never spend on any lady and, if I do, na to buy food wey we go chop together. Even my wife, I no dey buy am anything and she sabi vex for me... I no care joor.

After being responsible for like 90% of our living expenses, I go come dey buy am stuff.. Really? When I no craze...

How did you survive up to this time sir with a Nigerian woman? After paying all our bills still I must give her something at the end of the week

I can't sponsor any gf to abroad because it will always end in tears....

Hahahaha God saw the heart of woman and rebuked her, what do a mere man know, if God would allow men see a glimpse of a woman’s heart most men would be much happier today and single..

Yamiriflathead:
Nigerian men will Never have Sense
I don't Pity them one bit because they would always see the signs but usually continue in their search for non existent love and completeness from people who are incapable of giving them.
You will imagine an idiot saying "I feel i'm compatible with her". Or " I find completeness in her".
You're a fool, na the same time Dem born una two?
Even Paul and Peter wey komot Belle the same day, we all saw how it ended
You went through primary, secondary and tertiary institution all by yourself without bothering about unicorns and suddenly someone u just met is so important that without her you can't find completeness?
This is Simping and bluepilledness
And it's bullshit man, you can only find compatibility within yourself, any other forms of compatibility and search for unicorns soulmates, "the right one" will always bring you Grand premium tears like the idiot of a man in the OP's story as well as death like tunde Thomas.
Nobody dey gree say e woman na devil until Dem don show you pepper, by that time you go kom confirm.
Tunde Thomas would never have believed his wife was capable of what she did.
He once sought completeness in her, she was once amongst the rare 10% of good women out there.
To Simps, every woman is amongst the rare 10% of wife materials and it's not "their portion that their wife or gf is amongst the 90% of women with terrible attitudes".
That's why you see them saying stuffs like "there are good women but they are rare" or "make money and look for a good wife". This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders.
Have you wondered why all of a sudden her character changed after marriage?
You were the prey and she was the trap and traps are always stationed with irresistible goodies to attract preys.
After you're caught in it, excruciating pain and death follows
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

If you understand the spiritual laws you won't be angry at them

It's threads of fate and karma

ayusco85:
So what is the way forward?

I'm Mgtow, but I can't ask you to become one unless you're done digesting TRP yourself then u can decide whether or not you want to get married or have babies from surrogates, baby mama like Ronaldo or remain without children. These days the cons of marriage outweighs the pros so I don't advise people to go into it
But you must swallow the redpill first

Leshurr:
If more men adopt this attitude/mindset, the consequences on the future of dating, relationships and marriage would be dastardly.. I fear for the next generation.

'They' (the womanist movement) have destroyed the naturally ordained bond (love) between man and woman - destroying the family unit and making both genders enemies.

Men are increasingly giving up on women.

Put the blame on mothers that refuse to train their daughters on the old ways of relationship/marriage as they were taught while growing up. The worst part of their failure is that they are the one receiving training from their daughters on how to slay on Instagram and Snapchat

wahala be like bicycle e no de hard to start...every day different kpalaba from DNA cases and spouses having kids outside wedlock to divorce, killings and loss of job, phones etc....now divorce and u still de pay the person bills....make the world kukuma end make we sha rest haba

Yamiriflathead:
This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

Hmmm.... so that's why Tunde Thomas died? This is how SIMPING starts.... when a man can open his mouth wide and swallow without chewing. Look in the mirror ... don't you deserve to die of heart attack? ... or is it you look for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a man? When a man can fetch such hatred for women I can think of two reasons only.... he got burnt badly in a failed relationship ....bitterness without end..... or he is a loser and gay.

@ topic ... story doesn't add up.... is he divorced or not? But... stuff like this happens all the time .... bottom line.... look before you leap.

Yamiriflathead:
Nigerian men will Never have Sense
I don't Pity them one bit because they would always see the signs but usually continue in their search for non existent love and completeness from people who are incapable of giving them.
You will imagine an idiot saying "I feel i'm compatible with her". Or " I find completeness in her".
You're a fool, na the same time Dem born una two?
Even Paul and Peter wey komot Belle the same day, we all saw how it ended
You went through primary, secondary and tertiary institution all by yourself without bothering about unicorns and suddenly someone u just met is so important that without her you can't find completeness?
This is Simping and bluepilledness
And it's bullshit man, you can only find compatibility within yourself, any other forms of compatibility and search for unicorns soulmates, "the right one" will always bring you Grand premium tears like the idiot of a man in the OP's story as well as death like tunde Thomas.
Nobody dey gree say e woman na devil until Dem don show you pepper, by that time you go kom confirm.
Tunde Thomas would never have believed his wife was capable of what she did.
He once sought completeness in her, she was once amongst the rare 10% of good women out there.
To Simps, every woman is amongst the rare 10% of wife materials and it's not "their portion that their wife or gf is amongst the 90% of women with terrible attitudes".
That's why you see them saying stuffs like "there are good women but they are rare" or "make money and look for a good wife". This is how SIMPING starts because women are professional pretenders.
Have you wondered why all of a sudden her character changed after marriage?
You were the prey and she was the trap and traps are always stationed with irresistible goodies to attract preys.
After you're caught in it, excruciating pain and death follows
Men who seek for love, completeness, compatibility and other abstract things in a woman deserve to die of heart attack like tunde Thomas

Dat your mouse_trap photos ehn..

Hassanmaye:
Enough advice for the wise

Thanks man...

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osazsky:
I advised some one here the other time to dumb her gf.cuz she want to travel and join him over there. I hope he sees this

Enough advice for the wise

Tolexander:
I will find a way of leaving Canada to US or any other country for the woman. To avoid taking care of her for 3years and also committing crime. Cos i may be tempted to kill the woman.

There are many cases of how some men killed their wives (mostly nurses) in US after bringing them to US from Nigeria, financing their school fees to become professionals.

Honestly, if one wasn’t careful as a man, one might kill the woman

How do you know it was a woman? You already concluded the primary sponsor was the husband lol. Women are more likely to be the sponsors of most PR applications.