cococandy:
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I don’t hate it. The vagine is magnificent. Something that can push a human being out and go back to business as usual. Own it

NiRfreak:
Wahala for who be firstborn o....you will be suspectin your mother and wondering what if your dad that have been forming all love and macho is not ya dad......chai...not pleasant suspecting your parents

pocohantas:


I have noticed some guys use those terms to make ladies feel uncomfortable. On Nairaland, they expect you to backoff once they come with certain words- pussy, fck, vagina people...etc

The second you make peace with it, they start clutching at straws. Even the ones in my office, before they say one f-word, I have said thirty. Now they are the ones begging me to stop. No o, let’s all be mad.

cococandy:


I don’t hate it. The vagine is magnificent. Something that can push a human being out and go back to business as usual. Own it

pocohantas:


I have noticed some guys use those terms to make ladies feel uncomfortable. On Nairaland, they expect you to backoff once they come with certain words- pussy, fck, vagina people...etc

The second you make peace with it, they start clutching at straws. Even the ones in my office, before they say one f-word, I have said thirty. Now they are the ones begging me to stop. No o, let’s all be mad.

debbydams:
Smiles ..forget first born if u want to do DNA do it for all your kids..I look at DNA drama nd laugh, what about men dat cheat on the wives which DNA we go do for them o

Ishilove:

Animals also have vaginas. Are we animals?

seunny4lif:
DNA must be done by force by wahala esp those church ladies and bankers

Ishilove:

Unfortunately, when I give it back to them I remember I have male relatives and it hangs in my throat

Ishilove:
I hate this new and totally disrespectful term 'vagina people'. It doesn't make sense and it is downright degrading. It's a gender slur which sadly even females are latching on to.

Nuttella:
Every child is a gift from God whether yours not not, why do DNA test that will end in tears for you, scatter your marriage and give you high BP?, you might even end up committing suicide. If you love your sanity, your children, your marriage and your mental health then don't do DNA test .

baski92:
hahahahahaha

Sonfethopia:


Their real parent has the right to take them if he provides a DNA to prove they are his. U can't adopt them without his concent except he's not interested in the kid

Magnoliaa:


Everything you said here... And especially the bolded. I've mostly used it sarcastically, and for other women I've seen used it, too.

But yeah, appropriating slurs men use against women... the line can become blurred between bants and actually disrespecting oneself - without the self even being aware. I've never seen men appropriating slurs directed at them - for MOST of them.

debbydams:
Smiles ..forget first born if u want to do DNA do it for all your kids..I look at DNA drama nd laugh, what about men dat cheat on the wives which DNA we go do for them o

cococandy:


And they also magnificent. Whether in animals or
Humans.

pocohantas:


We don’t even have that much slurs for them. None comes to mind sef.

Ishilove:

Those penis people are very good at coming up with all kinds of uselessness.

Ishilove:

Coco gerrarahere

Sensitivity:
DNA test.....run am

If e no be your child.....kill am

DamZik:
You are guilty as charged. I pity your husband.

pocohantas:


We don’t even have that much slurs for them. None comes to mind sef.

debbydams:
Smiles ..forget first born if u want to do DNA do it for all your kids..I look at DNA drama nd laugh, what about men dat cheat on the wives which DNA we go do for them o

Whiteshield:


It seems you are so daft that you don't understand the thrust of this issue. Men who cheat on their wives with DNA don't bring bastards home. The problem is not cheating but bringing bastards home.

It is unfortunate I have to explain something as basic as that to you. I'm sure that if it is to open legs like caterpault, you will quickly understand that one. Your head dey there, bro. You're very right. Even if the men bring the bastard home, they don't pin it on the women that the child is hers. The women would know from day one that the child isn't hers but unfortunately, it's unlike the men. The women would, from the day the child is in their womb, transfer another man's child to another man. God have mercy on the men o and save us from devilish women.

WoundedLamb:


But he might be deceiving another man into taking in his own kids. It's same fate for that other man. So when you look at the bigger picture, the societal impact is similar. The only difference is the family that suffers. The bank director's case is a very good example.

Sensitivity:
DNA test.....run am

If e no be your child.....kill am

simplesearch:


Then he should be ready to pay back all accumulated child support from pregnancy till the day custody is taken. Except where the beneficiary decides to let go.

seunny4lif:
DNA must be done by force by wahala esp those church ladies and bankers

cococandy:


And they also magnificent. Whether in animals or
Humans.

debbydams:
shuu, egbami ke, epele o sense knocker.. Stwpeed boi