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Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by baralatie(m): 1:30pm On Jan 10, 2021

pcguru1:
Haba 8 years thats wickedness

To let you know that some guys are serious time wasters and space blockers

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jan 10, 2021

Organsmuggler:
I agree with you, OP come and marry me

you set sha..

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Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Kayberg: 2:07pm On Jan 10, 2021

Everything is now about sex….

Sex or no relationship.
Sex or no job.
Sex or no passing of exams.
Sex or no promotion.
Sex or no contract.
Sex or no friendship.
Sex or no love.
Sex or no lust.
Sex or no marriage.
Sex or no this.
Sex or no that.

If the world is now like this, what will happen to the next generation?

huh

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by rtdCivilservant: 2:57pm On Jan 10, 2021

Billybe1:
Okay guys I'm not that good at writing but I would make it brief.
I dated a girl for 8years, she(nikky) said no sex before marriage I agreed thinking maybe with time our romance will get to the next level. 1,2,3 years past by I start asking her questions if she was attracted to and why denying sex, despite the time we have been together. Tho we had quite a long distance relationship which she do come to Lagos twice or once a year. I got fed up and I told her I can't continue. I found another girlfriend(iyabo) we dated for 2years . But doing that period this my ex(nikky) in long distance keep disturbing. I ignore her after I break up with my ex (iyabo) we had the best intimate relationship just that she ain't truthful and we do have lot of misunderstanding. I took (nikky) and she continue with no sex without marriage. I stop giving her time and even ignoring her hoping she will leave since I have giving her the red light.. The mistake I make was introducing her to my family. She do visit even without me knowing .despite I block her. So one day I visited my family and my mom told me she came. I was surprise. I have to tell her to leave that we don't have anything in common we are not compatible. She left and do you believe she find a way and start calling my number and messaging. That she want us to be friend. I told her clear I'm not interested. Now she keep bombing me with calls and messages that she cared. Bla bla bla that I'm angry she refuse to make love to me I should give my life to Jesus. Pls guys which app or how can I block her entirely I feel she is stalking me and is disturbing me. 10 missed calls and lots of silly messages just today.

But u sef, can't u stay without sex? U sef no try.

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by ashawopikin(m): 2:58pm On Jan 10, 2021

Billybe1:
Okay guys I'm not that good at writing but I would make it brief.
I dated a girl for 8years, she(nikky) said no sex before marriage I agreed thinking maybe with time our romance will get to the next level. 1,2,3 years past by I start asking her questions if she was attracted to and why denying sex, despite the time we have been together. Tho we had quite a long distance relationship which she do come to Lagos twice or once a year. I got fed up and I told her I can't continue. I found another girlfriend(iyabo) we dated for 2years . But doing that period this my ex(nikky) in long distance keep disturbing. I ignore her after I break up with my ex (iyabo) we had the best intimate relationship just that she ain't truthful and we do have lot of misunderstanding. I took (nikky) and she continue with no sex without marriage. I stop giving her time and even ignoring her hoping she will leave since I have giving her the red light.. The mistake I make was introducing her to my family. She do visit even without me knowing .despite I block her. So one day I visited my family and my mom told me she came. I was surprise. I have to tell her to leave that we don't have anything in common we are not compatible. She left and do you believe she find a way and start calling my number and messaging. That she want us to be friend. I told her clear I'm not interested. Now she keep bombing me with calls and messages that she cared. Bla bla bla that I'm angry she refuse to make love to me I should give my life to Jesus. Pls guys which app or how can I block her entirely I feel she is stalking me and is disturbing me. 10 missed calls and lots of silly messages just today.

Just plan on how to make her catch u in bed with another woman and all your problems will be solved

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by drmikeadams(m): 3:09pm On Jan 10, 2021

Billybe1:
Okay guys I'm not that good at writing but I would make it brief.
I dated a girl for 8years, she(nikky) said no sex before marriage I agreed thinking maybe with time our romance will get to the next level. 1,2,3 years past by I start asking her questions if she was attracted to and why denying sex, despite the time we have been together. Tho we had quite a long distance relationship which she do come to Lagos twice or once a year. I got fed up and I told her I can't continue. I found another girlfriend(iyabo) we dated for 2years . But doing that period this my ex(nikky) in long distance keep disturbing. I ignore her after I break up with my ex (iyabo) we had the best intimate relationship just that she ain't truthful and we do have lot of misunderstanding. I took (nikky) and she continue with no sex without marriage. I stop giving her time and even ignoring her hoping she will leave since I have giving her the red light.. The mistake I make was introducing her to my family. She do visit even without me knowing .despite I block her. So one day I visited my family and my mom told me she came. I was surprise. I have to tell her to leave that we don't have anything in common we are not compatible. She left and do you believe she find a way and start calling my number and messaging. That she want us to be friend. I told her clear I'm not interested. Now she keep bombing me with calls and messages that she cared. Bla bla bla that I'm angry she refuse to make love to me I should give my life to Jesus. Pls guys which app or how can I block her entirely I feel she is stalking me and is disturbing me. 10 missed calls and lots of silly messages just today.

Oh God of Jamaica...u follow woman for 8years u no c panties nor enter the red warmth sea in between her legs

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by sarkice(m): 3:17pm On Jan 10, 2021

Billybe1:
Okay guys I'm not that good at writing but I would make it brief.
I dated a girl for 8years, she(nikky) said no sex before marriage I agreed thinking maybe with time our romance will get to the next level. 1,2,3 years past by I start asking her questions if she was attracted to and why denying sex, despite the time we have been together. Tho we had quite a long distance relationship which she do come to Lagos twice or once a year. I got fed up and I told her I can't continue. I found another girlfriend(iyabo) we dated for 2years . But doing that period this my ex(nikky) in long distance keep disturbing. I ignore her after I break up with my ex (iyabo) we had the best intimate relationship just that she ain't truthful and we do have lot of misunderstanding. I took (nikky) and she continue with no sex without marriage. I stop giving her time and even ignoring her hoping she will leave since I have giving her the red light.. The mistake I make was introducing her to my family. She do visit even without me knowing .despite I block her. So one day I visited my family and my mom told me she came. I was surprise. I have to tell her to leave that we don't have anything in common we are not compatible. She left and do you believe she find a way and start calling my number and messaging. That she want us to be friend. I told her clear I'm not interested. Now she keep bombing me with calls and messages that she cared. Bla bla bla that I'm angry she refuse to make love to me I should give my life to Jesus. Pls guys which app or how can I block her entirely I feel she is stalking me and is disturbing me. 10 missed calls and lots of silly messages just today.

so without sex u can't live abi

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Nobody: 3:28pm On Jan 10, 2021

Billybe1:
Okay guys I'm not that good at writing but I would make it brief.
I dated a girl for 8years, she(nikky) said no sex before marriage I agreed thinking maybe with time our romance will get to the next level. 1,2,3 years past by I start asking her questions if she was attracted to and why denying sex, despite the time we have been together. Tho we had quite a long distance relationship which she do come to Lagos twice or once a year. I got fed up and I told her I can't continue. I found another girlfriend(iyabo) we dated for 2years . But doing that period this my ex(nikky) in long distance keep disturbing. I ignore her after I break up with my ex (iyabo) we had the best intimate relationship just that she ain't truthful and we do have lot of misunderstanding. I took (nikky) and she continue with no sex without marriage. I stop giving her time and even ignoring her hoping she will leave since I have giving her the red light.. The mistake I make was introducing her to my family. She do visit even without me knowing .despite I block her. So one day I visited my family and my mom told me she came. I was surprise. I have to tell her to leave that we don't have anything in common we are not compatible. She left and do you believe she find a way and start calling my number and messaging. That she want us to be friend. I told her clear I'm not interested. Now she keep bombing me with calls and messages that she cared. Bla bla bla that I'm angry she refuse to make love to me I should give my life to Jesus. Pls guys which app or how can I block her entirely I feel she is stalking me and is disturbing me. 10 missed calls and lots of silly messages just today.

She Wants U To Be Her Friend, Just Be Her Friend, Dat's All.

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by ennon92(m): 3:48pm On Jan 10, 2021

Ogbeni, confirm if she's a virgin. If yes, don't end the relationship. If no, àlaye japa!

Btw, that moniker "Organsmuggler" is a she male...No let him drill ur a55

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jan 10, 2021

Xenry:
Alright, this is actually what happens when you are being controlled by emotions in a relationship, — the girl would easily influence your actions and thoughts with little or no efforts.
The first mistake you made was to accept the relationship without agreeing to her "not having séx before marriage" idea, even though you know she was serious about it. Then, at that point, it was your job to decide which way the relationship should go. But you didn't, because you were carried away by emotions.
In addition to that, you cheated on her without officially breaking up with her. Why not finish one race before entering into another?
Now, back to blocking her and stuffs. All you have to do is; IGNORE HER. Girls likes attention, but when they can't get it, jealousy and it's likes are sure to come. Ignore her and you would be fine. But before ignoring her, make sure you made it clear and obvious to her that you guys aren't dating anymore.
Now, to avoid making such mistakes in the future. 1.Never continue with a relationship at the initially stage, if and only if you don't agree with the terms and conditions. It's very important to stick to this simple advice/tip, because not all terms and conditions can easily be broken or changed. Watch out! Before it (the terms and conditions) break your heart instead.
2.Try not to cheat unless you are totally done with her, and also, try to make it clear to her that it's over. No heart is worth breaking without a warning.
3.Don't and never allow yourself to be emotionally attached to anything, not just people, anything at all can be dangerous. Why should you not allow that? Because it is a 'focus killer'. Remember, you need focus to keep working/walking and to keep living in greater ways.
That's all for now, I wish you the best of luck. Just ignore her and you would be fine. But next time, make sure to be more careful before agreeing to any terms and conditions!

boss you are blessed with wisdom. You are the only one that wrote a vital point . Some guys here wicked sha. If you are not strong emotional you can end up quarreling with 90% of them.

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jan 10, 2021

NextD18:
While she's possibly fvckin bad guys around, she's at the same time trying so hard not to loose you who is a simp and Mr nice guy to her.

lol. I don't care about her sex life.. I'm only trying to be free from her. More like she is stalking me. I think she think all this is just fun. But am not finding it funny. I have moved on for long

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jan 10, 2021

Truvel:
She Wants U To Be Her Friend, Just Be Her Friend, Dat's All.

It doesn't work that way she will interfere with my next relationship the way she is attaching everything.

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jan 10, 2021

Organsmuggler:
no wahala sweetie, i go wait but how we go take know one another for this NL, shey u go email me or take my number from my profile, I no go remain single this 2021

I am not the most holy person. But I cast and bind you. What do you take me as male hoe

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jan 10, 2021

Billybe1:
It doesn't work that way she will interfere with my next relationship the way she is attaching everything.

Just Friendzone Her.

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jan 10, 2021

ennon92:
Ogbeni, confirm if she's a virgin. If yes, don't end the relationship. If no, àlaye japa!

Btw, that moniker "Organsmuggler" is a she male...No let him drill ur a55

I am no longer interested. I would use the time and look for someone that is active like me. Instead of wasting more time trying to fix what I can't.

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jan 10, 2021

Truvel:
Just Friendzone Her.

No a busy man don't do that. Lot of pretty ladies that want something spectacular. Not an emotion tweaker to befriend with or friend zone

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Organsmuggler(f): 7:22pm On Jan 10, 2021

ennon92:
Ogbeni, confirm if she's a virgin. If yes, don't end the relationship. If no, àlaye japa!

Btw, that moniker "Organsmuggler" is a she male...No let him drill ur a55

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Stubborn82: 8:21pm On Jan 10, 2021

Get yourself any of the Samsung "M" series
With that you can block the f**k out of her calls and sms.

Lobatan

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Samakus(m): 8:29pm On Jan 10, 2021

Michelle55:
You serious ni

Op wife don land oh, no waste time.

E shock you? cheesy

. This is 2021. Everybody dey hustle. If you like, don't don't come and hustle me now that I'm still free cheesy

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Johniegram26(m): 9:06pm On Jan 10, 2021

NextD18:
While she's possibly fvckin bad guys around, she's at the same time trying so hard not to loose you who is a simp and Mr nice guy to her.

kolo��

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Michelle55: 10:31pm On Jan 10, 2021

Samakus:
E shock you? . This is 2021. Everybody dey hustle. If you like, don't don't come and hustle me now that I'm still free

Nnam, I wee pass inugo
This kain husband wey dey market imsef get as e be cheesy

Na new chasis and tear rubber husband man I dey find tongue

no be people wey dia life battery don remain 2%

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by padi94(m): 11:05pm On Jan 10, 2021

Agree to her terms but tell her you will be fucking other people whenever you have the urge...
When she is around just tell her that you will like her to leave the house for 2hrs that another girl is coming for sex. Nothing will make a girl hate you faster than this.

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by efficiencie(m): 12:05am On Jan 11, 2021

Regex:
There are actually men who were chastised yet are victims of paternity fraud.

What are the proportions? When you are open to random sex you can reasonably expect your chances of marrying a fraudulent lady to be higher than that of a man that is chaste and watchful...

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Nobody: 2:37am On Jan 11, 2021

Billybe1:
Okay guys I'm not that good at writing but I would make it brief.
I dated a girl for 8years, she(nikky) said no sex before marriage I agreed thinking maybe with time our romance will get to the next level. 1,2,3 years past by I start asking her questions if she was attracted to and why denying sex, despite the time we have been together. Tho we had quite a long distance relationship which she do come to Lagos twice or once a year. I got fed up and I told her I can't continue. I found another girlfriend(iyabo) we dated for 2years . But doing that period this my ex(nikky) in long distance keep disturbing. I ignore her after I break up with my ex (iyabo) we had the best intimate relationship just that she ain't truthful and we do have lot of misunderstanding. I took (nikky) and she continue with no sex without marriage. I stop giving her time and even ignoring her hoping she will leave since I have giving her the red light.. The mistake I make was introducing her to my family. She do visit even without me knowing .despite I block her. So one day I visited my family and my mom told me she came. I was surprise. I have to tell her to leave that we don't have anything in common we are not compatible. She left and do you believe she find a way and start calling my number and messaging. That she want us to be friend. I told her clear I'm not interested. Now she keep bombing me with calls and messages that she cared. Bla bla bla that I'm angry she refuse to make love to me I should give my life to Jesus. Pls guys which app or how can I block her entirely I feel she is stalking me and is disturbing me. 10 missed calls and lots of silly messages just today.

Rape her

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by BigBizzy(m): 6:35am On Jan 11, 2021

Billybe1:
Okay guys I'm not that good at writing but I would make it brief.
I dated a girl for 8years, she(nikky) said no sex before marriage I agreed thinking maybe with time our romance will get to the next level. 1,2,3 years past by I start asking her questions if she was attracted to and why denying sex, despite the time we have been together. Tho we had quite a long distance relationship which she do come to Lagos twice or once a year. I got fed up and I told her I can't continue. I found another girlfriend(iyabo) we dated for 2years . But doing that period this my ex(nikky) in long distance keep disturbing. I ignore her after I break up with my ex (iyabo) we had the best intimate relationship just that she ain't truthful and we do have lot of misunderstanding. I took (nikky) and she continue with no sex without marriage. I stop giving her time and even ignoring her hoping she will leave since I have giving her the red light.. The mistake I make was introducing her to my family. She do visit even without me knowing .despite I block her. So one day I visited my family and my mom told me she came. I was surprise. I have to tell her to leave that we don't have anything in common we are not compatible. She left and do you believe she find a way and start calling my number and messaging. That she want us to be friend. I told her clear I'm not interested. Now she keep bombing me with calls and messages that she cared. Bla bla bla that I'm angry she refuse to make love to me I should give my life to Jesus. Pls guys which app or how can I block her entirely I feel she is stalking me and is disturbing me. 10 missed calls and lots of silly messages just today.

How old are you?

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Regex: 6:39am On Jan 11, 2021

efficiencie:
What are the proportions? When you are open to random sex you can reasonably expect your chances of marrying a fraudulent lady to be higher than that of a man that is chaste and watchful...

Are you even asking the proportion?

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by dederocs(m): 6:40am On Jan 11, 2021

Simp

Some bad guys dey Bleep her around town.

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Samakus(m): 6:42am On Jan 11, 2021

Michelle55:
Nnam, I wee pass inugo
This kain husband wey dey market imsef get as e be
Na new chasis and tear rubber husband man I dey find no be people wey dia life battery don remain 2%

Ariri m

Ajo onu will not kee you cheesy

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by anochuko01(m): 6:49am On Jan 11, 2021

ShenTeh:
You are looking for app to block a girl that is committed to chastity and you.

Na so people dey lose out on life time opportunity.

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Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Michelle55: 7:03am On Jan 11, 2021

Samakus:
Ariri m

Ajo onu will not kee you

I learnt well from you nwokem so be calming down and enjoying it inugo cheesy

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by SILENTandSMART2: 7:05am On Jan 11, 2021

as a relationship expert dat i am , aswear dat girl is not serious , don't block her ooo , tell her to come to your house and forkkkk the hell out of her wink

we call dat "breaking" she will have no choice dan to stay with you , nah one guy dey give her back to back but she dey do holy holy for you,

follow this advice the second one is not serious you will not have great relationship with her wink

,

dats the latest code in town

Re: What Have I Gotten Myself Into. by Kingzy4pep(m): 7:16am On Jan 11, 2021

NextD18:
While she's possibly fvckin bad guys around, she's at the same time trying so hard not to loose you who is a simp and Mr nice guy to her.

Una own nor pass to call people Simp..

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