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| Help Me I Need Advise Please by Roserosey(op): 8:39pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Good evening house.. I’ll be brief this I made a transaction with a guy worth millions (he bought goods from me ) and so he paid me the money but remains 600k.. cuz they blocked his account, he promised to pay me since last year up till last week he did not pay me.. he even threatened he won’t give me my money .. so I thought of to arrange some boys to carry him and tell him to send the money in my presence.. so they did that and he paid it that same day cuz he has more than the money in his other bank account but just don’t want to pay me the money initially.. so they did that without touching him or beating him .. now he’s threatening he’s gonna inform the police that I arranged some guys to rob him and beat him which is not true saying he has some evidence and recordings... he even threatened to take police to arrest my family.. now I’m just afraid what will this lead to if he eventually inform the police and the police says I should produce the guys.. I don’t know what to do anymore tho he owed me the money but I’m thinking what will happen next.. please guys if you’re in my shoes what will you do |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by daneni1(m): 8:41pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
All na threat, he is just trying to make you feel bad about the whole thing. |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by stupidmod2: 8:48pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
lol he wont just tell him if he disturb u again d next time he sees u it wont b pleasant, he is a useless soul, greedy fool. |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Roserosey(op): 8:49pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
daneni1:Thanks cuz I’m really scared of what might happen next.. he even threatened that I should send him his money back which he knows he owes me.. he said I should be watching my back that anything can happen to me anytime |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Deborah98(f): 8:53pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
You too should be ready as well,get in touch with the police,brief them what happened and have some back up with you. 3 Likes |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by LeeSantos(m): 9:01pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
he's an empty threat. how could he have possibly had the scene recorded when he wasn't inform of the impending hijack. just leave him and don't reply his treat whether written or orally, cus you might get roped. all you just need to do is to text him this. "If you continue to threaten me or any of my family members with death for retrieving my money you scammed me of, I will have no other option but to report you to the police" keep the txt on your phone. Den continue with your day to day activities. 3 Likes |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Roserosey(op): 9:02pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Deborah98:Tho I’m ready as well... but I don’t know if I should involve the police first before him or what if he did not involve the police and disguise that it’s threat.. please what do you think I should do |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Roserosey(op): 9:03pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
LeeSantos:Thanks sir |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Deborah98(f): 9:06pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Roserosey:in my humble opinion,my dear I understand how it is to be threatened over what you didn't do, like I said, whether he's disguising it or not, just get in touch with the police or have a person who you can trust well to back you up, if he can go this far to threaten you,I bet you something is lurking around if not danger. |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Yusufisraelj(m): 9:07pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Roserosey:Now you use his words against him "watch your back", tell him you have a police contact that is aware of the ordeal between both of you, and if anything happens to you, he will be arrested, as you have given his contacts and address to them. But make sure you have a police friend, whom you can voice this to and let them advice you on the best course of action, but you pay some royalties, its not bribe to side you ooo, that will backfire if the case goes to court, tell them its pure water money or money for malt. Let them gat your back anytime you run into trouble. Don't let people mess you up like this. Have strategic contacts, military, police, customs and the likes. Next time directly involve the police even if you will part with some money, its the surest way, you are safe on all front, but now yourself have skeletons. Just be careful. |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by LeeSantos(m): 9:11pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Roserosey:you should also involve the police. get your statement documented. u will need it. |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by adexpa(m): 9:13pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
It is all a threat, he knows you will be scared with the trick, do not succumb to his threat. You can stop taking his calls or find ways to boycott him. You need to find legal ways to be handling your customers cus such act is horrible n not advisable, it might backfire and cost you more. |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Roserosey(op): 9:15pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj:Thanks |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Nazgul: 9:19pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Go to the police station and report him first. Inform them of everything that happened, and show them evidence of the business transaction and how he refused to balance you the remaining cash. Tell them how you used your brother's (make sure you tell the police that the people you used was your brother and cousins) to make him pay up cos it's a family business and the guy was holding down your family's capital. Then inform them how the guy decided to change the whole story into you robbing him and threatening him. Once you can make your statement first, there's nothing he can do. Cos the police will invite him and warn him not to lay a finger on you or try anything stupid. He'll have no choice than to make peace. And make sure you avoid any kind or form of business dealings with him. 3 Likes |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Roserosey(op): 9:21pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Nazgul:Thank you sir |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by BlessedNuel: 9:24pm On Jan 23, 2021*. Modified: 9:42pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Forget the empty threats....but you can do what the person that commented above me said you should do...so as to gain more ground before him. See eeh...so far say the boys no beat him...he no get any valid proof whatsoever....He just wan move your feet because you are a woman. Relax your mind and work more on ur future jare 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by sorority11(m): 9:28pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
First thing first. No one have the liver to record anything if being threatened. Secondly if maybe he had the recording he would have reported to the police tey tey without even telling you. Thirdly, report to the police and invite him for a statement, that this said fellow is threatening your life, exempt the part where you used those boys; if he bring the story of you using hoodlum, he has no case because if actually the story was true he would have reported at least a week from the day of robbery. Lastly, you should be more concerned about watching your back rather than the police. The police stuff is an empty threat while him paying hoodlum to treat your fvck up I won't really call that an empty threat. Just watch your back bro and update us if by any means you got matchetted 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by LadySarah: 9:32pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Record everything he says from now on. The threats and every every. If he remains adamant, visit the police before him and also inform your loved ones in case anything happens. but don't show fear in your voice. 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by gabriel66386: 5:01am On Jan 24, 2021 |
You too should be ready as well,get in touch with the police,brief them what happened and have some back up with you. |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Nobody: 5:13am On Jan 24, 2021 |
He is an idiot. Tell him you have reported his threats to the police and that if anything happens to you, he should know the drill. By the way, I hope the story goes exactly as you just narrated it because I hardly trust you vagina people these days.  |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Gogiba(m): 7:22am On Jan 24, 2021 |
Just settle some army guys, let them go warn him that, if anything happens to you, he will be in hot soup.. That will settle d case |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by anonymousthug(m): 9:13am On Jan 24, 2021 |
Roserosey:Kindly document everything he tells you too, which am sure you’re already doing. Use his words against him. |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by Roserosey(op): 1:02pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
anonymousthug:Yes.. thank you so much |
| Re: Help Me I Need Advise Please by BigDick70inch(m): 1:59pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
Roserosey:Ma'am... This should not be giving u sleepless night now.... Show the police the evidence he was owning.... And how he promised not to pay back..... Tell....them yo business was going down and u need money so badly.....then u had to result to that after begging him for so long..... |
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