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Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by BRATISLAVA: 10:18pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
Toks2008: So you are still one of the dreamers that bother their heads about women cheating. Continue At worse you do periodic test for HIV and other stds. 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by cococandy(f): 10:57pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
What slurs comes to mind when it comes to men? They are always the ones Coming up with what they hope will be disrespectful and shaming names for women. Bitch C*nt Slut Hoe Olosho Akwuna It never ends . Take their power away by not letting yourself feel insulted by any of that. I’m 100% for appropriation. Magnoliaa: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by MSGAMBLE9: 10:57pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
seanwilliam:Then he will learn the hard way. |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by MSGAMBLE9: 11:00pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
livinbygrace:Let him learn the hard way |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by MSGAMBLE9: 11:05pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
osusuallstars:Igbo? Their men are raised as SIMP. |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Magnoliaa(f): 11:10pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
cococandy: Hm. This is a takeaway for me @ the bolded. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by simplesearch: 11:49pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
Sonfethopia: Bought you said?! whoever sells two babies from same parent? This actually sounds like an impossible scenario except they are twins, and if they are diff persons how can they both wait till 18 to show up at the same time. In any case the woman can get a good lawyer and appeal the order, except it was a backyard purchase sealed on the altar of mutual understanding. |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Kalatium(m): 12:51am On Jan 07, 2021 |
cococandy:Lol Just like how you ladies conjure up names to shame guys like: Usele$$ Broke Stingy Irresponsible Player F*ckboy Both men and women have problems. Stop being one sided. 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Callmeike: 2:33am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Jack005: The more reason people in early marriages should not triffle with this. It's a duty to check and be sure. In fact, if you have, for instance, 2 boys and a girl, depending on your pocket, you may consider checking your boys first. Every girl gets married out of the family and it's most times the mother who fully benefits. But you can't afford to play with who really takes over your lineage as sons. My Cent. |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Weneda(m): 4:20am On Jan 07, 2021 |
debbydams:Does men procreate? I'm suspecting u |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Weneda(m): 4:27am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Nuttella:Madam don't say this again. How are wish u a re a man u will know that releasing someone's child/children is person, mostly when u thought that that child/children are urs. Pls receive sense! |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Sonfethopia: 4:29am On Jan 07, 2021 |
simplesearch: Yes they are twins. Selling of babies is illegal, you cant drag It at any court. You're liable to go to jail. Selling is different from adopting from the real parents when its documented by a lawyer. That way the original parent can't have the child or come near them. |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by WoundedLamb: 4:43am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Emaprince: Cheating is the normal lifestyle for married women now? Really bro, just women? You see, I am trying to convince myself you're just being logical but biased statements like this only go to show you're just protecting your gender's interest, and the assumption that I'm a woman simply cause I don't agree with the one sided scrutiny proves that the more. Bro, I am a man and this discussion shouldn't be about our gender but logic. Anything other than this would be sexism. Majority of the time, the men responsible won't even know? Lol... You're really working so hard to leave the men blameless. But the truth is, whether they know or not, the fact that they slept with a married woman is the genesis of the problem. Pregancy is only a result of that and even though nature has made it so that the women bear burden the alone, that doesn't make the men any less culpable. If we want to cast blame, let's start from the beginning. Starting from when the pregnancy has already occurred and then blaming the woman for not acting appropriately is inconsiderate cause you're not a woman and you don't know the courage it takes to do an abortion or the possible health risks. You just drop your sperm and then blame her for not removing. In fact, it's a bit disturbing and outrightly ironic that you're calling the woman the devil cause she didn't terminate the pregnancy. The summary of what I'm saying is, DNA exposes the woman alone but this doesn't mean men are any less culpable; nature is just on our side cause there's no telling where we've been or what we've done. However, slut-shaming the women while ignoring the men will not yield any result cause it takes two to tango. I'm very sure you won't agree with me but I think I've said all I can regarding the subject. To each, his own. 3 Likes |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by baski92(m): 4:54am On Jan 07, 2021 |
EndRape2:so i can't laugh again my dear. Me laughing dose not mean i am in support of what he said |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by sisisioge: 5:41am On Jan 07, 2021 |
They should simply make DNA a prerequisite for filing a birth certificate. Issue resolved. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by debbydams(f): 6:15am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Weneda:u r deceiving yourself. suspecting me? |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by debbydams(f): 6:20am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Whiteshield:are u talking to me? I don't blame u na.. But u guys are funny o |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Nasman387(m): 6:36am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Toks2008:What does it take to 'father' a child? In my mentor's Things Fall Apart, Ogbuefi Ezeudu advised Okonkwo not to bear a hand in the death of Ikemefule because he calls him "Father" - “that boy calls you father, do not bear a hand in his death.”.... but Okonkwo being whom he is — he doesn't want to appear weak, he wouldn’t hearken. Ikemefule was not the biological son of Okonkwo, in fact, he was not even in anyway related to him — he was a ransome from the offending neighboring Mbaino community given to Umuofia as one of the compensations for the murder of one of Umuofia daughters and was kept in the custody of Okonkwo. He grew up in Okonkwo's custody and now know him as, and calls him 'father'. But because his fate was already sealed as a war prisoner, the oracle had decreed he be killed. Okonkwo was chosen to do the killing as one of Umuofia's strongest man but Ogbuefi Ezeudo cautioned Okonkwo because “that boy calls you father". In the Igbo traditional and custodial setting; fathering a child is not only biological. Moreover, for a child carried and birthed by the wife you married, irrespective of whatever DNA says, that child is your child - loins or not. In my own opinion as also canvassed by different literary scholars, I think it was the defiance to the wise counsels of Ogbuefi Ezeudu was the foundation of Okonkwo's greatest undoing which made him (a people's hero) die a sacrilegious and shame death. Of his status in the community, he was not even given a befitting burial. You can call me a conservative and you may not be too far away from the truth - fact is, I love the Igbo customs and traditions because the cosmology is whole and far reaching and made provisions for too many would be problems that could arise in the larger society. My last post where I wrote that I will not give a hoot about the DNA of a child who calls me father, most especially, a child birthed by a wife I married before the presence of both ụmụnna and who lives under my roof. My assertion was informed by the deep rooted Igbo customs on the custodian of a man's ward. In our custom and tradition; the father of a child is not only the man who donated his sperm into the woman to give birth to a child. Fatherhood is beyond one's biological offspings in Igboland. In fact, in Igboland, you're regarded as a foolish sperm donor when you come to lay claims to the child or children of a woman you did not marry. I was following a debate on a thread and I got to find out that our paternity custom is similar the laws of the USA on the same subject matter. I found out that in the USA, DNA alone is not enough to confer you the ownership of a child. There is a semblance of similarity. This is not in anyway advocating for indecorus tendencies of adultery by married people but just trying to make some certain impressions clear. Our forebears were very smart and wise in setting those kind of custom because the day you will begin to demand for DNA tests from your wife as a husband, you have inadvertently set the stage up for the destruction of your home. Fathering a child is beyond biological because a child that calls you father is your child. |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by tbliss22(m): 6:53am On Jan 07, 2021 |
I just wonder why people are screaming everywhere. If I decide to do DNA test on my children, so be it. There's no crime knowing |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Fiscus105(m): 7:27am On Jan 07, 2021 |
cococandy: I pray you won't give urself HPB because of urchins on nairaland,even me that I'm male I select posts and comments to read let alone comments to reply, after first paragraph I know when to move to other comments, u see many are mad in Nigeria but few are roaming about, even in physical one should learn how to put deaf ear on what some people are saying, if you don't do that you be like them,........... Imagine, bcoz some crazy guys say foul languages towards particular gender you too you start saying it, to fight who? How many you want to start shaming? Before you know you too you become dirty stuff bcoz you want to engade In E-fighting and you take it down to ur marriage and affect ur kids. Alpha male, simp, Virgina, people,hoe are just words from highly frustrated guys, who find it difficult to hold on to their feet, hence they take solace in degrading everyone comming their ways. Many of them try to date girls but no single girl give them chance. Go to olosho thread and comfirm Learn how to know who to reply and who to ignore 1 Like |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Toks2008(m): 7:35am On Jan 07, 2021 |
@Nasman387 I totally agree with you but I still believe it makes sense to have a clear idea and not just do it ignorantly.... No man and I repeat, no man deserves to raise another man's child ignorantly. It will even be more painful for you if the real father comes for his child(ren). 1 Like |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by efficiencie(m): 8:11am On Jan 07, 2021 |
seunny4lif: @Kokaine did not refer to church girls...the church is not heaven. A traitor was among Jesus' disciples so what do you expect. Many evil ladies become born again to hide their years of misdemenor. So as a man play safe marry a good virgin girl and you will not have these issues. You must die of depression if you end up marrying a public toilet...you cannot escape it! 1 Like |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by AkupeMBANO(f): 8:14am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Wiifesnatcher:You are a child. |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Wiifesnatcher(m): 8:16am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by AkupeMBANO(f): 8:26am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Wiifesnatcher:Coming here ranting about marrying a virgin. simple question, are you a virgin? You started ranting again like a kindergarten. I'm not in your league at all. you are a hefty fool. So after sleeping with different ladies everywhere, you will now commence checking hymen and all? Your mediocrity is top notch. and who told you virginity certifies fidelity? you now see why i said you are a child? |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Princessbettyj(f): 8:27am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm no wonder i act so different in the family maybe nah Dangote or E money be my papa either way we move |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Wiifesnatcher(m): 8:35am On Jan 07, 2021 |
AkupeMBANO: you're very dumb, you expect me to tell you I never hook up with any lady before because you're what exactly you were expecting me to answer your foolish question because you're what exactly? and you're not a child for asking me childish question. let me burst your brain again, I don't pray for my enemies to marry non Virgin not to talk of me, even if I need to have second wife, it will surely be virgin. you can now crawl back to the hell you belong |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by AkupeMBANO(f): 8:37am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Wiifesnatcher:You are irredeemably foolish!!! |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by Wiifesnatcher(m): 8:39am On Jan 07, 2021 |
AkupeMBANO: I repeat again, even if I'm marrying three wives, it will surely be a virgin. I like it when I make dumb like you cry over used ediot |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by AkupeMBANO(f): 8:41am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Wiifesnatcher:Another quick one. did your mom marry your dad a virgin? ask her and get back to me ASAP. hope your olosho sisters are all virgins too? check their hymen as well be fast, i'm waiting patiently for you. |
Re: Why You Must Do a DNA test on Your First Child. by murmee: 8:42am On Jan 07, 2021 |
Jack005:Great Submission. kudos! |
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