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Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by walex2(m): 1:26pm On Feb 01, 2021
Accipetex:
Hello nairalanders.
The screen shot below contains a WhatsApp conversation between a girl and her best friend.

My friend has been in a long distance relationship with this girl he loves dearly since 2019 while girl was schooling, she just graduated and he traveled to the village and paid her dowry this January, brought her to Lagos and this is already happening same January. Please matured advice is needed.

My friend is devastated and confused, he needs my opinion but I decided to bring it here since I don't have monopoly of advices.

He is seeing everything as I have sent him a link to monitor people's views on it.
you want me to comment, go back to your phone, remove the nude screen saver, then type your story and repost . No good House wife material use nude picture as screen saver
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by inegbedion30210: 1:33pm On Feb 01, 2021
:What advise do you still need from us? Your candid advise bro
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by majamajic(m): 1:53pm On Feb 01, 2021
Your friend went to east and brought the wife closer to Austin in Lagos

It might just be a send-off sex which didn't happen as planned

My advice is , he should discuss with the girl about the chat , from what she said he should know what to do

Seriously she might still be a good wife after knowing u don catch her with this , this might not happen again all through their marriage . Let him discuss the chat with her , if she confess and beg for forgiveness , he should leave her , but if she start trying to be smart about it , he should simply show the msg to her family and terminate the marriage ,

Meanwhile he should screenshot this msg and save it well on his own phone to avoid , " oya this is my phone come show me the msg ! "

Pls do come back and tell us how the matter take finish
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Made619(m): 2:16pm On Feb 01, 2021
silento:
Bro don't make a mistake to marry a girl u love too much , Na she suppose love pass u
Brother my God whom I serve will bless you for this word...

Words on gold not marble
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by OmovuduTheBeast(f): 2:31pm On Feb 01, 2021
Fake story!
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Nobody: 3:35pm On Feb 01, 2021
majamajic:
Your friend went to east and brought the wife closer to Austin in Lagos

It might just be a send-off sex which didn't happen as planned

My advice is , he should discuss with the girl about the chat , from what she said he should know what to do

Seriously she might still be a good wife after knowing u don catch her with this , this might not happen again all through their marriage . Let him discuss the chat with her , if she confess and beg for forgiveness , he should leave her , but if she start trying to be smart about it , he should simply show the msg to her family and terminate the marriage ,

Meanwhile he should screenshot this msg and save it well on his own phone to avoid , " oya this is my phone come show me the msg ! "

Pls do come back and tell us how the matter take finish
people like you need to save money for future DNA test on all your kids.
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Nobody:
I don't pity you men. Youll meet a loyal girl but will leave her because she's not hot. Now see your hot babe having it back to back with another man without concience.

See what she even used as her background pics. " She's hot I guess" lol...

Una Neva Hala.

Modified:

Just take this chat and show it to her people. Go with your elders and collect your dowry back because as long as she still has feelings for her ex even up to this stage (after paying her dowry,) she'll still be going back to him.

Collect your dowry back.
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by YorubaPrince: 4:07pm On Feb 01, 2021
ShackWes:
I still don't understand the message you are trying to pass across
Bros, go beach everyday for 7 days, go wash ur head for 7hrs daily...
After that, go inside the thickest forest for Ogbomosho, go sleep for 7 days...
After that, go to Myhoung Barracks for Yaba, Lagos go slap a soldier...
I can promise you, dem go return like 20 HOT slaps to you... by then your brain go don re-format. angry That's hoping you were once smart be dat oo

By then, you go understand the msg OP dey try convey. cool
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by pointblank247(m): 4:12pm On Feb 01, 2021
That marriage should be dumped
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by majamajic(m): 4:46pm On Feb 01, 2021
justosee:
people like you need to save money for future DNA test on all your kids.
People like u need to save money for divorce court cases

Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Iamagoodgirll: 5:04pm On Feb 01, 2021
it clearly shows that the girl is still having affairs with her Ex. no need to keep mute confront her with this evidence, visit them with your elders and collect the dowry back. its too early to be unhappy unless you're ready to train another man's child.
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by CSTRR: 5:17pm On Feb 01, 2021
This is what is happening now.

Ladies already engaged still fucckkk for Money enter wedding.

Why do you think there is a high occurrence of First born bastards?

If a guy is fortunate enough to be among the 1% to catch a whorring wife before marriage, just collect your dowry back to the last penny and give testimony.

99% of guys in his shoes are not that fortunate.
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by angelfallz(m): 5:48pm On Feb 01, 2021
if you can get the dowry back do so, if not leave it. Dump her ASAP.

Look for virgin girls to marry you guys would not hear.
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Bigfish121(m): 5:48pm On Feb 01, 2021
This is the main reason why it is better to marry a virgin because of all this ex mata.the thing dey tire me well well.i nor know which kind life we come dey leave now.Girls go just dey leave rubbish life.
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by kuuljay(m): 6:20pm On Feb 01, 2021
So does it mean everybody responding including the OP don't know the difference between dowry and bride prize? Even nollywood don't know the difference so iam not surprised
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Nobody: 6:20pm On Feb 01, 2021
majamajic:
People like u need to save money for divorce court cases
divorce is very cheap in Nigeria, cheaper than DNA test.
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Paulpg(m): 6:33pm On Feb 01, 2021
crazy law man

quote author=Made619 post=98631650]Okafor's law of Congo Dynamics is evidently at work here because Austin is enjoying the efficacy of the law..

the law states that: If a 'Congo' has been 'shined' once (C1), it can always be shined again (C∞), provided it was shined properly (P) the previous times and the experience was remarkable.


ie; C1 • P = C∞.

My advice that brother should.......................






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RUN![/quote]
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by majamajic(m): 6:43pm On Feb 01, 2021
justosee:
divorce is very cheap in Nigeria, cheaper than DNA test.
As in u worth cashless ?
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Nobody: 6:47pm On Feb 01, 2021
majamajic:
As in u worth cashless ?
No.
I don't need to share my property after divorce in Nigeria. all I need is to send her packing to her parents house. I can even decide to ignore court summons.
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Nobody: 6:48pm On Feb 01, 2021
kuuljay:
So does it mean everybody responding including the OP don't know the difference between dowry and bride prize? Even nollywood don't know the difference so iam not surprised
we know, just that we understand what op mean.
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by majamajic(m): 7:01pm On Feb 01, 2021
justosee:
No.
I don't need to share my property after divorce in Nigeria. all I need is to send her packing to her parents house. I can even decide to ignore court summons.
No wahala
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Nobody: 7:03pm On Feb 01, 2021
majamajic:
No wahala
You will need up to a million naira to conduct DNA test on all your kids. start monthly saving now.
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Made619(m): 7:21pm On Feb 01, 2021
Paulpg:
crazy law man
grin
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by majamajic(m): 7:42pm On Feb 01, 2021
justosee:
You will need up to a million naira to conduct DNA test on all your kids. start monthly saving now.
Am a woman
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Nobody: 7:45pm On Feb 01, 2021
majamajic:
Am a woman
no wonder you gave that advice
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Nobody:
Accipetex:
Hello nairalanders.
The screen shot below contains a WhatsApp conversation between a girl and her best friend.

My friend has been in a long distance relationship with this girl he loves dearly since 2019 while girl was schooling, she just graduated and he traveled to the village and paid her dowry this January, brought her to Lagos and this is already happening same January. Please matured advice is needed.

My friend is devastated and confused, he needs my opinion but I decided to bring it here since I don't have monopoly of advices.

He is seeing everything as I have sent him a link to monitor people's views on it.
This is why one needs to know the kinda person one is about getting married to..
Besides,isn't this a nude picture as her Whatsapp background pic..damn!
Marry a decent and pure girl..
Getting married to a virgin,a pure girl is just the best.
A lady you paid her bride price already and about getting married to is still cheating,I still don't understand why some girls do this(well,not only girls,some boys do this too)...well,your friend can get married to her if he is ready to share her with other males and if he could withstand the shock of knowing his so-called kids are not his.
Cheating is a choice taken intentionally and not done by mistake.
Cheaters cheat,that is a fact.If they do it once they will probably do it again....I wouldn't advice him to marry her..
Judge future behavior by past behavior.
She didn't only cheated on you, she was dishonest.



Besides, there are differences between bride price and dowry..
Bride price is a payment made from the groom or his family to the bride's family while dowry is a payment made from the bride's family to the groom,bride,the groom's family
You made a mistake,you meant to say "bride price"
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by stchinedu: 9:48pm On Feb 01, 2021
Please whose a*ss is on the background...


Juz asking for a friend
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Afostev11(m): 9:52pm On Feb 01, 2021
Accipetex:
Hello nairalanders.
The screen shot below contains a WhatsApp conversation between a girl and her best friend.

My friend has been in a long distance relationship with this girl he loves dearly since 2019 while girl was schooling, she just graduated and he traveled to the village and paid her dowry this January, brought her to Lagos and this is already happening same January. Please matured advice is needed.

My friend is devastated and confused, he needs my opinion but I decided to bring it here since I don't have monopoly of advices.

He is seeing everything as I have sent him a link to monitor people's views on it.
can we chat privately bro
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by Accipetex(op): 10:16pm On Feb 01, 2021
Afostev11:
can we chat privately bro
Yes bro we can
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by DoubleEngine007: 10:29pm On Feb 01, 2021
Make he carry the chat go meet the hoe family. Collect d money he paid back.. Simple matter.. Them still dey marry sef huh Wen all of them don turn runs girls finish.. See one dey kneel down like small pikin for gold hair just now for front page,say na propose he dey.. Mumu undecided
Op as I was saying ,he should go and return the hoe from where he brought her from..
Re: I Just Paid Her Dowry This January And This Is Happening Same January. by cooooooks(m): 3:04am On Feb 02, 2021
This is why people should:
- Marry after being in a proper exclusive relationship with both in the same town/city for at least a year

- avoid making babies for the first 3 - 6 years of marriage (depending on age) to reduce liability if it fails

- make sure your spouse is not dependent on you for sustenance.
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