Thinkherbell:
If i love a man, I wouldn't look at any rich person twice. No matter how rich the person is.

Sorry to say, buy are u such. It's easier said than done. Trust me I know!!

generally speaking. most guys don't collect gift from women. I inclusive. the major reason is guys sees it as a bait from women. women don't just give gift just like that freely. but guy can give them freely. and the reasons why women will openly received gifts. and guys will not.

asdfjklhaha:

Collectin gifts from admirers can ruin ur relationship, I remember sometime in 2018 I was still wit my ex, a guy in my church bought me a phone. I told him am in a relationship I cant accept it he said he is not interested in dating me that he doesnt like the phone am using, that I should accept it. I did an told my boyfriend then, he did not complain about it or ask me to return it, but that was the beginning of our break up, any little issue we hav he will say is because he doesn't have money to by me phone that's why I have started double dating. This is someone I told, I could easily have lied to him that an aunty or uncle bought it for me but I told him the truth, yet he started using it in every issue, after a while he told me to return the phone back to the guy, phone I hav used for more than 2 months, the problems was just too much I just had to personally end it so I can have peace of mind. But I learnt from it. Accepting gift from admirers can be risky cos it can ruin ur relationship especially if ur guy is the insecure type.

Moral lesson; never tell a man another man bought something for you, simple.

My people say "if ear nor hear something belle nor dey spoil". Even if most humans demand the truth,it's always too bitter for them to handle especially the ones with big ego.

I don't accept gifts anyhow, some gifts might have spiritual GPS to monitor my life. Fear people.

felong:

Exactly
Nice profile pic by the way.

Ah I will take both nah!
The admirer knows hee is an admirer and that's it and my man remain my love .

pocohantas:


They were not for free, leave story. I will be watching you with binoculars now.

Most people do not do things for free, not just men. Personally I will ask why you are being so nice/generous, make I know on time. I have met not more than 4 men that are altruistic.

Lol trust me, if it wasn't i would have said so. I really don't think I would be giving and expecting something back, neither would i give out something i cannot afford because I want to impress.

I do this because I don't want to be one of the alpha male wailers that start crying about how much they've spent when the break up or loss of friendship. So anything i give, i make sure I am happy with it & i never regret any gesture.

t00dugged:
moral lesson, never tell a man another man bought something for you, simple. My people say "if ear nor hear something belle nor dey spoil". Even if most humans demand the truth,it's always too bitter for them to handle especially the ones with big ego.

Thanks I have learned my lesson.

asdfjklhaha:

You are right, guys need to step up their game and IQ level, am tired of dating over grown babies who complain at ever thing u do.

Well well well


What do we have here


I don't know that we still have intelligent ladies here

am beginning to fall in love��

truthsayer009:


Lol trust me, if it wasn't i would have said so. I really don't think I would be giving and expecting something back, neither would i give out something i cannot afford because I want to impress.

I do this because I don't want to be one of the alpha male wailers that start crying about how much they've spent when the break up or loss of friendship. So anything i give, i make sure I am happy with it & i never regret any gesture.

Very true. I wonder why people cry about such things. You both were good friends or lovers, so whatever you did were dividends of the relationship. Why crying?

Anyway, bone straight nko?

asdfjklhaha:


Collectin gifts from admirers can ruin ur relationship, I remember sometime in 2018 I was still wit my ex, a guy in my church bought me a phone. I told him am in a relationship I cant accept it he said he is not interested in dating me that he doesnt like the phone am using, that I should accept it. I did an told my boyfriend then, he did not complain about it or ask me to return it, but that was the beginning of our break up, any little issue we hav he will say is because he doesn't have money to by me phone that's why I have started double dating. This is someone I told, I could easily have lied to him that an aunty or uncle bought it for me but I told him the truth, yet he started using it in every issue, after a while he told me to return the phone back to the guy, phone I hav used for more than 2 months, the problems was just too much I just had to personally end it so I can have peace of mind. But I learnt from it. Accepting gift from admirers can be risky cos it can ruin ur relationship especially if ur guy is the insecure type.

The bolded is the bottomline and I agree with you 100%. Your ex should've told you from jump to return it... because he was uncomfortable with it. I strongly believe in general... it has to do more with the man and not his status. As in a rich guy would gift his gf a car... and should his gateman gift her a pair of fashion earrings... it can be the beginning of the end of the relationship because the bf now believes something been going on between she and the gateman. I believe it will be more acceptable if the bf/gf knows the level of friendship between the gf and the gifter or ehmmmm...... what does he admire about my babe?.... is it her body?... or her calmness?... it better not be body or else.... let me shut up.

Thinkherbell:
If i love a man, I wouldn't look at any rich person twice. No matter how rich the person is.

I guess u re speaking metaphorically just like Regina Daniel

My dear, overtaking is allowed. As far as I'm concerned, love dosent exist in my dictionary.
Love for d opposite grnder..

felong:

Meaning you never really loved your guy in the first place.

Originalsly:


The bolded is the bottomline and I agree with you 100%. Your ex should've told you from jump to return it... because he was uncomfortable with it. I strongly believe in general... it has to do more with the man and not his status. As in a rich guy would gift his gf a car... and should his gateman gift her a pair of fashion earrings... it can be the beginning of the end of the relationship because the bf now believes something been going on between she and the gateman. I believe it will be more acceptable if the bf/gf knows the level of friendship between the gf and the gifter or ehmmmm...... what does he admire about my babe?.... is it her body?... or her calmness?... it better not be body or else.... let me shut up.

Her ex was an egocentric insecured poor man.

He knew if he asked her to return it, he will not be able to buy it for her ,so he swallowed his bruised ego and poured the frustration into the relationship. All this people with shoulder padded ego sef. Note he always said "na because I nor fit buy you phone". Poor man mentality.

pocohantas:


Very true. I wonder why people cry about such things. You both were good friends or lovers, so whatever you did were dividends of the relationship. Why crying?

Anyway, bone straight nko?

Lol you are a very Rich woman na, you wey you do Christmas give away. You no even remember you boy. It is well oh.

virginprincess:
No matter how cheap the gift is, i will accept it wholehearted from my lover, before an admirer gives you something, know that he is after something, maybe dating or even your body, in this life nothing is free not even in free town.

hmmmmmmm

Nazgul:
I just decided to ask this question...I've seen people gift their admirers, iPhones, cars, even cash gifts of up to 5m.

So would you as a girl or guy reject an expensive gift from an admirer for cheap gift from your lover that comes from his/her heart?

Very simple! Ill accept expensive gift from my admirer and even reject cheap gift from my lover if it is not to my test.

Godpikin4real:
An old friend of mine would tell me she doesn't reject gifts. Well, for me, if I like d admirer beta dan d lover boi, I'd simply accept.

Girls, this is the truth even if you don't know it. If my girlfriend accept gift from another guy, we are done! I can't come and become Tunde FCMB.

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Godpikin4real:
An old friend of mine would tell me she doesn't reject gifts. Well, for me, if I like d admirer beta dan d lover boi, I'd simply accept.

Truth. Once my girlfriend accept gift from a guy i will dump her or keep using her until I find another girl. But one thing is sure, I will never marry such a sloth

Nuttella:
I don't accept gifts anyhow, some gifts might have spiritual GPS to monitor my life. Fear people.

Lol. Everything with u has to do with spiritual.

Only a HOE would accept a gift from any male other than her man or a close family member. You’re just asking to be fuvked by accepting it.

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Nuttella:
I don't accept gifts anyhow, some gifts might have spiritual GPS to monitor my life. Fear people.

Nawaoh. Over religious people sef

Silentgroper:
Lol. Everything with u has to do with spiritual.

Yes dear.

9jayes:
Like rejecting a mansion in Banana Island for a bungalow in Urlu Imo state?, I dey crazy?

Hahahaha, I like this guy.
person dey think that one twice. So in the end, it all boils down to one thing. "the kind of gift"

Godpikin4real:


My dear, overtaking is allowed. As far as I'm concerned, love dosent exist in my dictionary.
Love for d opposite grnder..

....I had my eyes on you... but I drive a Toyota ... an old one... that can sooo easily be overtaken ....... even by Innoson!

asdfjklhaha:

Collectin gifts from admirers can ruin ur relationship, I remember sometime in 2018 I was still wit my ex, a guy in my church bought me a phone. I told him am in a relationship I cant accept it he said he is not interested in dating me that he doesnt like the phone am using, that I should accept it. I did an told my boyfriend then, he did not complain about it or ask me to return it, but that was the beginning of our break up, any little issue we hav he will say is because he doesn't have money to by me phone that's why I have started double dating. This is someone I told, I could easily have lied to him that an aunty or uncle bought it for me but I told him the truth, yet he started using it in every issue, after a while he told me to return the phone back to the guy, phone I hav used for more than 2 months, the problems was just too much I just had to personally end it so I can have peace of mind. But I learnt from it. Accepting gift from admirers can be risky cos it can ruin ur relationship especially if ur guy is the insecure type.

He doesn't like...

That reason alone I find laughable. You see, it's difficult for somebody to readily accept a random guy can be generous that much to part with thousands of Naira just because 'he doesn't like...'. Next, he may not like your cloths or your shoes or your apartment.

I should expect this very guy has charities because I don't expect he likes seeing hunger around him?

This is not a criticism but that reason may suggests men, or humans are much more generous than they actually are.

Bashnigga:

Hahahaha, I like this guy.
person dey think that one twice. So in the end, it all boils down to one thing. "the kind of gift"

I find the comments of people here very funny. If a man gifts me an expensive lingerie I will definitely turn it down , in reality it does boil down to the kind of gift.


Who say e like suffer head ,good for am ,I cant turn down a car gift or millions of money just to soothe the ego of some man ,only on the condition that the lover can get me same or more than. Who nor like better thing?

Nazgul:
I just decided to ask this question...I've seen people gift their admirers, iPhones, cars, even cash gifts of up to 5m.

So would you as a girl or guy reject an expensive gift from an admirer for cheap gift from your lover that comes from his/her heart?

HIS/HER WHAT ? WHICH FEMALE ADMIRER CN GIVE U SHISHI ?

t00dugged:
Moral lesson; never tell a man another man bought something for you, simple.

My people say "if ear nor hear something belle nor dey spoil". Even if most humans demand the truth,it's always too bitter for them to handle especially the ones with big ego.

100% TRUE