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Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by delexyl(m): 8:02am On Jan 08, 2021
Dear Nairalanders,

I am soliciting for help from every well meaning people of this honourable forum. I lost my job recently plus one thing led to the other, now my 3 kids are starving cos I've not been able to get back on my feet. All I want is to borrow 20-50k to pay back even with interest. I'm willing to drop my phone or anything as collateral and I'll pay back in February ending.

My wife has been home also since last November taking care of our first son who was hit by a bike then, (proof available). Please I just want to borrow some money for my wife to take care of herself and the kids while I put myself back in order, I've left the home for days cos I couldn't meet up with my responsibilities.
Nothing is too small, please help a brother.

Account info
304 484 1295
First bank
08089510927
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by Red7: 8:13am On Jan 08, 2021
If you look for a car to do kabukabu you can make as much as 8000 Naira daily

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Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by delexyl(m): 8:21am On Jan 08, 2021
Red7:
If you look for a car to do kabukabu you can make as much as 8000 Naira daily


You can see my earlier post sir. I don find one tire. But I'm trying to go into farming already.
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by Red7: 9:11am On Jan 08, 2021
delexyl:



You can see my earlier post sir. I don find one tire. But I'm trying to go into farming already.


Just walk into any car garage. And speak to multiple persons. They always seek people. To. Give cars to self
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by delexyl(m): 9:31am On Jan 08, 2021
Red7:



Just walk into any car garage. And speak to multiple persons. They always seek people. To. Give cars to self



I will try this sir, though I was looking at Uber or taxify hoping it will yield more but its better I start from somewhere. But then I really need something my family can hold on to for a few days or so. You've been very helpful sir.
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by meobizy(f): 6:48pm On Jan 08, 2021
This format must pay, by fire or force.
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by delexyl(m): 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2021
meobizy:
This format must pay, by fire or force.



I swear to God who made me this is not some format. What kind of a man would lie on his wife and kids for 20k. I really wish you knew me before all these happened. I'm trying to source for a loan not someone to dash me, thanks anyways.

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Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by delexyl(m): 4:59pm On Jan 10, 2021
delexyl:
Dear Nairalanders,

I am soliciting for help from every well meaning people of this honourable forum. I lost my job recently plus one thing led to the other, now my 3 kids are starving cos I've not been able to get back on my feet. All I want is to borrow 20-50k to pay back even with interest. I'm willing to drop my phone or anything as collateral and I'll pay back in February ending.

My wife has been home also since last November taking care of our first son who was hit by a bike then, (proof available). Please I just want to borrow some money for my wife to take care of herself and the kids while I put myself back in order, I've left the home for days cos I couldn't meet up with my responsibilities.
Nothing is too small, please help a brother.

Account info
304 484 1295
First bank
08089510927





Please I need help before this frustration turns into suicide. Please I need a job or some money even if its 5k I will almost worship the lender or giver. Its a saddening thing when a responsible father becomes an irresponsible one. Please help I can do any kind of legal job.
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by Pojomojo: 1:44am On Jan 11, 2021
delexyl:






Please I need help before this frustration turns into suicide. Please I need a job or some money even if its 5k I will almost worship the lender or giver. Its a saddening thing when a responsible father becomes an irresponsible one. Please help I can do any kind of legal job.
Have you spoken to your pastor about this?
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by delexyl(m): 8:34am On Jan 11, 2021
Pojomojo:
Have you spoken to your pastor about this?


No, I believe we are meant to give to them not the other way round. But I asked for prayers and that will open doors for me.

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Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by bigjackass: 8:50am On Jan 11, 2021
delexyl:



No, I believe we are meant to give to them not the other way round. But I asked for prayers and that will open doors for me.
shocked let me not talk lipsrsealed
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by Grace001: 11:15am On Jan 11, 2021
delexyl:



No, I believe we are meant to give to them not the other way round. But I asked for prayers and that will open doors for me.

You mean you can’t ask for assisting in the church through your pastor ?

When the door open give him(pastor) half of whatever comes from the open door. Anyways what do I know

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Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by Teleprompter(f): 11:24am On Jan 11, 2021
What was your wife doing before your son was hit by okada?

I don't mean to sound Insensitive but when a man is down financially, his wife should be able to step up. November is too recent for you to be asking for money on Nairaland.
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by delexyl(m): 12:41pm On Jan 11, 2021
Teleprompter:
What was your wife doing before your son was hit by okada?

I don't mean to sound Insensitive but when a man is down financially, his wife should be able to step up. November is too recent for you to be asking for money on Nairaland.





No offence taken sir/ma. My wife went to market and left the kids home, children can be wanton and it was this accident that drained us of our savings. You want proof?
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by Foodqueen(f): 2:37pm On Jan 11, 2021
delexyl:



No, I believe we are meant to give to them not the other way round. But I asked for prayers and that will open doors for me.

U are meant to give to them

Can u imagine.u never start
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by seborrhic: 3:23pm On Jan 11, 2021
delexyl:


No offence taken sir/ma. My wife went to market and left the kids home, children can be wanton and it was this accident that drained us of our savings. You want proof?
Proof here would go a long way.
Good u av access to the internet.
You can get a current newspaper with dates clearly showing,snap your child(dren),with their faces clearly hidden of course.
You cud also post receipts or pictures of the treatment of the said child in the hospital.
If u do this and any other proof,I bet some people will send something
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by delexyl(m): 4:30pm On Jan 11, 2021
Foodqueen:


U are meant to give to them

Can u imagine.u never start



Easy now, I'm entitled to my opinion and views. Please don't point a finger to me, the other four is coming back to you. Thanks.
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by Foodqueen(f): 4:33pm On Jan 11, 2021
delexyl:




Easy now, I'm entitled to my opinion and views. Please don't point a finger to me, the other four is coming back to you. Thanks.

No vex. Continue. Lobatan
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by delexyl(m): 4:34pm On Jan 11, 2021
seborrhic:

Proof here would go a long way.
Good u av access to the internet.
You can get a current newspaper with dates clearly showing,snap your child(dren),with their faces clearly hidden of course.
You cud also post receipts or pictures of the treatment of the said child in the hospital.
If u do this and any other proof,I bet some people will send something


Thanks a lot, I'll try to do that the moment I'm with them. And I have some pictures before and during the treatment of my son.
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by delexyl(m): 4:34pm On Jan 11, 2021
Foodqueen:


No vex. Continue. Lobatan

My help will come, just not from you. Eseun
Re: Help! I Am Failing As A Father And Husband, I NEED A JOB by Pojomojo: 7:49pm On Jan 15, 2021
delexyl:



No, I believe we are meant to give to them not the other way round. But I asked for prayers and that will open doors for me.
ok sir

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