felong:

Nope the definition is someone who gives her word and stand by it. If you have a guy, he definitely isn't the richest or most handsome or most intelligent in the world, others will come, if you dump him for other better then him, how many more will u keep dumping before you realise that you have become a failure in life? It has nothing to do with suffering and poverty it's all about your integrity

Integrity, lol .


Men don't reject gift out of integrity, they do it out of ego know the difference.


I need admirers who can afford to gift me a car in my life.If you have 5 of such guys who are benevolent life nor go hard you. Turning such people to friends will be the smartest thing to do.


Na the lovers wey nor get sh1t for yansh dey insecured because they know they can't afford what the other guy is offering. Such men are the type that will be intimidated when their wife has more money than them. I call such people "in house bad belle".

Who get shoulder padded ego make e shift go one side.

pocohantas:


Don’t mind me. Since the guys say their own is res, I decided to play around with colours. Yes it is more about ego for men. Same men that’ll reject gifts would willingly accept knacks. The latter fuels the ego, the former doesn’t.

Exactly my point ,if that same Lady offers knack he nor go reject am cos it doesn't get in the way of his ego .

Thinkherbell:
If i love a man, I wouldn't look at any rich person twice. No matter how rich the person is.

Your head is on your Shoulder....i like your response

fineboynl:
how would you father feel and even you and your siblings if your mom drive home with a mercedes benz and told you all that a man gift it to her?

A marriage and dating ,that's the difference.


The key words are lover and admirer. Know the difference.

asdfjklhaha:

Collectin gifts from admirers can ruin ur relationship, I remember sometime in 2018 I was still wit my ex, a guy in my church bought me a phone. I told him am in a relationship I cant accept it he said he is not interested in dating me that he doesnt like the phone am using, that I should accept it. I did an told my boyfriend then, he did not complain about it or ask me to return it, but that was the beginning of our break up, any little issue we hav he will say is because he doesn't have money to by me phone that's why I have started double dating. This is someone I told, I could easily have lied to him that an aunty or uncle bought it for me but I told him the truth, yet he started using it in every issue, after a while he told me to return the phone back to the guy, phone I hav used for more than 2 months, the problems was just too much I just had to personally end it so I can have peace of mind. But I learnt from it. Accepting gift from admirers can be risky cos it can ruin ur relationship especially if ur guy is the insecure type.

Did you go back to the guy that gave you the phone #pun intended

Nazgul:
I just decided to ask this question...I've seen people gift their admirers, iPhones, cars, even cash gifts of up to 5m.

So would you as a girl or guy reject an expensive gift from an admirer for cheap gift from your lover that comes from his/her heart?

I will collect both and remain with my main oga.

9jayes:
Like rejecting a mansion in Banana Island for a bungalow in Urlu Imo state?, I dey crazy?

iamdapsyj:


Did you go back to the guy that gave you the phone #pun intended

I said it happened 2018. Didn't you read that part. Is all in the past

felong:

You won't make a good wife.

Who wife material help. Abeg na person wey like me with all my outcome go marry me so far as I no cheat. Me collect gift that will better our future is a good idea.

Point of correction I will be a good wife and mother to my future hubby and beautiful/handsome kids..

No

Nazgul:
I just decided to ask this question...I've seen people gift their admirers, iPhones, cars, even cash gifts of up to 5m.

So would you as a girl or guy reject an expensive gift from an admirer for cheap gift from your lover that comes from his/her heart?

No gift from a sincere lover is cheap. The heart with which the gift was given is what matters not the gift. An admirer may give you half a treasure to impress because he or she wants something from you. Only gold diggers, cheats, prostitutes, brostitutes and people with poverty stricken mentality value expensive materials from admirers above gifts from their lovers.

vivaciousvivi:

I will collect both and remain with my main oga.

It can cost you your relationship. Haven't you thought about that.

Lol, let them both come. expensive gift o, cheap gift o.

Akuruoulo:
HIS/HER WHAT ? WHICH FEMALE ADMIRER CN GIVE U SHISHI ?

The working class ones can do it.

felong:

Your boyfriend is very childish, that you are broke doesn't mean you should frown at your girlfriend when people try to show her care. Such guy will block your progress because of his selfish ego, it's a good thing you left him.

Did you even think @ all, if tunde was childish or had frown about how moyo was collecting gift & support from FCMB MD .. he won't have fathered bastards.
I am a man, i understand how men operate, if i complain or nag about my girlfriend collecting gifts & money from other guyz its not as if i don't want those good things for her, what i have a problem with is sooner or later she will fall in love or fall in bed 4 those tinz.
How is it wrong if a broke boyfriend decided to secure his heart. if those gift are coming from her fellow woman would same guy react or frown.

pocohantas:


So all the ones you gave me were not free?

I am learning.

Maybe you're not as sexually attractive as you think Ed loadin

asdfjklhaha:

Collectin gifts from admirers can ruin ur relationship, I remember sometime in 2018 I was still wit my ex, a guy in my church bought me a phone. I told him am in a relationship I cant accept it he said he is not interested in dating me that he doesnt like the phone am using, that I should accept it. I did an told my boyfriend then, he did not complain about it or ask me to return it, but that was the beginning of our break up, any little issue we hav he will say is because he doesn't have money to by me phone that's why I have started double dating. This is someone I told, I could easily have lied to him that an aunty or uncle bought it for me but I told him the truth, yet he started using it in every issue, after a while he told me to return the phone back to the guy, phone I hav used for more than 2 months, the problems was just too much I just had to personally end it so I can have peace of mind. But I learnt from it. Accepting gift from admirers can be risky cos it can ruin ur relationship especially if ur guy is the insecure type.

The story is incomplete. You ended up leaving him for the guy that bought you phone. Thanks for making it look like he's the villain anyways

ericsmith:




Maybe you're not as sexually attractive as you think Ed loadin

It is never my thoughts to be “sexually attractive” to men. I leave that for girls like yours.

Nazgul:

The working class ones can do it.

Working class female admirer can do what ? MAYBE IN THE MOVIE

Thinkherbell:
If i love a man, I wouldn't look at any rich person twice. No matter how rich the person is.

Na u talk am sha...Issokay!

virginprincess:
No matter how cheap the gift is, i will accept it wholehearted from my lover, before an admirer gives you something, know that he is after something, maybe dating or even your body, in this life nothing is free not even in free town.

Issorite...Noted!

asdfjklhaha:

Many guys are like that especially the broke ones, you will say with them, encourage them, support them, even lend them money you don't have, yet that will never be happy for you when good things come your way, they want. They see suffering as a way of proving to them that you love them. Even hanging out with anyone becomes a problem, honestly dating toxic guys is terrible. You can run mad with stress. Thank God I'm free.

Trust Issues...

asdfjklhaha:

Collectin gifts from admirers can ruin ur relationship, I remember sometime in 2018 I was still wit my ex, a guy in my church bought me a phone. I told him am in a relationship I cant accept it he said he is not interested in dating me that he doesnt like the phone am using, that I should accept it. I did an told my boyfriend then, he did not complain about it or ask me to return it, but that was the beginning of our break up, any little issue we hav he will say is because he doesn't have money to by me phone that's why I have started double dating. This is someone I told, I could easily have lied to him that an aunty or uncle bought it for me but I told him the truth, yet he started using it in every issue, after a while he told me to return the phone back to the guy, phone I hav used for more than 2 months, the problems was just too much I just had to personally end it so I can have peace of mind. But I learnt from it. Accepting gift from admirers can be risky cos it can ruin ur relationship especially if ur guy is the insecure type.

Trust Issues

truthsayer009:


It's is funny when women buy gifts it's always something attached but they believe that a Man can be buying them tons of gift without anything attached.

I mean, an admirer wants to Fck you right? Unless you want to live in self denial.

There covetousness for material things would alway make dem live in self denial.
They know strings would be attached, buh a typical lady believes she can alway eat her cake n have it.

pocohantas:


It is never my thought to be “sexually attractive” to men. I leave that for girls like yours.

Been sexually attractive is not a creation of your thought, am suppose to be the dumb one nd next time you want to lie consider sumtin attractive

t00dugged:
I find the comments of people here very funny. If a man gifts me an expensive lingerie I will definitely turn it down , in reality it does boil down to the kind of gift.


Who say e like suffer head ,good for am ,I cant turn down a car gift or millions of money just to soothe the ego of some man ,only on the condition that the lover can get me same or more than. Who nor like better thing?

abi o, everyone loves good things. Like you pointed out, if the admirer's gift is sth that wouldn't really make your life much better or sth your partner can easily provide for you then you can reject such gifts. But if it's sth that would make a big difference in your life (& maybe your partner's) I'll accept it & even ask for jara if there's any, lol

ericsmith:



Been sexually attractive is not a creation of your thought, am suppose to be the dumb one nd next time you want to lie consider sumtin attractive

Well, you should have thought of that before typing this...

“Maybe you're not as sexually attractive as you think”. Trust me, you can type in Yoruba, I will understand.

Whatever has kept you on my matter for years with 8 accounts is not sexual attractiveness. I wasn’t lying when I said I don’t think about being sexually attractive to men. Would you buy 8 sim cards to reach your sexually attractive gf for every time she blocks you? I doubt.

felong:

Exactly
Nice profile pic by the way.

I talk am

Akuruoulo:
Working class female admirer can do what ? MAYBE IN THE MOVIE

You should go out more often.

chewwie:
I don't accept gifts because I hate being indebted to someone.

oil dey your head

pocohantas:


Well, you should have thought of that before typing this...

“Maybe you're not as sexually attractive as you think”. Trust me, you can type in Yoruba, I will understand.

Whatever has kept you on my matter for years with 8 accounts is not sexual attractiveness. I wasn’t lying when I said I don’t think about being sexually attractive to men. Would you buy 8 sim cards to reach your sexually attractive gf for every time she blocks you? I doubt.

I know what am saying, twist as you like buh i won't shalaye.
lol !! since you are the intelligent i would love to see you creat a connection between trolling & sexual attractiveness.
we live in a digital age, people rather block you on SM, whu stil block numbers.. aunty wey miumiu makes friends with young ones n ask them how things are done.
The last time my gurlfriend blocked me on whatapp, today am the one not replying her message on whatapp. i just sms