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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by drmikeadams(m): 12:50am On Jan 13, 2021

amazing101x:
Trust , for men trust equals love. If any lady can make a man gain his trust , he will love her forever . but you can't fake it. most ladies are naturally not trust worthy. they will even say "don't you trust me". you earn trust. Most guys will go for a trust worthy lady for a virgin he can't trust. We are always watching, you visit a guy, you put your phone on airplane mode, we know. you pick a call and start reducing the volumn of your speaker, we know. you put three password on your phone with finger print on your whatsap , we know.

Haha them Delete their text messages and will want to check our own

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Nobody: 1:06am On Jan 13, 2021

We want the cultured wives

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by emmaodet: 5:20am On Jan 13, 2021

From my experience, i think most nigerian men want ladies like their mums but funny enough, most nigerian ladies don't want a man like their dads.

Now, the question is who is my mum?

A hardworking, beautiful, loyal, humble (i don't like the word submissive), thrifty etc woman. Unfortunately, most modern women are far from been such.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by phazotron(m): 8:59am On Jan 13, 2021

drmikeadams:
Haha them Delete their text messages and will want to check our own

Very useless creatures

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by phazotron(m): 9:01am On Jan 13, 2021

drmikeadams:
Haha them Delete their text messages and will want to check our own

Very funny creatures

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by OGWILLS123: 3:06pm On Jan 13, 2021

Zebulun15:
If u say so i agree with u
But remeber ur mother is useless too .

Of cause she is tongue

, As well as yours tongue

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by OGWILLS123: 3:12pm On Jan 13, 2021

Patiks:
[s]

That means we should flog our parents and the men that are confusing us, right?[/s]

what is this mugu even saying undecided

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks(op): 5:58pm On Jan 13, 2021

RisenPhoenix1:
Thank you, glad you liked it. But much as I would love to take the credit, the thought was actually that of the black nationalist; Marcus Garvey (though the picture on my dp wrongly attributed the quote to Cicero, another orator and nationalist I strongly admire.).

Thanks for the lecture. I was going to use it as my Whatsapp dp. wink

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks(op): 5:59pm On Jan 13, 2021

OGWILLS123:
what is this mugu even saying

Now, I think someone should be flogged for raising such an abusive child like you.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks(op): 6:13pm On Jan 13, 2021*

allandutch:
Loyalty. Trust. Love. Respect.?

Your post here is just too sentimental. You're blaming men for everything because they desire flashy women? You are missing the point.

There's nothing wrong with desiring flashy women. But as a matter of fact, in this country, you will pay for desiring any woman at all, flashy or not. The none-flashy women that you are suggesting as a better alternative, these days, they will make you pay for just asking them out.

I am blaming them for wanting women to be all and all, yet feigning ignorance as to what it takes to keep up the appearances.

I never suggested that 'non-flashy women are better alternatives'. I only stated that if you are bothered by the constant demands of some flashy women, simply go for the ones that won't bother you because they are modest, thrifty and hardworking, (even if this group is also flashy like their leeching counterparts). The keywords are modesty, prudence and hardworking.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jan 13, 2021

Patiks:
Thanks for the lecture. I was going to use it as my Whatsapp dp.

Crop the erroneous attribution if you are.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks(op): 8:29pm On Jan 13, 2021

RisenPhoenix1:
Crop the erroneous attribution if you are.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jan 13, 2021

Patiks:
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I mean if you want to use it as your WhatsApp dp, crop out the wrong mention of Cicero stated on it.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks(op): 9:26pm On Jan 13, 2021

RisenPhoenix1:
I mean if you want to use it as your WhatsApp dp, crop out the wrong mention of Cicero stated on it.

Crystal clear. I was thanking you for the advice.

PS: The question marks were supposed to be the picture of two hands joined together in supplication/thanks.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Kaimaonyeana: 9:57pm On Jan 13, 2021

Patiks:
Wow! I really don't know what to say now.

I am learning, I guess.

Better don't listen to that. Most if not all men love beautiful and flashy ladies but not fake. Too much of everything is bad obviously. Minimal makeup that fits, eyelashes not unecessary long, nice dress for the body type, nice skin all contributes to a woman's beauty and men love it when done in moderation. What every high value man i. e a man with money really wants is a woman is her youth( you must be young) and beauty. This is the reality i'm used to. 95% of the men looking for independent women(it's so funny how independence is known as only financial independence in Nigeria) most times, have nothing really going on for them. This makes them settle for the not-so-beautiful independent woman and when the money eventually comes, they dump their wives for these flashy girls. It happens and it's still happening. So, my dear, invest in looking good, from your skin down to what you wear and u will never have to deal with boys again but men. wink

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Kaimaonyeana: 10:03pm On Jan 13, 2021

emmaodet:
From my experience, i think most nigerian men want ladies like their mums but funny enough, most nigerian ladies don't want a man like their dads.

Now, the question is who is my mum?

A hardworking, beautiful, loyal, humble (i don't like the word submissive), thrifty etc woman. Unfortunately, most modern women are far from been such.

I'm happy modern women have moved away from these. I think we realised that there's no honour in suffering. Cheers to a new age cheesy

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks(op): 10:14pm On Jan 13, 2021

Kaimaonyeana:
Better don't listen to that. Most if not all men love beautiful and flashy ladies but not fake. Too much of everything is bad obviously. Minimal makeup that fits, eyelashes not unecessary long, nice dress for the body type, nice skin all contributes to a woman's beauty and men love it when done in moderation. What every high value man i. e a man with money really wants is a woman is her youth( you must be young) and beauty. This is the reality i'm used to. 95% of the men looking for independent women(it's so funny how independence is known as only financial independence in Nigeria) most times, have nothing really going on for them. This makes them settle for the not-so-beautiful independent woman and when the money eventually comes, they dump their wives for these flashy girls. It happens and it's still happening. So, my dear, invest in looking good, from your skin down to what you wear and u will never have to deal with boys again but men.

Makes sense. But why do most Nigerian men complain bitterly when they are asked to support that lifestyle? They even go as far as stereotyping all Nigeian women with all sorts of derogatory names.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Jan 13, 2021

Patiks:
Crystal clear. I was thanking you for the advice.

PS: The question marks were supposed to be the picture of two hands joined together in supplication/thanks.

Oh ok. You're welcome.
Sorry, I'm not too familiar with all these online signs and emojis.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Kaimaonyeana: 10:18pm On Jan 13, 2021

Patiks:
Makes sense. But why do most Nigerian men complain bitterly when they are asked to support that lifestyle? They even go as far as stereotyping all Nigeian women with all sorts of derogatory names.

Because most of them don't have. The rich ones are not the ones complaining bitterly online, they are busy working to provide for the women in their lives. They are just frustrated because they can't get the kind of women they want except they have cash.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by emmaodet: 10:29pm On Jan 13, 2021

Kaimaonyeana:
I'm happy modern women have moved away from these. I think we realised that there's no honour in suffering. Cheers to a new age

Good for them, so are the modern men also moving away from the old slavery of working for women all their life, feeding, housing and clothing them with their children.
But guess what? the modern women don't want that. They are always calling the modern men stingy, broke, useless, irresponsible, deadbeats just because they also want to be as free as the women.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Mide3367(m): 10:33pm On Jan 13, 2021

StacyO:
They don't even know what they want.

But, I'll tell ya.

Modified::
They want ass and boobs but,no-----They don't want a Lady who has only ass and boobs to offer.

They want a working class lady but,no-----They don't want a woman who will make more money than them,neither do they need a full house wife.

They want a virgin but,no---- They want a full time slot on bed,one who would make their heads burst.

They don't want an illiterate but,no-----They feel insecure when a girl challenges them intellectually.

I got into something with a white guy one time then,considering the fact they're always sexually insatiable. A day into the relationship, he's already demanding for sex.
I kept coming up with different excuses(mind you an observation was taking place).
The guy threatened fire and water from hell. lol
Didn't give up at all (considering the fact I don't even like white guys )

Actually, it wasn't killing him,it was making him fall in love.
He finally let it out when I least expected, he said and I quote
"With you,I realized that sex wasn't everything in a relationship"

A sex freak said that!!! Shit is real
He still didn't get it sha,maybe I'm that stingy when it comes to that aspect. "

What I'm trying to state from that write up.

Nigerian ladies,sex doesn't keep a man. No matter what style you position yourself in bed,he'll still leave you when he meets a girl who can control his insatiable urge for sex.

@op,they don't need sex.
They need someone who can control them from the other end,someone who they can trust.
Trust me,an average Nigerian man when he goes into a relationship with you,the next thing on his mind is how to fvck your figure 8 to figure 8 pro max.

It's left to you as the woman to decide whether you want commitment OR sex. "

Look into this thread on what they said they actually need.
I hope you don't get confused.

https://www.nairaland.com/6148380/sex-relationship-ladies-dont-deceived

I pity the oyinbo man and u keep collecting his money huh

. Women are manipulative

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jan 13, 2021

Mide3367:
I pity the oyinbo man and u keep collecting his money . Women are manipulative

They ain't stingy and they know how to spend on their woman.
I was just playing my cards right.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:21am On Jan 14, 2021

allandutch:
Loyalty. Trust. Love. Respect.?

Your post here is just too sentimental. You're blaming men for everything because they desire flashy women? You are missing the point.

There's nothing wrong with desiring flashy women. But as a matter of fact, in this country, you will pay for desiring any woman at all, flashy or not. The none-flashy women that you are suggesting as a better alternative, these days, they will make you pay for just asking them out.

Bolded, simply the truth.

So what do some of us want?

Desire comes from exposure and experience, I will concur with the above writer loyalty, trust, love and respect.

But in particular a lady who wants to do something more meaningful with her life, willing to grow (esp mentally), agreeable and being a person of integrity (different from loyalty, it means sameness of character irrespective of circumstance)

But you see the challenge is not wanting or desiring those attributes, the question is are you that person you are desiring?

Most people live in a dream land wanting attributes they will not commit to or pay the price for themselves.

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Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:28am On Jan 14, 2021

StacyO:
They don't even know what they want.

But, I'll tell ya.

Modified::
They want ass and boobs but,no-----They don't want a Lady who has only ass and boobs to offer.

They want a working class lady but,no-----They don't want a woman who will make more money than them,neither do they need a full house wife.

They want a virgin but,no---- They want a full time slot on bed,one who would make their heads burst.

They don't want an illiterate but,no-----They feel insecure when a girl challenges them intellectually.

I got into something with a white guy one time then,considering the fact they're always sexually insatiable. A day into the relationship, he's already demanding for sex.
I kept coming up with different excuses(mind you an observation was taking place).
The guy threatened fire and water from hell. lol
Didn't give up at all (considering the fact I don't even like white guys )

Actually, it wasn't killing him,it was making him fall in love.
He finally let it out when I least expected, he said and I quote
"With you,I realized that sex wasn't everything in a relationship"

A sex freak said that!!! Shit is real
He still didn't get it sha,maybe I'm that stingy when it comes to that aspect. "

What I'm trying to state from that write up.

Nigerian ladies,sex doesn't keep a man. No matter what style you position yourself in bed,he'll still leave you when he meets a girl who can control his insatiable urge for sex.

@op,they don't need sex.
They need someone who can control them from the other end,someone who they can trust.
Trust me,an average Nigerian man when he goes into a relationship with you,the next thing on his mind is how to fvck your figure 8 to figure 8 pro max.

It's left to you as the woman to decide whether you want commitment OR sex. "

Look into this thread on what they said they actually need.
I hope you don't get confused.

https://www.nairaland.com/6148380/sex-relationship-ladies-dont-deceived

Your enlightenment and convictions cannot be mistaken, you see why one particular fellow keeps looking for that greenlight, toh it is well.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by thatsleepboy1: 12:37am On Jan 14, 2021

StacyO:
https://www.nairaland.com/6148380/sex-relationship-ladies-dont-deceived

From your post, I can deduce that you're not that virgin that you've been preaching about.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Nobody: 6:55am On Jan 14, 2021*

thatsleepboy1:
From your post, I can deduce that you're not that virgin that you've been preaching about.

Amebo

What do you want to know?

Have you seen this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/6307247/when-say-lady-loose-vagina

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Godoverevery: 7:51am On Jan 14, 2021

StacyO:
They don't even know what they want.

But, I'll tell ya.

Modified::
They want ass and boobs but,no-----They don't want a Lady who has only ass and boobs to offer.

They want a working class lady but,no-----They don't want a woman who will make more money than them,neither do they need a full house wife.

They want a virgin but,no---- They want a full time slot on bed,one who would make their heads burst.

They don't want an illiterate but,no-----They feel insecure when a girl challenges them intellectually.

I got into something with a white guy one time then,considering the fact they're always sexually insatiable. A day into the relationship, he's already demanding for sex.
I kept coming up with different excuses(mind you an observation was taking place).
The guy threatened fire and water from hell. lol
Didn't give up at all (considering the fact I don't even like white guys )

Actually, it wasn't killing him,it was making him fall in love.
He finally let it out when I least expected, he said and I quote
"With you,I realized that sex wasn't everything in a relationship"

A sex freak said that!!! Shit is real
He still didn't get it sha,maybe I'm that stingy when it comes to that aspect. "

What I'm trying to state from that write up.

Nigerian ladies,sex doesn't keep a man. No matter what style you position yourself in bed,he'll still leave you when he meets a girl who can control his insatiable urge for sex.

@op,they don't need sex.
They need someone who can control them from the other end,someone who they can trust.
Trust me,an average Nigerian man when he goes into a relationship with you,the next thing on his mind is how to fvck your figure 8 to figure 8 pro max.

It's left to you as the woman to decide whether you want commitment OR sex. "

Look into this thread on what they said they actually need.
I hope you don't get confused.

https://www.nairaland.com/6148380/sex-relationship-ladies-dont-deceived

like I always say.....For ladies it always the men fault..... hard working ladies and those that don't wear make up are all saints.

Nigerian men are confuse and all they want is sex but Nigerian Ladies are focus and all they want is money.....the day you ladies start owing up to your shit and shifting blame or playing victim is day y"all will be respected.

Not been contented isn't a gender thing.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by thatsleepboy1: 12:15pm On Jan 14, 2021

StacyO:
Have you seen this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/6307247/when-say-lady-loose-vagina

hahahahaha

see you ooo

what does the post have to do with what I said earlier. stop beating around the bush and move on. I never asked you a ??

BTW, can you buy a vehicle that I'll use for uber on weekly delivery. na me wan use am for survival pls. if I Bleep up, you collect am and I never too old o I'm between 20-23 yrs old.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks(op): 12:35pm On Jan 14, 2021

StacyO:
They don't even know what they want.

But, I'll tell ya.

Modified::
They want ass and boobs but,no-----They don't want a Lady who has only ass and boobs to offer.

They want a working class lady but,no-----They don't want a woman who will make more money than them,neither do they need a full house wife.

They want a virgin but,no---- They want a full time slot on bed,one who would make their heads burst.

They don't want an illiterate but,no-----They feel insecure when a girl challenges them intellectually.

I got into something with a white guy one time then,considering the fact they're always sexually insatiable. A day into the relationship, he's already demanding for sex.
I kept coming up with different excuses(mind you an observation was taking place).
The guy threatened fire and water from hell. lol
Didn't give up at all (considering the fact I don't even like white guys )

Actually, it wasn't killing him,it was making him fall in love.
He finally let it out when I least expected, he said and I quote
"With you,I realized that sex wasn't everything in a relationship"

A sex freak said that!!! Shit is real
He still didn't get it sha,maybe I'm that stingy when it comes to that aspect. "

What I'm trying to state from that write up.

Nigerian ladies,sex doesn't keep a man. No matter what style you position yourself in bed,he'll still leave you when he meets a girl who can control his insatiable urge for sex.

@op,they don't need sex.
They need someone who can control them from the other end,someone who they can trust.
Trust me,an average Nigerian man when he goes into a relationship with you,the next thing on his mind is how to fvck your figure 8 to figure 8 pro max.

It's left to you as the woman to decide whether you want commitment OR sex. "

Look into this thread on what they said they actually need.
I hope you don't get confused.

https://www.nairaland.com/6148380/sex-relationship-ladies-dont-deceived

I completely agree with you. Most don't know what they want; yet, they keep blaming the ladies for what they are responsible for.

They want to eat their cake and have it. Karma is giving them a dose of their bitter pill.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Patiks(op): 12:48pm On Jan 14, 2021

StacyO:
https://www.nairaland.com/6148380/sex-relationship-ladies-dont-deceived

I checked out the thread. Never knew you had addressed the same issue.

If only these boys (or are they men?) know how confused, myopic, hypocritical and foolish they sound when they come up with those sickening generalisations, they will shut up and sit up for real.

I feel really scared knowing such are the majority out there. I am really praying that God gives me a mentally and morally sound man. That's all I ask for.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Iseoluwa2050(m): 1:57pm On Jan 18, 2021

Patiks:
I completely agree with you. Most don't know what they want; yet, they keep blaming the ladies for what they are responsible for.

They want to eat their cake and have it. Karma is giving them a dose of their bitter pill.

Re: What Does The Average Nigerian Man Want? Do You Know? by Nobody: 11:30am On Jan 23, 2021

Godoverevery:
like I always say.....For ladies it always the men fault..... hard working ladies and those that don't wear make up are all saints.

Nigerian men are confuse and all they want is sex but Nigerian Ladies are focus and all they want is money.....the day you ladies start owing up to your shit and shifting blame or playing victim is day y"all will be respected.

Not been contented isn't a gender thing.

I never really typed anything about contentment.

I only wrote according to the topic in display tongue

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