Hello House,

Am not gonna bore you with long speech and epistles. I got married several years ago to my wife and we had two lovely sons and a beautiful daughter.

Before we got married, she cheated on me twice and I forgave her and she turned a new leave afterwards which I love and appreciate about her.

The first child a son looks a little like my wife with eye and body physique and same eating habit.

The second daughter has her nose, body physique and eating habit but different complexion.

The third son looks nothing like anyone we know even her relatives and mine. The only person I can match his looks to is their family pastor before she got married to me. He has his hair looks and a strange eating habit different from anyone in the house.

I have been trying to talk to her about the looks of the children for years but I couldn't summon the courage cos I fear she may harm me without leaving a trace to protect her secret if she's hiding anything. I have checked their eyes nose ears and feet but none of them matches mine.

Should I tell her my concerns about the looks of our children? Or run DNA test secretly and live with it without letting her know.

Please advise.....

Sometimes I wonder what the difference between a man and a boy is. Why should you tell her for God's sake. Just take your boys out after telling your wife you want to go for a free malaria vaccination organized by your office or something like that.

If the test confirms they're yours, keep the secret forever, if it doesn't, blow the alarm. That's not wickedness.

. No go die of cardiac arrest o

run DNA abeg

Do DNA test without her knowing, if the children belong to you then continue ur life but if its the other way round confront and show her the result then kick her out of ur life and house.

Hurry. I go like support you sef.

Only me and 2baba.na e no need dna for our children.

Are men really this stupid?

Cheated and you forgave?

The one person that should be forgiven when it comes to cheating is a man. Yes, that's hypocritical, but that's the truth. Yes, only a man deserves forgiveness when it comes to cheating. Though, men shouldn't cheat too for peace to reign.

Some things favor women while others favor men. That's just how life is. Feminists want equality, but it's impossible.

Rape accusation favors women 90% of the time.
Cheating, on the other hand, is supposed to favor men 90% of the time too.

This is to say: when a woman cheats, she is 90% in trouble just the same way when a man gets accused of rape — whether he did it or not, he's 90% in trouble.

In your case, she cheated and you forgave all because of love and fear of losing her because she is beautiful or smart.

A woman that cheats will always cheat as long as the man she cheated with is better than her boyfriend or husband in bed (those that read the book Lasticle know what I'm talking about). Make I tell you the truth; a dick that knows its job is sweet! Women are my witness.

Once you go black, you can never go back. Even if you manage to go back, you'll soon go black again and blame is on highness.

Now, back to your case: You caused everything for forgiving her when she cheated. This is what low self-esteem causes. You broke one of the rules of "48 Laws of Dump."

Those men that can't approach women and woo them are always contented with a cheating partner.

It's more like: If I lose her, how will I get another one? And I have even introduced her to all my family members, so let me suck it up and just marry her like that — she will change after marriage. Nah! It gets worse.

Talking about telling her, my question is: are you really a man?

Communication is key, but real men know it's 50/50. Not everything should be talked about — some should be done in silence without a trace.

The only time you should talk about it is when the result is out and not in your favor. If it's out and all the kids are yours, then continue keeping quiet as if nothing happened and love her more for not making you raise bastards.

Everyone's now shouting DNA upandan when 90% of them can not even afford 2 square meals a day

@op,
Are you sure u are the real son of your father ?....

Oluromantic:
Sometimes I wonder what the difference between a man and a boy is. Why should you tell her for God's sake. Just take your boys out after telling your wife you want to go for a free malaria vaccination organized by your office or something like that.

If the test confirms they're yours, keep the secret forever, if it doesn't, blow the alarm. That's not wickedness.

Thanks for the advice. The children all have hairs on their body while I and my wife don't have any including our parents.

If you want to create issues before the test inform her but if you don't want to create issues do it with out her knowledge. If results show they are children keep it secretly but if otherwise then do yr wish

Lalasticlala sef

thesicilian:
Everyone's now shouting DNA upandan when 90% of them can not even afford 2 square meals a day

THAT'S NIGERIANS FOR YOU.

first, you need to check the childrens Blood groups and genotype to know if it matches you and your wife's blood group and genotype, costly DNA tests should be the last option.

Oluromantic:
Sometimes I wonder what the difference between a man and a boy is. Why should you tell her for God's sake. Just take your boys out after telling your wife you want to go for a free malaria vaccination organized by your office or something like that.

If the test confirms they're yours, keep the secret forever, if it doesn't, blow the alarm. That's not wickedness.

first, you need to check the childrens Blood groups and genotype to know if it matches you and your wife's blood group and genotype, costly DNA tests should be the last option.

Pls go ahead women are not to be trusted

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fati2001:


THAT'S NIGERIANS FOR YOU.

Are you aware that zzor has been banned for one month?

FalseProphet1:
Are you aware that zzor has been banned for one month?

seriously

fati2001:







seriously

Yes

The op is a liar, i checked his moniker and discovered that he likes creating stupid stories like this and ask for advice.

fati2001:







seriously

We re trolling on one thread here an the useless mods took the thread to the front page wit all our rubbish derailing comments, that was how my original monkier was banned I later learn that Zzor was banned too

FalseProphet1:
Yes

why

fati2001:



why

We re trolling on one thread here an the useless mods took the thread to the front page wit all our rubbish derailing comments, that was how my original monkier was banned I later learn that Zzor was banned too

FalseProphet1:

We re trolling on one thread here an the useless mods took the thread to the front page wit all our rubbish derailing comments, that was how my original monkier was banned I later learn that Zzor was banned too

just checked the profile.. didn't see anything like ban.

by the way, who are you?

Dem no dey tell woman about DNA o she fit kill you do it in secret

I hope you can afford the DNA Test on the 3 children which may cost from 150 to 300k if not. You are on your own.

fati2001:



just checked the profile.. didn't see anything like ban.

by the way, who are you?

You will not see it only she can see it. Am crazyclown

Go and run a DNA test since you have some doubts